My therapist ass rolling up like okay you all thought gandalf was bad Hahahahahhaha you havent met me and my dastardly ways.
Some things HAVE to happen of course!! Of course but other things arent needed!!
Bilbo doesnt pass out or get scared of the dwarrow because im already soothing him and being his hype man. Ive got him all confidenced up and ready to evict a dragon before Thorin gets the fucking key to erebor.
No no we can all leave in the morning.together. actually!!! It can be nice we can have breakfast!!
Oh no whats this bilbo and thorin actually talk about their feelings BEFORE goblin town?
Am i dastardly setting them up on things with balins help? Ofc i am.
Am i working on getting thorin to destress the fuck out. YES.
Its a fucking skill set that takes years to hone and the correct set of personality traits. And timing. Timing is so fucking important.
Kili- your adhd how you doing with that? Feeling good? Good! If not lets help you out with that!!
Fíli lets reduce the stress and process potential dragon sickness fear and heir dread.
Dori you need to destress too my guy i see you
Bilbo definite grief experiencer lets process some stuff and work on gaining confidence with kili and filis help
Nori!!! I see you you little shit!! Lets duel!!
Ori!! You see far too much and know too much. I know you feel it alllllllllll.
Bifur and i so much going on there with traumatic injuries and feeling isolated etc bros got a lot to say and my specialty and thesis were both in " therapy experiences of nonverbal clients" so *shrug*
Bofur SUNSHINE BOY TAKE A BREAK I GOT THIS!!
Dwalin got some mad survivors guilt and trauma we all know it.
Theres gonna be a nightly campfire check in on everyones highlight and low light of the day with an emotional check in but like "okay so if your emotion today was a type of weather what would it be."
Or "if your emotions were toast what kind of toast would they be?"
Keep the emotional connections going and the comradery high especially early on while Bilbo'sq just joined.
Honestly part of being a therapist is being trained to gain peoples trust and make them feel comfortable and safe.
You also dont solve peoples problems for them rather you engage them in problem solving and resource acquisition/ reflecting on their own natural strengths and resiliency. So a therapist would be very different than Balins function as a Counsel to the Durins.
But you also have to believe- as a person yourself in radically accepting others where they are at and believing in the best of them. So basically being a golden retriever (as i am) helps immensely. In fact my clients call me a golden retriever constantly.
You think i wont have the entire company in tip top fucking shape by the forest gate then man take my license.
Im a sheepdog and gandalfs the shepherd. I bark and chase em around and gandalf gives the directions.
Yknow that sheep dog thats super chill but then murdered nine coyotes??
Thats me.and my dwarves and my hobbit rofl.
Me when someone looks at any of the company crooked.