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[osddevourer]

HALLO AND SALUTATIONS!

[ Names : Stanley, Cross, Devourer, The Creatures ]

[ Pronouns: it/its ]

[ Xtra info: OSDD System, Pet Regressor, Therian/Otherkin, Autistic, Schizospec, Objectum]

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WARNING ! WARNING ! WARNING ! WARNING !

Although this blog will contain content involving regression, this is NOT a completely safe blog for regressors looking for a clean and trigger free enviroment! Here are things to look out for!

I WILL TRY MY BEST TO PROVIDE TRIGGER WARNINGS WHEN I POST THE FOLLOWING:

Discussion of sex

Discussion of trauma and abuse

Spiders, snakes, and other "creepy" animals

Syscourse

DNI

Proship/Comship/Loli/Shota/Support the romanticization of incest, pedophilia, rape, abuse, and anything of the sort.

MAP/NOMAP/zoo/necro/anti recovery (People who don't publicly indulge in/romanticize paraphilic disorders are fine)

You are pro endogenic "systems"

DDLG/ABDL/ageplay

Anti furry, anti objectum, general bigotry and xenophobia

[bewbin]

cracker being considered a slur on twitch is wild. such a harmless word but I guess some white people are soft and brittle.. reminds me of one of my favorite snack foods

[renthony]

I was 12 when the first of my siblings was born, so I have very vivid memories of the way my mother was excluded from a lot of spaces because people find children annoying.

If you think "children should not be allowed in this space," you HAVE TO reckon with the fact that you are now excluding parents (and very often women specifically) who don't have access to childcare. You are isolating people who are poor, or rural, or single parents, or any number of other factors that might prevent someone from having on-demand childcare. You are cutting them off from being able to exist in public. You are denying parents and children the ability to fully participate in society.

My mom spent several years only leaving the house to buy groceries or take me to school, and even then, people would still come up to her to complain TO HER FACE about how she shouldn't bring a crying toddler to Walmart. Entitled strangers would literally try and demand that my mom leave and come back without the kids.

"Why can't your husband watch them?" Because he was at work, usually working extreme amounts of overtime so we didn't get evicted, because landlords don't like it when you stop paying rent.

"Why can't you send them to daycare?" Because that costs money.

"Why can't your teenager stay home with them and babysit?" Because I also deserved to be able to leave the house for something other than school, and taking me to the grocery store was how my mom taught me to manage a household budget, shop sales, and meal plan.

"Don't bring your kid in public if you can't CONTROL them and make them stop crying!" Kids cry when they're upset, and being dragged around a store is upsetting! Don't be an asshole! Children are human beings who are still learning how the world works, and they don't have a lot of agency. You'd cry, too.

"Spank them until they learn to stop crying!" That's just straight-up child abuse, Jesus Christ.

What the fuck was our family supposed to do? Never go to the grocery store? Starve because strangers couldn't handle a toddler existing in public?

[osddevourer]

I wanted to mention that this is also partially a result of infrastructure that doesn't make it easy for parents with crying kids to step away for a moment until their child calms down. My church has always been a space where children can be, but there is also a specific room where parents can bring kids who are being loud.

If the sound is so annoying, then don't blame the mothers, blame the lack of secluded rest spots or rooms for parents to calm their children down.

At the root of many problems, 9 times out of 10, there will be a corporation who wants to exploit the common people behind it.

[elierlick]

Yet another new study debunked the basis for the anti-trans sports bans. It was never about sports but for creating legal avenues for exclusion and abjection. This is one of the largest analyses ever conducted, involving 52 studies and 6,485 trans people. Read the study here.

[lucieslucidity]

post so nice had to reblog it twice and force it down everyone's throats

[fleshengine]

At minimum about 4.5 thousand people liked this without reblogging it.

We gotta fix that.

[normal-with-adhd-is-a-joke]

it's hard to explain to people that there's a point where fatigue genuinely causes severe suffering because the natural response is "couldn't you just sleep?". But sometimes you can't sleep. Sometimes you've already slept for 16 hours and you're too restless to sleep more. Sometimes you have insomnia. Sometimes the amount that your body wants you to sleep is dangerous because it doesn't leave you enough time to care for yourself. So you're just stuck in this limbo between being awake and being asleep where moving feels so horrible, your body is turning on every alarm bell it can to get you to stop, but you've stopped all the things you can stop. Pretty much all I can do when I'm like this is lay still and watch youtube videos and even sometimes the sensory input is overwhelming.

[Image ID: a banner that says "this post is about physical disability, don't derail" on the first line and "physically abled people don't speak including talking in tags" on the second].

