consistency is key

Ever feel down? Be prepared to hide your ego behind memes

[enfp-pptx]

32. stay hydrated

Woke up in my bed, it was past nine Did my morning routine, felt all fine victory coming, it is all mine waiting for my results to come through the phone line

Then phone rings, my mum has a smile had to wait a lil bit, it took a lil while I graduate high school, damn it was a long mile should be happy now, yet i’m in denial

what the fuck man, did I fall back teacher says im moving forward, but I carry a whack crack texting a friend, we both seem to lack the dopamine suppose to fill the holes of black

skipping forward to the night time on a party with some fine wine laying on the grass to grasp star signs it’s beautiful to see star light align (oh damn)

in front of my was a small crowd saw someone staring at me, no doubt the only thing I hear, is her sound notice my inner silence gone all loud

minutes pass by, her glimpse appears making me just right, removing all the fears she sat beside me and she said hi we drank some booze and then ate pie

we smoked some weed, we now dry better get hydrated, get tongues tied she and I remembered our old vibes we were really comfy and on our second try

a second try to forget ~x enfp.pptx

[enfp-pptx]

34. playtoy

walking to the store with my two dollar bill looking for some legos to build in a thrill bought a new star wars set, i was up for chill had stormtroopers in it, with blaster set on kill

came home to build me a shuttle took it along me, in the garden near a puddle weather so autumn, leaves colour orange flew around with my boys right to the storage

in my fantasy land, had so much fun kept doing this till I hit my ages of puns dry humor, slik style of clothes was a teen, felt mature, but I wore a red nose

my fantasy around, but this time im the greatest. imagining glory in my head, it felt overrated everyone a stormtrooper and wore the same white mask but I was a tie pilot, being in space was my task

so I flew away from the capital along with some bombers they had different dreams as well in formation up and under

squads went on an exploration we observe our galactic nation everyone just played their part doing things on repeat, their end was their start

just wanna go all pink sugar glaciers feeding my eyes still kinda boyish but this time I need a different kind of play toy

back to reality, I use lots of metaphors prefer analogies, to hold off the black doors ain’t a kid anymore, I notice hard truths wish my youth had a love booth

never had a young dock or a person I could call home just my ship in space i’m promoted to admiral now____

~x enfp.pptx

[enfp-pptx]

Me: ENFP

Hey everyone,

It's been a long time now since I've been in the mbti community. I've read lots of articles, posts, possible theories and other ideas about enfp, but there are a few things that I don't see very often.

ENFP have been described as loud, energetic, positive unicorns that tend to procrastinate and never finish a project. I know this is just a stereotype, but it still bothers me to see that only ''this side'' is mostly represented in our mbti community.

As a kid, I've indeed been the loud type, but this has changed the more older I became.

So what else is different?

This enfp:

is quiet

is realistic (and only uses optimism to inspire myself or others)

finishes projects and procrastinate much less than is being depicted on the media

doesn't have many friends or doesn't have everyone to like the enfp (because I don't want many friends, nor do I like all that attention)

is not a unicorn

is not always an emotional butterfly

can create his own schedule and has somewhat decent task management

is not always happy nor doesn't he show he's happy when he is.

is quite lonesome, as in, I pass social events to spend more alone time.

So all in all, there are things in which I think some ENFPs differ from the image it has. As I said before, I know it's just a stereotype, but stereotypes tend to put pressure on someone's shoulder to confirm the image it has.

Stop it, let those ENFP be themselves without constantly posting happy ''ENFP'' rainbows on their feed

~x Z.

[enfp-pptx]

fuck mbti, it’s becoming an concerning ISSUE

Hey everyone,

Recently, more and more people dive in typology, like mbti for example, and today I’ll tell you why the fuck you must stop.

Most of them, including you, have considered to use that typology to “get to you yourself” better or “improve yourself”. But the actually fuck does that even mean. Like c’mon, can we be for real for once. Online gurus talking about certain personalities, labels that people like to put on themselves and others and too vague and too general descriptions of “themselves” that heavily influence their choices the deeper they get sucked into that. 

But when I look at those people, who are consumed by all sorts of typology to identify themselves, I ask myself “are they actually making progress or are they just giving themselves the illusion that they improve?”

The short answer: no.

Based on my experience, people are only busy with their self image and compare them with certain types. Parts of the community get butthurt really easily. Being the butthurt people they are in combination with their insecurities can only lead to more anxiety and them being obsessively busy with labeling.

