about me
tldr: yujung 유정, he/they, 20s
butch, aroace, lesbian, asian, korean united statesian, woman, menswear enthusiast
(last updated march 2026)
-> yes, I am a woman and a lesbian. yes, my pronouns are not she/her. these facts can coexist.
-> I prefer he/him but feel free to sprinkle in a they/them occasionally. surprise me. ALSO very important: please use the pronouns separately. although I do use more than one set of pronouns, I do not like to use them interchangeably.
I go in depth here about this.
do not interact
-> if you ship elsanna, kara/monel, amalia true/horatio cousens, penance/augustus; if you like incest, age-gap relationships, a/b/o.
-> I’m not anti-ship but I am personally icked out by stuff. I don’t care if you like problematic shit but not on my page. I keep to my own lane, you stay in yours.
-> mcyt stans, if you claim to have undiagnosed DID/alters/systems, if you claim other fake disorder stuff
-> cop/military apologists, republicans, conservatives, right wing ppl, fascists, bigots, christians, homophobes, ableists, misogynists and misandrists, etc can go away
-> fetish/nsfw/bdsm/kink pages. nothing against yall but I explain below
-> see my carrd for more DNI criteria
aroace lesbian + sex-repulsed
-> sexual content will not be found on this page, i don’t write smut and even people kissing makes me uncomfortable and grossed out.
-> my writing tends to focus on the more platonic or “innocent” romantic stuff. my fics could be seen as friendship or some other kind of relationship. i ship people in queerplatonic relationships usually.
-> my full sexual & romantic identity would be aromantic asexual butch lesbian. i keep things platonic mostly, but no matter the type of relationship will always involve women. queerplatonic is also very cool.
leftist
-> no, I am not a Liberal or Democrat, and obviously not a Conservative or Republican or any other right-wing political group. yes, Liberals/Democrats are still right-wing. fuck all of you.
-> fuck cops, the military, capitalism, private insurance/healthcare, political parties, people who want the status quo, etc. for prison abolition, against the death penalty.
-> marxist/marxist-leninist. communist but so down for left unity. anarchist, socialist, leftist, etc—you are all my comrades.
-> anti-zionist. not jewish by any means. zionism is colonialism. isntreal is a colonial ethnostate that needs to go.
-> usa out of korea (and everywhere else)! may korea be unified once more. 통일! 투쟁! (for more info, hit up nodutdol)
-> atheist, with a background in the presbyterian branch of christianity. fuck organised religion, they’re all cults, but especially evangelical christianity.
fandoms/interests
-> you can find me on ao3, squidgeworld, sunset femslash. i write silly little fanfics involving my fave sapphics, and I am dedicated to increasing butch, masc, aro/ace, and asian visibility in my fandoms. send requests via asks on tumblr, dms on discord, or comments under my works if you want to see something specifically.
more info about what I write: here on my carrd
-> favorite shows: the nevers, supergirl, the haunting of bly manor, motherland: fort salem, hacks, mare of easttown, dickinson, rizzoli & isles, criminal minds, anything involving wlw or pretty women really. yell at me if you’d like to become mutuals and bond over a favourite show <3
-> favorite characters: emily kaldwin, junlei tennyson, penance adair, lena luthor, maura isles, amalia true, jamie taylor, deborah vance, helen fahey, sue gilbert, tally craven, cristina yang, poppy sweeting, penny haywood
-> wouldn’t necessarily say I’m in fandoms for this, but I love sketch/improv/stand up comedy. I DO NOT like (most) sitcoms—the only exceptions being the golden girls and designing women. big fan of saturday night live, a black lady sketch show, whose line is it anyway?, etc. fuck the big bang theory, friends, the office.
-> favorite comedians: hannah gadsby, river butcher, tig notaro, cameron esposito, robin williams, taylor tomlinson, hannah einbinder, gilda radner
-> fan of: katie mcgrath, sandra oh, sasha alexander, laura donnelly, ann skelly, lily tomlin, jean smart, amelia eve, and gilda radner
-> hater of: melissa benoist, jodie comer, angie harmon, chris wood, mehcad brooks, jeremy jordan, and david harewood
-> favorite musicians: hippo campus, lupin, brotherkenzie, baby boys, whistler isaiah, hozier, half•alive, early eyes, grandson, sylvan esso, peach pit, the greeting committee, still woozy, i don't know how but they found me, glass animals, ashe, sub urban
-> super into jazz, swing, blues, big band. 1920-1960 is my sweet spot. I don’t know about artists from 1970-2000 and I don’t care to know.
-> favorite games: the outer worlds, dishonored ii, cyberpunk 2077, harry potter hogwarts mystery, empire of sin, tomb raider survivor trilogy, nobody wants to die, 1000xRESIST, fallout 4, mafia trilogy, control, star wars jedi: survivor, ryse: son of rome
other
-> I’m not a man-hater or a misandrist. in fact, I am against the very idea of misandry—it is a symptom of white supremacy, imperialism, and patriarchy. men are hurt by these systems are much as we women, in different ways. to be a misandrist is to ignore nuance and critical analysis. to criticize the systemic discrimination men inflict on women is NOT misandry. go read some bell hooks, for fuck's sake.
-> I love talking about tv shows. I try to finish a show if I start it, unless it’s atrocious. if you want to stalk me and see what shows I am watching and have watched, i’m fireandfolds on tvtime. I don’t really do films.
-> no, I have not seen arcane. no, I haven’t listened to chappell roan. no, I’m not going to. you can stop recommending it.
-> my carrd (you’ll find my social media and ways to support/follow my creative work)
-> join my sapphic-centered discord if you want
shoot me an ask or dm or whatever if you want to connect. use the tags if you want to navigate through stuff.
