why are you so sad ?

Capucine - 19 - France - INTP - Multifandom - Semi hiatus

[inritum]

reblog and make a wish! this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)

[ghostdog07]

OH MY FUCKING GOD, IT’S BACK ON MY DASH.

THIS SHIT WORKS OKAY, I AM DEAD SERIOUS.

The last time I saw this on my dash, I didn’t think it would happen, so jokingly I wished I could go to a fun. concert.

AND GUESS WHAT, I WENT TO A FUCKING FUN. CONCERT.

THIS SHIT WORKS, TRY IT.

[deathklaue]

YOOOOOOO

I SAW THIS ON MY DASH THE OTHER DAY AND THOUGHT “ITS WORTH A TRY” SO I WISHED I COULD GET A 3DS

LITERALLY LIKE 4 DAYS LATER MY DAD SENT ME A PICTURE OF THE 3DS XL HE BOUGHT FOR ME WHILE I WAS AT SCHOOL

IM STILL FREAKING OUT ABOUT THIS

[doryishness]

holy fuck, I didn’t expect this to work, I was like psh, whatever it’s just a quick reblog, but I wished my Dad would actually respond back to me AND HE FUCKING DID A FEW DAYS LATER, I GOT A FUCKING TEXT FROM MY DAD TODAY WHO HASN’T SPOKEN OR RESPONDED TO ME IN MONTHS HOLY FUCK WHAT IS THIS MAGIC IT WORKS. 

[victoriaringsinyourears]

I WANTED TO SEE MY BOYFRIEND AND I DIDN’T THINK I’D GET DAYS OFF BUT THIS WEEKEND I’M HEADING UP THERE??? THIS IS CRAZY SHIT 

[lenshade]

SO LIKE I JOKINGLY WISHED FOR MY OWN LEN KAGAMINE AND THEN LIKE A WEEK LATER I GOT A LEN NENDOROID??? H ELP

[themixedbagofwhat]

WTF OKAY SO THIS SHOT ACTUALLY WORKS BECAUSE WHEN I WISHED, I HAD WISHED MY CRUSH WOULD LIKE ME BACK AND GUESS WHAT? I HAVE A BOYFRIEND NOW. WHAT THE HELLLLL?????

[wodkat]

ok I’ve said this before but IM DOING IT AGAIN THE FIRST TIME I SAW THIS, MY WISH DID COME TRUE SO I REBLOGED AGAIN AND SAID IT IN THE TAGS BUT THEN I WISHED FOR SMTH ELSE AND IT LITERALLY LITERALLY HAPPENED LIKE A COUPLE DAYS LATER WHAT THE HELL SO NOW IM WRITING THIS HERE FOR YOU BC I DONT BELIEVE IN THIS CRAP BUT STILL IT’S AN AWFULLY BIG COINCIDENCE

[acstiel]

THE BOY I FELL I LOVE WITH LEFT TO TRAVEL THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD AND HAS BEEN GONE NOW FOR 3 MONTHS. WE HAVENT SPOKEN SINCE BECAUSE I DIDNT WANT TO MAKE HIM FEEL TRAPPED TO ME AND NOT ENJOY HIS TIME SO I WAITED FOR HIM TO CONTACT ME FIRST. I SAW THIS ON A PARTICULARLY LOW DAY WHEN I WAS MISSING HIM SO MUCH I CRIED FROM THE PAIN, GUYS I REALLY LOVE HIM, SO I THOUGHT MEH WHAT THE FUCK, AND WISHED HE WOULD JUST LET ME KNOW HE WAS OKAY.

GUYS.

HE FUCKING CALLED ME 20 MINUTES LATER

20 FUCKNG. MINUTES. LATER.

GOOD THINGS DO HAPPEN. AND ITS IN THIS POST.

[juststrokemyglabella]

I wish for someone to leave something in my ask.

