gee !

gee . shifter . she/they . minor . I suck at socialization

[geeshifting]

𝙎𝙃𝙄𝙁𝙏𝘽𝙇𝙍 𝙄𝙉𝙏𝙍𝙊 🏐

Howdy, you can call me Gee! I go by She/They pronouns. I am proudly part of the LGBTQ+ community, and will not respond to any hate towards the subject. I am a minor, so please do not send me any creepy messages because ew.

I have plans to shift to many places, but here are my main ones:

- Hogwarts (marauders era)

- Hogwarts (original era)

- Marvel

- Miraculous

- Haikyu!!

- Julie and the Phantoms

Feel free to message me if you want to be friends, just know that I am terrible at socializing lol

[starsandskiees]

This is the only tiktok you’ll ever need, I’ve made about 13 of these and I’m not stopping anytime soon

[lunarcatninja]

I’m reblogging again because I did it myself and added pictures for those who have trouble learning from the video.

First take a standard rectangular piece of paper (I used one from a small notebook which I ripped out then cut the holes off)

Then fold in half touching the shorter side to the opposite shorter side.

Fold again making the new shorter side touch the other new shorter side

I did this one more time, but this time I unfolded it right after to get back to where it was only folded twice. It should have left a crease in the paper.

Using this crease, fold the corners up alongside it to look like this

This are also going to be unfolded, but this time you’re going to push in alongside the triangular folds you just made and undid.

Doing this once will result in this

Hold tight because tumblr won’t let me add more pictures. I’ll reblog will the rest of the instructions

[lunarcatninja]

Continuing on,

Do the other side of you haven’t already to get this

You’ll open these newly created flap to change which parts are touching

Leaving you with this

Then you start pulling the top “tabs” down

Do both sides to get the final folded form

Decorate as desired.

Hope this helps!

[honey-soaked-wings-deactivated2]

Ratio for the rectangle size is 2:3

So 6 cm by 9cm

[cottonkhaleesi]

I uh, lost an evening:

Thanatos knows that I hecking love cute origami, and moths, so really, what was I supposed to do, scroll past and not take the opportunity to make butterfly and moth page markers???

[gallicinvasion]

Another woman utterly failed by our society’s devaluation of women’s reproductive health. We can’t wait around for male doctors to decide what we need to know. This is why we need to take control and educate ourselves about our own bodies.

[gallicinvasion]

and here’s some comments i saw under the post. why is this a pattern?? why is this a recurring theme?? why is this information not common knowledge? what the fuck are doctors doing??

[sora2522]

This is news to me so let’s share it so people will know!

[halfhardtorock]

Gross tmi: but i passed a pretty big clot after having my daughter. It was about the size of a baseball. It actually hurt worse because while 15 hours of labor opened my cervix, i passed the clot in 30 minutes. I knew it was a possibility because of my midwife and reading, but everyone Ive told after this (mostly other pregnant women) were shocked that this could happen.

In our culture, it’s much more common to do deep research about what family cars we want to buy than we do about childbirth when we ’re pregnant.

[skeleton-warrior-deactivated201]

Tmi: I passed a huge clot after birth in the bathroom of my hospital room and called the nurse sobbing because I didn’t know it was normal. She treated me like an idiot, but NO ONE told me it was a possibility. And the pain associated with healing for the first couple of weeks after birth was worse than the labor imo. Again, I had no idea. They didn’t tell me a thing besides “sitz bath regularly and change your pads.” Before discharging me from the hospital.

[evashandor]

I was most definitely told about this in school. Fucking hell, 4-6 weeks of bleeding? My periods were/are bad enough, why the hell don’t we get told this?

[love-pro-choice]

I didn’t know it could last so long, wtf? Is the bleeding inevitable after birth? 

[rosietwiggs]

Bleeding is inevitable after birth - your uterine wall is shedding a fuck ton of lining. It can last from three to six weeks (possible longer) and it tapers off.

More TMI - I passed a MASSIVE clot after my fourth birth. At this point I already knew this could happen - it’s normal. What I DIDN’T know, was that I had caused it.

My post birth contractions were so bad after the birth that it felt like full transition labor. And they don’t give you anything for the pain. So I used a hot water bottle, without the nurses knowing, and it caused me to bleed even more. I lost so much blood that by the first time they sat me up to go to the bathroom, I fainted. It took three more tries until I could sit up.

