A blog.

English-Spanish-Scottish and a tiny bit Welsh. 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇪🇸🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 Female. ♀️ Born in England, tempted to move to Spain. Generation Zillenial (those overlap years between being a Millennial and Gen Z)- we had Tamagotchi, Skoobies, and portable CD players, but also iPod Touch, Nintendo 3DS and Sims 3. Hobbies include walking, photography, singing, keyboard playing, dancing, weightlifting, reading, and writing (more like typing). 🚶‍♀️📷🎶🎹💃🏋️‍♀️📖💻 Bit of a (peaceful) activist for human rights and animal rights ✊ Be kind, it's easy 🫶 AO3: https://archiveofourown.org/users/HanMusic25/profile

[natnormalatall]

roald dahl was antisemitic and misogynistic. george orwell was openly homophobic. edgar allan poe married his 13 year old cousin. dr seuss cheated on his wife (and was racist as well as antisemitic!). hp lovecraft was racist as fuck. anyways they’re fucking dead it’s not like you’re enabling their behaviors in the afterlife or something. then again I think they bleed into the books so uh keep an eye out for that

the difference between these old white guys and jk rowling is that the former group is all dead. jk rowling is alive and using your money to oppress trans people

[han0225]

Fanfic and fanart are the way forward;

Rowling doesn't benefit financially, and it doesn't promote Harry Potter or encourage people to give Rowling their money because everyone reading fanfiction or engaging with fanart has already watched/read the films and/or books.

So yeah, if you want your Harry Potter fix, create fan works, and it's even better if you have awesome OCs who are everything Rowling hates.

[baraphalloplastyclinic]

I actually do think we should discourage women from becoming housewives. Do not become financially dependent on a man. That's how a lot of women ended up dead over the years. A man gets violent suddenly and you have to choose between homelessness or potentially dying at his hand because you have an enormous gap in your resume and no degrees or certifications or anything that will help you pursue a career that will allow you to be financially independent. He owns your bank account. His name is probably the one on the car. Try and leave and he can report it stolen. Where will you go then?

Don't become a housewife.

[ladyfoxfire]

And if you do become a housewife, take steps to protect yourself. Make sure you’re legally married, for starters; stay-at-home girlfriends have very little legal recourse to claim their partner’s assets in a breakup. Make sure your name is on the house deed/rental agreement, and have your car in your name, even if your spouse is paying for it. Have your spouse transfer money every month into an account solely in your name, so you can buy yourself things without needing permission, but also so you can save up to leave if needed.

If your spouse fights you on any of this, then don’t quit your job. The tradwife to poverty pipeline is real, and so is financial abuse.

[dressedupliketheking]

also, many women/people experience controlling behaviour and domestic violence from their partner for the first time during pregnancy. don’t risk thinking “he’s just stressed, it’ll get better when the baby comes” because it won’t. neither you and your child will ever be safe with that man. get out as early and safely as you can

[han0225]

Anna and Olivia's friendship in season 6 (particularly episode 1) is ultimate sisterhood I love it 😂🥰

[gaypiratebrainrot]

i’m replying to a lot of ao3 comments for the first time in my life, so my brain conjured this meme

[han0225]

I always have something to say 😂☠️

[themirokai]

Hey friends. Do this:

This probably took this person 3 seconds to do but it immediately told me that they liked my story enough to come back and read it again and they liked it again the second time.

Your favorite writers Do Not Know that you think about their stories after you read them. I generally assume that my stories make people happy for the few minutes they’re reading and then they never think about it again. To know that that’s not the case and that someone has returned just makes my little heart swell with joy.

I needed this today. If you’re the person who left this comment (or if you’ve ever commented on any of my writing) I love you.

[han0225]

Oh this is a wonderful idea ☺️ ❤️

[lgbtqiatext]

[han0225]

Thinking my heart is palpitating but it's 53bpm and my blood pressure is 106/59 🧐

[filmphotofranz]

[han0225]

Oh dear me, the world has gone nuts. Behold- England, everybody 🙃 Just embarrassing, really.

[what-even-is-thiss]

It’s fascinating hearing how other people think. My dad says he has to think of a full sentence word for word before he says it whereas I don’t know what I’m gonna say until I’ve already said it.

[han0225]

Thinking before speaking? Isn't that a phenomenon that needs reserving only for sensitive topics? 😅

[delusionalme8]

Those who say Ron was against Harry and Ginny's relationship clearly haven't read the fifth book.

He was totally one of us 🙏🏻

[anarchistmemedistro]

[homunculus-argument]

Those who think that wisdom and whimsy are mutually exclusive have neither. It's vitally important to do the right thing when the consequences are dire, and to do a whole bunch of utterly frivolous silly dumb shit when it doesn't matter what you do.

[localcryptidsteg]

Often, the wise thing must be disguised as silly frivolous dumb shit in order to actually work

[homunculus-argument]

Nobody's going to let you do anything if they think it's actually going to work.

[han0225]

We're all going to die eventually anyway, so might as well have a bit of fun with life 🤷‍♀️

[depsidase]

[martindykewood]

like i quite literally have never been more passionate about anything than i am about the human race’s invariable desire to tell stories and the fact that we always find a way to do it, through spoken language and written language and body language and visual art and theater and poetry and oral tradition and a million other things. there are so many things we take for granted about the human experience that we never stop to think about but i really want you to take a step back and consider how fucking amazing it is that our need to tell stories transcends all boundaries of time and geography and borders and language. it is one of very few things that is legitimately intrinsic to human nature and i will never stop being completely in awe of humanity for that.

[depsidase]

[han0225]

It's sad, you know, when I see teenage girls who so desperately want visible abs. I was 16, 17, 18, and wanted abs and I got them at 20, 21, 22...

But it ruined my friendships, my health, my relationship with food, my sense of food, my family's sense of peace... Everything, really. I've seen girls and women die trying to lose "just a bit more" or achieve a six pack or achieve a certain body shape society (mainly men) thinks women should be able to achive.

And I'm not saying it's impossible for teenage girls and women to have visible abs AND a life they enjoy living, but I have seen that goal destroy far more lives than I have seen it improve.

And you know what? I'm the most relaxed about my body shape that I've been in my whole life so far, and I'm mostly healthy (messed some things up permanently but we learn if we live to), I have hobbies and friends and a better relationship with my family...

So yeah, by all means, have aesthetic goals but don't ruin your health and your life as you pursue perceived perfection.

[han0225]

Note to self, in future, never tell an unknown man, who says he is lonely and struggling and needs a wife, that I live alone. Just don't do it. I was able to polite excuse myself and hurry off but yeah that was a closer call than I prefer 🙃