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b. She/her. 31. 🏋🏻‍♀️🛼⛸️🎮 🏳️‍🌈🇦🇺🇺🇸 so many wonderful things to see and people to love ahead of you

[catchinglizards]

thinking of my best friend today

[divorce-enjoyer]

ice water is awesome because you get more water in your water

[divorce-enjoyer]

you think youre out of water but then you check back in five minutes and woah! theres more water! the world is so beautiful

[dazeylily]

reminder that you cannot call people or things "retarded" around me. we will have a conversation where I explain that I can still tell you the names of 62 people for which I was legally responsible. I will tell you that I loved them

and you will feel like you were being an asshole and wonder why you don't just stop saying it altogether. me too.

[dazeylily]

if we're friends, you can call me a faggot. there can be a lot of tenderness in that. I got beat up and bullied and just generally treated like a detestable freak by people who called me that word while they did it. hearing it spoken by a loved voice, with clear affection, can be beautiful. it can feel like understanding, forgiveness, absolution, permission, and a thousand other wonderful things. it can be beautiful.

I got called retarded too, but we don't share any special insight into that. it's just a word to us. pick a different one.

[dazeylily]

a lady with a developmental disability once explained to me that she'd overheard some kids calling each other retarded in the mall we'd visited earlier that day. searching for something to say that might comfort her, I explained that they don't know anything about people like her and so they weren't really talking about her, just being ignorant.

she got angry and said "then they need to pick a different word". and so you need to pick a different word.

don't think this is exclusive to public spaces like the mall or the park or whatever either. she has a tablet and access to the internet, just the same as you do. she can read, write, and make her own decisions. she has a husband.

you don't know anything about her, you need to stop talking about her. pick a different word.

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

I'm glad this one is still going around.

[json-derulo]

for sale: Baby Shoes Stylish Infant Boy Girl Unisex First Walker Shoes Toddler Walking Crib Shoes Lightweight Non-Slip Sneakers For 6 9 12 18 24 Months Baby Shoes New With Tags New In Box Excellent Condition Never Worn

[veliseraptor]

i am terminally A Sucker for characters who have a towering and generally earned ego about their own ability and absolutely no self-worth about themselves as a person at all. intoxicating combo.

[kurulover]

I hate that when you’re stressed enough your body just starts falling apart. I think it should realize you’re already stressed and don’t need that and start functioning better actually

[kurulover]

[freebooter4ever]

You know when you stick sparklers in your hat while trying to impress your boyfriend and accidentally set your hair on fire? (Happy Kent Parson Day!)

[feastofsnakes]

hey sorry I snapped at you, I've just had a really hard day and [remembers focusing on myself is selfish] maybe it's your fault for provoking me?

[cannibalchicken]

[zluty-spendlik]

[geeseareassholes]

[fairycosmos]

have you ever seen me without this stupid blog on ? that’s weird

[stitchblades]

jenny holzer, SURVIVAL (1983-85)

[noah-wyles]

this is such a fantastic and reassuring response

[rylandsgrace]

WWDITS (2019 -2024) I 4.05

[free-my-mindd]

[mynorthernattitude]

I'm shy at first and then im like donkey from shrek

[lustcannibalism]

me and my losing dog think you suck btw

[softbrah]

see the thing about Kent Parson and Jack Zimmermann is that one day, maybe not long after Jack’s married, maybe many years after, the two of them will meet once more at a face-off and Kent will toss Jack the same careless, unbothered smirk that he gives all his opponents and Jack will be able to tell, in that very moment, from that sliver of platinum gray and the ease of Kent’s smile lines, that Kent really is unbothered. That he really has moved on.

and on that day, whenever it comes, Jack “I lobotomized myself just to finally feel normal” Zimmermann is absolutely going to crash the fuck out.