Till the Stars Run Out

Hey it’s Star Here to gather my hoard of hyperfixations and occasionally throw out silly goofy fandom ideas

[kultofathena]

[positivelypositivethoughts]

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

5 Things that Keep us Stuck in Life

1. Believing negative, unproductive and self-defeating thoughts. These include thoughts like “I could never … I’m not good enough to … I don’t deserve to … I’m useless at …”

2. Blaming others. It’s true that other people can have a huge effect on what happens to us, and where we are in life. But we give them too much power if we let them set our course, and see ourselves as victims, and act like we’ve no power.

3. Taking ourselves too seriously. It’s important to work hard and to have integrity – but we also have to laugh and enjoy ourselves as well. Also, decide to let things go, and put up with some mistakes. You’re not a perfect person and, the truth is - that’s OK!

4. Being afraid to take some risks or to live close to the edge. To have an interesting life you must leave your comfort zone and say “yes” to some new chances and opportunities. It will broaden your perspective, reduce anxiety, and provide you with new options and possibilities.

5. Being afraid of change. It doesn’t take much effort to stick with what you know. The unknown can seem daunting as we don’t know where that leads! But we grow as individuals and lead a richer life if we learn to accept changes, instead of being scared.

[ithelpstodream]

[glitterz]

Omg rly ??

[ithelpstodream]

yes! really!

translifeline.org

US: [phone]

CANADA: [phone]

Pacific time: 8am to 2am

Mountain time: 9am to 3am

Central time: 10am to 4am

Eastern time: 11am to 5am

Alaska time: 7am to 1am

Hawaii time: 6am to 12am

[aaliyahbreaux]

Okay so I just got off the phone with them. I talked to a trans girl named Aurora & she was super helpful! She gave me a few doctors to talk to & encouraged me to seek therapy instead of just rushing to get my pills. She literally found a trans friendly therapist in my town & I would definitely recommend giving them a call!

[almondkittie]

Y’all please help in anyway you can. This baby is only 11!

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[lolchipss]

How to Deal With Suicidal Thoughts #BellLetsTalk 

Thank you to everyone who supported us and made this video possible! 

[cookiethedevil]

Signal boost!!!

[supershawoltt]

signal boost

[great-tweets]

“This is a teachable moment for you.”

[mbaku-babygirl]

She did that!!!!

[lilithdevile]

ATTENTION PET OWNERS

This post is going to rushed but I’m still shaking and it’s hard to type but I NEED people to know this

My mom just took my dog to the vet She(my dog) was(still is?) having a seizure

Last month we took my dog to the vet and they told us she had developed diabetes, they told us it was caused by the food she was eating, purina beneful. They told us that there have been many many many reports of Beneful has been causing diabetes, seizures, and even death in dogs.

We had no idea

We immediately switched her food and put her on a special diet plan for her diabetes, unfortunately the effects were already permeate.

Today at 11:20 my mom woke me up crying, I helped her carry my dog to the car (while she was still having a seizure) and watched her drive away red faced and still crying.

Please please PLEASE if you are feeding your pets Purina beneful PLEASE switch their food ASAP Beneful is poising dogs and I don’t want anyone else to experience what I just did Also if you could please help me signal boost this so everyone can know

[toxic-w0nder-deactivated2016020]

This would explain why my dog has seizures now…fucking hell

[the666assbutt]

Reblog and save lives of dogs

[skeletonboyfriend-remade]

found out purina was the reason my dog winston had been having seizures and puking. please don’t feed your dog purina.

[st-rks-deactivated20160918]

reblog even if you don’t own a dog or even if you’re not “a dog person” because I can’t even imagine how horribly depressed I would be if this happened to my dog

[coffee-khaleesi-deactivated2020]

When I was training to be a battered women’s advocate, my supervisor said something that really blew my mind:

“You can always assume one thing about your clients; and that is that they are doing their best. Always assume everyone is doing their best. And if they’re having a day where their best just isn’t that great, or their best doesn’t look like your best, you have to be okay with that.”

Any now whenever anyone in my life, either a friend or a client, frustrates me, disappoints me, or pisses me off, I just tell myself They are doing their best. Their best isn’t that great today, but I have days where my best isn’t that great either. 

[yesdarlingido]

this. everytime. this. 