Ask yourself, if you are one of those people, who seek to improve themselves. Did it actually helped you improve? Did you need mbti to discover yourself? Did you feel since you joined mbti (or any other typology) more insecure if you “fit in”?

Probably not and as a person who likes to improve himself, it really irritates me to see people wasting time not doing the things they love.

This is a HUGE PROBLEM in the mbti community and it needs to STOP!

If you actually wanna get to know yourself, go and DO IT. Chase your dreams, work on something you somewhat love doing, reflect and think for yourself. You learn SO MUCH MORE. Work hard in the things in what you love doing, get better at it, know what you need and you’ll see how you “Think” or “Feel” about choices. Stop with all the stereotyping, let it fucking go and GO OUT AND LIVE.

I f   y o u   t h i n k   d i f f e r e n t l y  ,   t h e n   t r y   m e

(translation: what are your thoughts?)

So fuck mbti and “If you focus on you, you can never go and unfelt”

~x Z.

[chochote-sijali]

I hope I don’t get flak for posting this (and I’m gonna add onto your response) but this is true though. While I don’t believe MBTI is the problem, I do honestly believe its community is a major issue. A lot of people in the community have their own personal issues that they don’t actually try to solve. Instead, they focus on how to improve by looking to MBTI. The ironic thing is that they (including me, actually) aren’t improving themselves at all and don’t always recognize their own harmful behavior. I’ve tried very hard to recognize my faults but when I do, this has ended up in getting me labeled within the community multiple times. I’ve been called ENFP, INFP, INFJ (by a major blog) and even an ISFP by someone I trusted (it’s like no one can come to a consensus on what I actually am). So instead of them telling me to focus on improving myself, these people instead tell you to work on things that are exclusively MBTI despite psychological issues not being MBTI. All their “good” intentions did was worsen my depression as I tried to work out MBTI’s kinks. I started losing faith in my own mental ability, and I’m still stifling a lot of my thinking just to keep people off my back.

People must realize that personality and even the brain aren’t MBTI. MBTI is about personal preferences and digging deep to find your ulterior motives is a painful, confusing process. Why ask questions about yourself when you can ask about the world, ya know? It’s not like understanding myself helps to understand the world. Understanding myself is understanding how to combat my mental illnesses and nothing further.

MBTI is still relatively under-researched. People have been trying to add onto MBTI and improve it, but people would rather have it stay exactly the same in its bizarre, unrefined state. And it’s because of this rigidity that harms people from actually improving on anything. To be honest, being forced to conform to “rules” that don’t even exist has left me mentally exhausted and set me back in therapy. MBTI was a mistake because I got interested in it a generation or two too early. Regardless of my type, I hope MBTI is perfected in the near future

[enfp-pptx]

Hey everyone,

This reblog and those words (written by @chochote-sijali ) have sort of the same reasons why I started to rant about mbti.

Personally, I’m too much of a geek who will dive straight into things and check out everything if I really like something. This led to several bad things for me and it took me quite a few months to recover, because of several reasons.

Lots of you people are doing so fine, so keep going whatever you are doing, but for the small group (including the past me who would really appreciate it), who didn’t know what was happening, it could be like a wake up call.

Anyways, I wanted to add that of course, mbti is fun! When I discovered it the first moment I used it, I dove right in the theory. It all started on 16personalities, like most of y’all I assume and ended up diving deep is somewhat more “reliable” sources. I met great internet friends through tumblr and I’m now usually chilling in some nice mbti servers! By this day, I still love my small little mbti community :)

If mbti helps you, go and use it. If it makes you happy, go and do the things you love to do.

Also, I do not feel sorry for using rude language or trashing quite a bit on mbti, as I like to write and I guess this is a try-out clickbaity writing style? I’m sorry tho’ if you feel really really offended, so sorry for that :p

Hope you have a nice day,

~x Z.

[chochote-sijali]

I believe people misunderstood your intentions. Your point didn’t seem so much centered around MBTI being a horrible theory. It seemed to be more about how there are a lot of people in the community who actually don’t try to improve themselves. Then you have the ones who actually do try to better themselves, come along and say “hey, what about me?” (This is natural as some of them haven’t gone through the experience of dealing with toxic people on here.) Truth is, I read through your post but I tend to scan for truths in arguments. You’re not exerting authority over others and you’re not forcing anyone to actually do it your way. You sound like you’re trying to open others’ minds and see the amount of discord in our community. And they don’t want to open their minds. They only see what they want to see or turn a blind eye and say “well, I’m nothing like that” (but other people clearly are). If I am overlooking anything you’ve said but other people have noticed, maybe because I can see that you’re not really lying about anything.

