the dream girl. she attracts anything, anyone she wants. red lips, magical eyes, and a divine sense of style. she carries herself with confidence without coming off as cocky or arrogant. still, she knows she’s all that. she turns heads. she dresses for herself. loves herself. and still catches the attention of anybody she has the slightest interest in. she’s addictive. compelling. irresistible. but how?
how? how is she so “perfect”? let me tell you something— it’s not clothes, not fancy jewelry, not makeup, and not her body. it’s the. way. she. carries. herself.
look it up sister. look at all of the mainstream it girls. models. musicians. movie stars. look at the way they walk. the way they talk. the way they capture the public's attention without even trying.
♥︎ and guess what honey? it’s easier than you think. once you learn the art of attraction, you’ll be the hottest bombshell out there. so let’s start, shall we?
the thoughts you put into your mind matter
˚ ༘ ೀ⋆｡˚ love yourself before you love others, bby !!
can you really love another before you love yourself? nope. so the first step to becoming attractive is to fix your mindset. mindset is the most important thing EVER. fixing your confidence and self esteem is what makes your energy powerful. and there is nothing more attractive than a powerful woman.
💭 so, how does one improve their mindset?
your mindset is a collection of everything that YOU have been feeding it. have you been thinking bad thoughts? listening to depressing music that’s literally about hating yourself? scrolling for hours, comparing yourself to random girls you don’t even know??
yeah.. definitely not good for your mind. so let’s not do that anymore! yes it’s better said than done, but let me break it down easily for you. there’s really only a few lifestyle changes that will really change how you view yourself.
swap out scrolling on social media with exercise for at least 1 hour a day
swap out your sad playlist with confident, uplifting music
swap out negative self talk with positive affirmations
swap out fake people with real friends
a diet that makes you feel good about yourself
remember, your thoughts become your beliefs, and your beliefs become your actions <3
shyness is not your friend
news flash! if you want to be attractive, you need to actually talk and interact with the people you want to attract. (shocker, i know!)
tough love, i know. but sweetie, shyness is not your friend if you’re looking to be magnetic. you need to get out there!! no matter where you are, you better walk into a room as if you own it. you stop slouching, stop trying to look smaller, and stop apologizing for everything. timidity is not hot!
meet new people, join clubs, and talk to people. be charismatic, but never ever be obnoxious.. that brings me to my next topic..
i love you girl, so that’s why i’m warning you about this next part. please honey, do not try too hard to the point it comes off as calculated and even annoying. hot girls are effortless. they mind their own business, love themselves, and their attractiveness comes along with it.
don’t waste your time trying to make people like you. cause guess what bby, people aren’t going to like you sometimes. that’s a part of life. and who tf are they to get into your head like that? they are nobody. you have your own world and they have theirs, why waste your precious time begging them to like you?
a sweet girl is the most attractive
what’s more unattractive than being bitter? if you act rotten, you’re going to be looked at as rotten. be helpful, kind, and polite to everyone you meet. your friends are gossiping about somebody behind their back? dont join. i don’t care if they are your best friends, do not be a mean girl. drama is so not hot.
i know, in all of the movies, it’s always the pretty girls who are the meanest. think regina from mean girls. but in real life?? in my personal experience, it’s always the most drop dead gorgeous girls who have the sweetest souls. but the mean girls? it’s as if their meanness makes their attractiveness just melt completely off them, and they honestly just come off as trashy !!
just for fun, scientific ways to be more hot !!
of course i researched this, i mean its interesting, isn’t it? theres actually research on how to be more attractive !! and here’s some things i learned on the internet . . . .
the power of a smile: did you know smiling is actually considered one of the most attractive things a person can do? show your beautiful smile more often pretty!
don’t play hard to get: some people think that they’re soo hot when playing hard to get, but science has proved that being direct with your love interest is actually (suprise surprise) a way better way to land a partner.
wear vanilla perfume: many scientific research studies have concluded that vanilla perfume is the most attractive scent to wear as a woman. its seductive, warm, playful, and sweet. perfect for any occasion <3
make eye contact: making eye contact is also seen as a very attractive attribute. your eyes can literally flirt with people. try it bby!
so there it is angels !! the art of attraction is in your hands now, do with it what you mustttt!!! and good luck out there, remember love is a tricky game and to never lose yourself over a man or woman. prioritize and love yourself <3
pleaseee send me asks!! i want to talk to all of you guys soo baddd!! i luv all of you bbys <33 thank you so much for reading!!
