MY 3AM THOUGHTS

16/SUCKER FOR AESTHETICS

[swampedrat]

they have my heart

[feministism]

[drankinwatahmelin]

4. If the car pulls up to you run in the opposite direction.

5. Walk with your keys in your hands and keep a key between each finger

6. If they put you in the trunk kick out the headlights

7. If you get lost find a woman with a child. Never ask a man for help (this one was drilled)

[bando--grand-scamyon]

That scream fire piece of advice is literally life saving

8. Watch your shadows and reflections, especially if someone is walking behind you. A split second notice is better than none and will help you.

[gaylittlepieceofsh1t]

Yes this last one really saves lives y'all I do it all the time

[uncleromeo]

girls have to learn to view the world like international intelligence agents just to be safe walking down the street. smh.

[twilightt-fantasy]

guys pls pls pls reblog and girls pls pls pls be safe out there. terrifying and so sad that we have to worry about this on a daily basis

[guiltyidealist]

(I’m an enby, but, frankly, this is helpful for anyone.)

[cryptidinks]

- always tell someone where youre at and an approx time when youll be back

[witcheshaven]

Add text replacement words in your phone if possible. Something short and memorable that you can send quickly to people in moments of emergencies.

E.g.

[whatchagonnadoabooouuutttit]

I f ing hate that we need to reblog this, people suck, but this will save lives.

DO NOT SCROLL PAST

[anonymousmothman]

Being female fucking sucks but yes this shit is important for everyone

[deadlymodern]

Also, do not walk close to walls. It will be easier for someone so walk past you and push you against it or corner you.

If your gut is telling you to cross the street or change your path, do it. Don’t risk it. Your body knows.

If you can, buy a large umbrella and walk holding it. Studies say that predators are less likely to attempt an attack on someone that could fight back. Keys around your knuckles is fine but you’ll need to get very close to do damage. Umbrellas are more precise.

Avoid wearing headphones if you are alone on an empty street. Look aware.

Again: Stay. Away. From. Walls.

Entering an uber alone? Call your father (or anyone you trust) and say “hey dad! Yep, I’m almost there, I’m sending you the route.” outloud. Then proceed to send them the route so they can follow the uber drive. This will most likely intimidate the predator.

If you see someone in an uncomfortable or possibly dangerous situation, walk up to them and say “Betty, oh my god, I haven’t seen you in so long!”. If she gets slightly confused, you can whisper and let her know you’re trying to help and that she should follow along. Walk together to another station or away from where you are. The man will most likely not follow. I have done this one 2 times and can be very helpful.

If you are unsure she needs help, you can pass her a note saying something like “hey, I noticed this man beside you is making you uncomfortable. If you’d like help, fake a sneeze right now and I will come up to you and pretend we are friends.” This is a long note, but its an example. Be discrete. If she follows along, proceed with the previous tip. This is helpful when you’re in a crowded train and you notice harassment.

Help your sisters. Trust them. Trust yourself. Be safe.

[goodgirl81]

If you ever feel unsafe or need help, anyone is welcome to run upto me and ask me for help! I’ll go all mama bear and keep you safe!!!

[v1b3ch3ckl0s3r]

https://docs.google.com/document/d/166g6Vo8Fb9H3FIZF2H6faEBHtFQSf7nVn_QxcJ9NMi0/edit?usp=sharing

I made this google doc covering 14 different self defense tips and tricks. it was made on January 15th, 2020 so it was before I decided I’d come back to tumblr jhjshdbjfh.

[aromantic-goldfishdeactivated202]

Hot take

[aromantic-goldfishdeactivated202]

This is what I’m getting from the responses to this post

[aromantic-goldfishdeactivated202]

Reblogging this a year later to inform y’all that I didn’t know the super bowl was happening at all until my dad told me to come outside because the new Falcon and Winter Soldier trailer was playing

[krystal-prisms]

I don't even know what the hell the Superbowl is about <3

As a gay Canadian, I'm two for two

[prettyboywynn]

But what about the kitten bowl?

[what-even-is-thiss]

The kitties do the halftime show.

