Uh you got any more of those... Gender.. cosmere fics..?
That nb kaladin and lift fic was so good pls
An Early Ideal, An Unexpected Truth by TrishHankins
Rated Teen, 17,000 words, Oathbringer, CW suicidal thoughts
Transfem Elhokar, nonbinary transfemme Adolin
This fic follows an alternate canon and it has a thoughtful and loving portrayal of Elhokar's transition to Kari that doesn't shy away from difficult topics. And it has a happy ending!
Perceptions of Self by Wandering_Channeler
Rated General, 1000 words, Oathbringer
Nightblood wants to try to understand pronouns and gender, and asks various people to explain. This one's funny and sweet!
Series: [slaps cosmere] this baby can fit so many gender by werealldreaming
(only visible to logged in ao3 users), 4 fics, all rated General.
Transfem Kaladin; nonbinary Vivenna; transmasc Spook; nonbinary Lift.
Short and impactful moments throughout the cosmere, I'm linking to the whole series so you can read them all in one sitting.
Unto Themself by freoduweard
Rated General, 1000 words, Oathbringer
A mother has questions and worries about her child, who may face many challenges as they grow.
Self-Soulcasting by TrishHankins
Rated Mature, 18,000 words, WoR canon divergence
Kaladin ends up in Kharbranth to finish her training, and happens upon a young woman who is in training as a scholar. Spats, pins, and friendship (maybe other things too?) ensue. It's a smart and tender fic that takes great care with characterization. Also it has amazing epigraphs from an in world book about gender and transitioning called Self-Soulcasting. So good!
An Edgedancer's Tale by Susanoko
Rated Mature for violence, 22,000 words, set in Alethkar without references to canon events, CW well-marked descriptions of self harm/suicide
Thalkum is a ranked duelist in the city of Rashir. His overbearing father wants him to compete harder, and something inside Thalkum breaks. Fortunately, he...she discovers good friends and a spren named Willow, who help fill the cracks. This fic is quite dark at times, which makes the moments of celebration shine all the brighter.
Urithiru Pride by Wandering_Channeler
Rated General, 1000 words, references RoW
Just a fun crack fic! Dalinar and Szeth are not invited but just about everyone else is!!
I want to learn to love the way you love by taleisinlefay
Rated Explicit, 6000 words, no spoilers iirc, CW oblique references to past sexual abuse
Taleisin and Kaladin confess their love and have gender affirming sex. Just very sweet
And of course the ones mentioned in the replies to that original post:
A journey of self-discovery by Wandering_Channeler
Rated Teen, 19,000 words, canon divergence around RoW era
Nonbinary Kaladin, nonbinary Lift
Kaladin unexpectedly finds a community, and they help them figure out what's been feeling off.
A Strapping Young Man by whoreship
Rated Explicit, 5000 words, modern AU
Renarin buys sex toys and figures out how to use them in a way that gives him gender euphoria. This fic has such a special place in my heart