( i feel like i should warn people that profanity is part of my personality and you won't go five posts on this blog without hitting an f bomb)
name: i go by Lee online.
age: what year is it again? do you associate age with physical body, mind, or number of past lives? important questions. Young enough to not remember Tobey McGuire’s spider man coming out but old enough to be sad about that fact
pronouns: she/her but honestly i don't care, they/them works fine as well <3
MBTI: INFJ-T (decided after much deliberation and so many different online tests i felt like my brain was leaking out my ears)
sexuality: Bisexual, though this is probably the last site where that would matter to people lol
nationality: unfortunately that country that's under canada and above mexico
languages: english
relating to this blog: i got into DC only recently and i gotta be honest, most of my knowledge comes from fics but i have made an effort to read a few comics as well and i've watched a few of the movies andf course am an avid subscriber to WFA lol. honestly my credentials are absolutely none but whatever
Favorite Characters (aka the ones i beat to a pulp with hurt/comfort): Jason Todd, Bruce Wayne, Stephanie Brown, Dick Grayson (that last one is funny because in terms of life i am literally dick grayson and that is perhaps why i do not love him as much as i could)
Favorite ships: JayRoy, SuperBat, JoyFire, Dick/anyone that will give that man a fucking hug
Favorite platonic relationships: Jason & any member of the batfam, Oliver Queen & Bruce Wayne, Hal Jordan & Bruce Wayne, Batman & Gotham City, Jason Todd & happiness
DO NOT INTERACT: trump supporters, homophobes, transphobes, sexists, misogynists, 🔞 blogs, racists, xenophobes, ableists, GenAI fans, people who think a debate equates to an argument, people who bash any member of the batfam, people who think of Tim as nothing more than the worst Robin
I am always happy to talk to people and discuss most anything (but especially anything relating to DC) BUT HERE IS MY ONE RULE: if we have a difference in opinion then i would be DELIGHTED to debate about it as long as you realize that a debate is a mutually-respectful DISCUSSION, not an ARGUMENT. the main difference is that there will be no insults, name calling or any underhanded tactics! god, why does this even have to be something i explain!
I have an ao3 as well if you would like it. there are recommendations in my bookmarks for anyone in need (or you can always send me an ask if looking for something particular). just know that this is only one of my many fandoms so if you're there for ONLY DC then you're gonna have to filter out like 60% of everything.
Let it be known that there is a very large, distinct, and important difference between staying up until 4am and waking up at 4am. In both instances I am up at 4am, yes, but one is fine while the other encourages a lust for burning someone at the stake (usually whomever is responsible for said waking up)
Was driving with my grandmother and in broken English she says “no eyes… no nose… no face. Don’t trust.” To which I looked around wildly in search of this omen of ill portend.
Would you like to have your Blorbo as the ruler of your country?
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Remaining time: 3 days
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Okay, but also: if you see a Muslim praying in public and they have something in front of them, like a purse or a bag or something like that, you can pass in front of them, but pass in front of that object.
it’s called a sutrah, and it’s meant to act as a physical barrier between the person praying and someone who might happen to pass in front.
Also, if you did this and didn’t know, please don’t beat yourself up over it. Now you know! Muslims aren’t supposed to pass in front of Muslims praying, either, because prayer is communication with God and you don’t want to break that connection.
Similarly, if a Jew is saying the Shemonah Esrei prayer (whispered, moving only the mouth, standing facing east with legs together) don’t go in front unless there’s a barrier.
Transphobia is about to be signed into law in the UK. We can fight this.
I am begging the UK trans community and its allies to attend the Mass Lobby at Parliament on June 25th, 11am-4pm, organised by Trans Solidarity Alliance.
Last year we broke the record for an LGBT+ mass lobby of Parliament. Will you help us break it again? Join us on 25th June 2026 to demand be
The new EHRC Code of Practice pushes trans people out of toilets, hospital wards, and community spaces. It normalises gender policing based on appearance and stereotypes. It becomes statutory guidance in the UK by the end of June.
