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my life isnt perfect but at least im not doing a mans laundry
see the thing is shane WOULD have mysterious powers and never know it because they just don't coincide with his hockey career. like i easily see him as being able to control the weather or something and he just doesnt gaf. the games are all indoors anyway so he doesnt care or know why it always happens to storm like crazy after the metros lose no matter where they are or what season it is. thats got nothing to do with him!
I'm certain that he has the power to turn water into ginger ale. But he won't do it in public of course, so it like never comes up. Until like 5 years into their marriage where Ilya's like oh no we're out of ginger ale and Shane's just like okay I'll make some.
He walks in with a glass of ginger ale and Ilya's like oh was there a can after all?
Shane's sipping and settling in on the couch like no I made it. Shh the game is starting.
I've remarked that Carter Vaughn isn't the perfect ally. He means well, and deserves credit for that. At the same time, it's important to acknowledge that it was problematic of him to automatically assume that Shane's figure skater friend was "probably gay" just because the guy was a figure skater. He has some stereotypes he needs to unlearn.
That said,
He called gay athletes brave, where his teammates could hear him, and he showed up to cheer for an athlete he believed was gay as a gesture of solidarity. That's way more than any of the other straight guys in the show were willing to do. That automatically makes him a better ally than Marleau or Pike or any of the other straight dudes who said nothing and did nothing to uplift queer people.
Not one single other straight character in the show made a point of verbally expressing support for queer athletes in front of his teammates/friends.
We can "headcanon" other characters as queer allies, but Carter Vaughn is the only canon queer ally.
Book!Hayden was quick to reassure Shane that he was cool with Shane being gay after Shane came out, but he had nothing to say on the subject before Shane came out. Maybe he never threw around the word "cocksucker" in the locker room the way J.J. did, but he never told J.J. to stop either.
The support Carter Vaughn offered may have been imperfect, but at least it actually was support, and not silence.
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I just feel like it's sometimes a little too easy for people in fandom to project perfect allyship onto characters who haven't actually done any allyship at all, while simultaneously over-scrutinizing characters who make a real effort to be allies, just because they didn't do it perfectly.
It's a little too easy to pick apart characters like Carter Vaughn for not going about support in the right way, and then turn around and assume that characters like Marleau would do better in the same situation, when it's just as likely they'd do worse, or they'd do nothing.
So, I've been reading along with a reheat with my IRL friend who is also obsessed, trying to understand the choices Jacob Tierney made in his incredible adaptation, and to see if there are any patterns, and it's really interesting, because there are some very systematic adjustments he made to the tone of the story.
Here's what I've noticed:
There is a lot more actual rivalry in the book, and a lot more negative emotion in general. Both Shane and Ilya have inner voices rife with internalised homophobia, and Jacob did not bring that to his show. The rivalry never feels heated, and their sex scenes feel very pure -- two boys who want each other making each other feel good. They hide it because their world would not understand, but they don't seem at all ashamed of it.
He makes almost all the dialogue shorter, more conversational and more effiicient. It feels like it's exactly what you remember from the book, but it seldom is. It's enough to feel faithful, but it's much sharper, and in some cases, very different in tone. For example:
He cuts almost all of Ilya's dirty talk. Ilya is always saying things like "look at you" or "you love it Hollander" or similar while Shane is sucking his dick or something, and JT's Ilya does not say anything like that. His Ilya is gentler and kinder, and most of what he says is checking in with Shane, or expressing stunned disbelief at being desired so voraciously by Shane, and Connor's performance shows that Ilya is entirely disarmed by Shane. He has nothing to say -- he's too lost sensation and emotion.
The one scene where Ilya is a bit less careful with Shane is in Vegas after Ilya wins MVP, but even that, he changes to make it more emotional. Look at this:
Instead of Shane saying "You. Fuck me. Please." JT has Shane say what Ilya really, truly wants to hear -- not that he needs Ilya to fuck him, but that he NEEDS ILYA. "I need you" and "Fuck me" are very different things to say to that character, and in a scene where Ilya is trying to distance himself from Shane because he's starting to realise that his feelings might not be as easy breezy as he'd like, and he's going back to Russia soon is such a bigger gut punch.
I love how that scene ends with Ilya dissociating with an unlit cigarette in his mouth -- a nice callback to the way his lighter only sparks in the first scene in Ep 1 when Shane arrives to introduce himself -- while Shane mourns the fact that they didn't kiss.
I love that he moved "Please fuck me" to the scene when Ilya knows Shane loves him, knows he needs him and wants him, for real, and forever, and that it's in that context that Shane asks to be fucked.
That whole scene at the cottage after they tell each other they love each other is entirely rewritten. The sex they have is really gentle and intimate and all about eye contact and emotional nakedness, but in the book Ilya's being more dominating and sceney.
