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If I started talking about the inseparable relationship between powerscaling and toxic masculinity would y'all blast me?
Friendly Fandom reminder for me and everybody else:
Just because the fanon version of a character is different from the canon version of a character, does not mean you cannot enjoy the fanon version!
The fanon version clearly became popular for a reason, it is not bad to consume media of this version of the character.
DANDYS WORLD DISCORD SERVER
A muti-fandom server for adults! | 12 members
Here's me and Zee's adults only Dandy's World themed server!!! Though, other Roblox games are TOTALLY allowed! We're just mainly themed around DW! (we need more adult DW friends)
It's mostly just a hangout server and a place where we can also play games n stuff too!!!!
the ninth poll for my class
do/did you enjoy your time in fandom
yes, i loved/ love reading fanfic/ making fan art/ etc
yes, though now that i’m out, i realize it wasn’t healthy for me
no, i was constantly harassed while in fandom
it was fine
Lao’s Discord Server!
Join my Discord server and get additional information, art and headcanons about my muses! Chat and interact with each other and more!
This is a discord server centred around my blogs and muses. Since I can’t post every single detail on Tumblr (because I’d be spamming everyone), I’ve made a discord server in which I post headcanons, doodles, extras and more! This server is a place for fans of my blogs and muses!
As I’ve said before, Tumblr isn’t the best place to interact with one’s followers and since I’ve got so many and barely know you guys, I made this server to interact more!
What you get when you join the server:
real time updates when I post something new on my blogs
previews for updates
lots of headcanons (including German states talk)
some insights on German culture and history
I publish my written one-shots here!
You can ask me (the mun) questions!
STREAMING! Watch me draw, cosplay ask hours and gaming!
Chatting with cool people!
Roleplay with my muses and ask them anything!
To sum it up: I share a lot of stuff that I don’t post on my blogs, to not spam everyone. Besides Discord is much more interaction friendly than Tumblr. If you like my stuff and characters, it’s worth joining! Everyone is welcome! You don’t have to be very active and don’t have to interact with everything. I know it can get a little overwhelming at times.
If you decide to join, please read the rules in the server! Thank you <3
If you wanna join, send me an ask! (Due to raids I’ve closed open invitations.)
Don’t think I ever really advertised so officially since I’m getting back into it-
I HAVE AN EVER AFTER HIGH DISCORD SERVER!!
It’s very queer and hc friendly!! There’s a space for ever after ocs and lots of discussion of the show and books! Plus places to boost faart and writing!
Dm me for a link! Everyone’s rlly nice and we have a lot of fun! I think it’d be nice to have more people! Especially since the server was made to replace one we used to be in and we lost some people in the switch. :)
PS there is a Monster High server in less active in but that I can also offer links too!!
How to act in fandom spaces...
...from someone who has been in fandom most of their life.
Over the last year there seems to be a lot more people who previously didn’t appear in fandom spaces coming into them with popular platforms like tiktok and then more private platforms like tiktok being used. Whether you’re someone who is older but new to fandom or just someone who is younger, you need to understand how to act in fandom spaces and why:
Racism and fetishisation
Racism and fetishisation are no acceptable in any fan space. This encompasses many things - art, writing, just how you talk about characters and celebrities. I’ve already made a post on this which you can see here.
Constructive criticism
If you are posting fan work in whatever form publicly you need to be prepared that constructive criticism may come. If you’re the one giving the criticism, make sure you do it in a nice way. Not ‘oh your work is rubbish look at x y z’ think about saying something more like ‘I love your artwork but it would be great if you drew more BIPOC characters as I don’t see myself/others represented’. If you are receiving this criticism, the chances are the person giving it is giving it for a reason. Do not dismiss them. Listen to their worries, research them. Especially, especially if you are someone with a large following it is your responsibility to make sure you are creating work which helps your following to do better too.
Bullying
Bullying is not acceptable anywhere. If someone has a different opinion to you, or gives constructive criticism, do not bully them. Don’t spend time going through their personal things and pulling everything up. You never know what someone has gone through in the past or now, whether they have self harming or suicidal tendencies. If you think their view is wrong, engage in polite discussion. Do not bully that person for personal things or you may end up with their blood on your hands.
Discord
If you’re going to run a discord, you need to think about how you want to do it. Are you keeping it adult only? Are you allowing minors in? Is it going to be invite only, or can anyone join? Which ever you choose there are different things you need to expect. If you are allowing minors in, NSFW channels need to be carefully controlled and very hard to access. If you are allowing minors in to the discord you need to monitor everything carefully. Your admin and moderator team to be mature, they need to make sure they are checking everything and keeping the space safe, encouraging people not to be sexist/racist/homophobic/transphobic/bullies etc. If you do not stop this you are just as guilty and especially if you are an adult, there can be consequences for you elsewhere. Don’t ever forget this.
What is appropriate where
There are certain jokes and comments which may be appropriate in small spaces. Even more so appropriate is thinking of age groups and the influence your comments have. However, remember when you post things to public platforms especially like tiktok immediately your content is out for the world to see. It could easily go viral and be seen by anyone. If you want to joke with friends, do it in an appropriate place. Posting publicly online immediately means that a lot more people will see it, especially younger more impressionable fans. You need to avoid creepy, Stan like fan behaviour and fetishisation/racism because young fans will see this and pick up on it.
This is especially aimed at Star Wars and associated actors spaces but it applies everywhere. A lot of these spaces are curated to be away from men with their toxic, sexist views by people who identify not as men, or are on the LGBTQ+ spectrum. But that doesn't mean that they’re not toxic. If you allow bullying or fetishisation to take place you are just as bad and as guilty as the toxic men we make these spaces to be away from.
I’ve especially noticed that this is a problem in the Pedro Pascal fan space. I want you all to think about Pedro for a second. Would he condone any of this? Would he condone you fetishising his race? Would he condone you bullying someone for giving constructive feedback? No he wouldn’t and he would in fact be furious if he found out his fans are engaging in this behaviour. So don’t do it. Be a bigger and better person and engage in fan spaces in a safe and inclusive way.
