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Abandoning your morals is disappointing. Abandoning your morals for a minor one-time role that will get you twenty minutes of screen time at best is humiliating

johann-gambolputty

actors and celebrities are not your friends

actors and celebrities are not activists

even when celebrities go on the record parroting the social justice mantras of the week, this doesn’t mean they believe them

actors care about their careers and more than (almost) anything else and no one in their right mind would turn down a role, however small, in what is shaping up to be an iconic and immensely successful show

if you truly believe in your cause, focus less on random people who don’t know you exist, and spend time actively helping your community

Is this the part where you pretend that jkr isn't funding anti-trans legislation and groups ?

ineverexisted3314

Anti trans groups like the 100s of female Afghani lawyers she saved from certain death at the hands of the Taliban? 😭

Why you are so invested in someone who is a sex criminal by british law (because thats what posting an upskirt of someone with the intention of humiliating them is) and who might have connections to epstein and who DOES have connection to predators like Marilynn Manson and Johnny Depp is beyond me

ineverexisted3314

Upskirt photo and it's a full frontal shot in a public space of a fetishistic man who chose to go on a stage with his ball sack out. I'm sorry, but you couldn't pay me to care about Freda Wallace. Mind you this is the same man who sent porn of himself to a disabled, nonverbal woman. Honestly, I WISH Rowling sexually humiliated that bozo the way ya'll claim she did 😭

And she cut ties with Johnny Depp once the allegations against him were proved in court of law, said nothing to support him in 2022, and the Marilyn association has long been debunked.

But have fun crashing out when the show is HBO's biggest hit since the Game of Thrones spinoff and all your attempts at coercing Normies in the real world into giving it up result in them laughing their ass off and telling ya'll it ain't 2016 no more (If I'm lucky they'll even spit at you among other things and the schadenfreude I receive after years of being forced to bite my tongue and pretend men can be lesbians on this hellsite at the risk of getting bombarded with anon hate and death threats will be so glorious 😁)

ineverexisted3314

Oh no I triggered it into blocking me. Guess I spit too many facts 😔

I've had 3 different ones of your abuser fans block me before I could even respond to their drivel. Lol, even you didn't respond to my reply in the comments cause I shut you up. What's does that make my words ? Gospel ?

ineverexisted3314

I'm sorry. I know ur dragging me on a logical level but omg I have fans of my own? 🥺 Holy shit I finally reached Tumblr celeb status! I made it, bestie! I really did 😍 Thanks for letting me know. Talk about an ego boost! 😁

Abandoning your morals is disappointing. Abandoning your morals for a minor one-time role that will get you twenty minutes of screen time at best is humiliating

johann-gambolputty

actors and celebrities are not your friends

actors and celebrities are not activists

even when celebrities go on the record parroting the social justice mantras of the week, this doesn’t mean they believe them

actors care about their careers and more than (almost) anything else and no one in their right mind would turn down a role, however small, in what is shaping up to be an iconic and immensely successful show

if you truly believe in your cause, focus less on random people who don’t know you exist, and spend time actively helping your community

Is this the part where you pretend that jkr isn't funding anti-trans legislation and groups ?

ineverexisted3314

Anti trans groups like the 100s of female Afghani lawyers she saved from certain death at the hands of the Taliban? 😭

Why you are so invested in someone who is a sex criminal by british law (because thats what posting an upskirt of someone with the intention of humiliating them is) and who might have connections to epstein and who DOES have connection to predators like Marilynn Manson and Johnny Depp is beyond me

ineverexisted3314

Upskirt photo and it's a full frontal shot in a public space of a fetishistic man who chose to go on a stage with his ball sack out. I'm sorry, but you couldn't pay me to care about Freda Wallace. Mind you this is the same man who sent porn of himself to a disabled, nonverbal woman. Honestly, I WISH Rowling sexually humiliated that bozo the way ya'll claim she did 😭

And she cut ties with Johnny Depp once the allegations against him were proved in court of law, said nothing to support him in 2022, and the Marilyn association has long been debunked.