I get the gist and your good intentions. I’ve seen people I follow make the same EXACT statement you have, but the only difference is that they don’t condemn MBTI. People don’t even realize how seriously they take MBTI and it’s ridiculous. It’s cultish (as soon as I noticed the cultish attitude in the community, I had to break out of it). MBTI doesn’t think for you; other people don’t think for you; you think for yourself. But as soon as someone condemns MBTI, they get into attack mode. And I’ve done this, not in attack mode before, but by simply telling people that MBTI is valid which I guess could be seen as “attack mode” when it really isn’t. (It wasn’t necessary for me to tell you of MBTI’s validity because even your url is MBTI so I think you already believe it’s a valid theory.)

The way you address this sounds very similar to the way I address things. I tend to tell people what they should or shouldn’t do as well. It’s not a criticism; it’s more like telling people “why are you doing this when you could do this instead and cause less drama or pain?” Or like you, “why are you doing this when you can do this to improve?” If people take that as a criticism, that’s their issue. It just shows close-mindedness. These are the people who don’t improve because they’d rather not listen and then go ahead and do their own thing despite horrible results.

[enfp-pptx]

Nice speech, nice speech!

I guess that happens if people become close-minded and especially if something that they love get damaged.

But like you said I condemned mbti (on purpose) and I expected most of those kind of reactions, but that ain’t a problem :)

It feelts cool (or hot actually) to start a discussion, ‘cause this ‘‘opinion’‘ or way of thinking is probably not big inside the active mbti community. The heat is fun!

(should I tag all the commenters and rebloggers, because they are somewhat interested and felt like saying something, so they can read the full thing or nah? @chochote-sijali )

Anyways, have a great day everyone!

~x Z.

[enfp-pptx]

where's my phone?

Me: where is my phone?

*looks around him*

Me: allright, it ain't here, must be in my pocket

*checks pockets*

*checks buttpockets

Me: okay wtf

*starts a big deep search in my house and is busy for 12 long hours

*starts to cry*

Me: Why did I lose my phone, how could this happe...

*bzzzz*

*Phone goes off*

*mfw my phone was in my hand the whole time*

Me: you dumb nut

[enfp-pptx]

fuck mbti, it’s becoming an concerning ISSUE

Hey everyone,

Recently, more and more people dive in typology, like mbti for example, and today I’ll tell you why the fuck you must stop.

Most of them, including you, have considered to use that typology to “get to you yourself” better or “improve yourself”. But the actually fuck does that even mean. Like c’mon, can we be for real for once. Online gurus talking about certain personalities, labels that people like to put on themselves and others and too vague and too general descriptions of “themselves” that heavily influence their choices the deeper they get sucked into that. 

But when I look at those people, who are consumed by all sorts of typology to identify themselves, I ask myself “are they actually making progress or are they just giving themselves the illusion that they improve?”

The short answer: no.

Based on my experience, people are only busy with their self image and compare them with certain types. Parts of the community get butthurt really easily. Being the butthurt people they are in combination with their insecurities can only lead to more anxiety and them being obsessively busy with labeling.

Ask yourself, if you are one of those people, who seek to improve themselves. Did it actually helped you improve? Did you need mbti to discover yourself? Did you feel since you joined mbti (or any other typology) more insecure if you “fit in”?

Probably not and as a person who likes to improve himself, it really irritates me to see people wasting time not doing the things they love.

This is a HUGE PROBLEM in the mbti community and it needs to STOP!

If you actually wanna get to know yourself, go and DO IT. Chase your dreams, work on something you somewhat love doing, reflect and think for yourself. You learn SO MUCH MORE. Work hard in the things in what you love doing, get better at it, know what you need and you’ll see how you “Think” or “Feel” about choices. Stop with all the stereotyping, let it fucking go and GO OUT AND LIVE.

I f   y o u   t h i n k   d i f f e r e n t l y  ,   t h e n   t r y   m e

(translation: what are your thoughts?)

So fuck mbti and “If you focus on you, you can never go and unfelt”

~x Z.

[enfp-pptx]

life is all about the little things

and if viewed from a great enough distance, make up the big picture

[enfp-pptx]

mbti and parts of the day

Hey everyone,

I would like to see the correlation between mbti and your favourite part of the day (morningns, nights, etc.)

