Evan

|| he/him || 23 || st4t intersex trans man 🏳️‍⚧️💜||

[liberalsarecool]

ACAB, good riddance.

The 'bad apples' self-selected.

[catchymemes]

[ruinedchildhood]

That's me!

[catchymemes]

[ruinedchildhood]

That's me!

[fishcrow]

You will suffer the curse of caw!

Share if you care to spread the curse even further! 

[amber-writhing]

Some thoughts.

Tip jar

[this-is-transandrophobia]

When I was in high school, there was a club for trans students, where we could eat lunch with other trans people, make friends, etc. It was supervised by two adults from a local queer youth center (one was a cis woman, one was a trans man)

At first, the club only had a few students. One trans girl, two trans men (one of which was me. I'm nonbinary now but thought I was a trans man at the time), and two nonbinary people AFAB. The club was initially exclusive, allowing ONLY trans students, and those who were questioning. We had other queer clubs that were more inclusive, ours was the only one that was specifically for genderqueer students

Eventually, we all decided that allies should be allowed. Almost immediately, our club was overrun by roughly a dozen TERFs, all of which were cis women. We tried to kick them out, but they told the principal we were trying to exclude them for being lesbians, so the club essentially became a terf club run by a cis woman and a trans man (neither of which approved this, but they were determined to still have a place for trans students to hang out during lunch, and tried to keep things as civil as possible)

One of the TERFs who raided the club admitted that she came up with the idea because she wanted all of the trans guys in the club to detransition and become lesbians for her to date

This is transandrophobia. And psyop ass bullshit.

[derekscorner]

Link: https://x.com/chibireviews/status/1958596243099460023?s=46

Might wanna research this or check your Google accounts. Shit may be getting worse.

[this-is-transandrophobia]

I don’t even know if i count in any of this discourse because i transitioned to a point of happy androgyny as a nonbinary person and experience both transmisogyny and transandrophobia. Is it just based on my genitalia at this point or what?

That would be exorsexism, but yeah people seem o forget that transandrophobia and transmisogyny affect literally everyone to different degrees.

[tboy-cock]

i was asexual back in the ace discourse era, i was a lesboy back in the lesboy discourse era, im a trans man in the trans man discourse era, and i just have to ask yall, at what point are we going to quit doing this stupid terf-serving bullshit? like do you recognize that the only people aro/ace exclusion and trans man exclusion helps are terfs? have you realized yet? like every couple of years or so theres a New Socially Acceptable Target in the queer community and its always coincidentally a class that are usually marginalized based on gender and also a group of people that terfs fucking hate as well like can we not

[tboy-cock]

hey did you know that i and every trans man i know has been sexually or otherwise abused by a trans woman we knew at some point in our lives and are not able to talk about it on public blogs because we know that terfs and transphobes will run with it and we care about trans women and our trans women friends and lovers, and we would also be called transmisogynistic if we did (social contract and all that) but also trans women dont have the same social pressure to stay silent if a trans man sexually or otherwise abuses them. which means that there is currently claims of an "epidemic" of trans men abusing trans women who never did anything while trans men are pressured into silence, and falseified numbers of trans men experiencing sexual violence (trans men being considered as cis women in violence statistics) "proves this". yeah just a fun fucking fact. did you know that when i was almost murdered by a trans woman when i broke up with her for raping and abusing me throughout our relationship, lost my job and friends due to the severe ptsd i developed, it was trans women in my community who fetishized her actions, dismissed them, ect. because im a trans man. it was also a trans woman who tried to explain to me the "ethics" of "consensual" sibling incest, as i am someone who was sexually abused by my brother. and it was also a trans woman who called me transmisogynistic after i (cocsa incest survivor) said that incest is a real sex crime with real victims who are usually children, and that trans people (not specifically trans women) are getting way too comfortable with fetishizing actual incest because of misconceptions of what incest is. i have NEVER IN THE HISTORY OF THIS BLOG SAID ANY OF THIS ON HERE. because unfortunately i DO care about the trans community and that INCLUDES trans women. but all this for you to claim that asexuals, lesboys, and trans men AS A GROUP have discriminated against trans women? in your efforts to support terfism in your spaces? lovely. did you know i had a genuine fucking crashout last night because the pressure to not talk about my trauma on here while watching yall claim that trans men disproportionally abuse trans women because SO MANY OF US HAVE BEEN ABUSED BY TRANS WOMEN AND CANT TALK ABOUT IT, is getting to my head. so fuck it, fuck optics, here it is. i would not have been a victim of these women if i had not been a trans men. unfortunately, in trans spaces, there are going to be abusers. the issue is that if the abuser is a trans woman, trans men, trans women, and nonbinary people alike are under the social pressure to not talk about it.

and this is not me saying that trans women are disproportionally abusive by any means. i love the trans women in my life, and on account of surrounding myself and prioritizing my relationships with other trans people, thats why ive been a repeated victim of physical, sexual, and emotional violence by multiple trans women. but im so sick of sitting here and not saying anything when yall are claiming trans women are disproportionally abused by trans men, and that trans women arent doing the same to trans men. EVERY OTHER TRANS PERSON I KNOW HAS BEEN ABUSED BY A TRANS WOMEN. and guess what? THE SAME IS TRUE FOR TRANS MEN AND NONBINARY PEOPLE. its almost like all communities are gonna have messy drama and abusers because anyone can be gender dysphoric, including abusers. so spare me the "trans men disproportionally abuse trans women" shit yall love to spill. notice how the transmisogyny tag is filled with violence directed at trans men and in the transandrophobia tags terfs get shut down immediately? i did!