But have fun crashing out when the show is HBO's biggest hit since the Game of Thrones spinoff and all your attempts at coercing Normies in the real world into giving it up result in them laughing their ass off and telling ya'll it ain't 2016 no more (If I'm lucky they'll even spit at you among other things and the schadenfreude I receive after years of being forced to bite my tongue and pretend men can be lesbians on this hellsite at the risk of getting bombarded with anon hate and death threats will be so glorious 😁)

ineverexisted3314

Oh no I triggered it into blocking me. Guess I spit too many facts 😔

Abandoning your morals is disappointing. Abandoning your morals for a minor one-time role that will get you twenty minutes of screen time at best is humiliating

johann-gambolputty

actors and celebrities are not your friends

actors and celebrities are not activists

even when celebrities go on the record parroting the social justice mantras of the week, this doesn’t mean they believe them

actors care about their careers and more than (almost) anything else and no one in their right mind would turn down a role, however small, in what is shaping up to be an iconic and immensely successful show

if you truly believe in your cause, focus less on random people who don’t know you exist, and spend time actively helping your community

Is this the part where you pretend that jkr isn't funding anti-trans legislation and groups ?

ineverexisted3314

Anti trans groups like the 100s of female Afghani lawyers she saved from certain death at the hands of the Taliban? 😭

Why you are so invested in someone who is a sex criminal by british law (because thats what posting an upskirt of someone with the intention of humiliating them is) and who might have connections to epstein and who DOES have connection to predators like Marilynn Manson and Johnny Depp is beyond me

ineverexisted3314

Upskirt photo and it's a full frontal shot in a public space of a fetishistic man who chose to go on a stage with his ball sack out. I'm sorry, but you couldn't pay me to care about Freda Wallace. Mind you this is the same man who sent porn of himself to a disabled, nonverbal woman. Honestly, I WISH Rowling sexually humiliated that bozo the way ya'll claim she did 😭

And she cut ties with Johnny Depp once the allegations against him were proved in court of law, said nothing to support him in 2022, and the Marilyn association has long been debunked.

But have fun crashing out when the show is HBO's biggest hit since the Game of Thrones spinoff and all your attempts at coercing Normies in the real world into giving it up result in them laughing their ass off and telling ya'll it ain't 2016 no more (If I'm lucky they'll even spit at you among other things and the schadenfreude I receive after years of being forced to bite my tongue and pretend men can be lesbians on this hellsite at the risk of getting bombarded with anon hate and death threats will be so glorious 😁)

sapphicfebfem-deactivated202402

Fetishism of gays is totes fine now, I guess. 😬

So in other words…never question straight men’s behavior because they could be poor little transfems even if they don’t identify that way

ineverexisted3314

But Rowling was definitely just being a hateful bigot when she said that a lot of men troon out as a way to be openly misogynistic with zero backlash

#and no you can't fetishize lesbians in a non-misogynistic way if you're a man

teenage girls in fiction: hes so cute i wanna slow dance with him at prom :3 hehe

real teenage girls: imagine if he got injured and i had to tend to his wounds and i could watch him seize up a bit as i disinfect them and in the haze of fever he sees me as an angel

womansohe4rtless

new phoebe album sucks dick i’ve heard more gut wrenching lyrics on fakemink songs

ineverexisted3314

This was her karma for being a TRA handmaiden. The worst thing any artist can do for their talent is mentally enslave themselves to an ideology because the best art exists independently of ideology. Even if you ain't overly preachy about it, that shit will always result in your work's quality declining from when before you drank the Kool-Aid

aplacetobesullen

When I was homeless, my situation was worsened by the shelter being mixed sex. I made it clear to the counselors that I was being harassed so much and uncomfortable that I chose to sleep in my car instead. I was met with silence. Single sex spaces are important for the most vulnerable of women that society utterly forgets. And we won't forget how you let us down.

ineverexisted3314

It's not a coincidence that the biggest female cheerleaders of gender ideology are upper-class women who's money and ability to afford private services will most likely insulate them from the brunt of making every female-specific area in the public sphere open to men. In the same way "sex work is work" libfems want to make sure that gross incels will always have access to an underclass of women they can count on to get their rocks off so long as they got some cash, TRA handmaidens want to ensure that their precious troons will always have access to lower-class women (who actually rely on the services/ resources they're so desperate to colonize) for use as validation fodder to the point where their perverted selves never feel compelled to rely on them for narcissistic supply instead.

Just goes to show that for all that they claim to care about "making things inclusive for transwomen" they don't want to be the ones involved in doing any of the heavy lifting for said inclusion

ineverexisted3314

Having your mental state be heavily contingent on women acquiescing to your every whim is one of the biggest indicators of a porn addict in men and I'm not even joking.