Trans people are now legally their assigned gender at birth and must join gendered spaces accordingly, but if they are perceived as their lived gender, they can also be ejected from those spaces. The guidance says: either break the law, or don’t pass too well.
A mass lobby is where you invite your MP to discuss your concerns with you in-person. Ask your MP to:
Demand full parliamentary scrutiny, debate, and use their free vote on the EHRC Code of Practice.
Support any motions rejecting the EHRC guidance. As of June 4th, Labour MP Nadia Whittome has submitted a prayer motion - Early Day Motion 240.
Write to Bridget Phillipson, the Minister for Women and Equalities about our concerns
Your MP does not have to be an ally, they do not have to respond to your email for you to show up and greencard them (details below the cut.) What matters is that as many people as possible show up.
I cannot stress this enough: Showing up in person matters. It is much more effective than petitions, emails, and letters.
It is a horrible, stressful time, and I am so sorry if you're trans and live in the UK. But I was at last year's mass lobby and the line for greencarding alone stretched around the back gates. It was a record breaking mass lobby and made us impossible to ignore. Let's do even better this time. Details under the cut:
Worried about what to say?
Bring your personal worries about transphobia being signed into law, and trans friends being excluded from public spaces. You are a living person who deserves dignity. Remind your MP of that. You will also get guidance and brochures from Trans Solidarity Alliance that outlines our demands. This is mine from last year.
Money issues?
Trans Solidarity Alliance provides a travel bursary that you can sign up for via the link.
Got a refusal or no response from your MP?
Come anyway! You can request a same-day appointment with your MP through a process called greencarding. They will come and see you if they’re already in Parliament. Even if they don’t, they’re made acutely aware of your cause because you showed up in person. This is my greencard from last year.
Here is the EHRC Code of Practice in full. It's a tough read, but some highlights are:
Organisations can’t provide trans-inclusive, single-sex services, or they risk being sued for discrimination.
e.g. domestic violence support for women including trans women, men’s rugby group including trans men (12.68).
Trans people will have nowhere safe to pee.
If you’re a trans man, businesses can't allow you to pee in the men's, and you can also be ejected from women’s bathrooms if you’re perceived as a man. Vice versa for trans women. EHRC suggests a ‘third space’ bathroom, which is discriminatory and unworkable for most businesses. (13.130-133)
Sports organisations must exclude trans people from single-sex competitions (13.73).
A women’s only sports competition must exclude trans women because of their biological advantage or face potential lawsuits (13.74), but a trans man who has undergone testosterone treatment can also be excluded based on fairness rules (13.81).
Trans women are stripped of the legal definition of ‘lesbian’, and therefore no longer have legal protections if they’re discriminated against on the basis of sexual orientation. (2.50, 2.92).
Here is the Good Law Project's better explanation of the EHRC Code.
I have also made a PDF printout of QR codes for the government petition, email your MP tool, and mass lobby link to pass around your communities. DM me and I'll send it to you.
there will never be anything as funny as the mutual disbelief between long form and short form fic writers about each other's style.
short form writers look at people writing 100k+ fics as though this is some sort of talent given as part of a fae bargain, that the commitment required shows some sort of ungodly mental fortitude.
meanwhile long form writers look at people writing 1000 word one shots like god I would cut off my left nipple to be able to say anything concisely. i would love to play with multiple ideas. free me from the shackles of this child I have birthed. i love them but I now must take them to t-ball and doctor's appointments and they're going to destroy everything I own.
We should bring back duels except they’re just those slap battles. I want to be able to challenge someone to a duel and then just. Slap the shit out of them. They can even slap me first I don’t give a shit as long as I get to legally, without consequence, and possessing of no hard reasoning, slap this person in a public setting
stayed up extremely late last night and only went to bed after being scared by this weird noise in the yard (something like that scream that can be heard in every single action movie, only shortened and distorted). Woke up in the morning four hours later to find out that said noise had been the outraged yell of a hostile raccoon, which had been previously perched at eye-level on our porch railing, as it was punted into the moon by a yoga mat swung by my dad
btw it's so fucking stupid you can be anxious physically in your body even after you've decided mentally you don't care. I'm supposed to be in charge here
