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what’s killing me is the blog isn’t even (afaik) radfem or outwardly terfy. it’s literally just female artists only. and thats got them pissy. they tell on themselves all the time 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
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Immigration should be sex-discriminate. White men complain about minorities in their countries assaulting women, but they routinely travel to take advantage or underaged or poverty-stricken women in other countries.
In an ideal world, where women lead, men will not be allowed to travel unless it's for business, and only with a female relative.
Why do ppl on TikTok get so mad at misandrist for no reason like why r women not allowed to hate their oppressors? I've made comments on TikTok that basically said "I hate cis ppl" or "I hate straight ppl" (not literally but the gist of it was that) and gotten hundreds of likes from ppl and not a single reply being like "u shouldn't hate on those poor cishets that's not the core of our movement🥺🥺" but when it comes to misandrists? Suddenly it's "noooo feminism isn't about the liberation of women at all!!! It's abt equality with our oppressors!! We don't actually want to dismantle patriarchy that's man hating!!!" Wtf is up with that?
If anything reading abt feminism (not just theory im talking abt news articles on current day issues surrounding women's oppression) makes u hate men more for how they treat women. Many ppl have the "hot take" that feminism shouldn't be abt hating men but I think hating what men do to women is literally a part of being feminist.
I've have way more to say on this but don't feel like yip yapping any longer
Freaks tend to reason “sex is not inherently traumatizing, ergo molestation is not that bad. Just a perception thing.” I take the opposite perspective. I think sex is an inherently fraught, vulnerable, loaded experience. And it makes sense you need adult cognition and confidence to navigate it without repercussion. Even so, adults are fucked up by (ostensibly consensual!) sexual experiences all the time. Sex can be totally “consensual,” and still traumatizing. This doesn’t speak to the immature and undeveloped perspective of the victim. It speaks to the highly personal, vulnerable, fraught nature of sex itself in any capacity
Like, it's the closest two human beings can physically get. Obviously it's not inherently traumatic and bad, it's a biological process, but saying that something that requires such physical closeness isn't inherently loaded and vulnerable is out of touch with reality. The sexual act isn't a seven-headed monster and can bring a lot of pleasure, but it's far from being something simple to deal with
i saw this post a couple days ago and i just can't stop thinking about it. i've been asking the people i'm in dialogue how it's different and nobody has an answer. so tell me how it's different.
TIMs trying to "mog" real women will never not be funny to me. It's genuinely the most male behavior they could possibly exhibit (apart from being porn-addicted rape apes). Like wow, you as a man are better than me at performing a bunch of ludicrous grooming habits and behaviors that were literally created by men for the express enjoyment of males? I am so so shocked to learn that you are more willing than I am to do a bunch of expensive and time-consuming rituals that exist for no other purpose than male sexual gratification. And now you want to try and turn it into a competition that allows you to feel superior to women? Groundbreaking stuff. Man does man thing for men, somebody alert the media
maybe i'm missing something, but where that "radfems hate/fetishise/try to silence trans men" idea came from? why would i want to do that? why would any of us do that?
many of us are detransitioners or desisters, many of us spent years and years in some local "queer" communities. maybe that's just my bias and a pure coincidence, but when i hear horror stories from those times, trans men are literally never the perpetrators or aggressors in them.
we know how it feels to be so overwhelmed with society standards, misogyny and stereotypes that we would even reach for a rusty blade if it offered to take us out of this whirlpool of despair and hopelessness.
why would i hate them? i was like them, a long time ago, although it feels like a different lifetime today. but there's no hatred or aggression, only compassion and understanding of how cruel this world can be.
TRA's seem to completely make things up about radical feminists quite often. And I do not think it is completely out of ignorance either. Rather its a very deliberate tactic.
TRAs love saying “believe people are who they say they are” except when it comes to lesbians saying they don’t like dick and not even if it’s attached to someone who’s altered themselves to look like a woman.
Well as a bi woman, I trust lesbians to know who they are. They say they’re female people only capable of being attracted to other female people.
So, I believe it. I don’t have to know what it’s like to only be attracted to one sex. I just believe women are what they say they are.
The fact that a wealthy, white mother-of-two in California with access to excellent prenatal and birth care, acting as a surrogate for another family in the safest, cleanest, least coercive of all possible surrogacy arrangements, died this week while giving birth really underscores the surrogacy thoughts I've been having recently. Should you be ethically willing or legally able to compel another woman to risk death at worst and major lifetime health consequences at best just so you can have a child that is biologically related to you?
Here’s an article about it.
She died of an amniotic fluid embolism, which is rare but very deadly.
This post gives another example of a surrogate dying and includes this disturbing information:
An article online incorrectly states “the risks of being a surrogate mother are the same as for every pregnancy.” This is not true. Recent studies have shown that surrogate pregnancies are different and are high-risk. Studies show that women pregnant with donor eggs (as in gestational surrogacy) have a more than three-fold risk of developing pregnancy induced hypertension and pre-eclampsia.
W/ the greater risk of hypertension/pre-eclampsia, why? Or rather, is it known why?
