rae's coffee shoppe

diary of a disabled queer person

[raewantscoffee]

a little bit about me!

🍂 i go by reagan, or rae for short

🍂 the pitt sideblog @theptmcbreakroomscoffeepot

🍂 kotlc sideblog @marqueseire

🍂 the riordanverse sideblog @thehuntersofartemisofficial

🍂 @raedrinkscoffeeandwrites on ao3

🍂 minor

🍂 they/he/she pronouns

🍂 asexual

🍂 audhd

🍂 physically disabled

🍂 i'm a part of an absolutely absurd amount of fandoms, because of course i can't be normal about anything i like; i must allow it to completely consume my soul

🍁 books:

radio silence by alice oseman

loveless by alice oseman

solitaire by alice oseman

percy jackson and the olympians by rick riordan

heroes of olympus by rick riordan

trials of apollo by rick riordan

like real people do by e.l. massey

like you've nothing left to prove by e.l. massey

all hail the underdogs by e.l. massey

magnus chase and the gods of asgard by rick riordan

as good as dead by holly jackson

unloved by peyton corinne

keeper of the lost cities: stellarlune by shannon messenger

keeper of the lost cities: unraveled by shannon messenger

(there are a lot more, but i won't bore you by listing all of them)

🍁 films/television shows:

the pitt!!!!

heated rivalry

heartstopper

10 things i hate about you

a good girl's guide to murder

my lady jane

the princess diaries

my spy 2

the tomorrow war

gilmore girls

the summer i turned pretty

hamilton

🍁 artists:

conan gray!!!! (seriously, i love conan, he's literally saved my life)

noah kahan

phoebe bridgers

clairo

girl in red

chappell roan

taylor swift

lizzy mcalpine

boygenius

nf

🍁 hobbies:

junk journaling

crocheting

writing

scrolling pinterest and tumblr

making button pins

collecting trinkets

collecting physical media

🍂 my tags!

#rae yaps ⋆˙⟡ (for my lil yaps about my life and stuff <3)

#rae writes ⋆˙⟡ (for stuff about my writing in general)

#rae writes fanfic ⋆˙⟡ (for stuff about my fanfic writing)

#rae loves their moots ⋆˙⟡ (for anything regarding my lovely moots <3)

#rae likes girls ⋆˙⟡ (for anything even remotely sapphic)

#rae loves music ⋆˙⟡ (for anything music related)

[roquehard]

catherine dubois doing amazing pr for the lesbian boyfriend community

[the-future-is-chrome]

when the nonbinary character has an ambiguous assigned sex at birth

[theswisscheeserag]

“I hate school I’m sorry Malala”- Funny yet poignant. Acknowledges both the difficulty of the task and the fact that doing that task is a privilege. Gives credit to the people who fought for that privilege with a tongue in cheek acknowledgement of the irony of the initial statement

“I’m just a girl I should be home baking bread not doing calculus” - at best historically uninformed at worst leaps decades back in time. Refusal to acknowledge the charged history of education and slights the centuries of women’s labor it took to reach this point

[paradoxspaceheater]

the thing about misogyny is that femininity is both devalued AND forced on women (and those misgendered as women). if you fail to meet the arbitrary standard of Womanly Charm you're ugly and unwanted and hate yourself and if you succeed you're shallow and brainless and weak. if you don't try to conform you're lazy and if you do you're vain. it is not possible to beat this system. feminism needs both "feminine doesn't mean weak or less-than" AND "women don't have to be feminine to have value", and if you are fighting for one of these the people fighting for the other are not your enemies, nor are they privileged over you.

this post is inclusive of trans people, including but not limited to trans women and transfeminine people. exclusionary sentiment is not welcome.

[shigure]

i'm sorry i never did your tag game. i love you

[z9luxity]

hot take, but the whole rise of the terms “yaoi” and “yuri” are annoying af. Like, ya’ll do know those terms were created with the intent to fetishize the queer/lgbtq+ community, hence making the terms very degrading and are one of the major reasons why most queer relationships in media are presented as mid?

no? Just me? Alright then.

Thanks for pressing the “keep reading” button, cuz that means you’re interested in what I have to say about the matter.

So, without a further ado…

Hasn’t anybody else realized whenever mlm content is posted to the internet it’s always made by women for women?

It makes no fucking sense, I mean, I don’t care who it’s made by, but instead I care more about who it’s being presented to.