[adweeb-deactivated20160228]

OKAY SO I ASKED FOR A HEDGEHOG AND NOW GUESS WHO HAS A PET HEDGEHOG

[vermillionkill-deactivated20230]

worth a shot huh

[samesanegirl]

My Personal Favourite Romione Moments From The Books

1. Their infamous kiss - What I love is that their character development is clearly shown here. Ron sees the flaws with how wizards treat elves, especially after Dobby’s death, and advocates for their safety. And we see Hermione opening up emotionally by making the first move, when she hardly dropped any signs that she liked him. And you can feel the passion in their kiss when he lifts her off her feet. And it was bloody epic. I hate Harry for interrupting them.

2. Their dance at Bill and Fleur’s wedding - I am so proud of Ron here (cries). He felt so threatened when he saw Viktor Krum and was afraid that Hermione was going to slip away from him. He swallowed his fear and asked Hermione to dance with him because he remembered their awful Yule Ball (cries again). I no longer think of the Yule Ball incident because Ron totally made up for that moment. And can we picture them dancing like a recently married couple? (sobs)

3. The whole Malfoy Manor scene - This is one of the saddest scenes in the series. I think its because Ron’s reaction was so heartbreaking and desperate. He literally could do nothing about the situation, and I bet that he blames himself for this (despite rescuing her). And to those Ron haters, how the hell can you bash Ron when he offered to be tortured by Bellatrix in Hermione’s place? I could write a long post about their scene in Malfoy Manor alone but it would be way longer than this post, trust me!

4. When they fell asleep holding hands - We obviously didn’t see what happened exactly but imagine them talking and them comforting each other and NOT even pulling away in their sleep. Dude, I would hold someone’s hand for three seconds, so they were very committed in their non-existant relationship at the time. And its so sweet because it seemed as if they were comforting each other after the clusterfuck that happened earlier

5. When Ron wanted to disguise Hermione as his cousin - Hear me out, I love protective guys. Not guys who are unnecessarily protective in a toxic way. But guys who would do everything for that one person and places their safety above everything else. Ron has never been protective in a toxic way towards Hermione. He was scared for her life and showed such determination in his plan to make sure that Hermione isn’t found. And when they squeezed each other’s hand? This ship is the definition of fluff

6. When Ron and Hermione comforted each other at Dumbledore’s funeral - I just love that at this point they are so vulnerable with each other. They were in a hurt place and they needed support. I love that both of them were emotionally in sync with each other. And yes, it was sad, but to me it’s so important to show that they need each other. And the way they hugged each other was so adorable, despite the situation

7. When Ron was unconscious in the hospital and said Hermione’s name in his sleep - What I freaking love in this scene is that absolutely everyone was talking their heads off, while Hermione was so quiet. And when she spoke for the first time there, he only reacted to her voice by mumbling her name. *I died. And came back to finish this paragraph.* And when Ron found out that Hermione was hanging out with Ginny, he was so gloomy that she wasn’t going to visit him. Aww

8. Every time Ron loses his shit at Malfoy for calling his sweetheart a ‘mudblood’ - This is very apparent in Book 2. And I just loved Ron so much in this book, he was my favourite character in that book cause he was such a cutie arghhh! And I loved that he attempted the nastiest hex ever (bat bogey is debatable here). Not only that, but Hermione comforted him and was at his side when he was vomiting nasty ass slugs. Was she disgusted? Yes, but she loved him even more in that moment. And that folks, is true love

9. Hermione kissing Ron’s cheek - And Ron’s reaction is so hilarious. He was so bloody confused and shit, and he was like wtf while being so flustered. It is the perfect reaction when someone is falling in love. I love that Hermione found an excuse to kiss him, and didn’t do the same for Harry 😂. 

10. When Ron defended Hermione from Snape - I just love that Ron literally roasted Snape despite knowing that he fully hated him. He loathes it when people diminish Hermione and I could sense his immense rage through his words only. He did occasionally tease Hermione, but he always appreciated her intelligence and even praised her for it. So when she is diminished by the one trait that gives her confidence, he snaps! 

