Mrs. Blond3

Sharing is caring and fun <3 35 year old female half of a bi kinky couple with Mr-Blond3 | Switchy Bitchy | Dutch |

[mrs-blond3]

This is something I realized a while ago, but I thought I would share this in case anyone else needs to realize this:

As a child I was teased (and bullied) for having curly hair, for having freckles and for wearing glasses. Nowadays people pay good money to fake all of these. Perms, curling irons, fake freckle pens, henna, tattoos, non-prescription glasses.... They have become trendy over the years.

So if anyone is teasing you about something right now: give it time! Someday it will become hip and you’ll have the last laugh, you trend-setter ✌️

Regardless of that fact: Love your features, because they are what make you YOU! And you are lovable and valid and worthy ❤️

[evilspice]

yes

[mrs-blond3]

The only thing better than this post is the absolute positivity in the comments.

[ahagisborn]

was just Remembering how you’d be out with a friend and you’d each order a different cocktail and you’d ask “what’d you get?” and they’d read the description off the menu and you’d be like “ooh that sounds good” and then they’d say “try it!” and then you’d have a lil sip of their drink and they’d have a lil sip of your drink and you’d decide which one was best and you wouldn’t give each other a life-threatening respiratory infection

[freeform]

Bisexuals be like…please bore someone else with your ridiculous questions, we’re tired #ProgressIsPride ______ Jay Jurden, your patience tho 🙏🏾

[sourcefieldmix-deactivated20161]

good idea: marry a blacksmith so you can get free swords whenever 

[steelplatedhearts]

[omgweatherunderground]

Better idea; become a miner and then marry a blacksmith so he can have the required materials for you to get free swords whenever. 

[ranma-official]

Make a harem and marry a full production chain

[sunspotpony]

Monopolygamy.

[dangerousnotbroken]

I mean, if your harem is full of blacksmiths would that make it a polyhammerous relationship?

[saltwasteland]

You could make a whole polyarmory

[mrs-blond3]

This just keeps getting better and better

[whitepeopletwitter]

[mrs-blond3]

[asirenscng]

whats the point in having a nsfw blog when youre not sexting?😂

what’s the point in having a brain when you’re not using it ?

[paraphrasieren]

THIS

[mrs-blond3]

Just because someone posts racy or sexy or nsfw content does not mean they owe you anything. Enjoy the content, like, reblog, but by no means does posting content equal an open invitation to act entitled to any kind of messaging.

[sugarplumnsfw]

if a straight sized body can get 10k notes can a fat one?

[mrs-blond3]

Onwards to 10k!!!

[butyoutoldmeiwasfunny]

This could be the most important post I’ve ever shared. Please Share it with anyone who is or might be going through this terrible disease.

https://twitter.com/ItsMa____/status/1345432772538724355?s=19

[the-haven-of-fiction]

My mom has fairly severe respiratory issues and is recovering from joint replacement; her PT told her the same info about sleeping/sitting positions and how they impact the lungs. Fascinating.

[razielvontriton]

Please share

[mrs-blond3]

Sharing is caring

[thegrumpycaterpillar]

Break the stigma

[deakysgurl-deactivated20240308]

I could not reblog this fast enough 

[bering-strait-deactivated202005]

Story time: I’m a trans guy. I have an identical twin. We’re both tall, androgynous, and have naturally deep voices

In high school a rumor was spread that one of us was trans. For years, everyone in school had convinced themselves that my twin was “the trans one”. She rolled with it to keep me safe, and said it felt like a compliment to be mistaken for a trans woman since she looked up to a lot of trans women. That didn’t stop the bullying, but it’s easier to deal with when it’s directed at the wrong person. I’m engaged to a feminine cis guy who is several inches shorter than me. I have 20-30lbs on him and I can dead lift him. He’s more delicate and soft both physically and socially. He cries during sad movies, owns half a million stuffed animals, and clings to my arm when he’s nervous or it’s cold out (oh yeah, also he’s adorable) Whenever the topic of being trans comes up, cis people tend to think he’s the one who is trans. Direct all “what do your parents think?” comments onto him. Completely ignore me. Ask him invasive/transphobic questions about his body. Tell him “you pass so well!” through grit teeth. Like with my sister, I get pretty pissed about this, but there’s not much I can do about it. I have had to argue with cis people to establish the fact I’m trans because they don’t believe me & think I’m joking. they’re like “but he’s - no, she’s trans!” and frantically point fingers at my fiance and sister. Because there’s no way an adult cis woman could be taller than 5′9 and choose to be bare-faced, and an adult cis man could love How To Train Your Dragon 2 with a fiery passion, enough to watch it 3 times in the theatre.  Terfs take one look at us and try to convince my sister she’ll never have a uterus or that she’s “appropriating women’s spaces”. Transphobes say my boyfriend will “always be a girl” and call him gendered slurs. They talk over them, block them, and grill them about what genitalia they have online. Completely unknowing that they’re talking to two cisgender people who are gay and gnc. @ young, closeted, scared trans people: any cis person who insists they can somehow “know” your “birth sex” by looking at you because “it’s so obvious!” is full of shit. people come in all shapes and sizes regardless of gender. Not only are they being transphobic, but they’re being homophobic too.

[humorrelated]

reblog so your followers won’t forget to drink water

[accidental-muse]

Doms and subs in their 30s, 40s & beyond, call to represent!

Recently I reblogged and commented on an Ask that @theruleset answered in which an Anon worried that she ‘missed her chance’ to explore the kink scene because she might have grown too old.

She’s 25.