[purple-possibilities]

Soooo has tumblr randomly blocked blogs for you?

After blocking a porn blog in the app, I checked my blocked list and found a few naruto blogs that I have no reason to have blocked (I only block porn, spam, and people who steal artwork, everyone else is chill lol). So I’m wondering if anyone else has seen/found mysteriously blocked blogs, or if these people decided to change their content from porn to Naruto in the wake of the upcoming purge. I mean… good strategy, if so. Otherwise, I’m not sure if this is a glitch or what, but I’m going to go through my list and start unblocking people who seem like real people. Sorry if you were accidentally/randomly blocked (not that you’d see this yet but hopefully eventually). Idk what’s going on!

[itslulu42]

:/  I know some people’s art has already been taken down even though that’s supposed to be next week.  I know gif makers for a cartoon series have had their work flagged even though it’s clearly sfw.  I know some people had NSFW inbox requests disappear because tumblr wanted to delete smut before it came into existence.  

I dunno if any one else is experience your particular issue, but I’ve heard of a different thing not working every day this week, so I wouldn’t be surprised if this is just another thing they are doing.

[godaime-obito]

This is a glitch that’s been happening for a while, I once tried to reblog a post by someone who was supposed to be a mutual, and who I’m on a small discord server with, only to find I couldn’t. I had to message them on discord to let them know I was blocked and we were both very confused. That was a few months ago and I’d heard of it happening like as long as a year ago too. If you ever find you’re blocked by someone and you genuinely don’t know why try messaging them while logged out or on another platform to find out why bc it may be a glitch

[angelwriteblr]

Hi. I have something to say based off a post I just saw. 

If you want to write everyday, that’s awesome. If you can write everyday, that’s great. 

If you can’t write everyday? That’s okay. If you don’t want to write everyday? That’s also okay. 

Tips for how to write everyday are so lovely and helpful, but if you just cannot do it? THAT’S. OKAY. 

I used to be in a writing discord (which was really elitist to begin with, but I stayed, because it was the least of that in comparison to all the others I’d found so far) and everyday they’d post writing questions. Sometimes these were questions about writing in general, sometimes about your OCs, sometimes to be answered from your OCs perspective, etc. You get the point. 

WELL, one day, one of the questions was: How do you help a friend who’s feeling demotivated with writing? 

And this one girl’s answer literally PUT me into a position of writers block because her answer made me feel THAT bad about myself. She said something along the lines of, “I don’t. That’s not my job. If you don’t feel like writing, then sorry, but you’re not a writer. Real writer’s don’t have this problem.”

And no one said anything. And I just….  

It honestly wasn’t until I made a writeblr and began to immerse myself into this little community that I realized that WASN’T true at all. If you can’t write everyday for whatever reason, even if you don’t WANT to write everyday, YOU ARE STILL A WRITER. YOU ARE VERY MUCH A REAL. WRITER. 

Please remember that. “Real writers” encourage each other. 

[niuniente]

Same with art! You don’t need to draw all day and try new techniques and study study study art. Your brains and body both need recovering time. Inspiration and insight stems the best from relaxed state of mind. That’s why you get your best ideas before falling asleep, in a shower, in a long car drive, while idling, while walking etc. Writing and art still suffer from the horrible “Artists Need To Starve And Suffer”-idealism. Please ditch that. Be much more healthier in your approach to your creations and creativity. Ignore assholes and naysayers.

[thinkpozitiv]

I travel, I eat food and I purchase.. but, I don’t post. https://ift.tt/2FOIHQI

[gosh]

“I’m trying to be happy without you but the truth is: my true happiness is with you.”

— It’s you, only you forever. (via coral)

[ilovemyskin-blog]

Don’t ever make another human feel like your happiness depends on them. Fuck that. Fuck em.

[brianttran-deactivated20120224]

Reblog or your mom will die in 928 seconds.

[ovod0se]

I love my mom.

I am risking nothing

I AM SORRY FOLLOWERS, I LOVE MY MOMMY

Will not risk.

sorry followers :(

[whatgracelikes-deactivated20190]

omg im so glad to se so many people love their mummy

[ameriagrae]

Why’re you being mean to my mum?