[andthepotters-blog]

Ron Weasley offered the stranger sitting next to him on the train half his sandwich even though it was all he had.

Ron Weasley sacrificed himself for the good of Harry and Hermione at age eleven because even then he thought they were more important than he was, and the ones worth saving.

Ron Weasley was Harry Potter’s first friend and the first thing Harry ever had resembling a family. 

Ron Weasley lived in a cramped house and wore hand me down robes and he didn’t even think twice about offering his room and food and family to Harry every break. 

Ron Weasley took care of Harry Potter and Hermione Granger when they were too busy taking care of the rest of the world to worry about themselves. 

Ron Weasley stood on broken bones when he was thirteen years old, to tell a man infamous for murder that if he planned on killing his best mate, he would have to go through him first.

Ron Weasley was the person Harry would miss most in the world.

Ron Weasley was a pureblood wizard who, from a very young age, devoted his life to abolishing blood status, even if he didn’t quite understand his own privilege. 

Ron Weasley gave Dobby his own clothes and socks to be buried in, because he understood how important it would have been to him.

Ron Weasley thought about saving the house elves when everyone else forgot. 

If you don’t love Ron Weasley, The Boy Who Cared, I don’t know what books you read but they weren’t the same ones I did.

[wingardiuhm]

Enfin, enfin, on y est presque. Et cela fait trois ans que j'attends, même un peu plus, que j'attends d'arrêter d'attendre ma vie. J'attends ce moment divin de ne plus seulement survivre, mais vivre pour de vrai. De vivre au jour le jour, et pas pour le prochain weekend, vivre pour cette ville et pas celle où il est. J'ai tellement hâte que tout me semble sans saveur maintenant. De la pluie aux montagnes, je n'attends que de les quitter. Et comme les mois défilent, le temps qui passe s'étire. J'aimerais déjà y être, et me remémorer ce temps ici comme un souvenir.

[shymagnolia]

so I got into grad school today with my shitty 2.8 gpa and the moral of the story is reblog those good luck posts for the love of god

[shymagnolia]

okay so i just got my dream job??? a week after applying to it?? and now i’m thinking….maybe this is the good luck post

[flagellant]

…..not even six hours later i got an offer of a well paying full time long-term job with free room and board in queens in nyc, allowing me independence and a way to escape an abusive situation and an unhealthy environment

likes charge reblogs cast, folks, this is the good luck post

[quidditygenesis]

Gonna try it. Need me some good luck.

[oscarwildechilde]

new tag game: what is your college major and what do people say when you tell them what you’re studying

[validbastard-deactivated2019041]

24 year old republican: well UNPOPULAR OPINION BUT *political opinion they got from their father *

[inthetags]

reblog this and put in the tags which capital cities you’ve been to

[poirot]

The truth is that you don’t think a girl would have been clever enough! (insp)

[lovesimondaily]

                   I’m sorry, I shouldn’t have missed it // You get to exhale now, Simon

                                                        Love, Simon (2018)

[sunchosens]

welcome to HOGWARTS.                      where do you belong? [x] 

[puzsy]

dudes will get like shocked and upset when a women openly admits to being afraid of men.

what they dont know is that we’re all afraid of men – some of us are just more vocal about it than others. we all know the rules: watch the bartender pour your drink. don’t let it out of your sight (ever). stay in a group of friends. pretend to be on your phone as you walk to your car. hold your keys like claws between your knuckles. make sure nobody is in the backseat of your car. fight back. don’t stop fighting.

and we know the unspoken rules, too:

don’t talk about it.

pretend it doesn’t hurt.

pretend it doesn’t scare you.

here’s a newsflash, men: we don’t carry pepper spray around because we’re afraid of being attacked by other women. that’s for damn sure.