Anyway, that’s not the point. The point is, the next morning I passed a clot the SIZE OF ANOTHER PLACENTA I KID YOU NOT, and I know what is and is not normal. So I called for the nurse and through the door told her I had passed a huge clot, and her response was - “It’s not big. I know what big is.” She hadn’t even looked. So I rolled my eyes and said, “Yeah, no. It’s big, I’m telling you.”

So, sounding extremely put upon, she asked me to open the door. I did, and after a long pause she goes, “Okay, yeah, that’s a little big.”

YOU DON’T SAY.

The point I’m trying to get across is that this shit is so common - women not knowing this stuff is so expected, and it keeps getting reinforced. People don’t expect you to know anything, don’t teach you anything, and then make you feel like you’re totally ignorant and a burden for your lack of knowledge when THEY WON’T SHARE.

Fucking learn EVERYTHING you can when it comes to childbirth, girls. It is the single most empowering thing you can do for yourself. And if you missed something, that’s okay. But the more knowledge you arm yourself with, the more in control of your situation you’ll be.

A few post partum tips:

DON’T use a hot water bottle - lol.

ONLY pads - NO tampons. Tampons can cause severe infection, not to mention, you probably don’t want to be shoving anything up there any time soon.

If you’ve had stitches, sitz baths DO help relieve the pain. Another great pain reliever? Dampen some pads and freeze them. Let one thaw slightly and use it on top of another pad. This will help with the pain as well as reduce swelling. Change the pad out as soon as it’s thawed completely. This REALLY helps on the first couple days after giving birth.

If you pass a clot, don’t sweat it. Even the one I passed, which was fucking massive, just required that we keep an eye out to make sure it didn’t happen again. If it does, talk to your doctor.

Take a pain killer half an hour before nursing. Because YES - your uterus is contracting after you give birth, to get back to its original size, and nursing causes much stronger contractions. Taking nursing-safe painkillers won’t prevent the pain, but it will reduce it. 

Buy disposable underwear for the first few days after birth. They will get VERY dirty. Or use your ratty old pairs that you’re ready to get rid of. Double up on pads - line them all the way up your ass-crack. I am so serious. And wear dark pants.

Pee in the shower. You do NOT want to wipe down there right after birth because ow. Peeing in the shower lets you just rinse afterwards. Especially if you’ve had stitches, peeing in the shower, with the shower-head rinsing AS you go, keeps stinging to a minimum. And fuck everyone else - keep on peeing in the shower until you feel ready to move back to toilet paper. Middle of the night and need to pee? Get your pants off - get in the shower and just go.

This is just a few things, but PLEASE feel free to send me an ask if you have any questions about ANYTHING childbirth/pregnancy/nursing related. I have four incredible kids. I’ve done it all - c-section, vacuume birth, episiotimy, stitches, with an epidural, without an epidural. I’m here.

[thehangryslush]

….I know I keep reblogging this but people keep adding super important information.

[typingsdrawings]

I feel like no one tells women this stuff because if a woman was even a little on the fence about having a baby before this would kinda make them run for the damn hills.

[kaxen]

…..you are correct, typing.

300% EXTRA SURE I’M NOT HAVING BABIES. 

[petitedeath]

peri bottles, witch hazel or anti-pain anticeptic spray are your friends. Also passing large clots after birth is a WARNING SIGN. Bigger than a half dollar is a sign that you have not passed your entire placenta (this is most common in hospital vaginal births where the mother is not allowed to naturally birth the placenta and instead has it ripped out by the doctor) if there is any placenta left in your uterus you can get extremely ill. This happened to both myself and my mother in law

[un-ptit-spleen]

WOW I didn’t know any of this and I’m terrified of what more I’m unaware of about my own body :( Honestly when will we fucking abolish this taboo about the female body…

[artsortment]

I had pretty great sex ed in school (lots of contraceptive information, and totally acknowledged that teenagers might have sex) and all of this is news to me.

And, as a 28-year-old person with a uterus, I’m extremely appalled I’m just learning this.

[deanplease]

Long, but very important information, even for those who don’t plan to have children, because you will almost certainly know someone who will, and you might be able to to help them. Or at least increase your level of empathy for them.

[brandx]

…HOLY HELL. REBLOG TO SAVE A LIFE, SERIOUSLY.

[astro-vee]

people loooove to make out like pregnancy and childbirth are this beautiful thing that a woman’s body is made to do, and leave out all this incredibly important and scary info.

the healthcare system fails women in so so many ways, especially around sexual and reproductive health, and it needs to stop.