But it's definitely not a fetish tho

see more on webtoon at Queer Comics

cisthoughtcrime

luckily woman ≠ femininity! hope this helps

when you look at comics like this, it feels so bizarre that we should change the language, policies and laws of medical institutions, universities, governments and overall media, just to validate these ponderings that a random person has over their own personality.

why the fuck should we care as a whole society if you think you are not personally into the word "she"? why the fuck should we think it says something profound about you AND the rest of us if you do not quite care about feminine things?

why is your infantile definition of womanhood as a "feminine" being the one that the rest of us have to go by, or else we risk losing our jobs?

ineverexisted3314

Do they not realize that "not feeling like how a woman is supposed to" is something only a woman can experience? Not enjoying having your femaleness acknowledged is something only a woman can experience? Wishing that you were anything but a woman is something only a woman can experience? And the implication that 'normal women' just love femininity and have never once found it uncomfortable, restrictive, or degrading in a world where most of us are coerced into performing it from childhood whether we like it or not is so damn dehumanizing?

I've been told that my contempt/ lack of sympathy for tifs and guiltless excitement to see them suffer in old age in the form of some well-deserved Karma for being class traitors once the health complications/ Alzheimers rack up to a point where it's impossible for them to pretend that they're anything but female eunuchs is antithetical to feminism but it's really really hard to feel any sort of camaraderie for anyone who is so brazenly barenaked about their contempt for other women

Isn’t it interesting how a form of privilege (being rich or white) will cancel out a form of oppression (misogyny) when it comes to women, but when it comes to men, it's the opposite? A form of oppression (being poor, disabled, gay, black, etc) will cancel out a form of privilege (being a man)? 🤔🤔🤔

ineverexisted3314

Shitlibs love treating marginalized men like Gods and "High-status" women as acceptable scapegoats to dehumanize into punching-bags for the class-resentment they're too cowardly to levvy at their male counterparts.

you knew it still hurts underneath my scars from when they pulled me apart, but what you did was just as dark

stood-onthecliffside

ineverexisted3314

Calling it right now. This coworker was a TiM. This kind of sex-pestery just ain't the sort of thing a bio woman does much less reveal in a professional setting unprompted.

#That or she's just a CSA survivor using casual sex as a form of self harm

eraserheadadult

the situation with harry potter is kind of unprecedented in some ways imo because it is maybe the largest media franchise in history to be created & owned by a single person who still has direct creative control over it. who is also a billionaire with significant cultural/political influence. like the usual "no ethical consumption under capitalism" type excuses shatter on impact when the bigoted author in question is logging onto twitter every day saying explicitly that when you buy the tim hortons ravenclaw donut she is using your donut money to fund the genocide of trans people. like with big franchises usually there's at least a little more diffusion of responsibility than this

gendiebrainrotreceipts

Op will unironically say ‘Genocide of trans people’ when what she puts her money towards is literally just women’s rights and protections. Feels disingenuous and inappropriate to fearmonger and misuse a word like genocide and idk feels maybe even heavily misogynistic to frame women’s rights as evil and bigoted hm idk

yeah right she is "explicitly" saying that she is going to fund the genocide of trans people. like WHY is the entire trans movement so heavily reliant on such obvious lies, even ones that can be fact-checked in less than a second?? do you really mean to tell me there isn't anything else of substance in your activism? one might think that if you actually had something meaningful to argue about, you wouldn't have to resort to something as black-and-white wrong as this?

how can any of this even benefit you?

how do you not see the damage you are doing to your own movement?

ineverexisted3314

Honestly, I don't even think they're considering the optics at this point. They just want the cartoonish lies they spread about Rowling to become absorbed into her mainstream narrative to the point where it becomes career suicide for any public figure who isn't a conservative to associate with her. Bullies always want their victims isolated after all.

#they just want to destroy her reputation by any means necessary

pangur-and-grim

I was talking with a friend yesterday about how dog-piling can disincentivize people from doing what is ostensibly being asked for (taking accountability, apologizing, promising to make changes to future behaviour, etc). which sucks, because there are probably well intentioned people out there who deserve all three of those things, but any sort of Statement just ends up dumping gasoline on the fire.

this is because: you are giving the worst people involved the attention they want, you're giving them Fresh Drama Content, and you're letting them know that you can be made to do things. it's not in their interest to say "alright, you've worded things a bit clumsily, but you're on the right track and we think you mean well," because that ends the party.

and if you're thinking, who cares about what randos on tumblr say, your main concern should be acting in accordance to your morals – WELL! if you're a creative whose income is tied to your online reputation, these sorts of campaigns can directly impact your ability to pay bills. which can be very, very scary. and if you're any flavour of marginalized, you probably came onto a site like tumblr seeking community, and the thought of losing that community can be painful. in these cases, the best way to survive a dog-piling is "grey-rocking", or making yourself as boring and non-reactive as possible until their attention shifts to other targets. which means no statements.