And I don’t like how MAJORITY OF BL is made for women to fetishize (since majority of BL plot has practically no story and only focuses on the characters romance ((which isn’t even a romance since it focuses more on the sex))).

Not only that, but has anybody else realized just how fucking sexist the terms “yaoi” and “yuri” really are? Even the terms himejoshi/danshi and fujioshi/danshi are sexist af.

Because, for some disgusting af reason, yaoi means “no climax, no meaning”

That’s fucking disgusting. The term yaoi literally means “if there’s no hot sex involved it’s not a good mlm story”. What.

And then look at the fucking term yuri, yuri fucking means “lily”, which in Japanese culture is seen as purity and innocence.

How come stories involving two girls is considered more complex and sweet? But then when there’s a story between two guys it’s always turned perverted, shallow, and dark?

This is some next level sexism that nobody talks about.

Not only that, but (as I said earlier about fujioshis/danshi and himejoshis/danshis) the “titles” these fans use on themselves are sexist as fuck too since fujioshi means “rotten girl” and himejoshi means “princess”.

What. The. Actual. Fuck.

And it gets worse from there, because it’s very common for in the fu community, and the hime community, to ship IRL PEOPLE TOGETHER REGARDLESS IF THEY’RE UNCOMFORTABLE OR NOT. Just so they can get off to the idea of them being together.

yeah, no. I can’t stand by the rise of the terms “yaoi” and “yuri”.

You can block me all you want, but I’m standing my ground.

[raewantscoffee]

agreed.

[evilpineapple-offical]

Intersex people should be included in pride. Straight aspec people should be included in pride. There is no such thing as “not queer enough”

[hudconov]

the way they’re looking at each other here

[raewantscoffee]

AHHHH MY BABIES

[lliveonthesunn]

i get why people don't believe in marriage as a social construct but legally it is the best and easiest way to say "this is who i trust to take care of me when i can't take care of myself" and i'm so glad gay people fought for that right bc when shit gets scary at least i know im in good hands

[goth-queen]

[disguised-offical]

LESBIAN

Hit the like button

[off-cybertruck]

What flag did you get when you liked this post?

asexual

aromantic

nothing ( boo :( )

cake

rainbow

other

Remaining time: 3 days 8 hours

i swear i've seen like twenty of these polls a day so i'll make one too.

[itsuwari-no-kibo-offical]

I know what you did. >:3

You forgot to drink water didnt you.

^ this is me when you dont drink water

V this is me when you do drink water

[my-dailydreams]

[i-hate-gcse-english-lit-offical]

NOPE NOPE NOPE THE WHOLE OF TUMBLR ISN'T QUEER ENOUGH IT'S PRIDE MONTH YOU PLONKERS GET QUEERER RIGHT NOW

[duckofmisfortuneoffical]

do you

want me to maker gayer posts?

how

[i-hate-gcse-english-lit-offical]

channel the energy of 50000 screaming homosexuals

[duckofmisfortuneoffical]

what about 100000000 agenders left in an abyss

[i-hate-gcse-english-lit-offical]

that works even better

[ave-the-rat-king-deactivated202]

exclusionist can fuck off

[schrodingers-fyke]

I am loving the:

Bi-pan solidarity

Lesbian-ace solidarity

And the

NB-trans solidarity!

[the-based-brit]

Anyway, pansexuality is both biphobic and transphobic, thus pan people don't belong in the LGBT community.

Asexuals aren't inherently LGBT and don't belong, either (unless they also happen to experience same-sex attraction or gender dysphoria). Some aces are also pretty homophobic.

As for nonbinaries...well, I'm nb-neutral, but I do find it odd how no one identified as nonbinary before it was cool.

[lily-orchard]

[rossisrad]

Someone should remake that image, but with @the-rains-of-castamere's new user.

[folk-ever-lore]

[ellowynthenotking]

Anyone who says stuff like the-based-brit did is just trying to tear the community apart because we're weaker when we're separate groups.

We are stronger as a united front!

A rising tide lifts all ships, and rights for one are rights for everyone!

[the-haiku-bot]

A rising tide lifts

all ships, and rights for one are

rights for everyone!

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

[number1wifemisser]

hi, transman, pansexual, and aceflux person here

because I'm trans and pan and dating several trans people your argument is invalid

as for ace, they get discriminated as much as the rest of the community, so to you @the-based-brit, go fuck yourself :3

[artemisiamasterofnone]

as an enby spec aroace

@the-based-brit fuck you