I'm honestly not sure how I identify, I know I'm not a female or female aligned. I'm a demonkin and autistic and those both effect my gender. I've cycled through so many terms my head is spinning and I'm just so lost and frustrated and overwhelmed. I know I don't need a label but at the same time I Need One™️ if that makes any sense. (Sorry I'm having a meltdown) -🎃👻
i know exactly how you feel. it’s frustrating and overwhelming and uncomfortable. here are some terms that you might feel useful, but remember that it’s ok to have as many labels as you want, and that it’s also ok to not be sure of what label you identify with! i hope you feel better soon!
Autigender / Autisgender: When a person’s gender, or understanding of gender, is impacted by their autism.
Kingender: A catch-all term used to describe people whose gender(s) are related to them being otherkin, or are somehow influenced by it.
Demongender: Your identity as a demon kin and/or demonolater is strongly tied to your gender identity.
Daimogender: When you feel your gender is closely related to demons or the supernatural. This is not exclusively for demonkin, though if anyone uses it, the coiner would like them to be involved in supernatural things. A person does not require dysphoria to be Daimogender. Derived from the word “daimon,” which was the original greek word for “demon.”
Daegender: A gender that feels demonic or evil in nature, can be associated with a gender or be a gender all itself. Someone could be daeboy/daegirl/daenby or just daegender.
Daederic: A gender that feels demonic and/or unholy. it’s the polar opposite of seraphaeic. This gender can be masc aligned, fem aligned, unaligned, etc.This gender can be used by anyone, but was created with demonkin in mind
Xumgender: Never being satisfied with your gender due to constant self-doubt or identity issues, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits as perfect as possible–to find “the gender” or “the one truth”–though one will never be found due to one’s neurotype, because words will never be able to describe it, and/or its own properties paradox itself. This frequent anxiety and doubt even causes this gender to feel imperfect to the individual.
Implagender / Inexgender: Never being satisfied with your gender due to constant self-doubt, causing one to search and seek out something that fits as perfect as possible. (Similar to Xumgender, but not neurodivergent-exclusive).
Pendogender: Never being satisfied with your gender no matter how well it fits due to self-doubt, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits even better. Gender perfectionism. This term is exclusive to neurodivergent people only, specifically coined with people with anxiety disorders, OCD, and OCPD in mind.