[mister-gender]

like actually like i see the woman who tried to kill me in my nightmares. its been 3 years. i JUST got on anti nightmare medication but shes been keeping me up and terrified for YEARS. i had regular home invasion and murder nightmares of her coming back to finish the job i couldnt SLEEP. before the nightmare medication i was seriously considering a service dog just to wake me up from the fucking nightmares because i literally couldnt even sleep without seeing her face. i lost my job because my productivity fell, i kept having to call out of work, i kept having to go to the psych ward, i was pissed off all the time, i lost an entire friendgroup who couldnt handle me talking about it despite the fact that THEY DIDNT SURVIVE THE SHIT I HAVE, do you UNDERSTAND the trauma youre left with after having to run or fight for your life? that if you dont do SOMETHING, YOU ARE GOING TO DIE, AND IT WILL BE VIOLENT AND YOU WILL BE ALONE? besides that, she lied to the knoxville hardcore scene about me and they blacklisted me. even though she was a pathological liar. i survived ALL THIS, just to go into online AND IN PERSON, ADULT, 21+ TRANS SPACES, TALK ABOUT IT, THEN HAVE HAD MULTIPLE TRANS WOMEN CALL IT "hot" OR SAY "well i support womens wrongs" AND "well youre a man anyways #girlsgirl" like genuinely i would wish you a fraction of the trauma i have experienced in my life, because this isnt even the tip of the iceberg, but you genuinely would not survive it sober like i have. fuck you

[corviiids]

i want devices that are functional and hardy and i want them to last and fuck the rest of the shit i dont need. my ds and 3ds can lie in sleep mode for months if not years and i can pop them open and they've still got two or three bars left. my old phones in high school could go days without a charge. if i leave my nintendo switch on the floor for a few days doing absolutely fuck all nothing i will turn it on and it will cry to me mother i am dying. i am dying mother. and i tell him he'll never be half the man his brother was and he can't hear me because he's dead

[bumblebeerror]

I can’t play my switch for more than like 4 hours straight before it hits low battery. Which is fucking ridiculous.

[this-is-transandrophobia]

i used to be friends with a girl who stated that she "hated men". back when i thought i am cis, we often were making homosexual jokes (she is a lesbian) and one day i told her that i am questioning if i am genderfluid or even trans. another day, we were joking and it started with the classic "would you love me if i was a worm?" so i asked her out of curiosity "would you love me if i was a man? like, in a platonic way?" and she stated "i hate men" again. she was saying that stuff almost every day but fortunately i decided to cut off contact with her.

This is transandrophobia.

[thememedaddy]

[making-you-in-spore]

whatever man, you're a fake creator. you're not playing spore, you're playing something else entirely

i made this anon in spore [2008]

next time show your face

[making-you-in-spore]

#the shadow on the ground showing its actually in the game is the best part

it is very much in game, here’s it being attacked by bees

[making-you-in-spore]

you guys can’t do this to me.

[thememedaddy]

[babyboomerbullshit]

Found this one that checks all the boxes on r/boomerhumor.

[supreme-leader-stoat]

[ivan-fyodorovich-deactivated202]

Wow

[amesann-reblog]

Weirdest experience I ever had with this is with a customer at work.

It’s not an uncommon occurrence for men in their 40s and 50s to refer to their wives as “old bags”, so whenever I do the whole “Would you like a bag” spiel, there’s a 50/50 chance they will point to their wife and say “No thanks I have one right here” or say “Nah I left her at home” Or something else awful and then wink at me and call me darling or sweetheart and just make me want to be smited by god right in that second.

However there was one customer that came in and did this whole song and dance. Not out of the ordinary. What was, however, was how he then followed it up by going “I’m kidding, I’m divorced ha ha.” Then, his face drops and he turns to his friend with a look of absolute horror and goes “Wait, that’s probably why. Do you think that’s why she left me Andy? Because I said things like that?” And then proceeded to look like he was re-evaluating his whole life as his friend led him out of the store.

TL; DR = Boomers are weird and this one was given a glimpse behind the veil of self awareness in a Tesco Extra

[cannibalchicken]

[dysfunctionalnerd]

he found a poster for a phineas and ferb theme party and just. decided to go. oh my god 😭

[adhdoofenshmirtz]