Please reblog (or comment) with the following:

your type

your favourite part of the day

the reason why you like that specific part of the day

Thanks for your help, ~x Z.

[enfp-pptx]

Become less tired!

Here are five steps to become less tired and gain more energy in life:

Get enough sleep and respect your body’s sleep cycle (This means avoiding alarm clocks and trying to wake up end the end of a cycle)

Get outside and into the sunlight for a little bit each day.

Do some type of exercise (From twenty minutes of walking to going to the gym).

Drink enough water.

Use caffeine sparingly, use it as a tool, don’t make it a habit / become dependent of it.

[enfp-pptx]

mbti and seasons

Hey everyone,

I would like to see the correlation between mbti and your favourite season

Please comment or reblog with the following:

your type

your favourite season

the reason why you like your season

Thanks for your help, ~x Z.

[enfp-pptx]

functions.

Hey everyone,

If you had to describe the functions, how would you describe them?

This is my basic concept of the functions:

Ne - seeks new ideas and inspiration

Se - seeks new experiences and change

Si  - seeks stability and past experiences

Ni  - seeks abstract meaning

Te - seeks effectiveness and goal completion

Fe - seeks social norms, unity and harmony

Ti  - seeks precision and inner logic

Fi  - seeks inner harmony 

Are there things that need to be added or removed? 

Anyways, have a nice day,

~x Z.

[enfp-pptx]

did you pay attention?

Hello everyone,

Hearing is involuntary, whereas listening is a skill. Besides improving your listening skills, it’s also great to recognize if someone is actually listening to you.

It’s worth to take a few moments to different types of listening:

Superficial listening - you are pretending to listen and you are thinking too much of what to say next

Selective listening - you may only listen to certain things that are interesting to you, but lack the ability to listen what doesn’t interest you so much.

Attentive listening - you are able to read body language, their tone of voice, as well as the words they use and the reasons why they tell and do certain things.

To listen attentively to others is key to being able to understand them, help them, to trade effectively and to control the conversation. 

Happy communicating, ~x Z.

[enfp-pptx]

mbti and organization.

Hey everyone,

I would like to see the correlation between mbti and being organized.

Please comment or reblog with the following:

your type

how organized you are from a scale from 1 - 10 (1 is the least organized, 10 is the most organized)

if you use things like to-do lists, bulletjournals etc.

Thanks for your help, ~x Z.

[enfp-pptx]

optimism.

Hi everyone!

When you feel quite pessimistic, it’s easier to fall into a downward spiral of negative thoughts. In extreme cases, people start catastrophizing by imagining worst-case scenarios. By rewiring yourself to become more optimistic, you’ll see the positives in certain situations to increase the likelihood to achieve your desired outcome. So here five ways to become more optimistic:

Turn negatives into positives - believing in the good aspects make you more determined to keep on going.

Do not be a perfectionist - it is okay to make mistakes. Failure can be a great teacher too and sometimes you need to start off small, you can’t expect to get the best results immediately

Be proud - own your successes. Do not say it was just luck, but instead own your skill and expertise.

Use positive body language - using a positive body language feels really empowering, it keeps you going on strongly.

Believe in your abilities - being plagued by self-doubt is a buzzkiller. Whenever you feel like falling, write a list of your skills, strengths and the good things in life; this can to help boost your confidence.

Hope y’all have a great time!

~x Z.

[enfp-pptx]

stereotypes.

Hello, When people read posts about a scenario and how the 16 different types would react. Do they only read their own type or all of them? Just wondering, ~x Z.

[enfp-pptx]

Communication is key

Hello everyone!

Almost 90% of your communication is non-verbal; people notice your posture and your voice more than the actual information. Eventhough you may or may not like communication, it’s always nice to have someones attention when you need it. If you want to increase someone’s attention to you, you may want to:

Have an open posture, this is more inviting

Ensure eyecontact, so they are more likely to listen

Use gesture, envision what you are telling

Check the distance between you and your target, notice how comfortable they are with you

Look at where their feet is pointed to, if both feet point to you, they are more focussed

Have a nice day and happy communicating

[enfp-pptx]

growth.

When you are surrounded by darkness your only guidance is ambition.

Through ambition you will be determined to forge your own destiny.

Sacrifice and all your dreams are within reach.

Seek balance and you will hold your ground. ~x Z.