[catfinancier]

does anyone have that post about OSHA compliant sex work? something about a dude who shows up to a guy's house in full ppe to give him a dry handjob

[radfem-woman]

[timteractions]

Shocker: Male is mad that women talk about women’s rights

[thesinisterspinster]

We know!! Thats exactly why we don't get along.

[amilta]

Why don’t women wanna be our sex slaves anymoreeee is it too much to ask ?? For a Happy Marriage???

[evenlesssentimentaltranslator]

33 years since spousal rape was made illegal in the United States and they’re still malding about how much equality feels like oppression to them.

[sickofthis666]

Youd think if its just "5 minutes twice a week" men wouldnt be "destroyed" over it

[cassia-longina]

PSA: don't blame yourself for feeling aroused by pornography and misogynistic kinks. First of all, the fact that you consciously dislike it already means you don't want it — everyone who tells you otherwise thinks like a rapist. And also we live in a society oversaturated with images of female sexual degradation — it would be more surprising if you actually weren't influenced by it in one way or another. Where are you even supposed to get an idea that it doesn't have to be that way? Even fem"dom" is hardly about women being dominant over men. You are not to blame for not developing a healthy sexuality in a world that desperately doesn't want you to. This can be fixed, but with a deliberate effort and power of will, because it requires going against the current.

[no-i-can-not-shut-up]

Always remember that it’s very easy to condition sexual arousal, and it is never your fault for being groomed! Even if you sought it out, even if you used to like it. Whatever reason, it was never your fault.

Especially with the rise of girls being exposed to the internet at increasingly younger ages, we need to try and break the cycle for those girls.

You cannot help others if you have not helped yourself! Practice self love and self forgiveness. Be kind to your past self!

[ehlersdanlosdarling]

When youre a complex medical patient, you realize that not all doctors are experts, but between getting through half of medical imaging school and being a full time patient, you're becoming one, whether you like it or not.

This is my brain mri after asking my doctor if I had cerebellar tonsil ectopia - after it had already come back with "no findings" - and the radiologist made this annotation. I'll note here that while the radiologist specifically asked about it said no and annotated it incorrectly on my brain MR, a different radiologist pointed it out on their own on my neck MR.

Most patients looking at their images may not even realize that this annotation means nothing - or that the annotations on their own imaging could be wrong. By this, I mean that there are angles and lengths that doctors use to identify pathologies, and they must be precise and in the correct location on the anatomy. These are standardized and do not shift between Healthcare systems. The line used to determine cerebellar tonsil ectopia is called McCrae's Line. This line should slice through the opening at the bottom of the skull, beginning at the basion (the front of the opening) and ending at the opisthion (the back of the opening). These measurements should be done on the midslice (middle picture) of a sagittal MRI.

[ehlersdanlosdarling]

Not a fad or a social contagion, though, right?

[pinkpilledterf]

“cis-“ i’ve zoned out. stopped listening.

[ehlersdanlosdarling]

Radfems not believing disabled women shave for sensory reasons is just more of the same shit that disabled women have always had to face. No one believes them about their own bodies and minds, everyone thinks they know better. If it's something difficult for abled-bodied or -minded folks to understand, they just write it off as a lie. You'll even see it from women with other types of disabilities or with different symptoms. "Well that's not true for ME so they must be lying." Y'all are just as bad as the people you so desperately want to set yourselves apart from. You're not helping disabled women by not believing them.

[kindradical]

I'm asking in good faith here

There should be an appropriate number of men shaving for the very same reason, yet we barely see it. How would you explain it?