In the show, it's Ilya who asks Shane how they let this happen, and Shane who says they were both very stupid and irresponsible, and it's Ilya who asks Shane if it's real -- who can't believe Shane loves him. More importantly, though, I feel like Jacob's adaptation threads that emotion through every scene in the show.
Ilya does say "She would have loved you", but he doesn't say "Like I love you." I think it's so moving the way love is linked to their mothers in the show -- Shane saying to Ilya "I love you so much" which is echoed by Yuna, when she says to Shane "Oh, I love you too. So much" and this line which tells you that Ilya, whose treatment of Shane from the start has been so tender and so loving, also learned that from his mother. I love the loving, gentle role of the women in HR.
All of Jacob Tierney's women are full characters with their own motivations and lives and all of them are so kind and important in the journey. A lot of people cry misogyny just because it's a story about men, but it's a story about men that is very much in the interests of anti-patriarchy, and they way JT improved on how Rachel Reid wrote the women deserves its own whole post.
Anyway. Loving my Heated Rivalry book club.
It's fascinating to me that HR's TV show is often praised as such a faithful adaptation when to me there is a monumental difference in that TV Shane and Ilya like each other right from the start. They're rivals in a playful, exhilarating, joyful way (as you say, OP). In a different world, they would have been friends. Whereas for book Shane and Ilya, the vibe is more, "Ugh, I can't believe I'm into this guy." I just find it fascinating that on one level an adaptation can be so faithful (in terms of preserving exact scenes, lines, and details) while on another level, in my opinion, transforming the heart of the story.
IM GONNA THROW UP THE WAY SHANE TURNS HIS HEAD IN LOVE WHEN THEY NOSE BOOP UGH. UGHHH
some giddy ilya for 🩷 rae @blushingrozy 🩷 #neverinlifehasheblushed
Imagining up a story where Shane DOES go to Wimbledon. And there's a Swedish princess sitting on one side of him, but on his other side is the son of a Russian oligarch. Ilya is there to be a handsome face and create good PR in advance of his father's company's expansion into Canada
Neither Ilya nor Shane gives a shit about tennis so they end up sipping champagne while whispering to each other and then texting increasingly judgy remarks about other people. Their little secret. In the evening they go back to Ilya's fabulous hotel room where Ilya drunkenly tells Shane about how he hates his father's company and would do anything to escape his life. And then they hook up of course and Shane has his flint of desire
Shane goes back to Montreal but can't forget this blazing bright memory. Ilya says it's not safe to text while he's back in Russia but once Ilya has come to Canada for preliminary meetings, they see each other again . . .
That's all the clear ideas I have but of course in the end Ilya ends up preventing his dad's company from expanding into Canada and they get married 💖
Heated Rivalry — 1x02 ⤷ VEGAS BATHROOM
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your assigned ilya of the day is having one of the worst days of his life, but fortunately.. teeny tiny forehead curl
Boston places: Influential Men chapter 14
This is a series of posts about Boston locations that might be interesting to readers of my Heated Rivalry fic Influential Men! This one might also be of interest to any HR writers with stories focused on the Boston Bears/Raiders.
This post is about the Boston Bruins practice rink, the development it's in, and the phenomenon of luxury apartment construction in Boston in the time period of this fic (2018-ish). There are no spoilers for the fic in this post.
the softest anyone's ever been ever
Shane flirting w Carter Vaughn really is such a juicy little subplot of the whole show.. he loves a charisma magnet w curly hair and 1 Stanley cup that's his gay kryptonite
Like no he really does light up every time Carter talks to him or squeezes him except for that one time when Carter emotionally shot him w a gun in sochi but even then he still makes sure to sit next to him in the stands (NOT dinosaur Scott hunter) and yk there's even a part of Shane that's like "omg he likes gay people😍😍😍😍" and ALSO that part of Shane really was 25 and flirty and thriving in tampa
ilya leaving shane on read the night they were supposed to meet at his place for the first time was so wrong of him
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5 Things to Know About Hockey or Figure Skates
1. Skates are not "knife shoes"
An extremely important thing to know about skates is that they have two edges per blade. Like this (poor drawing I did in 10 seconds in Word):
The edges are super important—you want to have deep, clean edges, meaning (roughly) that you are able to lean your body to the side and balance on one edge rather than both. So I don't think people who skate conceptualize of their skates as "knife shoes" at all, because it's simply not a knife-type blade.
Boston places: Influential Men Chapter 10
This is a series of posts about Boston locations that might be interesting to readers of my Heated Rivalry fic Influential Men!
This post is about Allston, a neighborhood that's at the edge of Boston. The only spoilers for the fic are the location and architecture of Ilya and Shane's homes and how they could get from one to another. :)