[dads-back-from-the-store]

along with the fact that trans people have been found to have similar brain structure and functionality to their percieved gender; theres a pheromone called androstenedione that causes different hypothalamic responses in male an female brains. when people with gender dysphoria or incongruence were exposed to it; their hypothalamic response matched their percieved gender, not their assigned sex at birth.

Ive also had someone call me sexist when I say that trans people have similar brains to their percieved gender because "saying that there are male and female brains is sexist..."

?? let me show y'all something

you see the frontal lobes? in women, the left frontal lobe has been found to have more density, and the right has been found to have larger volumes.

men on the other hand, have been found to have a larger cerebrum, cerebellum, and hippocampus.

when I say there are male and female brains, I'm not being sexist, im literally just stating a scientific fact. why the fuck do I sound like ben shapiro

trans people were found to have brain structure/functionality more similar/identical to their percieved gender.

the trans brain study is a real thing and I'm tired of terfs acting like it's not

[guerrillatech]

[little-piece-of-tamlin]

I made a new post because the other one was really long, but thanks @deagle for the tag!!!

Rules: google/search your name + your favorite color + the word ‘aesthetic’. take the first four (non collage) photos and viola you have your aesthetic moodboard! then tag your friends and moots to join.

ima tag @selectivegeekwithstandards @dwintu @the-not-so-silent-back-up @a-kind-of-merry-war but as usual, no pressure!

[dwintu]

thanks!!

huh, neat

@aesthetics-r-fun @14th-century-homosexual-spirit

[pearls-in-the-moonlight-deactiv]

so basically four of my fears @the-wholesome-hanako-san​​ @im-just-trying-to-survive-man​​ @multifandom-no-less-than-a-mess​​ @beinggaydoincrime​​ @astickofbutter​​ if you want to

[multifandom-no-less-than-a-mess]

thank you for the tag, man :D

cool, i don’t know how to format

i kind of like it actually-

@greenchild​ @onigiriandcuddles​

[greenchild-deactivated20210503]

Tysm for tag

@tteokdoroki @bakugousbrat @cupcake-rogue @mrsreina @lisbethj @urlocalhumangarbage @nini-aiden @rockdude @sendhelpimstupid @minninugget @dabislittlewhore @salem-eden

[frostthecupcake-deactivated2023]

Thank you for the tag, Ness!!!

How a peach got there I’ll never know, but there it is

Tagging @stratuspoof @spicy-spooder @the-nerdy-wordy-princess @sendhelpimstupid @hipster-merchant-of-death @reinawritesbnha @blkladyelle and anyone else that wants to play!!!

[sdrawberrii-mochii]

Accurate

Thanks for the tags, Ness and Star!

Tagging whoever wants to play

[cookieundertherock]

I… suppose this isn’t bad? I like the rose patch.

I’ll tag anyone who wants to play and @agentsketchy @antisocialdragonenby @just-perhaps @heroes-and-starlight

[just-perhaps]

oooooooo

i tag @cityof21darkclockworkcrows @333rowan333 @vsaucerobin

[cityof21darkclockworkcrows]

Tysm for the tag 🥺🥺

Mines is... ✨demonic✨

I tag @jazzkaurtheglorious

[kimreesesdaughter]

Colorism is taught. Fathers talking about their desires for lightskinned women. Mothers telling their kids they’re too dark. Aunties telling you to not play outside because you’ll get (too) dark. It is taught.

[sexhaver]

trump come to tumblr

[sexhaver]

everyone against this was clearly never here for when Alex Jones made a tumblr and got run off, not by staff banning him, but by regular users sending him messages saying they were going to fuck his wife

[daedricmage]

Uhh I'm going to need a history lesson please?

[crtter]

If I remember right, a few years ago (I wanna say two years or so but it could be more) Alex Jones got banned from Twitch for hate speech and got word Tumblr is a lawless place. So he made a Tumblr account and went like “finally, I’ll be able to speak the truth without being censored!!!” and everyone rightfully interpreted it as “get his ass” and spammed his ask box and notifications with so much bullshit he deleted his account it in like... one or two days.

