Dan

Way too many fandoms to even fit here! she/they - 20 - pansexual

[cluster-b-log]

you wouldn’t call abuse by a depressed person “depression abuse”.

you wouldn’t call abuse by an anxious person “anxiety abuse”.

you wouldn’t call abuse by a person with adhd “adhd abuse”.

you wouldn’t call abuse by an autistic person “autistic abuse”.

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so why would you use “narcissistic abuse”?

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you could however experience:

emotional abuse

verbal abuse

physical abuse

domestic abuse

etc.

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you do not need to stigmatise NPD further to validate your experiences, so keep pwNPD out of it.

[recordsystem]

js tho there r ppl who think autistic people, especially autistic men, are uniquely abusive. ive been told that my abuse wasnt my abusers fault bc she was autistic, implying that its just a natural behavior for them/they are incapable of understanding that abusing people is wrong (note: im also autistic!!!!). autistic abuse isnt real and neither is narcissistic abuse. ableists stop being shitty challenge.

[radio-dead-zone]

If you don't think polyamory is the solution to most love triangle situations, I don't trust you.

[dickspooky]

They should make more music from 2008

[banans13]

I think now that queens dead they should have her stuffed and put on display in Cairo for the next 150 years.

[banans13]

BLAZE REJECTED MY POST WOW LOL

[paxamericana]

[sadclowncentral]

"what drugs was op on when they wrote this lmao" none. due to the tense economic situation i've resorted to having weird thoughts for free

[eijiroukiriot]

this is the funniest tweet i’ve seen in months bye

[bigratbastard]

[fxr-yxur-amusement]

[chaos-storm]

[aaawunder]

[nomuru2d]

these are all the geek equivalents of Lovecraft’s Cat’s Name

[official-lucifers-child]

his cats name couldn’t be that bad!!!! it’s a cat, what’s the worst name?

[official-lucifers-child]

i am wrong, what the fuck

[ruriginzuishou]

Me every time this post comes back

[might-be-somebody]

go Google why chainsaws were invented, it’s really fun :)

[queer-cosette]

why.

[xbubbledumbbx]

I’ve seen everything at this point, so why were chain saws in-

[tarantula-veins-deactivated2023]

oh what the FUCK WHY

[polirange]

Thanks I hate it.

[fairyofsomething]

I could have gone my whole life without knowing it, thank you motherfucker

[goat-yells-at-everything]

To be fair, its not AS bad when you read into detail. But ya. Still like getting slapped in the face with a cold fish.

[mama-germany]

i’m boutta google why chainsaws were invented now.  feel like i’m going on an adventure.

[mama-germany]

really speaks to how i’ve been around the internet, that that wasn’t what i was expecting it to be, but it was also really close to what i expected it to be.

[silverscreenx]

[that-wildwolf]

Every time I see this post it’s gone in a completely different direction and every time it’s cursed as fuck

[ygmtwr-atrus]

I look up the chainsaw thing every time and then forget by the next time. The memory loss is so complete it must be either seemingly horrible but actually kind of innocuous when you consider the alternatives of the time, like “surgeons needed a bone saw that didn’t exhaust their hand to perform needed surgery and a small proto chain style saw was made”, or like something really horrid that called for brain bleach. I’m still deciding whether to go look it up again.

[casenpai]

You’re never too old to collect figures.

You’re never too old to be in a fandom.

You’re never too old to play video games.

You’re never too old to listen to music.

You’re never too old to enjoy things.

[thesundanceghost]

Nothing I’ve read has changed me more than “you do people a favor by accepting their help” like I repeat this constantly to so many people because it’s true!!! People like to feel useful, they like to feel kind, they like to feel like they have an ability to impact people’s lives so just let them!! Not everything is a thing to be owed back — accept people’s kindness without making a competition out of it

[bogleech]

I figured out too late in life that refusing random help will more often make the person feel unwanted or not trusted : (

[hues-of-purple]

Reblog if you’re asexual, support asexuals and/or love pizza

[oe6]

[berylliumoxide]

[heavensickness]

there is not a single day i don't think about this quote in relation to tragedies

[araekniarchive]

Aeschylus, The Oresteia

[onlyloverleft]

Richard Siken, Planet of Love

[listentothepages]

The Lumineers, Cleopatra

[butternaan]

@olreid

[darkcomedies-deactivated2022042]

Tom Stoppard, Rosencrantz and Guildenstern are Dead

[sawasawako-archived]

[only-tiktoks]

[nu11ifi3d]

WHAT AN ABSOLUTE QUEEN FOR THIS

[fakeosphere]

a tutorial on rescuing someone from an uncomfortable or dangerous situation

[female-malice]

Damn. She did everything right. Yes, this is dangerous. But even a violent man is still human and can be outplayed. Predators rely on a pattern or routine. Disrupt the routine, and the predator freezes up. Once you disrupt them, don't give them time to develop a response. Be bold. Be decisive. Talk loud. Act fast.

