nua. any pronouns. 24, so minors pls DNI. pinoy/samoan. reblogging a little bit of everything here: textposts, memes, leftism, art (traditional, digital, fashion, photography, etc), aesthetics, and more. i curate sm of my fav finds under tags like #another royal author #another royal artist #another monarch #another queen #another royal council etc etc (my ramblings go under #op and #added something) (p.s., please! read my pinned post and maybe interact)
if ur blog has any content from this list, could u please like, comment, or rb this post? or tag someone whose page does?Â
NO follow backs needed!
if im already following u, iâd especially appreciate u reblogging this since im likely to find more content i enjoy from those who are following u too. many thanks!
- henri
top 2 topics:
â€Â textposts - fun facts, history (non-wartime), hot takes, random tips, shitposts, social commentary, stories, whatever! (pls feel free to tag this w the tag u use for ur original textposts)
â€Â original art - anything is welcome, especially involving:
astronomy, faerie tales, fashion design, flowers, food, personal annotations or doodles, tarot cards, tons of color
bones, eco-horror, death, maximalism, monsters, necromancy, religious themes, scavenging animals, scribbles, supernatural themes, etc etc.
rest of the list is below! :)
†aesthetics like:
any of the academias (no harry potter or bnh pls), apothecary core, art deco, art nouveau, baroque, catholicism/goth/goth subcultures, corvidcore, faeriecore, princesscore, rococo
global ancient life, especially precolonial civilizations
maximalism, minimalism
†aesthetics boards, fanart, gifs, think-pieces, etc. about:
movies like: Anastasia, the old Barbie movies, Black Panther, Black Panther 2: Wakanda Forever, Equalizer 3, The Girl in the Spiderâs Web, Ice Age, Peter Pan (2003), Pride and Prejudice, etc.
shows like: Avatar: The Last Airbender, The Apothecary Diaries, Interview With the Vampire, Jujutsu Kaisen, Money Heist, Saiki K
†anything related to pre-colonial Pacific Islands, pre-colonial Philippines, pre-colonial societies of color in general
†art (including photography and fashion) related to:
clothing that drapes, gathers, is really ornate, or has lots of accessories/layers/textures
fashion creators who are of color, disabled, neurodivergent, queer, etc. (if they arenât any of these, thatâs also fine)
historical fashion from any culturesÂ
style uâd interpret as gender neutral
styles like: academia(s), alternative/goth subcultures, femme fatale, grunge, hyperfemme, punk, queer, tradgoth + (and early 2000s looks from Black, Indigenous, and Latine people + other people of color)
†harm reduction, historical intellectuals, leaders, and movements for social justice and liberation, mutual aid reading recs, resources, tips, etc.
†info on any cultureâs architectural, artistic, agricultural, culinary, economic, and social practices and traditions + folklore/origin stories/religion
†info on decolonialization, floral gardening, herbalism (in the indigenous/communities of color sense NOT essential oil anti-vaxxer sense), houseplants/terrarium keeping, linguistics, pre-imperial/pre-colonial civilizations' lifestyles, revolutions/revolutionaries, rhetoric, etc.
†langblr stuffs: grammar tips, music/movie/tv/blogger/vlogger recs, memes, online practice resources, vocabulary lists, etc. for
(u already kno im not studying ALL of these at the same time nor will i likely master more than 3, but i'm studying spanish and tagalog and will hopefully continue to learn a little of the others for the rest of my life :'D)
†mental health management tips, memes, strategies, or vent art + self-compassion infographics
†misc: antique cosmetic containers, faberge eggs, found items, jewelry and garb that belonged to old royals or aristocrats from anywhere, lock-and-key style trunks, marbles, music and jewelry boxes, ornate cupboards and wardrobes, perfume bottles, rocks, shiny weaponry, stationery, skeleton keys, snail mail insert ideas, stained glass, tea sets/tableware, trinket flatlays, wax seals, etc.
pls no stimboards w/ flashy banners or a million gifs. or those long dni's. their words evoke unpleasant imagery and their demands (while not wrong) are for the most part common sense to the rest of the website
Hate that the term "post-nut clarity" gets applied to guilt and shame people feel after watching porn or having sex. These feelings aren't any more real or reasonable that the horniness was. You don't have clarity, you're just not horny anymore and grew up in a culture that told you to be ashamed of sex and masturbation.
It's also wild how often I see people talking about "post-nut clarity" when what they're describing is a drop.
It's more commonly talked about in bdsm spaces as subdrop, but you can drop as a dom or even just after vanilla sex or masturbation, especially if it was more intense than you normally experience.
A drop happens when you've been building up a lot of those feel-good chemicals in your brain during sex, then suddenly the sex is over and your brain overcompensates in trying to rebalance. You might feel depressed, anxious, regretful, ashamed. It can happen immediately after or even a few days after. This can happen even if you're normally a very sex-positive person.
It isn't post-nut clarity! You're either dealing with internalized shame towards sex in general or you're having a temporary chemical imbalance. Maybe even both! Pamper yourself after. Forgive yourself. The thoughts you're having in that moment aren't necessarily rational ones.
Be generous with yourself, do something comforting after sex - it's like a workout cooldown. Take it easy on yourself and give your brain something positive to focus on to ease into the loss of the chemical rush.
All roads lead you back to yourself, to the standards you ignored, the boundaries you softened, the intuition you doubted. Life keeps repeating lessons until you finally listen.
i am half blind. on my eighteenth birthday, a freak accident left me with a slashed retina, a temporary eye patch and a permanent loss of 86% on my right eye. i don't talk about it much, and apart from the inability to drive a car, placing my notebook next to the desk instead of on it once in a while, and making me truly abysmal at beer pong, it has not impacted my life much.
except for the bittersweet fact that i can never show people how breathtakingly beautiful the world looks when you eyesight is fractured straight through the middle. i close what my opitician calls my good eye and the world explodes in colour, every pinprick source of light spreading out into iridescent flares into all directions culminating in bright circles at the edge of my vision. every star, every streetlight, multiplying into a tenfold symphony of colour and light.
it's so overwhelmingly beautiful. how can i ever explain this to people? that when they find out and look at me with pity they should be envious instead. what an immense privilege, to be able to look at the world and see it too.
start with sitting upright and shoulders pulled back
gently let head fall backwards, holding it there
slowly move your head along your shoulders; hold where you feel a stretch
keep your head as the main weight and drop it over towards the front of your body
slowly move your head along your chest; hold where you feel a stretch
go back and forth a few times all around, perhaps using your hand to gently pull your head further (if you do this, i find it feels best to use the arm in the direction you're going, so head sits in elbow)
gently and slowly return to the upright position
if you're like me, getting excited and whipping your head to point of dizzy, it's alright to not move until you've recovered
not many people know this but when talking about your multiple pronoun-using friend you build up a combo meter for every subsequent unique pronoun you use
