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Would you consider a cheater a rapist if the person they're in a relationship with wouldn't have still been in the relationship if they knew they were with someone else?
not even remotely no
a lot of advocates of sexual assault awareness have talked about this in recent years but it's actually like. REALLY important not to conflate "sex I regret having" with "sexual assault." yes, the person who was cheating was a dirtbag. sorry you had sex with a dirtbag! but being a shithead isn't the same thing as being a rapist, and finding out something you don't like about someone after you've already had sex with them is not the same thing as being coerced or assaulted by a long shot.
I would categorize cheating as abusive behavior for sure, to both the partner being cheated on and the party being used/manipulated. It is abusive and traumatizing. But SA is a very intentional act of coercing or dominating someone into nonconsensual sexual activity, which can or cannot be involved in a cheating situation.
hang on lying is coercion, no? if youre not telling your partner the correct information for them to consent fully to sex with you, it's rape. it's not violent rape, but there's a power dynamic in place that the assaulted isnt even aware of because their partner is lying to them.
no, it's not. "coercion" refers to gaining a desired outcome by threatening someone or outright using force. withholding information, while frequently done for shitty reasons, is not the same as threatening someone or using physical force.
I can absolutely understand someone feeling hurt, violated, and betrayed by this situation. like I said, t's a shithead thing to do! but this is not rape.
"lying about who you are is coercion/rape" is unsurprisingly also just an insanely common piece of bs weaponized against trans people to paint us as violent rapists for not outing ourselves immediately to everyone who shows an interest in us.
the more time you spend in active recovery from any given self destructive behavior or addiction the more you understand the common conception of the "relapse" as defined by a broken "streak" to be, like, so bad for one's own well-being that it would be funny if it weren't resulting in just a lot of misery and death
I told my girlfriend to think of quitting vaping as training her endurance by seeing how long she can run before she gets tired, then doing it again and hoping to go further next time. She said it really helped her.
I love it when conservative rock fans find out Kurt Cobain was woketron 5000
Showing a bigoted 56 year old Nirvana fan these pictures to watch them disintegrate
My contempt towards a brand is directly proportional to how often they interrupt my playlists.
My late father was the one who taught me to be cynical about advertising, for all that putting up ads was literally his whole job. He taught me from a very young age that advertising is expensive, and they tack that cost onto the price. That if something is heavily advertised, you can count on the fact that there's an identical product out there, usually even manufactured in the same factory, that's cheaper because they don't spend all that money on advertising.
A German friend walked me through Lidl, turning over items to show the factories where the items were manufactured and what expensive brands they correspond to, we did taste tests on some of the more pricey food things later and they were the same product. learning about food manufacturing was a hobby for her.
European glasses and sunglasses are made in the same Italian factories that make the luxury ones, they have the same quality control and warranty. You are paying €100 for a logo.
Some things cost more because they are actually made with better quality materials and where the workers are properly compensated, others are the same product as the off brand version with the brand name markup. It takes a lifetime to learn the intricacies which is why consumer advocacy associations and legal protection by (truly) independent agencies is crucial.
Why Name Brand Products Are Beneath You: The Honor and Glory of Buying Generic
Today I was trying to chat up this girl standing with her friend at a lesbian bar and said “oh are you two together?” meaning were you friends before being next to each other at this bar and one turns to the other and goes with all the venom of a black mamba snake “I don’t know Cara, are we?” and I was like you know what? not my table
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The spirit of Diogenes is alive and well
This is funny, obviously, but even if you don't go to the extreme of the example above, this is a separate seat for one person, with a back and 4 legs:
But it's not a chair. It's a bar stool.
This, however, are all chairs:
Each one is missing at least one component of the chair definition above.
So like... it's almost like strict definitions are exclusionary.
Reblog to hit a transphobe with a separate seat for one person
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transphobe with a separate
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Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.
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this post is still good even without the glitch that’s how good this post is
for those who forgot about the hellhole that was the 2015 tumblr glitch:
PHRASE ADDED TO INVENTORY!
whenever i order food i get nervous that the doorbell will annoy my roommates so i turn it off temporarily and tell the delivery person to just knock. but then i get nervous i might not hear the knocking so i go sit by the front door a few minutes early to make sure i hear it. but then i get nervous that if i open the door too quickly the delivery driver will think it's weird that i was waiting there so i wait an additional 10-15 seconds before opening it and feign that i just came down the stairs. i am built normal and socially average.
why is this post completely broken in every way imaginable
Broken notes… deactivated account… removed image….
