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Not safe for me to be here anymore. I'm sorry and I'll miss a lot of you. I can't keep using these accounts, my phone, or anything.
If someone says that a celebrity is/was abusive and seeing their name is triggering, don't pass that information to them or their fans.
I'm not famous and my family doesn't deserve this. We've had to do this 4 fucking times now. And people wonder why I'm a depressed asshole....
i want every child to have a happy, loving and safe childhood that they don’t have to recover from
happy valentines day!
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I cant believe people still stan a mediocre cishet white girl as a "gay icon" in the year of our lord 2021 🤢🤮
Seriously, while I do think that Jojo Siwa is a great role model for younger kids and teenagers, we can do better. I mean, Lux Pascal 🤩
Why "doing something relaxing” does not help your anxiety
A lot of the time when people give advice intended to relieve anxiety, they suggest doing “relaxing” things like drawing, painting, knitting, taking a bubble bath, coloring in one of those zen coloring books, or watching glitter settle to the bottom of a jar.
This advice is always well-intentioned, and I’m not here to diss people who either give it or who benefit from it. But it has never, ever done shit for me, and this is because it goes about resolving anxiety in the completely wrong way.
THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO when suffering from anxiety is to do a “relaxing” thing that just enables your mind to dwell and obsess more on the thing that’s bothering you. You need to ESCAPE from the dwelling and the obsession in order to experience relief.
You can drive to a quiet farm, drive to the beach, drive to a park, or anywhere else, but as someone who has tried it all many, many times, trust me–it’s a waste of gas. You will just end up still sad and stressed, only with sand on your butt. You can’t physically escape your sadness. Your sadness is inside of you. To escape, you need to give your brain something to play with for a while until you can approach the issue with a healthier frame of mind.
People who have anxiety do not need more time to contemplate, because we will use it to contemplate how much we suck.
In fact, you could say that’s what anxiety is–hyper-contemplating. When we let our minds run free, they run straight into the thorn bushes. Our minds are already running, and they need to be controlled. They need to be given something to do, or they’ll destroy everything, just like an overactive husky dog ripping up all the furniture.
Therefore, I present to you:
THINGS YOU SHOULD NOT DO WHEN ANXIOUS
–Go on a walk
–Watch a sunset, watch fish in an aquarium, watch glitter, etc.
–Go anywhere where the main activity is sitting and watching
–Draw, color, do anything that occupies the hands and not the mind
–Do yoga, jog, go fishing, or anything that lets you mentally drift
–Do literally ANYTHING that gives you great amounts of mental space to obsess and dwell on things.
THINGS YOU SHOULD DO WHEN ANXIOUS:
–Do a crossword puzzle, Sudoku, or any other mind teaser game. Crosswords are the best.
–Write something. It doesn’t have to be a masterpiece. Write the Top 10 Best Restaurants in My City. Rank celebrities according to Best Smile. Write some dumb Legolas fanfiction and rip it up when you’re done. It’s not for publication, it’s a relief exercise that only you will see.
–Read something, watch TV, or watch a movie–as long as it’s engrossing. Don’t watch anything which you can run as background noise (like, off the top of my head, Say Yes to The Dress.) As weird as it seems, American Horror Story actually helps me a lot, because it sucks me in.
–Masturbate. Yes, I’m serious. Your mind has to concentrate on the mini-movie it’s running. It can’t run Sexy Titillating Things and All The Things That are Bothering Me at the same time. (…I hope. If it can, then…ignore this one.)
–Do math problems—literally, google “algebra problems worksheet” and solve them. If you haven’t done math since 7th grade this will really help you. I don’t mean with math, I mean with the anxiety.
–Play a game or a sport with someone that requires great mental concentration. Working with 5 people to get a ball over a net is a challenge which will require your brain to turn off the Sadness Channel.
–Play a video game, as long as it’s not something like candy crush or Tetris that’s mindless.
THINGS YOU SHOULD DO DURING PANIC ATTACKS ESPECIALLY:
–List the capitals of all the U.S. states
–List the capitals of all the European countries
–List all the shapes you can see. Or all the colors.
–List all the blonde celebrities you can think of.
–Pull up a random block of text and count all the As in it, or Es or whatever.
Now obviously, I am not a doctor. I am just an anxious person who has tried almost everything to help myself. I’ve finally realized that the stuff people recommend never works because this is a disorder that thrives on free time and free mental space. When I do the stuff I listed above, I can breathe again. And I hope it helps someone here too.
(Now this shouldn’t have to be said but if the “do nots” work for you then by all means do them. They’ve just never worked for me.)