[eggastential-biscuits]

A coordinated attack?

@septicake we getting the army on this?

[septicake]

Hell yes we are

[eggastential-biscuits]

Alright

Step one: lure McDickface into tumblr

[septicake]

Step 2: find his account

[eggastential-biscuits]

Oh we're gonna enjoy this- Can we get staff in too? Stop him from leaving maybe?

[septicake]

Step 3: trap the bastard

Step 4: make him suffer the fury of a thousand angry clowns

Step 5: =)

[eggastential-biscuits]

I have 4 sideblogs and 1 angry clown in on this

[septicake]

And I have an army

With each member having their own army

If Trumpet makes the mistake of setting foot in this forsaken clown factory, he will leave a broken man

[microwaveabl]

yessss, break teh orange deuce!!!!

[december-rains]

If Trumpet makes the mistake of setting foot in this forsaken clown factory, he will leave a broken man

[malificaebae]

Reblog to let all the trans people on their dash know they are amazing today!!!

[thatqueerchoirkid]

<3

[rottedmolarx]

I appreciate this🥰🥰🥰

I love everyone who reblogged this🌻✨

[theconcealedweapon]

You’re able to call your parents “Mom” and “Dad”. They were not born with those names.

You’re able to call your teachers “Mr” or “Mrs” and their last name. You’d get in trouble if you addressed them by first name.

You’re able to call a celebrity by their chosen stage name.

You’re able to call your friends a shortened version of their name, their middle name instead of their first, or a completely random nickname.

You’re able to call a married woman by her husband’s last name, even though she was not born with that last name.

But when someone’s transgender, how does calling them by a name they were not born with somehow become a hassle?

[black-equals-mysoul]

SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK

[lesbianbending-moved]

rules: take this “what kind of bender are you” quiz and/or make your bender self with this picrew and then tag 5 people!

thank you so much sophie @ahzulas for tagging me! everyone go check out her blog she is truly an Icon <3

I got an earthbender which was a little surprising for me because I always pictured myself being an airbender! Though it does make sense seeing as I am patient and hard-working (and a little stubborn oop) honestly though so happy to be grouped with our earthbender queens toph and kyoshi

i tag @korrasgf @ninu-sha @aangz​ @sukigaang and @kyoshidyke​ !!

(heres my little earthbender girl she’s ALMOST as tall as kyoshi)

[aras-dg-archive]

TYSM for the tag!!!!

rules: take this “what kind of bender are you” quiz and/or make your bender self with this picrew and then tag 5 people!

So the quiz didn’t have my two favourite characters (it was the first question) but I ended up getting a firebender, which is what I see myself as anyways!

Tagging @avatar-chang​, @airbendertylee​, and @sokkable​

[grudgby]

thanks for tagging me @sukigaang and @kiaraalazulu

I got the avatar! I usually get firebender

i’m gonna tag @nameshards @thisisabadideamatt @cardboardseagulls

[charlesoberonn]

The quiz gave me Waterbender and I was gonna make myself in the picrew but then I started messing with the random button and the results are so funny:

[terrific-togekiss]

I’m an Earthbender!

Here’s what I would look like as an earth bender. I thought the scars would look cool and cute.

I’ll tag @gritsandbrits @valenzuelareblogsthings @itstoohotinthiscountry @kayclau @viraltangsspoopycrypt

[itstoohotinthiscountry]

Surprised but ok.

The quiz didn’t specify what my og element would be so i went with whatever look i liked best.

There’s this post that tells you what element you’d bend based off your hands, and apparently i have water hands, so it works out.

Thankyou @terrific-togekiss

@spicy-uramaki @wolfcrunch @captainkirkk @carnistcervine @todorokitops

[wolfcrunch]

thanks for the tag!

I, surprisingly enough got waterbender…i’ve always been a fan of fire so was fully expecting firebender - but i can deal with this. katara’s a waterbender and she’s pretty epic.

my hair naturally is darker with a bit of a reddish hue but nothing fit better than this. close enough. 

pretty natural. pretty boring,. just like me lmao

i have no one to tag,,,,,, so whoever wants to take part can!!