[prideslime-moved]

disabled nonbinary

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[the-label-sanctuary]

♡Believable Person♡

・₊✧𝘈 𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘭𝘦𝘴𝘤𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘮 𝘩𝘢𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘢𝘥𝘥𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘵𝘶𝘢𝘳𝘺｡｡｡ -`♡´- 

✧A Believable Person (BEP) is a Special Person attachment that occurs with individuals with Schizotypal Personality Disorder (STPD). The person with STPD (pwSTPD) may recognize that this individual is a Special Person, but cannot or does not with to sort them into a more specific term for whatever reason.✧

✧Tagging for PD posts: @kpopwerewolf @radiomogai✧

For a full list of Special Person terms, I made this doc for a comprehensible list. If you'd like to use my PD flags as emojis, I made this discord server with them as heart emojis! (Originally made to react to my SP's messages). 

DISCLAIMER: All of these terms already have existed in the community before I posted them. If you have genuine questions or concerns, feel free to reach out and I will try to work with you! These terms are meant to be inclusive of ALL experiences I have heard of or experienced myself, so I have no issue adding things if necessary. These posts are meant to be short and sweet descriptions, not full deep delves on what each means! Feel free to make your own deep dives posts about your own experiences with these and @ me, I’ll definitely repost as long as they’re done in a respectful manner.

[osddevourer]

why do you only post like once a year... come to tumblr world with me twin

my feed is CHEEKS I need to fix it

[mckennasdid]

DID isn't just having alters, it's:

Not knowing as the host, who you are most of the days 24/7

Not knowing which name to go by

Derealization/Depersonalization 24/7

[inquisitivetree]

Young people can have back pain. Young people can have joint pain. Young people can require a cane to get around. Young people can have memory problems. Young people can get migraines. Young people can lose their eyesight. Young people can lose their hearing. Young people can lose their teeth and require dentures. Young people can have neurological disorders. Young people can go through menopause. Young people can have heart attacks. Young people can have strokes. Young people can go through all kinds of things you think only happens to older people and they don’t deserve to be invalidated or bullied just because you have never heard of it.

[rotund-squirrelmeister]

when i say i like dark romance and they think i mean it in a freaky booktok way, but i actually mean it in a “could he daily feel a stab of hunger for you and find nourishment at the sight of you” way

[ghostlyschizophrenic]

schizophrenia spectrum people who have violent urges are still deserving of care and compassion without judgement

schizophrenia spectrum people who are homeless or experience food insecurity are still deserving of care and compassion without judgement

schizophrenia spectrum people who talk out loud to hallucinations and act erratic in public are still deserving of care and compassion without judgement

schizophrenia spectrum people who cannot work or go to school because of their symptoms are still deserving of care and compassion without judgement

schizophrenia spectrum people who struggle with personal hygiene are still deserving of care and compassion without judgement

schizophrenia spectrum people who don’t want to take medication or cannot adhere to a medication regiment are still deserving of care and compassion without judgement

schizophrenia spectrum people who live with their parents as an adult or needs a carer are still deserving of care and compassion without judgement

just because someone on the schizophrenia spectrum is stereotypical or societally ostracized doesn’t take away their right to being treated with kindness, compassion, and respect and given autonomy

[osddevourer]

[osddevourer]

I'll be like "My autism/stpd doesn't have that many OCD symptom overlaps" and then turn around and think "no I cannot read something that says a slur that I can't say out loud! When I read a post I hear a voice reading it in my head and that voice in my head says the slur which basically means I said the slur if you really think about it guys!!"

subvocalization thought crimes or something

[clockmat1cz]

seeing people use plural instead of multiplicity feels really weird

multiplicity is a medical term and plural is a chud online term made by endos I feel like we should be using multiplicity instead

[se1lkie]

i'm serious i think the STPD community needs to do something with Saint Personality Disorder here. GUYS! HELLO! FRIENDS AND COMRADES! IT'S RIGHT THERE

[osddevourer]

Ok so personality disorders do not make people abusive - but there's something to be said about living with someone who has OCPD (which is often very treatment resistent, especially when the focus is on controlling others and not self) where they will unintentionally do things that are "abusive behaviors" without actually being abusive. This might just be the person with OCPD I know, but they will say super styreotypical manipulating/gaslighting lines without even knowing. They will say something so textbook manipulative without any intent to manipulate because they genuinely believe in what they said 😭 It sucks because sometimes you just have to ignore it because they refuse to stop saying those things, and you're just kind of being ragebaited. I definitely don't believe in personality disorders being abusive btw, I just thought it was interesting. Maybe my loved one is just a special case, and most OCPDers are less treatment resistant.

Might not apply to all ocpd havers so don't take my word for it !!

[knifetheloserboy-deactivated202]

reblog if you love getting asks