Let's look at the clouds today.

DNI if you're under 19, please. In my 20's. Be careful, there are triggers!

[insomnialya]

DO NOT INTERACT if you're under 19. If you're sexist, racist, queerphobe, ableist.

You can call me Alya.

There will be adult topics on this blog, as well as topics that may upset and/or trigger some people. I will try to tag all posts correctly, tell me if I need to add or correct anything.

I don't always review blogs from which I reblog, tell me if I've reblogged someone problematic.

NOT a terf, NOT a swerf (but I criticize the industry and hate the "clients", I support decriminalization.) and actually not even a radfem.

English is not my native language, you can point out any mistakes.

[insomnialya]

TW SA apologism

Fuck it I'm starting a blocklist lol.

I fucking hate r@pe apologists.

[insomnialya]

Under 19 DNI, CW porn mention

The day I had to filter "trans" tag because Tumblr keeps showing me fucking porn in "popular now" under that tag and I don't fucking know how to hide "popular now" 💀☠️

[insomnialya]

Lol every proshipper comment on this site is just victim blaming/victim shaming. Why can't they ever be normal about the victims?

[insomnialya]

TW CSA

Some people feel way too comfortable defending CSA material, seriously. Like, dude, it is should be banned, and the adult who writes romanticized CSA should go to jail for the safety of children. It's literally just common sense. And guess what, that post got 150K notes... fucking pedo site.

Report and block, please

[everybodysinvited]

Consent = F.R.I.E.S.🍟

Consent! What is it and what does it look like? There are many aspects to giving consent, it's not just about saying "yes", so why not use the acronym 'FRIES' to remind yourself of all the things to consider when giving or asking for consent.

F - Consent is Freely given: you should never pressure, coerce or force someone into saying yes to something, this is not consent. You must respect when someone says no. You should feel confident and happy when you consent to any activity with your partner(s).

R - Consent is reversible: it is okay to consent to something and then change your mind, if you're not comfortable, say so and ask to stop. If your partner changes their mind on something you should respect their choice, and if they are willing, have a conversation about their decision.

I - Consent is informed: you should know what exactly you are consenting to and your partner(s) should too. It's good to discuss specifics beforehand and what you're both comfortable with.

E - Consent is enthusiastic: when someone is giving consent consider their tone and body language. Do they sound happy, upbeat and are they being proactive? Or do they sound hesitant, reluctant or closed-off?

S - Consent is specific: when someone says yes to one activity, it does not mean they consent to other activities. If someone has consented to something in the past, it does not mean that they have consented to doing that activity again in the future, you need renewed consent.

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[insomnialya]

Still have a fucking insomnia like for few years already probably 4 whole years man I need help

[insomnialya]

I'm alive bitches boo 👻

[insomnialya]

I don't really like new music, to be honest. I mean, I like some of it, but I used to like it a lot more in the past. Like, a lot of new music seems so fake to me, you know? Like most singers these days are singing like they do it more for the money than from their soul, you know? Their music feels less and less alive? Am I the only one who thinks like that?

[insomnialya]

Cw porn mention or smth

the hell I can see porn in "popular now" when my settings are set so that such content is hidden from me.

[justnoodlefishthings]

"Coca-Cola made an AI ad!"

"McDonald's releases AI Christmas commercial!!"

Don't care didn't ask plus here's a beautifully animated ad for a French supermarket that was made by actual artists

[insomnialya]

The last place I expected to see the normalization of sexual coercion was on fucking WikiHow. What do you mean, paid sexual interactions? That's not freely given consent. Which means this is not consent at all.

And what the hell do you mean, "don't be rude or judgmental when they're actively trying to push it on you, they might be very lonely"? That's harassment and sexual coercion. The hell, Wikihow....

[quindlepoons]

Please help my friend rescue her daughter from her abusive piece of shit husband

Hello, I don't normally post on here, but I'm in a desperate situation and need community support.

Emily has just escaped from her horribly abusive husband and is now fighting desperately to rescue her 4-year-old daughter from him. He's already taken her and filed for custody before my friend got the chance to (we had literally just finalized the paperwork when she got the news). Now, we need to hire a lawyer and respond within 30 days. If she can't fight him in court then it's likely that he'll win sole custody of their daughter and will use that to continue to control and abuse both of them until her daughter is old enough to leave him.

I am sure that she can win this case, but she has no money, and her husband has rich parents who are covering his legal fees. We need enough funding to keep fighting however long it takes for the courts to realize just how full of shit he is.

Please follow this link to her GoFundMe, read her full story, and donate if you can, even if it’s just $5 or $10. If you’re unable to donate, then please share this story so we can get as many eyes on it as possible. Thank you!

[cloudstarwalking]

TW animal abuse, zooph*lia

REPORT AND BLOCK.

Their blog -> @pocket-deer-belly

[insomnialya]

I still remember how we had a male teacher who tried to start sexual/suggestive conversations and jokes with us when we were like 14 or 15 years old. And once, he also randomly stroked one of the girls' hand, and no one did anything about it. But if a female teacher was spotted by students' parents on the beach in a swimsuit, it could get to the point where she was called a pervert and even could be fired. Simply for wearing a swimsuit on the beach, yes....

[quindlepoons]

Please help my friend rescue her daughter from her abusive piece of shit husband

Hello, I don't normally post on here, but I'm in a desperate situation and need community support.

Emily has just escaped from her horribly abusive husband and is now fighting desperately to rescue her 4-year-old daughter from him. He's already taken her and filed for custody before my friend got the chance to (we had literally just finalized the paperwork when she got the news). Now, we need to hire a lawyer and respond within 30 days. If she can't fight him in court then it's likely that he'll win sole custody of their daughter and will use that to continue to control and abuse both of them until her daughter is old enough to leave him.

I am sure that she can win this case, but she has no money, and her husband has rich parents who are covering his legal fees. We need enough funding to keep fighting however long it takes for the courts to realize just how full of shit he is.

Please follow this link to her GoFundMe, read her full story, and donate if you can, even if it’s just $5 or $10. If you’re unable to donate, then please share this story so we can get as many eyes on it as possible. Thank you!

[insomnialya]

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[insomniaaqueen-deactivated20251]

DNI if you're under 19.

Hey, so there's a dude who sexually harasses minors, admits he doesn't regret it + he is ableist. Please report him.

@uncle-beanbag-gaming <- his blog.