I documented the Women's Marches in the Bay Area's two most populous cities.
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I documented the Women's Marches in the Bay Area's two most populous cities.
By @iotaaurigae!
She beat me to posting it lol
iām just saying thereās a reason why we donāt see tifās post about āgay breakingā and why we donāt see them post about wanting to rape and violate gay men or people who donāt agree with their ideology in general. thereās a reason why they donāt claim that gay men all secretly like vaginas.
The āwe arenāt predatorsā and āwe just want to peeā crowd everyone!
the fact they're so consumed by the idea that all terfs must be attracted to them and the fact they're so obsessed with breaking a woman's spirit, to submit to them and give up on the things she wholeheartedly believes in reminds me of the type of men that purposefully go for women with opposite values than them, because it's fun for them to trap them in toxic marriages or relationships, manipulate them into resigning their own and taking on their religion, ask them to give up her job to stay home, stop doing the things she's always done before, like going out clubbing (even tho he first met her in a club) and slowly turning her into dependant, submissive woman.
Then they feel like they have accomplished their goal of shaping a woman into their own ideal, breaking her character in the process. He doesn't care about the pain he causes her.
Same with the males in these screenshots. Those are not only stupid posts but real confessions about how they feel about women in general and their entitlement and objectification of women's bodies. They are no different, not worse, not better, than the men I described before. Only difference is they inject themselves with artificial hormones.
So all last semester my friend kept dragging me to our collegeās trans club, saying Iām an āeggā and she can āsaveā me or whatever. I was trying to be non-confrontational so I went once and it was weird but fine I didnāt talk much and I never went back. She kept harassing me so finally I talked to her ALONE in PRIVATE and I said hey⦠I donāt like to talk about it but Iām detrans. Itās cool that you guys have your own space but Iām pretty sure you donāt want me in it. She was like ok nvm and stopped inviting me. Case closed right?
So the other day I was in the elevator with one of her friends from the club and I thought Iād be polite so I said hi. Immediately this person (a trans man I think) says to me, āI donāt talk to detransitioners. Class traitor.ā And walked off the elevator (on what Iām pretty sure wasnāt his floor). I swear I wouldnāt believe this happened if it hadnāt literally happened to me. I genuinely donāt fucking get it.
Anyway it gets worse.
One of the people from the club is on the board of the collegeās Hillel and has been trying to get me excluded from the Hillel. I had no idea why, now I do! Once again, I have said NOTHING to these people I have been completely kind and cordial the only thing they know is that, I guess, my friend told them I detransitioned. The Hillel coordinator has asked to have a meeting with me to discuss āmy future at the group.ā
I know yāall are gonna say Iām leaving things out but I swear there is NOTHING else to this story. I was completely kind at the trans group meeting. They loved me and invited me back. They have ONLY been giving me the cold shoulder since I told my friend that Iām detrans.
Why is it so upsetting that I found a different path in life? Why is that so hard for them? Iām not saying anything about the path THEY chose, why do they have such an issue with mine? Iām not trying to exclude them from clubs or make their lives harder? Let me live.
Genderism is basically a (somewhat disorganized) fundamentalist religion. Fundamentalist religions hate apostates most of all. You're not just a disbeliever (who might be converted), you're an active gender heretic. A potential source of spiritual contamination. They're scared to talk to you because they don't want any potential challenges to their faith.
#this is so awful and scary#they should be HAPPY for op living authentic#like blah blah blah gender expression and freedom should mean doing whatever you want and makes you most comfortable#instead they have their own awful restrictive rule set
(prev tags were spot on - they should be happy that OP found her authentic self! But no that is not allowed. You're not allowed to change your mind or decide that being your original self and body is good and healthy)
The notion that a detransitioner who has made a personal decision not to continue with their transition (for any number of reasons) is a class traitor really exposes how transactivism is functionally a cult.
when i was a kid i was so mad all the time bc i thought someday i'd have to be somebody's wife i didn't know it was optional. is everybody reminding the young girls in their lives that it's optional.