[larryismyhallelujah-blog]

goddamn it

[lollie-pond-deactivated20150728]

Nope. Googled it. 15 minuets. Nope. Not taking any chances

[steampoweredplayer]

Koop

[twirliest]

This has 1.2 million reblogs … Ps not riskin it

[nathanvj]

1.4 almost ps not risking it

[queenprotein-deactivated2016012]

Fuck this post

[i-likethesummer-rain]

2.5 million notes I hate myself

[froot-lupul]

I reblogged this twice now

[insidethe99-blog]

I’m so sorry this isn’t b99 related and this isn’t real but I can’t not skip this I’m sorry

[mayannaise-hart-deactivated2021]

Not taking a fucking chance

[hunting-the-grievers]

OH FOR

[tillthestarsrunout]

Why do you do this and why do I just go along with it

[lovestruckszn]

i’m just gonna go off for a bit:

all of you people saying that crazy rich asians wasn’t a good representation because they were rich, you’re wrong. it’s the mindset and culture of this movie that makes it so amazing. yes, they may be rich and although many asian-american families come from poor immigrants, this movie did represent us too. rachel chu’s mother worked hard to get out of china and support her daughter in a new country where she didn’t even speak the language, that’s what several of the asian-americans watching this movie relate to. our families immigrated to america and had to work hard to support us and give us a good life, just like rachel’s mother did. and for those of you who’ve visited your motherland after living in america for so long - i’m sure we related to rachel feeling so out of place in our motherland where we look the same as the people around us, but we aren’t raised the same and don’t have similarities beyond the physical traits we might all share.

so don’t you dare even try to say that this movie didn’t represent us, because it most definitely did.

[cigarettesandcommunism]

Dear parents who wonder why their kids never talk to them...

Think about what you were saying when they used to talk to you. Think about your choice of words and tone. Think about why they tried to come to you and why they don’t anymore. When you shut them out, belittle them, and blame them for all of their problems, you will lose them. And that will be permanent.

[mystic-beavty]

This.

[insanusregina]

My therapist legit called my mom out on this shit. She keeps calling me a “non-functioning adult” and my therapist heard her say it and was like “WOAH! Ok you need to stop that immediately. Do you realize you’re belittling her? That you’re labeling her for life? You then judge her for having low self-esteem and drive to do things when you actively oppress her by labeling her like that.” And I glanced at Mom and him and Mom was like real quiet and was like “okay”. She has yet to say it since. So yeah. Parents don’t even realize this shit. And I’m almost 21… This happened less than a month ago. You are talking to tiny humans. Treat them that way! Like a human!!!

[qunari]

Also!!! Not to detract from this point but to add on: are you initiating interactions with them? (Beyond reprimands and etc.) Just like with any other relationships in your life, if one side always has to be the one to ask for attention and start conversations, its inevitable they will assume you just don’t care about them. Why would someone come to you if they think you don’t care about them past controlling them or punishing them?

[bloodytales]

Teach boys about periods

My mother also talked about periods to my brothers.

When I first got mine I had terrible cramps. Crippling cramps. I once was camping with my family and a few of my big brother’s friends when my period came. My cramps were so bad that my mom gave me a full pain killer ( I was 13 and before that she only gave me pills cut in half).

I literally laid down on my parents’ air mattress and cried in pain for an hour before the pill kicked in.

My brothers friend came in to the big tent and I was just curled up and sobbing. Now, I was quite the tomboy and was known to rough house with my brothers and their friends and made sure I wasnt seen as just “a little girl.” So my brother’s friend was confused to see me openly weeping in the fetal position (seriously, these were the worst cramps I have had in my life. My vision went white). He asked what was wrong with me.

My big brother stood up immediately and suggested a nice long hike. During this hike I am sure he had a pretty awkward conversation with his friend explaining menstrual cramps, because when they got back the pain pill had (mostly) kicked in and I was sitting up at a table when my brother’s friend sheepishly asked me if I was feeling better. I said I was better, and he said good.

When we made s'mores that night my brother and his friend kept me well supplied with chocolate.

Making sure sons know as much about periods and menstruation as daughters makes them better brothers, better sons better fathers, and better men. A man that understands a period will not lightly accuse a woman of “being on her period” if the woman is in an argument.

Raise better sons Teach them about normal bodily functions.