remember turninghoziest? I returned. sorry, mom.

marlon | they/them | 25+ | putting the t in butch

[lesbeansoups]

Welcome to my blog!

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About:

you can call me Marlon or Soup

My pronouns are they/them 🏳️‍⚧️

I'm 25+ years old but have the hobbies and aesthetic of an 80 year-old 🧶🦆

your local butch and #butch4butch lover.

I'm swiss and might post in one of our national languages from time to time (french, italian, german). You can filter the tags #french stuff #italian stuff and #german stuff.

As figures, english is not my primary language and I might mix up spellings and switch from UK grammar to US in the middle of sentences.

I used to be pretty active on here and came back in 2024. Here's all the lore behind my old blog, I archive my old posts under the tag #turninghoziest archive

Interactions:

Tone indicators are always appreciated. Be as blunt as necessairy and as nice as possible.

I might come across as reserved or blunt without intending to do so. If you're unsure about my tone, please ask me.

If I fuck up, feel free to let me know and give me the opportunity to learn from my mistakes. As a white, perisex, middleclass person, I'm shaped by my upbringing and still unlearning a lot of bs.

You're more than welcome to infodump in my inbox and share whatever brings you joy with me! Doesn't matter if I know anything about it!!

I don't think DNI do much but just to be clear: terfs and radfems can suck my t dick. Men are welcome, esp. trans men <3 If you're under 18, you're not my target audience and I ask you not to message me.

Boundaries regarding asks from people I don't follow:

As a trans and neurodivergent person, I need to set some boundaries. A lot of cis and questioning folks expect outed trans people to not only educate them, but also to welcome unprompted questions about our identity and experience. So let me be clear:

This is my personal blog. I'm not a digital educator. If you want me to take on the labour of educating you, a stranger on the internet, pay me. My life experience and expertise are not your free resource. There are many capable educators online that have the information you're looking for and are willing to educate you.

I am not a therapist and can't give you medical advice about transitioning or getting diagnosed with Autism or ADHD. Again, I don't know you or your context. Talk to someone who does.

Current interests:

Hozier

decolonial ecology + coloniality of gender

Dropout.tv (Dimension 20)

DnD

Knitting

Roller Derby

Butches + Butch4Butch <3

Birds and bugs

Happy scrolling!! 🫶🏻

Trans stuff <3

Interview with the vampire and the vampire Lestat

[manuciruja]

awww the like button turns into a rainbow when you press it! that's so cute...hey staff what's with all the trans women you keep nuking?

[manuciruja]

i think we should be ridiculing them more for this. you don't get to try and go all "queer website" when your staff likes to go on nuking sprees targeting the trans fem users

[interestingmistakes]

Reblogging this manually. Op doesn't want credit for fear of being terminated.

[creatingblackcharacters]

Remember when Lil Nas X beautifully explored his sexuality, seduced and killed the devil to the banger of all time, and instead of cheering on this openly gay and proud Black artist for his artistry and fighting back against respectability politics, suddenly said respectability politics was all the Queerest Place on the Internet cared about? Hm. Wonder what happened there.

Anyway I miss him and hope he's doing better with his mental health 🙏🏾

[creatingblackcharacters]

Like say what you want about "bad queer representation", but this was the song that made me openly and happily accept that I was bisexual. To see him up there Black and beautiful, making music that I love, absolutely killing it? Yeah. You couldn't tell me shit. This man made me proud to be out. "This will make them think we're evil for being gay" hey newsflash dawg-

[cilantrhoes]

[itsbeeugaymers]

can I reblog for both?

[six-sox]

I’m reblogging for both

[moghedien]

I feel like I need to share this because idk if Europeans are familiar with the presence of Aldi in the US, but at least especially in my area they’ve been growing a lot recently. Like Aldi bought out some local failing grocery chains where I live (Louisiana) and have opened Aldis in all these somewhat rural communities and small towns, which for the record I’m fine with

But as a result of this they are advertising a lot more in my area and also in many cases, the people in these areas have never been confronted with Aldi or any European grocery store. So the ads that Aldi is pushing out to its new US customer base feature a cowboy shopping at Aldi who is explaining to new Aldi customers how Aldi works. Like this cowboy is explaining you gotta put a quarter in the shopping cart and why there are very little name brands. A cowboy is how they want to reach their American customer base. They gave us a cowboy

[moghedien]

Here he is, the Aldi Cowboy

[victusinveritas]

Meet Pando, not a forest but a single tree. Every trunk of the Quaking Aspen is genetically identical & connected by a single 80,000 year old root system, making it one of the largest and oldest living entities on Earth!

[foone]

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to walk through the body of a God?

[carmelia-rose]

@derinthescarletpescatarian

[thememedaddy]

[yasmin1000000]

“So basically my couch has electricity and I use it to charge my battery powered doorbell”

“Okay that makes sense”

[la-reine-du-disco]

Now explain it to a Japanese samurai from the year 1218

[rui-cifer]

"do you know how waterwheels grind up grain in a water mill using the force of running water? We found a way to create a huge source of force that runs all the time and can transfer its force over long distance. I can tell you in more detail, but that's the basics. Now that is a chime that has a mechanism that one can press instead of having to open the door to let you know that you are waiting to be let in. It requires the transferred force to make the mechanism work and that wire is how we transfer the force to the chime."

[sizhens-deactivated20250415]

[mediocrefantasy]

i love these sort of posts because they feel like a vision of a kinder and more thoughtful world that I wish more than anything was the mainstream instead of the exception

[supermariomamafucker]

Lets all suck on glass together and make the aquarium clean for everyone

[lobsterenthusiastt]

duality of man

[big-ender]

walking around with a sword in the mall

[sleepy-raccoon-arts]

Building an army of cookies with magical powers

[ev1lgoob]

extracting machines that are definitely not OSHA approved

[alternas-navigation-system]

stalking

[shadow-milk-cookie-offical]

Dang this is hard. Trespassing I think

[realgayofhyperdeath]

Killing the sun

[the-semicolonoscopy]

It’s Pride Month Eve, so leave out some milk for Freddie Mercury and his cats.

[grymmoires]

[inexplicably-gaining-followers]

This stupid exchange between friends has become a cultural icon.

[the-haiku-bot]

This stupid exchange

between friends has become a

cultural icon.

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

[gonsplode]

[a-book-of-creatures]

Mutuals feel free to pick me up and drop me off in front of prime real estate that’s all mine

I will be scared but I will appreciate it

[emjoy398]

[birds-in-posts]

Burrowing owl (Athene cunicularia)

[logogreffe]

Je pense en effet ne jamais avoir dit ça de ma vie...

[jerreeeeeee]

not every mutual fits neatly into an archetypal medievalism but there are some mutuals that im like yeah addressing you as “my liege” would come strangely naturally

[jerreeeeeee]

what mutual is prev

my liege lord

my loyal knight

my wise wizard

my evil advisor

my brother in arms

my lady muse

my wild mermaid friend

my fellow alchemist

my dashing rapscallion

my monstrous foe

Remaining time: 2 days 13 hours

[fluoresensitives]

Women stick thin and malnourished on the red carpet, and people are saying you can't point out that these women are dying because that's body shaming. Girl.

[doctordaemon]

@whitenikes

[ryan-sometimes]

LMAOOOO

[furnishedfurnace]

"I have a problem with my trans son. Not because he's trans, but because he inhaled all our food like fucking Kirby."