AND SO IS BEING SOMEBODY'S MOTHERā¼ļø
it is about being a woman. hope that helps!
reading comprehension questions for the notes:
is wanting to be a wife and mother a requirement for being a woman?
why might OP be annoyed with replies assuming that this post is about being aroace or transmasc if a woman doesnāt want to be a wife or mother?
are there reasons unrelated to sexuality and romantic interest that might make a woman not want to be a wife or mother?
are there reasons unrelated to gender identity and expression that might make a woman not want to be a wife and mother?
core concept: what is gender essentialism?
is it gender essentialism to imply that all women inherently want to be wives and mothers? could this be what OP is critiquing?
look at the notes OP responds to. is it gender essentialism to imply that being a wife and mother is so affixed to womanhood that to not want to be those things means youāre incapable of sexual/romantic feelings, or not a woman?
what trait are you perpetuating when you assume that women who do not want to be wives and mothers must be aroace or trans? is it gender essentialism?
here's what democrat feminists who hiss at the left for "destroying democracy" and somehow endangering people for not buying into american bullshit don't seem to comprehend:
the united states has to continue committing 'war crimes' just to exist. war crimes which the united states government made itself immune to answering for, because it knows that it needs the death of innocents to exist, and that that's bad optics to americans. this feels like something obvious to me, maybe because of who I am and the situation in which I was raised, where I saw the bullshit as early as I can remember having a sense of self.
but the thing is, there are countless women like me -- more like than unlike, actually! but I keep seeing these white 'feminists' say otherwise, and act like it all comes down to some good vs evil of the american two-party system. even though any party that works to keep the united states (and you!) in a position of privilege is a violent, and therefore evil, party (unless you think that violence is only evil when leftists do it, of course.) a party which does not deserve to exist, propping up a power structure which does not deserve to exist, powered by people who do not deserve the entitlement and exceptionalism they love feeling. the american government is like this because the american is like this. whine as much as you want, this is america.
inb4 "oh I'm a woman, I'm not privileged" ok you can say it as much as you want. but if you're a white american citizen, you have privilege. how's that high school education and electricity and employment treating you? have access to it? wow. more than many, many women have, even if you don't have it perfect. I'm white passing with an indigenous shimƔsƔni, I grew up absolutely fucking destitute. I grew up a victim of sexual violence. I would still never be targeted by the men who are systematically disappearing and murdering indigenous women. I would never be targeted by IDF soldiers (supported by democrats as well as republicans!) who are training dogs to rape political prisoners, because I'm not palestinian. you're not the most oppressed ever because you're a chick, being a woman just means you're in the bottom 50%. you're on top of the other 45%. and spoiler, america hates you too. so why the absolute fuck are you pretending that the american project is something that should be supported?
I'd have hoped that self-proclaimed 'radical feminists', allegedly getting to the root of the systems of injustice, would have recognized this. obviously no one is as privileged as the white american man. but you're not devoid of complicity just because you're a white american woman who votes democrat. you're complicit in american violence because you act as a willfully stupid ignorant dog shepherding lambs to the slaughter. treating any strays like they're to blame for oncoming collective punishment, instead of wondering why there's collective punishment in the first place. you help uphold this system that forcibly disempowers the other 3,900,000,000 women in the world. by number you are nothing. but you have power to either support or shun a system that enforces violence on nearly 4 billion women.
again, like 150,000,000 of you. vs 3,900,000,000. hundreds of orders of magnitude, that's the number of women you could help. you have the power to tell this system to go fuck itself, and you don't. so no, we're not allies. no, I'm not going to vote blue no matter who. because if you believe the united states should exist, you're an enemy of women everywhere else. if you think of this country with anything other than hate in your heart, you deserve to go out along with the american men when the rest of the world finally gets tired of american bullshit and gives us a tenth of what we dish out.
Real feminists understand that the United States has never been a democracy
It feels cool to be "in" on celebrity gossip before anyone else. I ran into Californian Condor V9 and looked her up on the condor lookup website. It says her current mate is dead and she has no kids but I saw her with a new man AND a juvenile.
OP I hope you don't mind but I made a tabloid cover out of this
I used two more condor photos by Andrew Orr and Alam Clampitt from peregrinefund.org
Gotta use the skills I learned from making tabloids out of the Jane Austen novels somewhere right?
Great, now I feel like I'm bird shaming. Congrats V9 on your new family!
This is art to me
amazing. SF Gate has this gem but I like yours better š¤£
Congrats on the new family, Californian Condor V9!
I was gunna put this in the tags but itās a lot. When i first started going through the process of getting a diagnosis, i was labelled with ODD. I immediately took issue with this, it seemed like an unfair diagnosis based entirely on the session the psychiatrist had with my parents (which mostly consisted of āmy child is being really difficult on purposeā), and Hoo Boy when i tell you ODD immediately strips you of your ability to call out anyone on anything, that would be an understatement. I couldnāt even disagree or bring up my concerns about the validity of MY OWN DIAGNOSIS without it being labelled as oppositional defiance. Whenever i displayed any negative emotion the ātreatmentsā did so much more harm than good. When you label someone as ādefiantā (ugh), when that word is put on their medical record, that person is never allowed to complain about anything again. Knowing that POC are disproportionately affected with this diagnosis makes me feel sick, i can only imagine whatās being swept under the rug as someone just being ādefiant to authorityā, not even just in the medical field but as justification for police brutality and mass incarceration. When i say medical racism kills people, this is what i mean.
this is so fucking important. reblog.
they really think being a woman is based on how attractive you are huh.
specifically how well you perform femininity. because kathleen stock is not exactly ugly.
