Is it me or I think zutara is better than kataang…like everything about them is so beautiful
Agree, I think the reason why zutara works for me personally is
from the very beginning aang did not want to be friends with katara he wanted to be in a romantic relationship with her first, so people need to stop calling their dynamic friends to lovers, the creators made it pretty clear that the dynamic was always younger child having a crush on older girl, she loves him like a babysitter like a little brother, that's the love katara had for him not the romantic kind.
That's one of the many reasons why zutara is better in my opinion.
We all know she only got with aang not just because he was the main hero but because the creators wanted to live out their boy fantasy ,even by the shows own writing we know her type, values and standards around relationships.
The fortune teller is a good indication on their dynamic, it is only by an outside force that she even considers him, if this didn't happen she wouldn't have given him the time of day. And this really pisses me off, because your telling me that aang can define his own fate but not katara? so only aang can forge his own destiny but katara is expected to marry a powerful bender because xyz said so, really?????. It is always an outside force that tries to push them together it is never katara seeking aang out of her own free will, but it is always aang trying to seek her out, this is summed up to every romantic interaction the creators try to force on them and us.
The reason I like the southern raiders ep is because zuko is trying to fix what he broke, he's being a good friend first and even some antics that bring this ep up can see and not deny as a gotcha on why he was doing this for katara, because he's a good friend(which is def not the only reason he did this), also why he took a lightning bolt for her as well(the only time they refute any romantic tension which was clearly present and being teased between them, they refer back to him being a good friend), but see that's the thing, zuko and katara trusting one another, having each others back and being each others ride or die is why its soo compelling, because they have a natural build up of becoming more than just friends, the potential was there, you don't see this progression in kataangs dynamic.
And a lot of people say it was obvious, yes, it was def obvious with the creators forcing it down our gobs all the time with every cringe moment they had aang trying to impress katara then having the very next ep back to like nothing happens with their apparently progressive romantic development.
The ones that really sabotaged kataang was bryke.
They were so clouded by what young girls and teenagers thought and liked about zutara that they butchered their own couple and made a poor attempt at putting them together at the very end without resolving their prior conflicts, so antics really have no right to say anything about people thinking it was forced.
You also don't see kataras pov on her feelings towards aang cause the creators were going to put them together no matter how much it didn't make sense for her to like a pre-adolescence boy. I really wanna know what qualities katara likes in aang other than he's the avatar and saved the world which is expected of being the avatar?
In canon we see him disrespecting her culture in the bato ep, running away from his responsibilities, which katara urged and encouraged him to take seriously and complete his training, she wanted the war to end and you can see how aang never understood this, you'd think when we find out the real reason why aang wanted to win the war in nightmares and daydreams ep was because he's doing this all for her, he would have actually mastered the avatar state and defeated the fire lord a lot sooner.
He also puts her in a position that burdens herself to care and control his emotional outbursts like a mother/sister would do, you don't see aang stepping up to lift this burden off katara so he wont put her or anyone else in danger(this dynamic was still written between them when they began a relationship in the comics by the way, just disgusting).
This was the character arc the competent writers were going to give aang in trying to control the avatar state. He doesn't want to take responsibility in being the avatar and that is understandable, he just wanted to be a normal kid, but this was supposed to be his character growth. letting go of his attachments, embracing his avatar duties, his immaturity to realize that what guru pathik was talking about wasn't that he couldn't love or stop loving but that he had unhealthy expectations placed on katara, those attachments needed to be let go for aang to realize that even if katara did not reciprocate he would still love her regardless, that is what unselfish/unconditional love is, putting the needs of someone before your own.
He also dismisses Katara's emotions when she even slightly shows another emotion that is not angel like.
Also the non-con kisses, this is why aangs puppy love is childish, he has no right to be in a relationship if he doesn't understand how to respect boundaries.
And people need to not act like he was mature around things, that's what his monk philosophy was not his own thinking.
Sorry, went on a whole rant, but yeah, that's what makes zutaras dynamic so real and authentic, a relationship should be based on, trust, respect, understanding and communication.