I’m sorry, but you cannot tell me the same staff that just did a Q&A with a literal astronaut for this site are the same ones who are linking us to the Dr. Phil M&M x Guy Fieri OTP blog.
Okay. Out of respect for your request that we not tell you we did this, we won't tell you that we did this.
H-he-hey, @staff you doin okay, bud?
I'm actually really not surprised that Tumblr HQ linked a Dr Phil M&M X Guy Fieri crackship blog as their OTP at the top of the site. Not surprised at all....
[ID: an image of the tri-spiral from Newgrange in the centre of the muted rainbow, aro ace, nblm, nblw, genderqueer, genderqueer guy, genderfluid, agender, demiboy and demigirl flags]
[ID as Gaeilge: pictúir de dearadh na dtrí bhís ó Sí an Bhrú ar na bratachaí bogha báistí, gan-ghnéas gan rómáns, neamh-dhénártha a mbíonn grá acu d’fhir, neamh-dhénártha a mbíonn grá acu do mná, inscne aiteach, leaid inscne aiteach, inscne-sholúbtha, gan inscne, leath-buachaill agus leath-cailín]
I am interested in finding a way to easily show my pride at being Irish and being queer so made these. I decided to use a shamrock, a Celtic knot and the tri-spiral design from Newgrange. I placed them in the centre, large, but also to the top right, small.
Having made them all I think my favourite is the small tri-spiral but I have queued all six designs up so you can use whichever you like.
If you do use my edit for something please let me know - I’d love to see. Credit however isn’t needed.
This is post two of thirteen.
[ID: an image of the tri-spiral from Newgrange in the centre of the original rainbow, normal rainbow, gay man, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, nonbinary, asexual and aromantic flags]
[ID as Gaeilge: pictúir de dearadh na dtrí bhís ó Sí an Bhrú ar dhá bratach bogha báistí agus na bratachaí fear aerach, leispiach, déghnéasach, il-ghnéasach, trasinscneach, neamh-dhénártha, éighnéasach agus gan-rómáns]
I am interested in finding a way to easily show my pride at being Irish and being queer so made these. I decided to use a shamrock, a Celtic knot and the tri-spiral design from Newgrange. I placed them in the centre, large, but also to the top right, small.
Having made them all I think my favourite is the small tri-spiral but I have queued all six designs up so you can use whichever you like.
If you do use my edit for something please let me know - I’d love to see. Credit however isn’t needed.
This is post one of thirteen.
I see posts like these about other kinds of reminders, but never about glasses! Here’s your reminder to give your glasses a good clean!
casual sex is fine having multiple partners is fine hookups are fine being friends w benefits with someone is fine. stop talking like televangelists.
They really aren’t at all and we need to stop normalizing this.
this is the funniest comment i got on this post. im normalizing sex what are you gonna do about it
We can normalize sex in loving and reciprocal relationships rather than normalizing the fear of deep emotional intimacy and settling for shallow interactions.
we can normalize getting hole and not acting like a puritan. i have normalized taking your mom to pound town
Normalize sex and normalize not being a judgey asshole.
humans literally evolved to have a heightened sense of taste in childhood because smaller bodies are more sensitive to poison and adults are just like “nah kids are Picky Eaters™ specifically to annoy me”
Also certain neurodivergencies can cause kids to be sensitive to certain foods and tastes and textures. That also isn’t just to annoy their parents. We literally can’t help it. If your kid freaks out at certain food, don’t force them to stay at the table until they finish it every night. Just give them different foods. Kids are not bad. They deserve to eat food they like that doesn’t make them sick. Be kind.
Telling kids their taste buds will change as they grow is a game changer. I’ve known many kids who were yelled at so much for being a picky eater that they dug in their heels, refused to eat certain foods, and never retried them even when they were adults. But explaining how child taste buds are different in an “isn’t that interesting!” way will get the kids into it
Explain the science of taste buds to children, tell them it’s okay they don’t like certain tastes because it means their body is trying to keep them safe, and tell them they might want to retry foods throughout their life because they’ll taste different as they age. Every single time I’ve done this the child has been excited to retry foods as they grow
All kids are scientists. If you tell them it’s okay to experiment with food they’ll be eager to do it
Some foods will also just scare them off because they’re different every time you try them so it’s like a Russian roulette but for your taste buds, and I feel like a lot of parents seem to forget that.
Also undiagnosed allergies and especially intolerances are a thing.
I almost never ate fruit as a kid. Turns out I can’t digest most local fruits unless I take antihistamines first, but I only discovered that as an adult, so I was called picky as a kid because I preferred sugary snacks that don’t make me nauseous over healthy fruits that do.
Since I dont see people make posts like this a lot...