so just to summarize: you are rewarded for ignoring everything, and heavily punished for apologizing and taking accountability, and yes, that is fucked up.

fearlessfeministcat

Tired of people pretending that auto-gynephilia is like this really extreme thing that literally never happens. There was literally a case a while back of a doctor AMPUTATIMG HIS LEGS AND THE LEGS OF OTHERS, as part of a fetish. People can comprehend that men will go to extreme lengths to harm women, but putting on a dress, wig and makeup. No no no that too fsr even for the evil men they would never do that.

ineverexisted3314

AGP is literally just standard male sexuality taken to an unrestrained extreme regardless of sexual orientation. It's why literally every single Queen to ever appear on Drag Race is a vicious transactivist. Almost all of them are crossdressing fetishists who found a way to make bank off their nasty ass hobby and they recognize TiMs as fellow perverts who they see themselves in.

foreverinhighschool

Why do women oppose radfem ideology so much, like what has liberal feminism even offered.

thetigerstrikes

Women oppose radfem ideology because it’s incredibly toxic and close minded. Radfem ideology often wants to take away a women’s choice to do what they want simply because a man might like it when a woman does that thing (such as shaving, wearing makeup, having kinks, ect) Often radfem ideology doesn’t take into account the fact that people are different and that they grow up with diffrent experiences. So this idea that all women should want the same things is just incredibly ridiculous.

And this is coming from a women who also doesn’t agree with liberal feminism. Modern feminism as a whole is deeply flawed and not something I agree with. I don’t like being painted a victim of everything just because I’m a woman.

notable-spinster

When have radfems ever advocated for women’s rights being restricted? Yes, radfems have critiqued makeup and shaving culture, but I don’t think any radfem woman would say that women should be forced or pressured to not shave or wear make up, you know, like the opposite of what actually happens in real like where women ARE forced and pressured to do those things

thetigerstrikes

I’ve seen countless radfems shame women who enjoy wearing make up or shaving. “You cant be empowered by make up or shaving or dressing up because that’s what the patriarchy wants you to do.” is a statement I’ve seen multiple times from radfems.

At least libfems realize that women find empowerment in these things because they choose to do them for themselves and no one else.

notable-spinster

Saying that something objectively isn’t empowering isn’t forcing you to stop doing it…. are women getting fired or passed over at work for wearing make up? Harassed in public for their decision to shave?

Wearing makeup doesn’t give you power. It just doesn’t. That doesn’t mean you can’t do it, but I’m not going to throw you are party for conforming, and that’s why people don’t like radfems I guess 🤷‍♀️

thetigerstrikes

Here is the thing though, you don’t get to pick and choose what other women find empowering. If you personally don’t find wearing make up or shaving or anything like that empowering then that’s fine, but that doesn’t mean that other women think the same was as you.

People don’t like radfems because you constantly mock and belittle anyone that doesn’t agree with you, especially other women. You like to pretend that you are better then everyone when in reality you’re just bitter and awful.

notable-spinster

We clearly mean different things when we say empowerment. I’m using the traditional definition. A thing is empowering if it gives you power.

What you’re talking about is confidence. Which, sure, different things make different women feel confident. But that has nothing to do with feminism? Individual women feeling confident isn’t going to dismantle patriarchy, because patriarchy is not caused by women’s insecurity.

So, again, as a feminist, my focus is not on what makes individual women feel good. What I care about is the liberation of all women. I don’t wear makeup, and it’s not because I “feel empowered” when I don’t. It’s because the beauty industry is terrible to women and I want as little of my money going to it as possible.

Radfems aren’t going to give you a cookie for making choices that make you feel good, but don’t do anything to liberate women. Honestly, if you have free choices you’re more privileged than most women, and you should probably spend more time thinking about how to help them, rather than which choice makes you feel most confident.

If you’re not bitter, you’re not paying attention to what’s happening to women.

tigers-in-the-desert-deactivate

This. So much.

Feeling good =/= empowerment

u-eat-people-ur-a-people-eater

Being able to waltz into a women’s room, being housed with women in prison/psych wards, or getting referred to by female pronouns is power when you’re a man and already have most of the power.

evenlesssentimentaltranslator

”I don’t like being painted a victim of everything just because I’m a woman” yeah well I don’t like reading news articles about women being victims of violence just because they’re women

ineverexisted3314

100%. Just because you're too cowardly to acknowledge that being a woman in a man's world makes you extremely vulnerable to violence, medical abuse, and sexual/ reproductive exploitation doesn't mean the rest of us have to bury our heads in the sand and pretend that shit ain't fucking wack.

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