I'm not saying it's impossible to have sensory issues with that, of course. But there seems to be a lot of women, specifically, that claim to have sensory issues regarding this area. Don't you think it has to do with the fact women are pressured into shaving from such a young age, and so they're just not used to that? I know I've had a lot of trouble stopping shaving precisely because of being sensitive to sensory stimuli

[ehlersdanlosdarling]

There absolutely are men that shave for sensory reasons and I know several. Radfems probably just arent talking to them. And YES, that is a reason more women say they shave for sensory reasons! Because they generally started shaving before their coarser hair came in and rather than have a chance to get used to the different feel gradually now they're faced with a very uncomfortable reckoning: continue shaving for their comfort or force themselves to adapt yet again or else be called "bad feminists" online. In reality, tumblr radfems just need better things to do. Any real feminist doing work in the real world isn't going judge a woman for choosing to shave. The more I interact with those feminists, the clearer that gets. Congrats on forcing yourself to conform to the tumblr radfem standards, but it's not necessary and literally some women can't without causing harm to themselves.

The point of talking about shaving in feminism is to help women realize the societal pressure

[capricorn-season]

[childishrage]

we have a very healthy victim/abuser relationship, actually, thanks for asking

[dysthymia-wet-specimen2]

how "bdsm" couples sound to me ngl.

[proudhag]

A lot of transwomen bullshit can be attributed to the fact that men are convinced they're smarter than women. That troon that barely completed high school with a 2.6GPA and smelled like rotten onions believes himself to be superior to all women no matter how many degrees they have and he's outraged that women scientists don't agree with his delusions

[gendiebrainrotreceipts]

This is reiterated by the countless posts that say trans women ‘understand’ gender and or womanhood better than ‘cis’ women ever could

[givewizardsguns]

TERFs piss me the fuck off because they adhere so hard to the fascist victim-when-it-suits-me bullshit.

One second it’s “we are the daughters of the witches you couldn’t burn” until a trans woman plays sports, then it’s “ooooh widdle baby girls can’t pway sports as well as men ooooh we are so delicate and stupid oooooh”

[radkindoffeminist]

TIMs really piss me the fuck off because they adhere so hard to the fascist victim-when-it-suits-me bullshit.

One second it’s “we are women and we have dicks and there’s nothing you can do about it” until a TERF exists and then it’s “we’re literally the most oppressed people to ever exist and you’re oppressing us. I hope you get raped and die”

[sichorean]

come on now, how do you expect TIMs to have a coherent ideology when they spend half their time arguing that the terf definition of woman (adult human female) is more oppressive and misogynistic than "I have to be a woman because I cry when watching movies and I can't open jars or do math" and the other half of their time running "age regression" furry porn blogs

[labryslesbian]

nothing as joyful as men taking over women only spaces and having real women bow down and kiss their filthy shoes like it’s the 50s!

[ihatemenandtherearereasons]

Exhibit 3223

Where is this from wtf

[labryslesbian]

it’s from an article fighting to keep males in female sports, good riddance to them

The FA has banned transgender women from playing women's football. This grassroots club is fighting back

“I wouldn't want to play without my trans teammates because that's not the team that I love.”

[capricorn-season]

[analog-delight]

is this a safe place to say i don't want trans men in my lesbian spaces

[this-is-transgynephobia]

Is this a safe place to say that you don't own lesbian spaces & if you're scared about big scary men entirely your female wombyn xx lover space then maybe we should readjust how we see the world.

[river-grunfeld]

A guy larping as a woman complaining about women larping as men being in lesbian only spaces.

[antiplondon]

https://twitter.com/glosswitch/status/1379342266251239430

[cryptogamist]

women are not a public resource

[goblinous]

Any man who thinks he’s entitled to a woman’s body shouldn’t be allowed around kids at all, let alone get to raise kids.

[riverdeities]

ACCESS TO A BIRTHING PERSON. ACCESS. TO A BIRTHING PERSON. WTF????

[she-is-ovarit]

This isn’t “inclusive language”, this is a method of attempting to shift people’s perspectives to feel more comfortable with considering women a natural resource used for sexual and reproductive purposes.

[uncertainwaters]

it’s called manufacturing consent. this fits the propaganda model of communication. the use of euphemisms to soften and normalize oppressive regimes and institutional violence is a well known tactic within the propaganda model. whoever controls the language, controls the narrative, controls the people. you see this as well in the use of the passive voice in headlines covering male violence: woman murdered, woman dies, woman raped. never man murders, man kills, man rapes.

[capricorn-season]