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agender, white, he/she, 20s, lots of...something. i think i accidentally became a chicken blog. if you need something tagged just ask I dont mind. desktop background by poyopaan. icon by my gf cecespuffs 💕💕💕

[iwatchsmiggles]

[annabelle--cane]

asexuality is word that describes an orientation, not a set of behaviors, ace people can do all kinds of sexual behaviors and still be asexual. some ace people have sex, some don't. some ace people kiss, some don't. some ace people masturbate, some don't. some ace people get homoerotically stabbed, some don't. it's as easy as that to understand.

[jellycatsdaily]

Jellycat of the Day | 18th July 2026

↳ Rondle Elephant | 2022 Retired Design

“Taking a break by the watering hole!”

[jellycatsdaily]

Bonus Rondle Elephant 🥰

[candycoatedrox]

getting characters into world-endingly intense codependent queerplatonic relationships is literally what life is all about. it is literally what we were put here on this earth to do

[kuttithevangu]

the new fantasy genre, popehunk, encompasses all books in which historical figures responsible for real atrocities are presented as sexy and potentially suffering from a cute lil' anxiety disorder

[kuttithevangu]

lin manuel miranda found dead in my notes

[girlfailure-poetics]

I have kind of a niche political view on tumblr, which is that I think misogyny is bad even when it’s just hurting women

[girlfailure-poetics]

and I don’t even think it needs to have a singular benefit for men for feminism and the abolition of patriarchy to be worthwhile

[girlfailure-poetics]

in fact the abolition of patriarchy could be a net loss for men and I would still think that feminism and the abolition of patriarchy was worth it

[mcgablitzstone]

FIERRO!! For him, I tried to make her as androgynous as possible, but also being able to see a male or a female at one time or at the same time lol. I made him kinda part changeling due to the obvious, I see Loki kinda being like Chrysalis if that makes sense, an alicorn but still literally a changeling.

Her cutie mark is her pottery talent and also a reference to her weapon/garrote except I can't draw a garrote... So it's magic. And if the eyes look weird... No they don't, I spent way too long trying to make them look normal 😭

[theweirdwideweb]

Dudes healthcare is so fake. My ADHD meds are $940 without insurance. But they gave me a website of "coupons" which straight up looks like a scam website, and I got it today for $60! Just a coupon from a random website and it was $900 cheaper. America, I am confusion!! America explain!!

[theweirdwideweb]

For all my uninsured judys out there it's for Walgreens only: walgreens.rxsense.com

[theweirdwideweb]

[handsmotif]

as a pharmacy technician i can share with you some websites that give you those "coupons" for your meds!

goodrx is the most well known one, but if i'm trying to find the cheapest price for a patient i compare it to scriptcycle, and use whichever is offering the best price. you just type in the medication (PLEASE make sure you're getting the right drug, dosage, and quantity) and your zip code and they will spit out some offers for you

some pharmacies may have their own discount card to compare to as well!

if you are getting a name brand medication, you can also look at the manufacturer's website to see if they offer any evouchers for you to use too

good luck out there 👍

[bitchesgetriches]

How to Pay Hospital Bills When You’re Flat Broke

[rayneydayss]

another one is singlecare.com, brought my duloxetine from $240 a month to $20

and there are coupons for hrt on there as well :) different options for different pharmacies

[hereissomething]

dollarfor.org saved my broke ass, it can save urs too

[mcgablitzstone]

Hearth and Blitz x MLP :3

Hearthstone would obviously be a unicorn due to magic but I also wanted elves to be pegasi bc they kinda live in clouds? Idk, but Hearth is a unicorn and he has his runes as his cutie mark so that's fun.

Blitzen is an earth pony due to his strength as a dwarf and the fact they live underground so that fits. I made him purple to reference his lavender suit he wore like once bc i didn't want him to just be brown bc I made Hearth blue. His cutie mark is self explanatory 🥹

[fruitzzone]

you need to be more normal about fwb. no, fwb don’t strip you of your dignity. they are not unhealthy. sexual relationships are not bad. it’s not weird to want them and not romance. friends can fuck. you don’t have to be involved romantically to be intimate with someone. that includes all sorts of physical touch because you are also not normal about platonic non-sexual touch. it’s not weird if friends cuddle, sleep in one bed, hold hands or kiss. friends can be affectionate with each other. it doesn’t mean they are romantically attracted to each other. nor does it mean they will ever be in a romantic relationship. you need to be more normal about touch and sex in general.

