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sailermoon

this is how new yorkers @ mamdani

sailermoon

mousidy

proponents of the sex binary love to say that the Essence of your sex is stored only in one or another part of your body, and this Essence loves to move the moment it's pointed out that that aspect is not always aligned with one's other sex characteristics via being intersex or transsexual

"sex is in your genitals, I mean it's in your chromosomes, uh I mean it's in the size of gamete your body produces, uh I mean it's in the size of gamete your body is intended (???) to produce"

mousidy

there are plenty of body parts that are regularly attributed to sex, and yet people are terrified of the idea that they may not always come in one of two particular configurations

all the talk about which part your Sex Essence really lies in is just drawing and redrawing linguistic boundaries as a method of erasing intersex and transsexual people. it's pure word games played to deny reality and define those of us who don't fit into the sex binary out of existence

mousidy

the mythology of the Sex Essence, by the way, is how the patriarchy attempts to keep people bound to their assigned classes so it can categorize and control. you don't have a sex. you have a configuration of body parts and you have a state assigned class loosely based on only one of those body parts

mousidy

when they say "sex is real" they really mean "Sex Essence is real"

btw when a lot of you say "amab" and "afab" it's obvious you're actually referring to Sex Essence rather than referring to the process by which the state assigns a class

dvandom

AMBTS (Assigned Male By The State)

mousidy

CAN WE SWITCH TO THIS ACRONYM ACTUALLY

mousidy

- people need to be reminded who does the fucking assigning

- doesn't roll off the tongue, so you will never hear a trans woman called "an ambts" out loud

torstherapy

tinsnip

Per @spoonstrek

keyboardsareforcoding

Stopped saying I want to kill myself and started saying damn I tired I need to sleep instead and it made insane impact. Be kinder to yourself and ask the questions and say the things you would think it would be good to say towards someone you love. Try to talk to you like you would to a friend. I know it is hard and we can't always do it but it helps

hotvampireadjacent

catcrumb

ishowdespair-deactivated2026012

videolottery

I’m chained up in a basement and tortured + bleeding but I’m not an emaciated little twink so no one even cared enough to jack off to it

pseudomantis

one if my favorite gifs right now the blankest eyes ive ever seen the lights are on but no ones home. and the other thing like grooming its snout but i don't think its even aware of what its doing. i dont think either of them know anything or know that theyre alive

Beyond the Visible - Hilma af Klint (Jenseits des Sichtbaren - Hilma af Klint, Halina Dyrschka, 2019)

cheaphalloweencostume

i need to come up with a way to say “i mean like, movies for grownups” that doesn’t make me feel like a villain

sea-salted-wolverine

well, first you spend half an hour reassuring them that kids movies are fine and movies for young people are fine and the movies aimed at younger demographics are fine. And kids movies can be just as good and nuanced and valuable. But simple stories are fine too. And its fine that popculture block buster movies are aimed at families for mass appeal to bring in the max amount of revenue and put butts in seats. And its fine that studios hedge their bets and aim for known franchised IPs that will produce a high ROI because of the nostalgia factor because its fine that its the 5th sequel spinoff reboot of the story they liked as a kid. Its fine actually, you have to promise that you have no issues with any of that.

It's just that you would maybe sorta like to watch anything other than that.

And then you're a villain who hates fun.

drizzledrawings

Im so used to my queer echochamber that when a woman doesnt have armpit hair its like a jumpscare

joleneghoul

i think censoring subtitles is actually ableism

do-rei-mi

It legitimately is. I was a live captioner for deaf and HOH folks and one of the first things they told us in training was that if someone said a slur, it was our job to faithfully transcribe it. It isn't the job of a captioner to censor shit; the people using the captions we created did not need to be shielded from the things being said to them, because they needed the full context in order to make their own determinations about what was happening. If someone said the n word? It was my job to type out the n word, regardless of how uncomfortable it might feel to me.