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A digital diary ⋆˙⟡♡

[withluvkay]

Introduction 𖹭.ᐟ

Hi, I'm K (she/her)!

I'm currently on a journey of unraveling. By this, I mean I'm pulling back the many labels I've attached to myself in order to be the woman I've always been underneath. You're welcome to join me as I learn that taking up space is okay. Made this blog to dump my many thoughts and share things I found helpful from time to time!

Note: I want my blog to be a safe space! Queers, fat bodies, poc and the coolest of peeps are very welcome here. Don't like that? Then don't interact. And please do not use my posts as motivation for harmful behavior. Thank you!

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[withluvkay]

been thinking about how for a majority of growing up and even to this day, ive done nothing but try to shrink. try to make myself invisible. i thought as a fat, brown girl, the shadows were where i was supposed to be. i thought i was supposed to heal from a place of self hatred. it seemed like everyone else did that. but im realizing that a positive life cant be birthed from a negative mind. you'll never truly think you deserve change when you don't hold an ounce of respect for the person you see in the mirror. taking up space is terrifying, but so is watching life pass me by because i was too scared to exist lol.

[withluvkay]

will never understand how people can look at someone who differs from them - skin color, weight, language, interests - and immediately fill up with rage. what do you mean seeing someone spreading positivity as their authentic self pisses you off? so ew. i love being a kind ho.

[allsadnshit]

Sometimes you really gotta decide for yourself it's the last time the universe gonna teach you that same lesson

[dreamgirlvibes]

[iluvmaddiesblog]

[secretgirll1]

insta repost <3

Creator: levandreux

[aidashakur]

still so many first times to look forward to.

[04k96]

[scorpionlafemme]

[wetheurban]

[cheshmenoor]

[withluvkay]

dear body, 𓇼 ⋆｡˚

sorry I disrespected you for so many years. I struggle to show an ounce of kindness to you when that's all you've ever shown me. You get me from point A to B. You heal me. You allow me to enjoy my hobbies and share a laugh with family. You've been there for me since birth. And it's about time I end this war between us. I promise to be gentle with you and show you all the love you deserve.

[withluvkay]

please make time for rest and the stuff that makes you happy.

[flowerais-deactivated20211031]

Reasons to live: lonely edition

watching the sunset outside your window

practicing your favorite musical instrument

making delicious meals and feeling like a chef

trying out pinterest ideas

writing new daily routines to improve yourself

learning a new language or reading books on niche subjects

reading every morning in your cozy reading spot

going on evening drives and blaring your sunset playlist

walking in your city to find cute cafes and secret gems

picking a new artistic or sporty hobby to pour your heart into

doing really fun workouts to songs you love

dressing up in cute outfits or makeup looks without going out

drawing pictures and quotes for your wall

getting a film camera and taking candid pictures

sitting in the park and people-watching

searching for small reasons to regain faith in humanity and life

doing something special for yourself each weekend

petting your cat or dog

or petting neighbourhood cats that wander into your garden

the wistful beauty of watching things & people from the distance

buying flowers for yourself

growing cute potted plants like succulents

film marathons and netflix marathons with ice cream

feeling like a lonely indie film character

dancing by yourself

trying different tea flavors

writing poetry about your solitude

write surreal stories inspired by weird dreams

noticing stuff most other people are too busy to notice

befriending your loneliness and yourself

find beautiful stuff to appreciate every day & write them down

writing detailed diary entries even if nothing happens

spending so long inside that sunlight feels like a hug from the universe

appreciating tiny warmths more, like soup, tea, blankets and songs