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@dodgeryy
New intro post pending .3.
It does actually blow me away that amatonormativity (the societal belief that everyone thrives best in and should desire a monogamous romantic relationship) is not a more frequently discussed topic in activist spaces because it is so fucking useful to describe so many aspects of society relating to misogyny, abuse, financial pressure, medical restrictions, family structures, etc but it's either completely unheard of or treated as a joke.
And frankly, as an aro and acespec person, I am fully fucking aware that the refusal of a lot of people on tumblr to use the term amatonormativity is centered around aphobia because apparently no one else is affected by lressure to be in a monogamous romantic relationship enough to talk about it, right? I am tired.
official intersectionality post
touch water (touch grass for people who like swimming)
@dodgeryy
I think when you correctly identify a trauma that is the base of a woe of yours it should just disappear. It should be like "aaahh. you got me" and vanish and leave 100 dollars behind
#if you line up several neuroses and identify the interlocking connections between them they should all vanish like clearing a line in tetris (via @karliahs)
hyperfixation please stay with me long enough to complete the project. hyperfixation do not fade. hyperfixation finish what you started for the love of god
Im so mentally ill about dnd
Im so mentally ill about dnd
The lion does not concern itself with the bank account balance when a little treat is calling
The lion will never financially recover from this
@dudelynxx
Hello!! If you don't mind the question, how do you journal?
(been trying to journal for many years in the past, in the genuine 'write down what you feel/think' way, but I've had parents who always snooped through my things so I'd avoid or hide or get rid of the pages once I've written it down. I still live with them, but I decided to give journaling another try)
For now I just do copy-work, and it helps because I have smth to do daily for about two hours or so. I also make little doodles of characters I love (they're both very unhinged and morally ambiguous, perfect for journaling)
If this ask is bothering you in any way, please don't hesitate to ignore/delete it! Have a nice day!!
Asks are never a bother ty for sending this in! Love the addition of doodles to Journaling.
There's about 3 ways I journal. Lists, gratitude, and actually big bad scary diary style essay vibe Journaling.
I just wrote a whole response to an ask and then accidentally deleted it
Dear anon who asked about Journaling i will rewrite and post that tommorow morning 🖤🖤 unfortunately it ks near 1 am and my allergy medicine makes me really sleepy so I am going to wait </3
Plural moots (or ant systems actually moot or nawt) please explain pro-endo people to me bc I cannot figure out what their talking points even are. OR SOMEBODY PRO ENDO! literally anyone lol I just feel like theres a point where hearing from actual people in a more unfiltered vs books and articles will always bring a diff vibe to the conversation.
Use me as a place to rant aboht syscourse with as much buffoonery or bias as u want this isnt a medical journal its my tumblr.
When you're expressing your NPD thoughts/behaviors to someone, but you're suddenly just hit with the urge to image control.
So you just immediately have to go "but yeah, I know that's irrational, and it's not my real thoughts. I know it's bad. I'm not actually like that, chat. Please believe me and don't think less/worse of me. I'm actually so cool and so self-aware which is Good. It all stays inside my head and I am Not Toxic or A Bad Person. Trust."
Bonus points if you're lying to some extent.
Then you can't vent or ask for support without giving the 10 page disclaimer explaining you understand its irrational and an illness which totally undermines the fact that it is something you are needing support with!!!!! Bc its just percieved and handled totally differently than literally every other mental illness.
Like irritability and snappiness as the result of autism, adhd, depression, overstimulation, anxiety, or whatever? Oh its fine we all have it happen like we will give you some space let me know if you need anything like understandable.
Same mood as the result of npd or bpd? Wow and like are you even safe to ve around rn are you gonna snap are you losing it oh your REAL self is showing now.
Hate that self love and practicing self care genuinely is such a direct impact on my symptoms and regulation. Like I painted my nails and did a face mask and did gratitude Journaling but not in a cute aesthetic way in a If I dont I will break things and engage in insane unsafe behaviors and idk if people get that when we bond over little self care habits LMAOOO
Reminder that w disorders stemming from neglect and rejection your symptoms do get worse if you neglect and reject yourself. Big sigh i hate when my therapist is right.
One of my favorite tropes is character with a nasty toxic personality who tries very hard to do the right thing anyway
I like my protagonists sad, tired, bitter, fully convinced they will never get the recognition they deserve, but they still gotta get up in the morning and be a good person
I fucking hate that the general response to RFK Jr's eugenist take on autistic people is "autistic people do pay taxes, autistic people do work, autistic people do date!"
Some autistic people don't and that shouldn't make them less worthy of life. Some autistic people do need constant help and support and that shouldn't make them less worthy of life.
Once again we're falling in the right wing trap of :
They make a hateful, fascist statement
Instead of focusing on the fact that it is hateful and fascist we try to show them that they are factually wrong
We throw our own allies and the most vulnerable of us under the bus in the process
We legitimise an only slightly less hateful, fascist view as we go
They have completed their goal of making us accept the still hateful, fascist second version, hurrah. What a victory.
Right now what we're getting to with that is that autistic people who can work and pay taxes are okay, and the others aren't. Fuck this shit.
Same thing happens with the people who are being deported ("they have a visa!", "they didn't even have a criminal record!" -> even if they didn't have a visa, even if they did have a criminal record, deporting them and detaining them in what's essentially a concentration camp wouldn't be okay, you absolute tools of fascism.)
bpd culture is waiting. waiting for them to text you back. waiting for you to magically not have this disorder anymore. waiting for the paranoia to settle. waiting for the apology you're never going to get. waiting for your friends to notice that you're gone. waiting for them to get tired of you. waiting for something, anything to change.
so. much. fucking waiting.
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