[foxes-and-moths]

How should I approach this as a man? I wouldn’t want to make her more uncomfortable but I also wouldn’t be able to physically intimidate anyone because I’m short and un-athletic.

[post-it-free]

Talking to the woman is going to be hit or miss, just because she won't know if you are an "out if the frying pan, into the fire" situation. BUT, you could still go with "thanks for waiting, you ready to go? Oh, who's this?" And if she walks with you, you can say that she looked uncomfortable. I had a guy once ask if I could help with his phone to get me away from a conversation. OR: talk to the dude. "Hey man, can you give me directions to this place? Don't I know you from somewhere?" Etc. Then she has time to escape. There are no set in stone answers, even if you don't handle it perfect, if she gets out of the situation safely, count it as a win

[foxes-and-moths]

Thank you for the response!!

[gamer-crow-deactivated20250412]

Talking to the dude works!

One of my colleagues spotted a woman facing slightly away from a man who was talking to her, who was scary close. She looked uncomfortable and made eye contact. He noticed the guy was wearing a Broncos jacket and nonchalantly passed them both by and started the sports speak to the dude, like "aw bro did you see the defense last night? Hell of a time to he a Bronco fan, right?" And stood slightly behind the guy so he had to turn away from the woman. She said a cheeky "I'm not into sports, g'night!" comment and slipped away to the elevator. The dude looked super pissed but just stalked away to his car.

What was he supposed to do, admit to bad intentions?

Sometimes you don't need to be the savior, but a distraction.

[guerrillatech]

[guerrillatech]

[thenessa]

As another former barista, this. It’s performative (you pay for the person behind you, they pay for the person behind them, that means only one person pays for two or doesn’t pay for theirs……) and the order tracking systems aren’t set up to handle it, which means that the baristas are getting yelled at for what they’re tracked on, which is order time length, and they don’t have the systems to keep track of multiple orders so order accuracy suffers and it’s just a whole mess.

For everyone who’s mad about being told this, first of all fuck off when you don’t know what you’re talking about, and second, why are you mad? If someone tells you that your well intended action doesn’t work, why are you mad at them instead of thinking okay, now I’ll try something else?

[lesbianderson]

I almost feel sorry for heterosexual homophobic males who think rock is “for them”. I mean peak 70s rock and roll filled with himbos, gender fluids and bissexuals??? All the huge male rock bands wearing high heels and make up? Motley crüe, the highest example of fuckboys trashing hotel rooms, but dressed like this on the meantime

Twisted sister just being twisted sister and saying that if some guy thought that wearing pink jackets with spikes, drag queen make up and heels made them “less of a man” they could just fuck off because rock isnt about that gender centered shit.

Lou fucking Reed went to conversion therapy for being gay and later on he went and wrote a bunch of rock songs about the LGBT community and traumas caused by homophobia. One of The Velvet Underground’s albums was listed by Rolling Stone as the 13th most influential rock album from all time, and it was all about an ex boyfriend named Nico.

ALSO from the first wave of rock and roll in the 60s, The Kinks had Sir Ray Davies, an openly queer vocalist in the fucking 60s who also wrote a popular song about a trans woman (Lola) and had some huge hits people still listen to 50+ yers later. The Who made huge success also in the 60s and Pete Townshend (vocals) came out as bisexual and non binary during an interview in 89!!

Prince on live tv wearing tight pants with huge holes on his buttcheeks and singing about kissing girls and boys.

Even some more “conservative” artists in the 60s like George Harrison and Bob Dylan were writing love songs to each other?? One of Bob’s writings to George actually says “All I have is yours; I’ll let you have me anytime”. They were described as soulmates by George’s wife.

To finish my ted talk I’ll just leave Mick Jagger being a himbo with glittery eyeshadow, tight corserts with titties out, low waist tight pants with a PINK BRA ON? Bowie wearing a dress in a 1970s album cover??

Not to mention Mick Jagger’s wife coming home to find him shagging Bowie on their bed (70s celebrity gossip at its best).

So yes I will take classic rock back for the gays™️ and gatekeep it from straig*t man.