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[thecutebifemboy]

Okay! Hey! I don’t know how to make a welcome page but, uh, welcome? 

My name is Aaron, my main hobby is writing fantasy fiction. And I’m also an artist, when I don’t feel like my artstyle is horrible. 

If you wanna be friends please learn to be respectful and kind to me and my non-existent mutuals. Thank you, beautiful people of the internet!

DNI: Radical Feminists In General, Those who yell at people for defending literal fake things, Pro-lifers, Any overly religious person, Porn Blogs, Femcels, Incels, Racists, Homophobes, Transphobes, Albeists, Anti-Kin, Anti-Reality Shifters, Antishippers, Harassers, and anti-fiction people. Please and thank you.

I am proship, so please understand that. Thank you.

[wincist]

to anyone who needs to hear it:

you do not need to disclose your mental illness to justify your interest in dark media

you do not need to disclose your past trauma to justify your interest in dark media

you do not need to be mentally ill, neurodivergent, or traumatized in order to have an interest in dark media

humans have and always will have an interest in the dark, mysterious, dangerous, and taboo. you don’t have to justify yourself - you’re simply human.

[just-antithings]

so you’re going to ignore yourself? you also have a gender

[thecutebifemboy]

I don't think they realize "woman" or "female" is also a gender.

[theophagie-remade]

Screaming

[whatbigotspost]

This is a really good point. I don’t think libraries have ever been more important to protect and support. As a very popular post out there somewhere once pointed out, can you imagine if libraries were proposed today? They’d be tossed away as “social garbage.”

So yeah, support them and actually USE your card too. Most library systems have apps for ebook borrowing so you don’t even have to go in.

[empresstress13]

As a librarian: PLEASE DO!

And there are so MANY different programs that many libraries have!

[amerlcanapparel-deactivated2020]

when she says she doesn’t send nudes

[straighthater]

when guys objectify women and expect them to send nudes

[timelordpillbug]

when someone asks you about your nuclear plans for russia

[hikingnerd]

When Russia sends you nudes

[dr-thackery]

[dismantlerepaired]

[ilovepretzelrods]

[thegingerbalrog]

[onwardwall]

[miss-jaxon-flaxon-waxon]

#what the fuck happened here

[her-eyes-dared-me-with-danger]

This is my favorite post in all of tumblr

[kyloschuyler]

reminder that this post is now illegal in Russia

[tree-of-blue-squirrel]

reblog it, because Russia can´t

[maradaisykat]

Thanks Obama 

[my-sisters-eyeball]

Wtf

[roomba-with-knives-taped-to-it]

When Russia makes this post illegal

[earthnicity]

I HAVE ONLY SEEN THIS IN SCREENSHOTS

[dovahdez]

I will reblog this every goddamn time I find it on my dash

[love-has-a-way-ofgrowingbackward]

I have found a Legendary Post

[doe--lita-deactivated20220823]

ITS HERE

[thecutebifemboy]

Russia sent nudes so it's trying to cover up it's tracks now.

[babygoose-deactivated20240106]

boys 👏 can 👏 be 👏 asexual👏

rb if you agree

[pepsimansthickjuicymeatyschlong]

boys 👏 can 👏 be 👏 aromantic👏

rb if you agree

[aroace-culture-is]

Boys 👏 can 👏 be 👏 aroace 👏

Rb if you agree

[transfaguette]

I hate this idea that "transition" is a fixed point with a simple before and after, and that for binary trans people, on either side is cis womanhood or cis manhood. Fuck that. I'm neither. I don't have to justify why I'm worth anything to feminism by saying "well I *used* to be a girl or I *have the experience of* a girl." I'm earned a spot in this conversation because I'm a trans man and these issues affect trans men, end of story.

[thecutebifemboy]

Welp, didn't do well in the audition but that's fine-

[inthetags]

reblog and put in the tags the similarity between you and your icon

[cesium-sheep]

always be even more suspicious of the narrative of "addicted to pain killers" when they're talking about a person who suffered severe injuries likely to result in persistent chronic pain. are they actually """"addicted"""" or are they managing a chronic condition?

[spooniestrong]

We’re pain patients.

We’re IN PAIN.

That means we need, and should get, PAIN KILLERS.

[caustic-light]

Not to derail, but same thing goes for ppl with ADHD and stimulants. I literally got drug tested in advance of getting my prescription bc the medical field assumes anyone taking meds that can be addictive is automatically not to be trusted. Same goes also for people taking depressants against anxiety or insomnia. A friend of mine has to repeatedly fight tooth and nail to not be taken off the meds that literally make them not have random panic attacks out of nowhere bc their doctor thinks they’re on too much meds already. Being reliant on anything that feasably could get someone high is seen as at best half a step away from addiction and to be treated with utmost scrutiny, even when the condition kind of makes abusing the drug pretty much impossible. (Dunno if that is the case with painkillers but it’s definitely the case for many ppl with adhd that we literally can not get high off stimulants.) And of course the prospect of addiction is automatically always worse than the pain/illness being treated. Doctors will straight up rather see you get a fatal heart attack from constant anxiety than risk you getting addicted to the meds that prevent that. They will rather you be in constant pain than think that you might potentially get high off painkillers. They will rather you’re unable to manage you shit and have no executive function than have you use ritalin to get through college.

