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whenever i dress femme as an agender person i always want to wave my hands around and say 'it's fake!' in a mock magicians voice whenever someone compliments me. i am basically in drag babe, this is not me.

tboy-cock

I hope this isn’t too weird an ask but I wanted your take on this. I have some thoughts, but I’m not sure I’m able to articulate them clearly. I think a lot of it boils down to: Why are you blaming Nolan being a shitty writer and misogynist on the people he casts?

I also wonder if I’m in the wrong for being somewhat offended by this. Maybe I just don’t know enough about the situation and I do NOT want to defend this movie, but I don’t think Elliot has gotten nearly as many roles since he transitioned (I don’t have a source though, I might very well be wrong). It feels incorrect to tout this one instance of privilege and misogyny as representative.

(Censored tumblr OP’s name, but it’s all the same person)

i feel like elliot page is kinda the poster child for transmasculine oppression. like yeah he gets rape and death threats all the time by strangers on such a wide scale that he has the knowledge that a lot of the people who he encounters know who he is, and therefore a non zero amount of the people that he might encounter have been one of those people threatening to rape/"fix" or murder him. and people spread around his pre transition photos like "damn she used to be hot but now shes made herself unfuckable to men she needs to die" and misgender him and spread around "unflattering" photos of him (hes in front of cameras all the time and people just screenshot mildly unflattering photos and are like "SEE?? SHES UGLY" even though he just looks like a normal dude) and ive seen people specifically want to buy a movie that he was in where he was still identifying as a cis woman and it had his deadname on it and collect it. i literally just looked up the claim you made about him struggling to get acting roles and while I couldn't verify from what little i read i did see multiple people saying that hes a "bad actor" and "only got roles because she was hot" and now hes "ended his career" because hes not an attractive woman anymore

but yeah he got cast in the odessey and has a good role thats written well because of trans male privilege, and that singular fact and that the guy who made the role is a misogynist just negates every oppression he has experienced for being a trans man. hashtag transfeminism or whatever

the-guilty-hero

A request for a friend. My sense of humor is broken to the point that I spent half the stream laughing at the reference picture even after finishing the doodle. It's not perfect but sharing it in hopes it will make someone's day a little bit better!

maykitz

my jaw hit the ground

tboy-cock

asking the person who claims to say "id cover my drink around you/cross the street if i saw you" and "you look like youd hatecrime me/call me a slur" to trans men to "affirm" our genders if they also tell cis men that they look like theyd rape or attack them because theyre men just to feel something

cheaphalloweencostume

i have never seen this type of annotation before on wikipedia in my life

hotvampireadjacent

Stationed at the Mexican food trucks near my work you know it o7

beemovieerotica

was at a bar and a 50+ year old drunk white woman complimented me and my friend's outfits, told us there was a campsite up in northern maryland where a lot of gay bears go to have sex in the woods. we asked her how she knew about this and she very aggressively said "because i'm a FAG HAG!!! but i'm not allowed to say that anymore I GUESS!!!"

lestatrocks

louis smiling and confirming to regina that hes gay is so funny to me.... no no i didnt want SEX oh god, you mustve thought i was so creepy haha. Noooo omg i want you to act like my dead vampire daughter who was also a stand in for my humam sister who died believing me to be a monster. which i am.

homoquartz

if you spoke to lestat or louis about your pain, they would say, "your pain? what about MY pain?" but if you spoke about your pain to armand he would say "let me lobotomize you and you will never feel pain again." he has a solution-based mindset and we could all learn from him.

tsarina-anadyomene

we should mandate industrial themed nonbinary names to balance out all of the people naming themselves after trees. throw Anvil into the mix

loreleywrites

im always saying this

ggcrono

fleshengine

taraxacum-brain-goop

so like...i know most people don't think or know a lot about diabetes but PLEASE don't joke about it. "i bet that tastes like diabetes" "this is going to give me diabetes" please don't. for one thing, that's generally not how it works; type 1 is an autoimmune disease and type 2 is insulin resistance, it's never as simple as "ate to much sugar and now i have diabetes". but also, diabetes kills people? it damages our bodies? it's expensive as hell? it just fucking sucks? it's something that i have to deal with 24/7 and it's never going to go away and hearing people joke about it without a second thought just feels awful. don't joke about it, don't talk to people you barely know like you're more informed than they are, and if you hear someone joking about it tell them to cut that shit out!!