#1 Grievous Lady Fan!!!

if i had a dollar for every time i've fallen down the stairs i'd have 3 (nor ☆ she/he ☆ aroace) [ID: Icon is the character in Camellia's REX album art, a crowned king resting their head on their hand while sticking their tounge out, dyed purple. Header is a gif of the night sky, filled with many stars that are twinkling. End ID]

[clownsuggest]

have some compassion!!!!!!!! And EAT A MANGO!!!!!!!!! thats it!!!!!!!

[norstrum]

Before I sleep: recs

Øpen Ur by Eye [has flash]

Lament Rain ("Forlorn" Long ver.) by D-D-Dice

I'll Forgive You Even If You Die by Kikuo

Medical Record (カルテ) by recha

^^ nurse type t my beloved <3

[tokkibean]

"work in progress" is actually so misleading like it assumes that im actually making progress on my work

[jessaerys]

what in the world are "pity likes" you guys are inventing new ways to be insecure. every like i give is a like with my whole pussy

[cddceliac]

Hey!

So just the other day the Celiac Safety Act was introduced to Congress in the USA, and if passed, this would require gluten to be recognized as a major allergen!!! Which means more accurate labeling and safety for those with celiac disease and gluten intolerances!!

The Celiac Safety Act Has Been Introduced in Congress The Celiac Disease Foundation has advocated for mandatory labeling of gluten-containin

If you could do me a favor and contact your representative and ask them to support this bill which affects roughly the same amount of population as those with peanut allergies or red hair!!! (Link below to make it easy!!)

[orcboxer]

happy pride I'm glad I'm gay I'm glad you're gay I'm glad we're both gay and alive

[charmcoin]

quite callous how the general societal reaction to allegations of child abuse increasing in frequency seems to have been "all these millions of people are lying and faking on the internet for clout, parents are the only real protectors for children" instead of "perhaps there is something wrong structurally with how we treat children"

[charmcoin]

"why are millennials/gen z/etc going no contact with their parents?" is really not a difficult question to answer

[fealty-to-thee]

More characters ending disabled and happy NOW

[dailymanners]

I feel as though what drives most rude / inconsiderate behavior I experience IRL on a day to day basis comes from a place of having this unearned and unnecessary sense of urgency in situations that aren't actually urgent. I think if more people became aware of this completely unnecessary sense of urgency in situations that actually aren't urgent, it might make co-existing and sharing public spaces with other people a lot easier and more tolerable.

That text post that's been making the rounds that goes something like "Omg you made it to the same red light as everyone else but faster and more dangerously and recklessly, should we call nascar? Do you want a medal?" summarizes exactly what I'm trying to talk about.

It's like when I have to change buses at one of the bigger and busier bus stops, and the people who get off the same bus as me shove and elbow past me to get off before me, and then shove and elbow past anyone even slightly in their way on the way to the bus they're switching, only to end up on the same bus as all the people they shoved and elbowed with several minutes to spare before it leaves and plenty of open seats left.

I think this unnecessary urgency a lot of people feel in their day to day lives drives a lot of bad behavior. I'm not saying I'm innocent of this, I've felt it too in plenty of situations that didn't call for it, and regrettably was less kind than I should have been as a result. But I try to be aware of it, and always try to ask myself it it's really as urgent as my lizard brain is trying to tell me it is, and even if it was that urgent, does that still justify unkind behavior?

Is shoving or elbowing another person aside going to make the difference between whether or not you make it to the bus before it pulls away? (hint: at least where I live, most of the time that's a no because the drivers usually won't leave if they see people from another bus heading towards their bus). Is shoving and elbowing people aside in a crowded grocery store going to make any noticeable difference in how quickly you get your shopping done?

Does a few extra seconds of time actually justify cruel and unkind behavior towards people you perceive as slightly inconveniencing you?

[purlturtle]

Someone pointed out to me once how a lot of people, when out grocery shopping, amble through the aisles at a leisurely pace, maybe checking out this new product or that tester... But when the time comes to queue for checkout, all of a sudden everyone is super impatient and not leisurely at all.

That fully rewired my brain.

Ever since then I've tried to keep that in mind when I shop. If I'm not hurrying through the store, I'm not gonna be impatient in line for checkout.