[dhdrawings]

Me and literally everyone else I know who regularly takes pain meds have a similar thought process when someone tells us pain meds are addictive

"Why on earth would I waste pain meds on a small high when I could really need them tomorrow"

Even family who got regular refills for their meds still didnt waste cause it's still limited?? Like they count em out and u cant just go whenever u run low, u can only refill them after X amount of days

So I can make my pain tolerable for the next month or I can get high maybe 2-3 times cause the doctors always give u way less than u need

[noping-out-deactivated20241117]

Just a reminder that people with chronic pain who are denied pain meds can and do commit suicide as a result.

The opioid epidemic has been used as an excuse to cold turkey untold numbers of people with chronic pain off of their pain meds and deny others access to pain meds at all. The medical system would rather see us suffer endless torture - or see us dead - than treat our pain.

[orchidvioletindigo]

It should 100% be illegal for companies to make you give them your payment information when you sign up for a free trial version of their product. It is not necessary and there is no good fucking reason for them to do it. It’s blatantly just so they can steal forgetful customers’ money.

[saint-batrick]

oh hey, thanks for reminding me to cancel a free trial i had going on.

[tattooedzombigirl]

Reblog to save an unnecessary charge cause it also reminded me to cancel a trial lol

[furiousgoldfish]

Abuser, while insulting you, threatening you, dehumanizing you and/or beating you: Stop making me look like the bad guy

[olderthannetfic]

Idk where to vent this but I just got done with my look into Boyfriends and I’m so pissed. It’s literally the most inoffensive thing I’ve ever read. Just so everyone knows: the antiblack gay fetishizer who draws cp is..... an Indonesian transman who once at 14 years old said the n-word while not knowing what it really meant and drew sexual fan art of of a 17 year old k-pop idol, and also jokingly called Nerd a proshipper a year ago. THATS IT! I’m tired of every queer creator who gets any attention getting attacked for shit people literally just made up for the purpose of slandering them. Also for any lurkers in the back: PREP, NERD, GOTH AND JOCK ARENT GAY STEREOTYPES! Those are ARCHETYPES, they exist in a TON of different media!! Please look up actual gay stereotypes, and stop talking out your ass FFS

--

That poor kid.

"Waaaaah, underage Jungkook from BTS art!!!!" is an amazingly embarrassing thing to care about when Jungkook fucking debuted at 13.

Go bother the idol industry, people. Or go harass Korea about mandatory conscription since that's often what pushes the debut ages so low. All of us who like idols are complicit in a deeply troubling industry. It's like these dumbasses want to wipe clean their own guilt by transferring it to some artist who was drawing other teenagers their own age.

I suppose one could call those archetypes stereotypes... but they're not gay stereotypes. People might stereotype goths as being bisexual, but they don't stereotype bisexuals as being goths. They should though. You should see my Daljeets boots.

Joking aside, you are correct about this situation. A lot of us hardline anti-censorship people were horrified at the time this was more actively going down and did talk about it. Of course, it never penetrated the thick skulls of any of the people howling about him.

Fundamentally, they're probably angry because he's popular for his art and they are not. It's jealousy, not activism.

If he were a fetish artist going "I do what I like!" and drawing tentacle rape, these little pustules would never have started bothering him. It's because he draws the fluffiest, most toothless webtoon ever and because he's young and trans and vulnerable.

[comehellorhighwatertheywillwrite]

[notemily]

The devil works hard but Cowboy Starshine of the Confession Executive Committee fandom works harder

[transandrophobia-truther-turtle]

The problem with "not all men" is that misogynists use it to derail important conversations about abusive men.

The problem with "not all men" is not that it's literally false.

It is true that there are good men who do not abuse others. It is important to recognize that, and to talk about it in appropriate places (so, not interrupting conversations about abusive men, but other places).

If your takeaway from the "not all men" thing is not "there are appropriate and inappropriate times to talk about men's issues" but "there is NEVER a good time to talk about men's issues, and YES all men are bad"... well, I'm trans. :'D I don't trust you.

[byjove]

realizing I could technically say “yeah my mother wanted a girl so she dressed me like a little girl” to explain my childhood photos and it would technically be correct and win me much more sympathy than just saying I’m trans

[byjove]

“you’re right it IS weird to force children to live as a gender they know they are not”