[deepseasmetro]

how do you get yr caffeine (et al), if you had to pick *one*

coffee - hot

coffee - iced

matcha - hot

matcha - iced

other tea latte (hot or iced)

other tea (NO milk/not a latte) (hot or iced)

energy drinks

other caffeinated drink (starbucks refresher, as an example)

caffeine shots / caffeine pills / other "instant" caffeine

LEGALLY prescribed stimulants**

stimulants that you ummmm found :)

i don't consume caffeine or other stimulants

Remaining time: 1 day 20 hours

**(assuming you don't have a different, preferred drink otherwise like coffee or tea)

[deepseasmetro]

wow i am amazed by how quickly we've gotten nearly the entire spectrum of options

[muttsys-deactivated20260425]

i want to share this picture my mom took when she was young with you all. because its fucking awesome

on the back "super puppy 1985" is written

[recklessmoss]

super puppy 1985!

[advisortotheadvisor]

still reeling from a tiktok that said the queer rep in the first murderbot book was subtle. like agender aroace protagonist that exclusively uses it/its pronouns? Immediate casual mention of Mensah being poly? that's subtle??

[toadstule-deactivated20251116]

[my-darling-boy]

I was sad until I opened the Sims and made a dog called Chocolate Milk and I think you should look at him

[queenofthewasteland]

i was sad until i opened tumblr and saw a dog called Chocolate Milk and i think you should look at him

[houndmother]

Consider: it is the healthiest and most normal thing in the world to go to your close friends and loved ones with problems in your friendships and relationships. Not to gossip, not to talk shit, but I go "Hey, me and (x, not related to my current partners) are on the rocks right now, can I talk it out with you?" and then you get input, advice, you get to process your feelings through conversation, then you're probably more equipped to go back to the person and go "hey I've been thinking and processing, I feel xyz."

Two major thoughts here:

Don't let anyone convince you that this type of conversation should only exist in therapy. Your friends and loved ones are there for you. Its called a support system for a reason. Getting advice and comfort is entirely different from talking shit.

If someone gets upset with you for talking about your interpersonal problems with your friends, its worth examining that dynamic. Why are they so worried other people will find out how they're treating you? This isn't like 100% always a bad thing, but like. Consider if there's other parts of the relationship that feel controlled. Consider how listened to and respected you feel, how safe you feel, how independent and free to act you feel.

[what-even-is-thiss]

I expected my cpap machine to make a dramatic difference right away but after waking up from my first night on the machine I think the experience can be described as I woke up and thought “well I don’t think I feel dramatically different but it also definitely feels like something in there has been unclogged”

[what-even-is-thiss]

It’s like uh like when you finally remember to clean the hair out of the shower drain after a while. But with my general vibe.

[what-even-is-thiss]

According to my app which no is not called cpapp unfortunately I only stopped breathing 1.7 times per hour. Which might sound weird but during my sleep apnea test I stopped breathing 23.5 times per hour so as you can imagine breathing is generally better than not breathing

[what-even-is-thiss]

I’m not talking about my health just to overshare btw. I think there’s probably other young people out there with sleep apnea who might need to hear someone in their 20s discussing this.

Don’t feel ashamed to get tested if you’re tired all the time or someone has told you that you gasp for air in your sleep. Get your shower drain unclogged.

[quakerhobbit]

I'm 35 and I got tested for sleep apnea in the fall and I was having OVER 50 EVENTS PER HOUR.

Got my cpap and holy shit the difference. I am actually rested when I go to bed at a reasonable time. I no longer need daily 2-4 hour naps just to function.

And I also suspect that it might be helping me not get as many colds, because that nightly airflow clears things out.

I'm really glad I have my cpap now and everything is better, but also wish I had got tested earlier, because maybe if I'd caught this sooner I wouldn't have developed some of the other health issues I deal with. But I thought I was so tired all the time because I'm a parent and autistic.

So yeah, even if you think you know why you're always tired, get tested just in case.