[enchantedpineseed]

More TMI but no one told me what pregnancy discharge was and it was horrible. Like it’s a greater quantity of liquid coming out of you than on the heaviest day of your period. Sometimes I would stand up and a bunch would just run out of me. I was so scared and unprepared. Also, tampons are a VERY bad idea when your cervix is still dialated.

[bigmouthlass]

We are, as a culture, *amazingly* reluctant to talk about pregnancy and childbirth and recovery unless there’s a punchline involved.

[fedonciadale]

If you can get pads for pee for cloth diapers - which are about triple the size of normal pads, use them for post partum bleeding.

Have frozen peas ready to cool your breasts when the milk starts to fill in after birth. If that happens fast it can be hell of a pain and cooling the breasts can prevent infection!

[fuckingrealityshifting]

People on Tiktok: Because of shifting I didn’t feel happy in my CR anymore and lost touch with reality. I dissociated and never felt satisfied with this reality. I lost my sense of self. This is the bad part of reality shifting :/

Me, on the floor, curled up and sobbing: WHY DIDNT YOU STOP SHIFTING. WHY DID YOU KEEP DOING IT. WHYYYYY

[resting-in-the-void]

If shifting is causing any harm to your mental state then don't try to shift! If you're feeling disconnected from your reality or having other negative symptoms, stop shifting!

Shifting is supposed to be a like a temporary vacation that doesn't affect your home life. If it is affecting you (negatively) here, then something is wrong.

[geeshifting]

Idea: Let’s make a shiftblr chain where everyone lists some very random but useful things to script into your dr! Let’s keep them as ones that will work for pretty much any dr, that way this can be helpful for anyone!

I will start us off:

I am immune to having to use the bathroom at an inconvenient time

(for the people who experience periods) I am immune to leaking 

I never smell bad

I am happy with my self-image

I have neat writing

I can write in cursive very beautifully

I am very organized

I am immune to being nervous to talk to someone

If anyone else finds out about me shifting they will never tell anyone else

I can learn new things extremely quickly

I have a watch that tells me what time it is in my cr if I press ‘x’ button

[shiftblogging]

Heres some things I like to add! :>

-I can write as much as I want and my hand will never get tired

-I can run as far as I want or excersize as much as I want and I will never get tired or sore

-I am ambidextrous

-I will never have a stuffy or runny nose

-I will never accidentally make conversations awkward

-I never stub my toe

-I never lose my belongings

-I never drop things I’m holding

-I always have the motivation to do things

-my hair always looks nice

[dreamsanddabs]

I have a few more to add as well!

-(If you experience periods) I never have cramps

- It doesn’t hurt when I step on a lego/small rock, etc.

-I don’t burn food when I’m cooking or baking

-I won’t get sick

-I have excellent time management

-I can hear what people are saying the first time they say it

[maizumis]

I hope it's fine if I do both.....

I present to you, Rey (left) and Mumbles (right) 😍😍

PLEASE THEY MATCH???? SAKUSA’S CATS! THEY MATCH THE HOUSE AESTHETIC TOO

[android1000]

[haileygarciasunshine]

🏳️‍🌈

[geeshifting]

that moment when someone you think you might like says they like you and asks you out, and then you proceed to tell your best friend about it and they admit to liking you but you dont think you like them in that way so now you’re freaking out and kinda having troubles breathing

[tiktokmuseum]

are men okay?

[siderealsandman]

NO

[zymomonasmobilis]

my husband told me, after many years of being together, that when he was about 7 a teacher used to single him out for being disrespectful at school. Apparently his disrespectful offense was “smirking” too much???? So he got punished for smiling???? And eventually just trained himself to stop smiling so this teacher would leave him alone???? And that’s why he has such a stoic facial expression now and can’t smile for photographs.

I had to.....privately cry after hearing that one

[thanos-the-dad-titan]

Wow

[themildestofwriters]

It’s the only way men are able to discuss their issues because society taught them that they shouldn’t burden people with their issues or that their issues are meaningless or that their issues aren’t actually a thing. Sharing anecdotes with friends is one way of talking about it, because they feel comfortable enough to share. At the same time, they might just not know that the event was traumatic because it’s trauma y’all.

[crownquill]

im-

[sammyofthesea]

Take this to be your reminder that men experience trauma too and need a safe space to talk about it. Be that safe space for your friends who are men

[vexie-chan]

-slams table- imma get shouty about this for a sec because YEAH.

I get my anxiety disorder from my father. But he wouldn't have panic attacks and cry or anything. He'd freeze up and go silent. My mom called him her "gentle giant." He was quiet, and only spoke after thinking carefully.