Trans gays with cis partners, your love is amazing and wonderful. Your relationship is lgbtq+ and both you and your partner's sexualities are valid.
You being trans doesn't make your relationship "straight," your gender is valid, and your relationship isn't any less queer than anyone elses.
Keep loving and being you.
This post is mspec and nonbinary inclusive. Transmeds & exclusionists DNI.
Happy Valentine's Day to trans gays and their cis partners 💞
Watch "The Mythology Of Cupid" on YouTube
This woman is pretending to have a sezuire to make sure her Pitbull knows how to react properly. He did everything he should have done 👍🏼🐕♥️
Honestly this makes me want a service dog more but I don't need one for my seizures a lot (I get 3-5 a year with my treatments) but this makes me think that if I had one last time I seized I wouldn't have bloodied up my front teeth and almost knocked them out.
Help us kick Bezos in the dick
Boss Baby Bezos is at it again! Amazon opened a union busting website for people to report workers unions, so lets do the world a favor and waste Jeff’s time, money, and life energy (I hope) by spamming his website with bogus reports. Eat shit, Jeff.
Y’ALL THEY DON’T HAVE A WORD LIMIT
I JUST SENT THEM THE ENTIRE BEE MOVIE SCRIPT
update: did you guys know all of les mis is online for free
did you know it takes roughly 5-10 dedicated minutes of clicking and holding to copypaste the entire thing
take a wild guess what i sent our old pal jeff
UPDATE update:
That’s all fun and good but I guarentee their systems are filtering out spam.
According to what other people have suggested, include keywords which will make sure your submission gets through, and avoid keywords that might filter it.
Expletives are probably filtered, as well as major meme keywords like “Shrek”, “meme”, “Script”, “Bee”, “Furry”, “Fanfiction”, “Gay”, also “Bezos” is probably filtered too I bet.
Keywords that are hypothetically more likely to get your post noticed: “Pamphlets”, “Unions” and “Unionization”, “Capitalism”, “Wages”, “Profit”, “Labor”, “Workers”, “Emails”, “Rights”, etc. Things that would be mentioned in union emails or pamphlets. Also, use keywords that identify you as an actual employee: “Warehouse”, “Company”, “Employee”, “Coworker”, “Shift”, “On Break”, etc.
So, sentences like these will help increase legidimacy: “Another employee in the warehouse has been handing out pamphlets on unionization and talking about workers rights.” or “I’m getting emails from someone in the warehouse about labor laws and criticizing the company’s wages.”
Use things like U(state letters)(number) in the tagline and at the start. Make the name and email seem legit. Flood their systems with useless info.
So say you get past filters. Someone’s gonna read your submission, and you want to get them going. Have a strong, in-character intro and conclusion, since those will be skimmed first. Include your misleading content in the body of your submission, and try to hide it well. For instance:
yes, again, your memes and jokes arent going to be as helpful. please actually waste THEIR time. not YOUR time.
If you still want to copy paste something, I wouldn’t be surprised if you could source unionisation pamphlets from the industrial revolution and just copy paste them? Probably have a lot of the keywords you need in them.
I still very much plan on submitting better ones, but I really just wanted to let out some steam. Amazon literally let a family friend of mine die in front of everyone working and when another friend, who witnessed the first get her skull crushed, had a panic attack and stress fall which cracked a vertebrae, they fired her.
Jeff Bezos is a cunt.
This is it
See also autism See also Ehlers Danlos syndrome & Fibromyalgia It’s amazing how much more visible things become when you accept that they exist.
It’s amazing how much more visible things become when you accept that they exist.
Definitely on the EDS thing. But it's really worth pointing out that most people who were diagnosed with fibromyalgia are later correctly diagnosed with something else after testing.
If you have a fibromyalgia diagnosis, you probably actually have EDS, lupus, jra, psoriatic arthritis or something else. I'm not even being ableist or rude, it's literally what Penn State and John Hopkins told me and my family after I realized that I knew 27 people and were related to 9 people who had their diagnosis fixed (specifically my mom, sister, brother, neice, nephew, several cousins and myself)
Fibromyalgia is often a placeholder diagnosis for when your doctor doesn't know what to say and has no idea what tests to run. While it is a real disorder, it's way overdiagnosed, and probably 80% of people who think they have it and therefore have very few treatment options actually do have treatments available for what is actually going on.
If you believe you have fibromyalgia, you have to get a second opinion from a specialist, like a geneticist or a rheumatologist who specializes in autoimmune and genetic disorders. For my family, we realized that we all have EDS and some have psoriatic arthritis. The change in diagnosis and treatment let my mom and sister go back to work for the first time in years and got my twin cousins' off opiates and out of leg braces. 🤷♂️
