Trauma Blog

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making frends with inanimate objects by stealing them from the store and liberating them to come hangout with me

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[bichosis]

hot take i know but even straight women do not deserve to be abused and mistreated by men and when they are abused, its not a funny little joke.

[bichosis]

sometimes it feels like yall have completely lost your compassion for others like seriously. the amount of posts ive seen laughing at straight women for getting abused by their boyfriends is fucking ridiculous. it isnt funny.

[scarstofreedom-deactivated20230]

Me as hell with a specific person

[unwelcome-ozian]

[grifalinas]

I don’t know if anyone needs to hear this but “we all respond to trauma in different ways, not just pretty palatable ways” and “we are accountable for our own actions, even actions born from trauma” are not contradictory statements

[great-tweets]

[source]

[girl-sim-deactivated20230806-de]

FREE HIM

[girl-sim-deactivated20230806-de]

HE CAME BACK

[scumbagsblog]

Everything about this is so fucking funny. The song. The chubby dances. The way he just gets fucking KIDNAPPED. The presentation of the guy in the white shirt in the picture when he returns. This is my favorite post.

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

to myself,

i am trying to love you more

[serobellatonin]

on God bitch we gon be alright

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

idk why but this made me feel a lot better

[pastelparrotlet]

Sometimes you have to just treat yourself like an overtired toddler.

“Okay, as soon as you finish this assignment you can take a little nap.”

“You just cleaned your room, good job!”

“Hmm..maybe eating a snack will stop you from wanting to cry.”

[cutlerydeficient]

Sometimes? I think you mean all of the time.

[friendraichu]

Being an adult is just parenting yourself.

[rynnay]

It’s true and highly effective self care. Speak to and treat yourself with the same love and care you would want your child self to be given.

That means: no insults or name calling. No judgement. Patience. Gentle firmness. Health, safety and happiness first. Encouragement. Rewards and validation for a job well done. Self soothing. And above all else, love. 

[legendarypeacebarbarian]

This is so important

[prideknights]

Today I learned that taking responsibility for all your actions can be unhealthy. When you are trying to save a friendship or relationship and have tried the best you can, then there is no reason to feel bad and look within yourself and ask ‘What did I do wrong? What can I do to improve myself and make things better?’ The answer to this is to accept that you did your best and that there are people who don’t reciprocate your feelings, care as much as you do, or are simply toxic. Though oftentimes, people put the blame on others, for some people, it is necessary to learn how to recognize that they are not the problem sometimes.

[textsfromtheborderline]

[sunflorally]

so you dated the wrong person and learned a hard lesson. you chose the wrong major and had to start over again. you cherished a friend who backstabbed you. it sucks, but it’s also going to work out. that’s life; you learn, hurt, love, cry, laugh, and keep going. you experience setbacks and you grow and it’s all okay.

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

you are not too much.

people do care.

you won’t be abandoned.

breathe. breathe. breathe.

it’s okay.

[thealfaguy]

[celestialfanged]

*puts headphones on*

*hears banging, shouting, footsteps, doors slamming*

*takes headphones out*

*silence*

i’m fucking on to you

[astrandedrusalka-deactivated202]

I sometimes forget some people don’t refer to themselves and their brains as two different entities.

[iraprince]

the mood of all my mental health stuff is basically jsut