[wingardiuhm]

picture this : you and i being as happy as we can be in a beautiful southern city living at the top of a tall building in a little appartement full of books and plaids and plants and spices on our shelves with a dumb little puppy and waking up on a sunday morning with nothing to do expect cuddle in our messy bed watch cartoon and drink italian coffee. you in your way too damn oversized sweatpants and freckles on your shoulders and messy bed hair smiling at me still half asleep and not ready to start the day yet, five more minutes please get back to bed with me i don't want to get up just yet please, let's cuddle and postpone the day ahead

picture this

[wingardiuhm]

can't wait to get my PhD one day so i can rub it in the face of my bf's mum who asked me to drop college for her son :)))

[thewordhord]

[the-bibrarian]

[b-icetea]

Selfcare is sitting on the couch and having a good cry over the new queer eye episodes

[stevenrogered]

Chris Evans helps Regina King up the stairs to the stage after her Oscars win

[wrangletangle]

Okay listen up, all you dudes out there! It’s time for some life lessons from Chris Evans.

Wonder why women are fine with this when he does it, but they find you opening a car door or offering to carry stuff for them annoying? Well, wonder no more! It works like this:

A large number of women have had to learn how to dodge and swerve and sometimes even slap away men’s hands from the time they hit puberty - and sometimes before. Ladies, cis and trans both, are unfortunately experienced at being groped, poked, prodded, “helped”, and otherwise humiliated and threatened by men. Then also there’s the condescending attitude that of course we need a man’s help, and we should be grateful he offered it.

No thanks.

Chris is doing something very different here, and you’ll see it in similar video clips of him at other events. You can read his mental process in his body language. He starts with just clapping and congratulating. He offers nothing until there is a need, which doesn’t happen here until Regina’s shoe gets caught on her dress. Since women have literally tripped up the stairs at this ceremony several times over the years (because the shoe and clothing requirements are ridiculous), it is reasonable at this stage to think that my-shoe-caught-on-my-dress is a problem that actually needs to be addressed. This is when Chris offers.

How he offers matters. He starts with an open hand toward her, but this is a big no-no. Open hands are a red flag. Open hands grope and grab and shove. He quickly corrects by flipping his arm over and offering his forearm instead. This makes it her choice whether to grab on or ignore him. She doesn’t have to contend with a potentially threatening hand while she’s also contending with her dress.

He also bends down a bit to do this. I don’t know if you’ve noticed, but Chris is kind of a tall, beefy guy. Guys like that can be a bit intimidating without meaning to be, at least when they’re up close. Also, his arm is a bit too high to be useful to her if he stays at his full height. So he bends down. This is even more visible in the video from him doing this for Betty White at the 2015 Oscars, because she’s shorter than Regina, I guess.

He offers his arm for exactly as long as she leans on it. When she lets go, he steps back. This is a guy who isn’t interested in showing off how much she needs his help. He’s just interested in helping, and when he’s not needed, he’s done. He goes back to sit down. He doesn’t hover.

Also, Regina King knows who Chris Evans is. His behavior at work thus far has certainly made it into the rumor mill, thus factoring into whether she accepts help from him. Is he a dudebro or jerk to women at work? That doesn’t appear to be the case.

Women are not helpless. Compared to men, our clothes are more often obstacles to getting where we need to go safely and with our dignity intact, but conversely, we’ve also learned to deal with that better than most men have. It’s not that we never need or want help; like all people, we do sometimes need a hand. It’s just that “some kinds of help are the kinds of help we all could do without.”

If you are offering help to a woman, first make sure she actually appears to be struggling. Second, make yourself as unthreatening as possible and let her do any touching, not the other way around. Third, make sure she can refuse without any consequences. And fourth, back off as soon as she doesn’t need you anymore and let the moment go.

[bundibird]

I hadn’t even registered why exactly it was that he was so unthreatening in this and the Betty White assistance incidents, but you’re right. It’s all in the way he helps. It’s not that this is unthreatening behaviour “because he’s Chris Evans” – its because his body language is genuinely unthreatening and merely helpful.

A+ analysis – I hadn’t even registered the details of why and how this behaviour was 100% ok, while from another man (who probably would have gone about it differentky) it might not have been