Finally, we have them all.
In addition: OP’s name is just… gone. No “[insert username]-deactivated[insert a bunch of numbers]” as is the standard for deactivated blogs.
Just the world “deactivated.” Look upon their post, ye mighty, and despair.
It’ll be almost impossible to find this post unless it wanders across your dash.
It wandered across mine. I shall help it travel forward.
As will I.
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This post is an accursed creature
doing things at the right age is literally a made up concept. you can start/pursue anything at any age. btw.
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hi in light of several recent horrible fires with mass casualties & fatalities (this post is not about any one in particular), i want to make a quick post about escaping fires (as someone who lost my father and my home to a fire).
if you are in a public building and you see a fire start, leave. that's it.
do not wait to see if someone puts it out with an extinguisher. do not spend time gathering your things.
the very second you see flames, move quickly and calmly to the nearest exit. you don't have time to do anything else.
i see comments on articles about mass casualty/fatality fires, and people are confused about how so many people died despite having available exits and the fire starting small. many people don't understand what a 'flashover' is. when objects burn in a room, they emit toxic gases, which can themselves ignite.
at a point (even within minutes of the fire starting), the entire room reaches such a high temperature that everything (and everyone) simultaneously and spontaneously ignites. even things that are not near to/directly in contact with the flames.
this is an extremely unlikely scenario to survive. even before/without a flashover, the heat and toxic smoke are already lethal (this is what killed my father. the room he was in never even caught fire. he suffered no burns). it is not like in movies where there's fire in door frames and on ceilings that you can maneuver around on-foot.
You can watch demonstrations of flashover events to truly understand the urgency of evacuating when you see an indoor fire.
This is a fire when it starts in a small waste bin in the corner of the room:
this is Three Minutes later:
How long is three minutes, really? How long will it take you to get to the exit? You don't have time to grab your things, to take a video.
You don't have time to look around and wait to see what everyone else is going to do. Exit. Quickly. Calmly. If you see someone near you who may need assistance that you can offer, bring them with you. Move.
If the fire is brought under control, you can easily go back inside once the situation is safe. You're not overreacting. People do and have died because they underestimate small indoor fires. They wait to see what will happen, whether it can be put out, what other people will do. Then it's too late.
When you go somewhere new, take a moment to locate the nearest exits. (in older buildings, if the emergency exit doors aren't alarmed, I sometimes even check to make sure they actually open, if I have the chance. sometimes they're locked.) If you or someone with you is disabled in a way which requires extra time moving and exiting (I sometime use a wheelchair), consider this in your exit route as best as you can.
Above all: Know your way out. Have a plan. Both help you stay calm and escape.
when I grow up I want to be lois dykestowatchoutfor
brings up trans people at every opportunity
[id: A panel from Dykes to Watch Out For, showing Lois and Sparrow talking in their kitchen. Sparrow says, "Yes... I think. I don't know! I really like him, but... he's a man!" Lois, leaning on a table, replies "Well, that's not necessarily a permanent condition." /end id]
i do think lobbying for data centres over climate goals should be considered a crime against humanity btw
Wdym a Cnn crew got hunted down by settlers. Do u think CNN reported it as "clashes" between their crew and settlers?
For once they dont use the passive voice, go kill yourselves cnn
This just means CNN puts in effort to dehumanize Palestinians. They do it on purpose
#stancyweek 2026 | Day 2: Favorite Season(s) "...I could be around for your senior year, just to look after you a little bit" STRANGER THINGS Seasons 2 & 4
Taking up Japanese as a side project for myself has reminded me of something.
So like a long time ago I had a professor that I absolutely adored. She happened to be Japanese American. She grew up speaking Japanese at home but never really spent a lot of time in Japan. She mostly spoke with other Japanese Americans and read books.
So one day early in her teaching career there’s an exchange student from Japan who’s having a hard time understanding a concept so she explained it to him in Japanese and then he looked absolutely rattled. Like in shock. Pale.
This is how she learned that the way she speaks Japanese makes her sound like a gang member.
Japanese doesn’t exactly have cuss words in the same way as English does but imagine that the nicest professor you’ve ever had pulls your paper over and says “Okay listen here you little piece of shit I’m gonna fucking explain this to you. Violently.”