âthis information perpetuates a harmful narrative thatââ
okay but is it fucking true?
âIs it true?â is an important question, but in some ways, itâs overvalued. The second question must be âis it relevant?â Like when that immigrant accidentally shot that woman, and suddenly all the anti-immigration people could talk of nothing else. The fact he was an immigrant wasnât relevant to why he fired the gun, but it was treated as relevant just because it was true.
Sometimes itâs not what you say, itâs what you donât say. [The quiet part, not usually said aloud.]
A young woman was assaulted in the toilets by a transwoman! [Therefore all transwomen are dangerous predators.]
I was mugged by a black person the other day. [Therefore my racist fear of black people is justified, theyâre all criminals.]
My female boss just passed me over for promotion again. [Sheâs reflective of all women being bitchy, bad managers.]
Oh, you donât want to deal with that Jewish shop, they short changed me. [Cheating us, as they always do.]
When we add descriptors of people, we need to be careful of why theyâre there. Sometimes itâs just adding a nice little detail about the person: my gay son, my Chinese son in law, my Jewish coworker. It might be relevant to the act youâre discussing (a Muslim coworker observing Ramadan for instance.) Sometimes, though, the inclusion of these identifiers isnât necessary, and youâre using them to identify a group at large and pin the behaviour on the group, as in my above examples.
When someone does it, its well worth wondering: what is the quiet part theyâre not saying?
There are people out there saying the quiet part aloud, and uh⌠Usually we donât want to be associated with them, hence why people donât say it. They dance around it, like the above.
some of this is on me for vagueposting, I understand. I was thinking about a 99% Invisible episode where they talk about Dafen, the Chinese village where they make copies of other art pieces, where one of the narrators claimed that articles about it perpetuate a âharmful narrativeâ about modern day China being a little weak on the creativity side, without addressing whether thatâs actually true or not. Obviously you could not have known that.
Is it an issue that I didnât degender the driver that almost hit me the other day?
Meh, despite all I have to say on the issue I am also of the opinion itâs not that deep. For the most part in person to person interactions, nobody is implying anything by adding a bit more information (usually people just do it for verisimilitude.)
Itâs more when people are saying stuff online or in the press you should really wonder what theyâre not saying.
Understandable.
>Like when that immigrant accidentally shot that woman, and suddenly all the anti-immigration people could talk of nothing else. The fact he was an immigrant wasnât relevant to why he fired the gun, but it was treated as relevant just because it was true.Â
(Terms and conditions apply.)Â
It was absolutely relevant to the fact that he was released by a sanctuary city even though the cops wanted him, which allowed him to steal someoneâs gun and shoot a random woman by accident.Â
And given that you left out âillegalâ and call the other side âanti-immigrantâ, Iâd say youâre not exactly unbiased.Â
âIs it trueâ is the most relevant question. âIs it relevant?â is a second order question.
>Sometimes itâs not what you say, itâs what you donât say. [The quiet part, not usually said aloud.]Â
Just say âdog-whistlesâ, itâll save everyone time. Â Â
>I was mugged by a black person the other day. [Therefore my racist fear of black people is justified, theyâre all criminals.]Â
I find it interesting that you donât contemplate the fact that such an incident could create a racist fear, even if the person knows itâs irrational and wrong.Â
Not only are you making assumptions about peopleâs ârealâ meaning, youâre viewing them in the most uncharitable light possible.Â
If the black mugger shouted racial slurs at their victim during the crime, and the victim is non-black, the muggerâs race is actually relevant, because it might be a hate crime, and the victim may be warning their friend of the same race to stay away from that particular neighbourhood.Â
Of course, itâs ironic that you chose this, when the press made a big deal out of hate crimes against Asians a year ago (?) without mentioning how they were unusually likely to be committed by black people.
































