abled people need to get comfortable with disabled people not having the energy to "dress up"
the amount of backhanded comments I'd heard from my irl friends about how they really like the times where I wear things other than sweatpants and hoodies and I should really work on creating my own style is insane
there are some days where I have enough energy to wear the things I want to wear, but those are rare. they need to get used to that.















