little PSA because I'm getting annoyed.
If you make/reblog posts talking about how "aro/ace people are valid!" But dismiss anyone who says theyre sex or romance repulsed by saying "but all humans have a sex drive!",
.....You are part of the problem.
Apothi aro/ace people exist, and are in fact part of the ace spectrum.
For some people being sex/romance repulsed was choice, or just personal preference; for others it can be caused by personal reasons or trauma. We literally can't help it.
Contrary to common belief; most of the time we aren't "anti kink" or "puritans", or whatever the public wants you to think. Some such as myself don't fully understand why people like romance or sexual activity so much and that's okay; that doesn't mean they're against it.
I for one am an apothisexual panromantic and am in a very happy romantic non-sexual relationship with my girlfriend and I wouldn't have it any other way.
I also have favourite foods, favourite animals, and I watch TV shows and go to college and work everyday, usually a bit late.
I am in fact, a human being, contrary to common belief.
We are not your enemy so stop dehumanising and shunning apothiaroaces and acting like they're weird just for being themselves.