In his baby book, his parents had written that he was a crybaby and was overemotional for a boy. In his BABY BOOK. Where you write about your baby's firsts and memories. They fawned instead over his two rough and tumble brothers-real "boys will be boys" boys all of their growing up years.

So my dad learned to be quiet. To talk less. And to drink. And drink. And drink. Until he stopped feeling anxious or depressed. He used alcohol to be a functional human.

And he succeeded. He was a functional alcoholic. My siblings and I never knew what a huge problem he had. Because if he slurred a little or fell asleep watching TV, well, he worked 12 hour rotating shifts (meaning sometimes he worked all night instead of all day). But for a lot of my childhood, apparently, he had a good buzz going most of the time. That's how he dealt with anxiety and stress and life.

My father died this past March from liver cancer. He finally stopped drinking 4 years ago but it was too late. The damage was done.

And all I could think about when I said goodbye to my sensitive, gentle father who was so very like me, was how this could have been prevented if maybe instead of writing about how he was a crybaby in his baby book, if his parents had hugged him instead, like he'd hugged me during my panic attacks. If they'd talked to him like he talked to me. If they'd listened like he listened.

Men deserve emotions. Men deserve mental health care. Men deserve to be treated like fully rounded humans who need safety and comfort. Men deserve to be listened to.

And I will personally fight anyone who says otherwise.

[ultimatebottom69]

WE will FIGHT anyone who says otherwise.

[lumberjackloverboy-moved]

anyways this blog supports bisexual polyam people. you are not giving in to bisexual stereotypes by having multiple partners. you are not sexualizing your identity just by being in a relationship. you are allowed to exist and love as both

[violetshifting-deactivated20220]

SHIFTING MOTIVATION LET’S GOO

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imagine stargazing with your fav characters

imagine baking cookies together and messing everything up, then restarting all over again

imagine just waking up in your dr and being “ i did it! i finally did it!”

imagine doing everything you have dreamed of

imagine hugging your comfort characters

imagine all the fun things you can and will do!

imagine making a post titled “ I SHIFTED” and telling your friends all about your experiences

imagine just hanging out with the people you have been missing for so long

imagine finally going home

you can do it! i know you can :)

trust yourself!

go home! what are you waiting for?

111 222 333 444 555

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[violetshifting-deactivated20220]

should i do a voice reveal?

[violetshifting-deactivated20220]

i might sing-

hmm what do u guys think?

[violetshifting-deactivated20220]

ok that's me- don't laugh

( the guitar in the back is from this video)

[violetshifting-deactivated20220]

PLZ GUYS I NEED SOMEONE TO REASSURE THAT ITS GOOD HDJAJAJKA

[geeshifting]

WOWOWOWOWOWOW OKAY BUT YOUR VOICE IS SO PRETTY AHHHHH

THE HARMONIES AND JUST EVERYTHING SOUNDS SO GOOD AND AHHHHHH OMG THAT IS LITERALLY AMAZINGGG

[daddyjackfrost]

in case you needed it. because i did.

[ardxn-deactivated20210604]

shiftblr, reblog so I can find more moots!

[shiftingshiftingshifting]

How do you feel about people changing their gender in their dr?

honestly i don’t have much of a take on that one,,, i don’t think people do it that often so i don’t really hear about it that much but when i do hear about it it’s like trans ppl changing their appearance/sex to be assigned their true gender at birth or like genderfluid ppl making themselves shapeshifters although that’s not entirely the same thing

yeah i might rb this in the morning when i can actually think with something thoughtful i might not but so sorry if i’m not making any sense and that this isn’t super long, i’m going to bed in less than an hour so :)

[geeshifting]

Hi! I hope you don’t mind me adding onto this, personally I think (THINK) it’s alright, mainly because I myself am doing it for a certain dr. Lately I’ve really been questioning my gender identity, so I want to try out being a boy to see if I like it or not. I’m hoping this kinda answers(ish) why someone may do this and why it should be okay

[walkingbomb]

reminder to:

straighten your back

go pee goddAMN IT STOP HOLDING IT

go take your meds if you need to

drink some water

go get a snack if you havent eaten in a while

maybe wander around the house/stretch a little if you’ve been sat at the computer a while (artists especially: sTRETCH THOSE WRISTS)

reply to that text/message from earlier you’d forgotten about

maybe send a nice lil message to someone having a bad day?

[mouthfullofsxnd]

I just would like to thank everyone who ever reblogs this so that it somehow ends up back on my dash because I usually need the reminder (especially the drinking water one)

[tol-critter]

A reminder.