[dailymanners]

#the urgency and impatience tends to drive a lot of ableism too#Gods forbid someone need help or walk slower or get stuck somewhere#people will walk into my chair because they're not looking where they're going#and I've almost gotten run over at intersections because I wasn't crossing the street fast enough even though I still had right of way#people who rush tend not to signal or say excuse me either which is both rude and unsafe

Thanks for these tags @disability-etiquette, because this unnecessary urgency (in situations that aren't actually urgent) really is a massive driving factor for ableism, and that needs to be addressed and discussed.

So many strangers have been so cruel to my elderly and disabled family members for being "too slow" in public.

And not to derail from the ableism, but this urgency / impatience also fuels a lot of fatphobia too. I've already had to block some people in the notes of this post for making fatphobic comments. People often get very angry at fat people for moving slower and/or taking up more space, and will use their unnecessary urgency and impatience to justify being mean and impatient with fat strangers in public.

[disability-etiquette]

Oh absolutely, and not derailing at all in my opinion, the struggle for fat liberation goes hand in hand with ableism! The overlap is significant - many disabilities can affect body size and shape, so it's very much connected to ableism in my eyes! You're 100% right and should say it.

[joelleity]

[ID: sketchy matonato lyric comic, full description under cut]

time for my yearly "go into a trance state with a tiny pixel brush for a couple hours"

what ifs...?

full description:

1. "in my dreams, i see you at the foot of some mountains" over matoba seen from behind and natori in front of him, holding his hand and guiding him up a mountain path, prosthetic leg visible

2. "and we're taking some pictures or something" over matoba looking at a lizard thru the viewfinder of a camera, and "and we better hurry up" over a closeup of a windswept, smiling natori

3. "and it's late and" over matoba taking a bite of something, face scars visible; "the sun keeps on shootin' through pine trees" (drawn as described); "and the grass stains are wet on your new jeans" over a closeup of matoba's hand on natori's thigh as they lean in towards each other; "and we better hurry up" over their faces close together

4. "in my dreams, i see you asleep in a twin bed, the covers pulled up over your head" over natori drawn as described, an unplugged phone on the table beside him; "am i asleep or awake?" over matoba looking down at a different sleeping natori beside him whose hand is on the pillow between them

5. "and i've become just like a terrible mess, tracing the lines in my face for something more beautiful than is there" over a closeup of matoba adjusting his tie and a faraway shot of him looking in the mirror; "i've barely been gone" over a closeup of him putting his eyepatch on

6. "and i'm not a failure, i swear, i wish you could see it from over there" over matoba in the distance looking at a happily smiling natori talking to someone else; "i've got a lot over here without you" over matoba casting a glance at a natori movie poster in the distance; "i've barely been gone" over a closeup of an eyepatched matoba with his eyes closed and his brows furrowed

7. "gone" repeated over the same shot of matoba but now without an eyepatch and his brows relaxed; "dreaming" over another un-eyepatched matoba leaning on his hand, wedding ring visible, smiling

end description

[joelleity]

[ID: natsuyuu fanart of matoba, dramatically lit, smiling at the viewer and tucking sprigs of lavender into his button-up shirt pocket]

my little meow meow

[joelleity]

#HE LOOKS SOOOO GOOD like a coffee shop promotion task with just looking super hot lol

i keep trying to think abt this also and just getting stuck repeating "ikemen matoba...." to myself but i do think its extremely for funny post-quitting matoba to just get mundane coffee shop job and be absolutely useless doing any work so they just let him be there to look hot and mysterious and get ppl to come in and become regulars trying to find out his Deal and then he says cryptic shit to them that makes them think he's gonna curse them. i see this so vividly

[joelleity]

#ikemen customer service matoba? from my dreams?

[wtf-scientific-papers]

[Many college students experience introductory physics as psychologically threatening.]

Benson-Greenwald et al. (2026)

[mereologic]

you've got to admit you were wrong every once in a while. it gives other people false hope that they can convince you of things

[contemptible-scoundrel]

my cursed sword doesn't even tell me to kill people anymore it keeps begging me to put on a skirt and tights

[contemptible-scoundrel]

I already know I'm a girl dickhead I just like wearing pants

[evilvillain123456789]

(perverse, predatory, manipulative voice) Hello 

[csny]

the bus is never going to come because im a bad person

[laterkiss]

i have [gestures vaguely] my tendencies