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this cosmic dance of bursting decadence and withheld permissions twists all our arms collectively, but, if sweetness can win, and it can, then i’ll still be here tomorrow to high five you yesterday, my friend. Peace. i am 19 years old please do not block me unless it is for a reason besides that then go ahead. my art tag is #art stuff

[okratking]

hiya so long story short i’ve fled from america to the uk, i am currently homeless staying with my girlfriend. i’m ronni, i suffer from c-ptsd as a result of lifelong abuse from my family members and will, unfortunately, always need to live with them so long as i live in america. i can’t exactly put it in a simple or kinder way, my existence has been absolutely miserable, and this is my last shot at survival. my relatives have already promised to kill me, institutionalize me, or have me arrested countless times, every single time just for speaking back to them about how they have treated me.

we’ve been trying to get me out of the country and away from my abusive family for a little over a year now, our last option now being the spousal visa. callie explains the problem a bit clearer on the page, but, i am not employable in my circumstances, callie has been job searching, and she has set up a gofundme for us to help us meet the financial requirements for the visa. it would be literally lifesaving if you could donate or share this post. thankyousomuch

Donate to My homeless girlfriend immigrate from her abusive family., organized by Callie Grant

We're Ronni and Callie. We're a transgender lesbian couple. Ron… Callie Grant needs your support for My homeless girlfriend immigrate from h

[cryptotheism]

I got an enchanted womb tattoo but all it does is glow when I'm near fresh Thai green curry

[spacemaverick]

whats your eta? TWO MINUTES!! chill out man we're right on time

happy birthday to my brother!! 🎂💕🦊🎉🌈

[okratking]

hiya so long story short i’ve fled from america to the uk, i am currently homeless staying with my girlfriend. i’m ronni, i suffer from c-ptsd as a result of lifelong abuse from my family members and will, unfortunately, always need to live with them so long as i live in america. i can’t exactly put it in a simple or kinder way, my existence has been absolutely miserable, and this is my last shot at survival. my relatives have already promised to kill me, institutionalize me, or have me arrested countless times, every single time just for speaking back to them about how they have treated me.

we’ve been trying to get me out of the country and away from my abusive family for a little over a year now, our last option now being the spousal visa. callie explains the problem a bit clearer on the page, but, i am not employable in my circumstances, callie has been job searching, and she has set up a gofundme for us to help us meet the financial requirements for the visa. it would be literally lifesaving if you could donate or share this post. thankyousomuch

Donate to My homeless girlfriend immigrate from her abusive family., organized by Callie Grant

We're Ronni and Callie. We're a transgender lesbian couple. Ron… Callie Grant needs your support for My homeless girlfriend immigrate from h

[userfish]

this pride month we’re all going to be radically pro transgender. or else.

[userfish]

hey so this means radically pro ALL transgender. don’t put limitations on this. all trans people are radically accepted here.

[assignedmale]

[puyopuyo]

things in this world that kick ass

1.

[labmousegirl]

one of the things that makes autism a disability (and why some of us choose to label it as such rather than an “alternate neurotype”) is the stress. 

part of autism is just being incredibly stressed. overstimulation? stress. holding a conversation? stress. something happening to our schedule? stress. people talk about how often autism is recognized and diagnosed via our stress responses (like meltdowns) because it is just so common to see autistic people stressed because of lack of accommodations to how our brains work.

and this matters because stress kills. stress causes a lot of health issues, or it can trigger pre-existing ones by making certain chronic conditions flare up. i once had a psychiatrist very unhelpfully tell me i “just need to manage my stress” when the stress i was describing was things i could not avoid in neurotypical society and can’t “just get over”. i can do “self care” all i like but i cannot at the very base level change the way my brain inputs information and reacts accordingly.

[roach-works]

i only learned this year that loud noises aren’t physically painful for other people. i have lived 34 years in a world in which my friends and family regularly physically hurt me at random just by shouting, and i thought everyone else just thought i was kind of a wimp for not dealing with the pain as well as they did.

like. loud noises physically hurt. it’s like a static shock from my ears to my spine that doesn’t stop until the volume goes back down. i thought we all agreed that ‘that’s too loud!’ and covering our ears meant ‘ouch!’. turns out i’ve been dealing with a stressor almost no one else has, my whole life, alone.

autistic people have to keep functioning through debilitating levels of stress that no one else in their life acknowledges or helps them with. it’s no wonder that their most visible ‘tells’ are breakdowns. 

[akajustmerry]

sorry but if you studied and understood feminism as the liberation movement that it is, you would not be making men who are hurt by a system that still benefits them a top priority. the damage that choice feminism, white feminism, and rampant transmisogyny have done to people's perception and understanding of feminism so that it's now an accepted position to prioritise the individual well-being of men over the liberation of everyone else actually oppressed by systemic patriarchy is mind blowingly absurd. idc about men and boys who feel lonely and turn to misogynistic grifters to fill the void because they're not the ones who will be primarily harmed the most in that scenario !! women, girls (trans and cis) and queer people are. these men's lonliness and anger are problems that won't exist at the same scale when we no longer live in a system that normalises that behaviour to the primary detriment of women, girls (cis and trans), and queer people. i am so exhausted by rhetoric that seeks to center the greatest benefactors of patriarchy over the actual victims of patriarchy, simply because the perpetrators and benefactors of patriarchy don't like themselves.

[innerchildabortionclinic]

favorite genre of joke. starting a collection

[filmphotofranz]

[mikus-sleepiest]

[shin-zaibatsu]

[pucikat-deactivated20200924]

i had a really fucked up dream omg

[my-notes-app-deactivated2020061]

p&f related?

[pucikat-deactivated20200924]

sorry but phineas and ferb were not in it.

[my-notes-app-deactivated2020061]

buford?

[pucikat-deactivated20200924]

no characters from phineas and ferb were there.

[mintsky420]

these miis are driving me nuts

[albva]

[albva]

um. i think that will make an even awkwarder silence

[blackjame]

[tapir]

shes licking her lips because the milk in the baba looks so scrumptious to her. Becausee of course, she is just a baby and that is all she can eat for now until she grows up big and strong and when she eats a leaf for the first time it will blow her mind