The reblogs continued, and those in the community who aren’t right out of their teens (nor looking for a partner who is) weighed in with such great feedback! It felt awesome to go through the replies, and to follow their blogs, and to feel something akin to actual representation and visibility on a website and its kink subculture that is overwhelmingly tilted toward the (sometimes uncomfortably, depending on what’s depicted) very young.  Especially when it comes to the women in it.

Got nothing but love for those younger (but legal, of course) in kink, too, and you all deserve an amazing journey as much as any of us, but this particular post is for 30 and up, soooooo:

Please like and reblog this if you’re a Dominant, submissive, or kinkster in your 30s, 40s or older so we can find and support each other, and most of all, increase our visibility on tumblr. :)

(And if you just want to support this post, please feel free to like and reblog, too!)

[exoticeva]

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[darkness-of-an-angel-deactivate]

[asmodeus-cain-deactivated202103]

[redbottomkitteninheels]

[princesskitcat]

[thesweetertouchofdominance]

47, the longer you do it, the better it gets!

[no-regrets-4-me-deactivated2017]

25 and grown too old to enjoy the scene? Are you fucking kidding me? Grow up, you silly little girl. I’m 51 and trust me, it’s all about what you make it; age has nothing to do with it. 

[accidental-muse]

I seriously continue to adore where this thread touches and leads. :)

[instructor144]

I will always reblog this. 25? Sweet Jesus. From the perspective of 62, I look back at myself at 25 and realize I was an onchoate, half-formed baby Dom, just getting started. Not to put too fine a point on it, I was a mess.

[nyxidervish-deactivated20210518]

Joining the >30 club

[babydollbelongstodaddy-deactiva]

[moonchild8914-deactivated202305]

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[accidental-muse]

i’m reblogging it again too, because i never in a million years imagined it would have 9K and a half notes. but that’s so awesome. :)

[dmnnew]

Just starting at 49. Ready for a life time of membership to this incredible club!

[daddyandhislittleprincess11102]

We are in our mid fifties. Our children are older than you!

[gingerpowerserotica]

I’m rotary phone old… LOL

[brattykitty76]

I predate the internet and am rotary phone old…I am also too tired right now to find a gif for that.

[norcalgent]

[honeybunnyface]

[striderofthen0rth]

[nurseaware]

[naughty-little-vixen]

[fae-kisses-deactivated20201120]

[crusoesampersand]

[spicenwolf]

55 and 54, and living the dream

[knotty-irish]

50 and still going strong

[mrs-blond3]

[creativesubuniverse-deactivated]

concept: a sub who actually acts like a sub

I admit it:  sometimes I feel pissed when I see other people calling themselves “subs” just because they have certain fetishes. 

Ok, fine, so you like foot worship, or spanking, or strapons, or whatever it is that you’re “into”? No big deal. Fetishes can be fun and hot, and you should feel free to explore them as much as you want. Nothing wrong there. Honestly, I hope everyone finds a play partner that share their likes! Really.

But, please, do not call yourself a sub if during play-time you’re not willing to truly submit to your partner.

Being just a fetishist is ok, you don’t have to pretend to be a sub. You can just be a fetishist. There’s no shame in that. Seriously. If you’re not willing to obey someone, but you still want to worship their feet, for example, just tell them that, and be honest. Being straightforward is always the best way to go. It saves your time and the person’s time. 

I know this might sound confusing to some people, but I think it’s important to make this much clear:  just because you want to be dominated, it doesn’t mean you’re a sub. I know it sounds like a paradox. 

But really, let me say it again: just because you want to be dominated, it doesn’t mean you’re a sub. 

If you’re only thinking about your own gains, your own pleasure and your very specific turn-ons and fetishes, not really taking into consideration the person on the other end, then you’re not a sub. 

If you are aggressive and harass or insult others when they don’t give you what you want, you’re not a sub.

If you think you can buy your way into submission with money demanding and expecting things back, as if you bought the very person, you’re not a sub.

If you’re not willing or wouldn’t even consider putting your partner’s pleasure before your own (regardless of how often), you’re not a sub. 

If you approach others expecting them to fulfil your inner fantasies, you’re not a sub either, no matter how badly you dream about being “someone’s slave.” How on earth do you think imposing your own kink into others when you want, how you want, without any consideration to the person’s needs can be compatible with being a sub?

If you think dom(me)s or people, in general, are obliged to pay any attention to you just because you’re horny or because you like kinky things, you’re not a sub.

If you think that dominants don’t need to be taken care off, that they cannot be fragile and that they don’t need support or love because in your mind they’re always perfect sadistic machines of sex, you’re not a sub. Tops have feelings, they can be insecure and they are people just like everyone else. Any (real) sub gets that. 

If you don’t understand why it’s so important to talk, engage, and really get to know the other person before you propose any type of D/s dynamic, you’re also not a sub.

If you’re wondering right now, “oh, right, maybe I’m a Dom, then”, I have some bad news for you as well. You’re not a dom(me) either. You’re just an annoying and selfish human being who’s completely clueless about the most basic forms of human interaction. Because, as a rule, both dominants and subs care like crazy about their other halves, even when they pretend (for fun’s sake) that they don’t. 

So, to all of you clueless people out there, stop harassing dom(me)s, stop giving a bad image to BDSM-lovers and stop being so demanding. No one owes you anything.  

Get your shit together and be respectful. It’s not too much to ask, is it?

[spoiled-lil-kitten]

[1-sadistic-lover]

[mrs-blond3]

[mrs-blond3]

This made me laugh much harder than it should have.

[evooob]

Flirt with your girl like you never met her before and you tryna fuck

[mrs-blond3]

Why chose? 😇😏