āthis woman is a lesbian with short hair so she must actually be a manā wow how progressive
"This horrific creature has failed in her duty to non-manhood to apply three inches of makeup every morning to spare the public from gazing at her revolting countenance. This is obviously a Man, there's only one way to be a woman and that's not... whatever this is ..."
"i hate this woman so much i wish she at least pretended to be a man"
So to give some context to this, the original Reddit thread was NOT about Kathleen. It was a FTM detransitioner. They later brought up Kathleen as an example of a āself denying FTMā. Just wanted to put out there the woman they are also ragging on is a detransitioner
here's what living in a neocolonial state looks like:
-a man from an imperialist country can come on your land, rape, torture and kill you, and neither your government or his will try or convict him (he can also fuck around with your land) the British Army are notorious for this in Kenya (also Chinese workers, a good chunk of which are actually prisoners/criminals)
-the policies of your government are just business decisions between the old money politicians of your government and the businessmen from other imperialist countries, like a random Kendall Roy can influence your government policies, and you can't stop him
-because of this, outsiders get to determine what is and isn't allowed to develop as an industry in our country based on how it benefits the empire's industries (e.g. fast fashion has stifled African fashion industries)
-human trafficking is easier to do and get away with, which means if you're captured off your home street and sold, your government will do fuckall to save you, and whoever has you can do whatever they want without repercussions (don't get me started on the foreigner adoption market)
basically, living in a neocolonial state means your rights and government policies are determined largely by outsider forces for their own economic gain, and this is especially true for the women living in them
which means you have schrodinger's autonomy, it may or may not exist based on the whims of men with more money than you
there is no imperial force (such as imperial military) that has EVER occupied foreign spaces and not abused, misused or violated the local women there
there is no benign or innocent imperial military force, they literally have to coverup what they do on foreign bases
this is why you cannot be pro-imperialism/colonialism and a feminist
"sabrina carpenter's intention-" sabrina carpenter is a marketing technique. her schtick was invented by a label (men) for mass consumption. they had a vision for a pop star to fill a market niche and hired sabrina for it. she has professional male songwriters on all of her songs, she's styled by men, produced by men, marketed by men. i guarantee that album cover was a man's idea. she's not some solo indie artist she's a product that men made to sell to women
r/pornismisogyny is the only sane subreddit i swear to god
Men who do this only give a fuck about themselves (and the addition that he almost never does sexual favors for her just confirms that)
Protect trans kids. But please, dont investigate what happens in childrens gender clinics. Please dont do any research on puberty blockers. And please, dont why the numbers of trans identified youth skyrocketed over the last past years. We don't really need to know why some people regret transistion, so don't tell the trans kids detransitioners exist. Don't let them hear those stories, don't do any research on why they thought they where trans but regret it now. Protect trans kids by never challenging their claims, never be cautious when you see homophobic parents who clearly show signs of transhausen by proxy. Don't be alarmed when doctors from a childrens hospital talk about how puberty blockers ata certain age will render them unable to orgasm. Just hand out puberty blockers and hormones and send them off to surgery, but please don't ask why, don't ask if this is safe, don't ask what will happen in 10, 20 or more years, because, they are so vulnerable, we need to protect them.
Science matters! Unless that science disagrees with our ideology Iām which case science is a bigot and reality is evil
um what da fack: https://myuhblog.tumblr.com/post/815013870282375168
The trans community: "Transition is not glamorized self harm! how dare you!!"
Also the trans community vvvv
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PEAK thread- people who peaked recently within the last two years- can you share your experience and what sent you over the edge. Iām curious
When I couldn't find a single transfem out of all the people I followed, even mutuals, who was willing to speak out or even just stay silent about i-suggest-forcefem. Even if they didn't call him out by name, they reblogged a bunch of weepy posts about how every transfem who gets termed is like a beautiful little star whose light goes out and on and on and on. Not ONE, not a SINGLE ONE valued kids over kid touchers as long as the kid toucher was transfem.