Because in a normal pregnancy the baby is >50% related to the mother. In surrogacy, an unrelated egg is used, which means entirely foreign biological material in the woman's body.
Pregnancy is basically a 9 month-long battle between the woman and the embryo; a "healthy" full-term pregnancy can only happen if, essentially, the women's body doesn't realize that the embryo is there, because if it does it will attack it with the woman's immune system as a "foreign body." This is the main reason the placenta exists, to shield the embryo from the woman's immune system (along with nutrient absorption obviously).
The closer the embryo is to the woman, the less likely an immune response will be triggered; this applies to gestational surrogacy, but also relates to things like the sex of the embryo and the embryo's blood type. So, the more genetically different an embryo is from its mother, the higher the overall risk of triggering an immune response, which then increases the likelihood of a smorgasbord of complications given the strain that an immune response causes both the mother and the embryo.
this is just personal observation, but all the people I know who had surrogates (which is only 3 so who really knows), their babies are so so sick all the time. Like months premature, weeks in NICU, multiple hospital stays in infancy, now constantly sick as toddlers, can’t keep weight on, lowest percentiles of height / weight, etc etc. Literally every one of them.
and maybe it’s just a coincidence but maybe you aren’t supposed to implant your eggs in another woman and assume her body will grow a healthy baby for you? not to even talk about what it does to an infant to be forcibly removed from their mother at birth….
This should be obvious to anyone who knows anything about pregnancy/women's healthcare. But because even doctors seem to think that pregnancy is when a woman just incubates a man's offspring for a few months, providing nothing but a chamber in which the baby can grow, they treat it as if it makes no difference where the embryo came from.
Surrogacy is this horrible intersection between modern medicine + capitalism and an almost medieval understanding of pregnancy. Worst of both worlds.
it's not only surrogacy. i meet a lot of kids who are the products of IVF, and the allergies, the immune issues, the eye issues, they are many. I wonder about embryos who have been frozen and thawed. surely that affects the human being? who went through that?
I once was one of the loudest supporters of trans women, the biggest thing that made me change, was realizing how little they actually cared about women. I respected them, just wasn't attracted to them? TERF. I believe there are spaces for women that they should not be allowed in? TERF. Trying to discuss the biological differences from people born xx and xy ? TERF.
I tried so hard to be open and accepting, to see you as women, but time and time again, anything we said that slightly misaligned with how you viewed women, our voices silenced, met with rape/death threats, and often times called misogynystic names. No more will I speak in defense of you guys, when we born as women are not given the same respect.
Trans men in my replies: I understand where you’re coming from but I just have some key ideological differences perhaps we could have a civil discussion over DMs and
Trans women in my replies: get raped and die ugly cumslut foid
I wonder when society is gonna realize that sending abusive men to therapy does nothing but equip them with new official sounding therapyspeak terms to use when guilt tripping their victims
If you're able to understand why it's bad and dehumanizing to call any other marginalized group an animal-based insult, then you are fully capable of understanding why using "bitch" as an insult is sexist.
Men are like "i can barely afford to survive. Time for a baby"
"my father became an alcoholic because he had 5 kids he couldn't feed" was your father a bankrupt billionaire who lost all his prosperity at the worst moment or did was he already a broke ass who discovered children require resources to be spent on them only after the 5th one and decided to take away what they had by becoming an addict instead of being responsible?
"i was a bit hungry all the time because my family had 10 kids and barely enough food for everyone" okay why didn't your father pull out then
Fathers always a fat fuck too when their kids are hungry
actually as a woman I still think misandry makes you an unpleasant person and if you’re just out there saying shit like “all men should die” or “men’s mental health doesn’t matter” then you’re the type of person I want nothing to do with. also this is not what feminism is about btw, you’re not being a strong girl boss with this ideology, you’re just a bully
anyway i love misandrists please follow me if you're a misandrist!!!
feminism is about liberating women and girls from the patriarchy...we don't have to love our oppressors and we can in fact hate them!
It's fascinating, isn't it? How in every single space where women talk, there will always, without exception, be women who defend men, who will say the women go too far--by literally just talking.
Meanwhile you can find men saying the most disgusting things about women and girls and not a single man stands up to them to say the tiniest "maybe that's too far" to them.
And the difference, of course, between women saying mean things about men, and men saying what they do about women is that women are only venting. Yes, even those who say they aren't. We know this because it's not thousands of men being murdered by their female intimate partners every year, and many more hospitalized. It's not male babies being murdered just for being male. It's not men in any country of the world, now or ever, being locked in their homes, unallowed to speak to one another or even look out the windows. It's not female police coercing male rape victims to say they lied and then blasting them all over the news as false accusers. It's not an entire industry built on primarily men and boy's sexual exploitation for the pleasure of women.
Then of course there are the things women couldn't do to men even if we wanted to, but men certainly do it to us: forcible impregnation, and forcing women to bring unwanted pregnancies to term, even if it kills her.
But clearly the real problem is women just aren't nice enough to men.