[bbq-hawks-wings]

Air

Your element is air. You have a great sense of humor and a youthful spirit to match! You’re peaceful most of the time but can really stir up some trouble when something threatens those you love!

I can vibe with the Airbender spirit. I don’t know if I’d end up with the tattoos - that would depend on my bending skills, I guess - but there’s not much I don’t love about Airbender culture.

Here’s a tag for @autumn-foxfire @plusultranerd and @prince-liest as well as anyone else who thought it looked like fun.

[studiobeebo]

TY FOR TAGGING ME VIX!! I GOT FIRE >:D

TAGGING : @stains-bitch​ @heroes-and-starlight​ @doctor-grillby​ and anyone else!!!

[cookieundertherock]

I got a water bender! I personally don’t think I’d be one, but I won’t argue lol

I’ll tag @antisocialdragonenby @just-perhaps @the-voif and anybody else who wants to do it!

[just-perhaps]

i got firebender ^^

i tag @cityof21darkclockworkcrows @505-bhdf @overlap @vsaucelyra

[cityof21darkclockworkcrows]

LETS GOOOO FIREBENDER!!!

Thank you @just-perhaps for the tag!

I tag @jazzkaurtheglorious @sarcasticmalecfan @bitchass-slytherin-snakery @marstonemzie and whoever wants to do this

[mailboxer-deactivated20200416]

[awkward-blunt-miserableatbest]

Wine, friends, and marriage… whelp… @guiltyidealist I guess either our relationship is getting fast tracked by quarantine or quarantine lasts another couple years.

[inhumane-screaming--noises-deac]

Wine, friend, penis

[spirallingintotheabyss]

Butter, tea and wine

Wow

[ewannmcgregor-archive-deactivat]

wine, beach and chipotle

[bitchassslytherinsnakery]

Pussy, pot, nachos

Sounds good

[cityof21darkclockworkcrows]

Friends, Penis and Chipotle

We don't even have Chipotle here

[vikander]

[harriyanna-deactivated20221223]

i took a deeper dive into the racism in the film industry, the hair and makeup aspects of it.

[myreticentvale-deactivated20231]

Keep the flame going for those we have lost to suicide. 

[maddisonkennedy-deactivated2017]

Couldn’t scroll

[thy-devil-princess-deactivated2]

I don’t give a fuck if this doesn’t suit your ‘theme’ have a heart and reblog.

[idontlikedicktionaries]

REBLOG IF ITS OKAY TO TALK TO YOU.

Please.

[lothegalaxye]

[serpentarii]

the stars do not know you. sleep well: they, too, have teeth. 

Keep reading

[writing-in-rain]

the eyes are gone when you look away. prepare: they’ll whisper your fate.

@inky-duchess @anomaly00 @mayawritesbooks

[anomaly00-archive]

The curses do not know you. Sleep well: they come ever faster

@linariouswrites @astralis-elysian @hell-yeah-fantasy @rainbowcoloreddays let your fortune be told

[linariouswrites-deactivated2021]

“Your enemies are gone when you look away. So look away: they lie in wait.”

Alternatively, if I go with my natural hair color, “So look away: they’ll whisper your fate.”

what in the sam hell? @violetcancerian, @shattered-starrs, @tajiin, @magic-is-something-we-create, @writingamongthecoloredroses, @writingonesdreams

[minnuet-archive]

the owls do not know you. so look away: they, too, have teeth. 

NO ???? NOT OKAY ???? I REFUSE !!! 

tagging: @mahalii @lonelysuburb @mitskism @gnome-boi @just-perhaps

[just-perhaps]

the crows cannot reach you. sleep well, they lie in wait.

i tag @505-bhdf @cityof21darkclockworkcrows @agentsketchy

[cityof21darkclockworkcrows]

The caves do not know you so look away. The too, have teeth

Im terrified lmaoooo

I tag @jazzkaurtheglorious @girlwhohatesstuff and @sarcasticmalecfan