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chilewithcarnage

they're everything to me

whiniest

thank you

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kristina100000

this is what girls do right after they log off

theocseason4

cauldroncreations

lets say, hypothetically, im a cat. a kitty cat. and for the sake of debate, lets say i dance dance dance.

lesbians-harold-deactivated2019

what if 😳 i tucked a loose strand of your hair💇behind your ear 😳 in the middle of a conversation 😱 (and we were both girls 😥)

heavensickness

advicefromsurvivors

When your child says “Why can’t I get a puppy?”

Instead of defaulting to “My house, my rules”

Try “Any pet is a lot of responsibility. A puppy would have to be fed, walked, and taken outside to use the bathroom several times a day and taken for regular check-ups and vaccinations at the vet. You can’t do all of that by yourself, and I/we don’t have the time or money either.”

When your teenager says “Why can’t I come home at 2:00 this Saturday?”

Instead of defaulting to “My house, my rules!”

Try “The time you come home is a matter of respect and consideration. I/We will not only be concerned for your safety, but we would either be disturbed in the middle of the night when you arrive or forced to stay up for several extra hours waiting.”

When your child says “Why am I not allowed to do this thing?”

Instead of defaulting to “My house, my rules!”

Try actually communicating a legitimate reason, because children pick up on subtlety and on context and on the unspoken messages, and it’s better to teach children lessons like “You should think really hard before taking on new responsibilities” and “It’s important to show consideration for the needs of the people with whom you share a living space” than lessons like “It’s okay for people to demand your absolute obedience so long as you’re dependent on them for survival.”

shadywinters

TRUTH

blackwoolncrown

Also worth knowing: training your child to accept arbitrary ‘reasons’ for obedience like ‘because I said so’ and ‘my house my rules’ etc trains them to be more susceptible to peer pressure because in their mind, when someone who is at all an authority (older than them, bigger than them, more impressive than them, more confident than them) demands something, they should accept it and not think about it critically. Let them ask why, and give them a real reason. If not, don’t be surprised when they fall for lots of bullshit when they are older. You’re the one that made them believe ‘BECAUSE’ was reason enough.

cultural-antifascism-deactivate

idk guys maybe we should try calling the amazon rain forest “sovereign indigenous lands” more often because i’m still seeing people talk about it like some sort of vast terra nullis where there are only animals–you know, like a colonialist

hackedhearts-deactivated2024111

There are lots of indigenous people and tribes here, and their culture is shared a lot in my hometown — I’m from Manaus which is a city literally in the middle of the Amazon rainforest. So, yeah, people need to stop talking like that.

broadwaytheanimatedseries

Thanks I had no idea how misinformed I am, this is really important to know

sandersstudies

There is something very special about driving around at 3-4 AM. Like, am I up ridiculously late? Am I up ridiculously early? The world may never know.

sandersstudies

*sees other car* and what the FUCK are you doing up

edating

kinda weird that u can think about someone as much as u want and they have no idea

#relevant

terefah

shabbat shalom from me and navi

venusmacabre-deactivated2019053

Is it a common broke/poor thing to see expensive shit and immediately think of just how many lunches you could buy with that money?

abstractobject

A rich person: this thing only cost 100 bucks

Me: …..that’s many groceries

teaboot

“yeah I got a sweet deal on these” sir you paid food for those shoes

idkhowbutipanicked

March 22 2019 is gonna be CRAZY

antisocial-astronaut

There’s no op because this post was sent from god himself

intotheloonaverse

supernatural got cancelled today op was right

surprisebitch

OMG ITS TRUE

maplebunie

today is the only day you can reblog this ever

punmonster

nice

lesbianrey

corny teenage sitcom lesbians are valid

theconqueeror

no gifs can do this scene justice

iampenbot

It’s so sweet and so corny/cheesy and totally something I would have done at that age.

lexa-kom-skaikru

Can we appreciate the fact that we never get this for lesbian couples…

This is what I’ve been waiting for! A lesbian relationship between teenagers that is portrait with all the innocence and cuteness and awkwardness that comes with being in your first relationship.

There is no drama over being gay or anything… this is just two teenagers being cute and awkward and precious just because they like each other.

hornycritical

In case you haven’t been on Twitter lately the most recent discourse is that a vegan consoled a crying child and gave her money for ice cream, and another vegan made a callout because she didn’t tell the child to buy vegan ice cream.