But I did see transmascs call it out. And it happened at the same time as a wave of anti transmasc posts and trans pride posts that went out of their way to exclude transmascs. No way to obscure the pattern any more, trans men were women and trans women were men. Each group was following the social patterns of the sex they started off as. Nobody was treating trans men like men or trans women like women either. All it did was give people "a good reason" to keep quiet when they see a man sexually abusing people.
Mine was a series of things, a lot of it amounting to terrible behavior from transwomen on and offline. I kept half-peaking, but because I was trans identified and medically transitioned, the truth was too painful and I kept trying to push it down.
My 'peak' came from the ISFF drama (as seems to be the case with many others), and lingering rage over the TME/TMA shit. I was searching one day for receipts on Tara Knight/bundleofstyx, and stumbled across a forum where others were talking about this stuff. I lingered for a while, talked to some women; the anonymity made me feel safe for the first time ever to talk freely about my feelings and experiences. I guiltily scrolled radblr for a while, and eventually after speaking with other women about the health and mental ramifications of being on T, I decided to just pull the trigger and say "fuck it, I can't do this shit anymore".
That was three months ago. I have been reading radical feminist lit and connecting with other women including detrans women. It's been scary and have lost quite a few irl friends just for daring to detransition (and I'm pretty crypto too lol). But I will take that any day over having to spend one more minute bending over backwards to serve men who do not respect me and who parade around in women's clothing acting like they know a single damn thing about what experiencing misogyny is like.
I'll join in on the others saying that it was the ISFF shit happening and it being defended while the Epstein files were still coming out that eventually did it for me. But if I'm being honest, it was a slow boil over the course of several years. (TW for sexual assault.)
screenshotting what I wrote so it won't be too easily searchable. it's actually so crazy that I endured all of this shit for so long because the "it's not the group, it's just this individual that's a creep and making everyone look bad! cis women do some vile things all the time too!" was such a load-bearing excuse within this ideology that was drilled into me over the years.
Notice how long term exposure to trans spaces and in depth exposure to trans ideas is what peaks people.
In cases of genuine bigotry-exposure to the target group reduces prejudice but with the trans movement, particularly TIMS, itās the opposite: long term exposure to and close contact to TIMS increases negative feelings - as the misogynistic, abusive, delusional behavior becomes too hard to ignore
I used to be a massive TRA because a few people I deeply cared about used to identify as trans and/or nonbinary. I myself used to have dysphoria but I never transitioned. It didnt take me that long to realize that gender itself was the problem, not my female body.
I also started to become more critical of the porn industry and prostitution because I couldnt deny any longer how sexist it is. Me doing survival prostitution a few years ago made me realize even more that "sex work" isnt just a regular job. But I had one problem: my "feminist" and "leftist, communist" friends wouldnt aknowledge the elephant in the room tho (although there are lots of arguments from a radical left perspective to criticize prostitution).
When I started to openly talk about my thoughts while still being a TRA I was met with hostility from my peers: "Stop saying that, thats SWERF/TERF/making-up-some-words shit". I thought that was extemly sus
So I started to lurk radfem blogs who would talk about women's exploitation in prostitution and porn. When I did that I was also met with lots of depravity by TIMs. I found out about the dykebreaking tag and the so called cotton ceiling. I couldnt deny the existence of AGPs any longer.
That basically sums it up
āWhy would you cheat on Megan The Stallion?? Have you seen her??ā
Yāall think cheating is solely about attractiveness, and not menās ego and lack of respect for women.
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Digital illustration featuring a large group of women of all different races, ages, sexualities, abilities and gender expressions. Thereās text that reads, āa woman is anyone who identifies as one.ā
interesting. so on what basis were women denied the right to vote? the right to a no fault divorce? the right to reproductive freedom and abortion access? the right to open their own bank account, take out a loan, or get birth control without a male co-sign?
on what basis were women kept out of sports,educational, political, and cultural institutions, most professions, and positions of power and influence? why was there a period in time when women were forbidden from riding bicycles or taking the train? how did the concept of hysteria come about and how was it used against women? why are most curse words based on derogatory terminology for women or female genitalia?
what do conservatives usually say when they want to make the point that women would make bad world leaders? why are periods still considered dirty and shameful in our society? why are child marriages today still predominantly between a grown man and an underage girl? why are most victims of domestic violence and sexual assault women and girls? why are most prostituted people and victims of sex trafficking women and girls?
why were new drug trials exclusively performed on the male body up until the 1990s, and why is medical misogyny still an issue today with health conditions like PCOS and endometriosis still severely understudied? did this just happen to women and girls because they self-identified into being women and girls, and thus being oppressed?