here for the laughs

he/him - 21 - pan/transmasc/ace/poly - Panic Disorder/ADHD/PTSD/Bipolar/traumagenic OSDD1-b with at least 29 headmates - here to learn and be learnt - asks open, sfw blog

[kassy-loves-biscuits]

well hello there

welcome to my blog!

a few things you should look at are:

- my DNI - my FAQ

this is a mainly mental health (OSDD headmates/ADHD/Depression/Anxiety) centric blog. if that makes you uncomfy, there’s no harm in blocking

be chill, you’re allowed to ask any questions to anyone or about anything you want, as long as its not rude/harmful/NSFW

[dappyhappy]

JUST LET ME BE.

[the-little-ladybug-that-could]

Reblog if you are an asexual positive blog, believe asexuals exist, and are willing and able to create a safe space for your asexual friends

[lunaisace]

As an Asexual myself, YES

[celticwarriormoon]

As someone who is now 99% sure they might be ace…

YES. THIS. BOTH SIDES NEED TO SEE THIS.

[froggyfloats]

As an asexual, I deal with this a lot, and it’s not okay :/

[daisy-bugs]

As an asexual, REBLOG YOU COWARDS

[texas-chainsaw-yassacre]

ASEXUALS ARE REAL AND 1000% VALID AND FUCK EVERYBODY ELSE WHO THINKS THEY AREN’T

[chaotic-bastard-demon]

MY BEST FRIEND IS ACE, SHE DEALS WITH THIS SHIT A LOT AND IT’S NOT OK!

[dragonwolfcrane]

Be happy!! There are people who support you too!!!!

[stars-and-rose]

!!!!

[thecatprince]

As someone on the ace/aro spectrum aces are 100% valid. Anyone who thinks otherwise can fuck off.

[tarantula-veins-deactivated2023]

Another one is doctors and therapists telling you you need psychosexual therapy to “cure” your lack of sexual attraction.

If you have ever experienced this, no, you dont need curing.

[aroace-get-out-of-my-face]

Yyyyyyyeeeeeesssss

[totallysilvergirl]

Should go without saying.

[official-lucifers-child]

i am definitely everyone in that second comic

aces are valid, aces are real, aces are NOT broken, aces are amazing and always welcome and safe on my blog

[agender-thanos]

We stan Aces and Aros and Aroaces on this blog.

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

“Anxiety disorder” sounds so morose from now on I’m telling people I have Clinical Heebie Jeebies

[normal-horoscopes]

Medical Grade Willies

[normal-horoscopes]

Sudden Prolonged Zoinks

[gallusrostromegalus]

Chronic Botheration and Foreboding

[booksbybingo]

villains are hard to design. making them ugly is dangerous, depending on what traits you choose to frame as monstrous or undesirable, you could very well end up saying something fatphobic, racist, anti-semitic, etc

but if you make a hot villain then people will get thirsty and demand redemptions and refuse to acknowledge their evil actions, no matter how despicable

Solution: Full body armor and masks. You don’t see people shipping themselves with Sauron!

[safitheartist]

…………..you think?

[macko-99]

…………..don’t look up Sauron on AO3

[arofili]

Nothing fails to crack me up like this post - the vain hope that somewhere out there is some awful nasty thing that there is not also a person whose kink that is, the idea that covering something up won’t make people obsessed with finding out what it looks like underneath, the surface level understanding of Sauron and complete lack of knowledge of the Silmarillion and it’s fandom, the fact that Sauron was canonically hot as fuck, the amount of Sauron erotica I have seen, God this post never gets old

[prismatic-starstuff]

The Poster Of The Comment: You don’t see people shipping themselves with Sauron!

The Very Large And Dedicated Community Of Sauronfuckers In The Tolkien Fandom, collectively:

[silly-jellyghoty]

Point. For those who have not read Sillmarilion, Sauron used to look something like this

[whitetigerdemoness]

[kassy-loves-biscuits]

we have a new alter (who either was already here or formed recently... wouldn’t be surprised either way lol)

his name is Maximus but he mostly goes by Max, he’s kinda an asshole but only to people that deserve it.

he’s a protector type, he/him, and not interested in romantic relationships. 

He’s also sitting right here up front for now because we’re listening to a DOOM rap and its a “vibe” (lol)

but yeah, fun shit i guess, nothing new XD

[kassy-loves-biscuits]

just a little update

so we’ve been quiet for a bit, and that’s mostly because we’ve been dealing with a lot of stress surrounding real live circumstances and generally getting over being sick with Covid. specifics under the cut about process and general hope lol

I’ve also been dealing with a lot of denial about being a system, even though I like... there’s proof. definitive proof that I’m dealing with OSDD or something similar, whether my headmates are figments of my imagination or not, the very idea of them is being caused by trauma. 

so still dealing with that, still dealing with feeling extremely tired all of the time, feeling sick on occasion, not being able to eat in normal ways, extra stress because of family issues (my grandmother is on her deathbed and its very hard to deal with), and just generally suffering but pulling through because its apparently not in my code to give up even when I’m broken and just moving causes immense pain

anyways, because we still need to schedule another therapy appointment, we’re using this as a baseline of journaling just so we can get into that again, because it does help, its just hard to remember to do it cause of ADHD reasons lol

1. OSDD related problems = am I a system, how would I know otherwise = what do I do if the headmates and splits never stop happening = how to I cope with having other people in my head

2. ADHD related problems = am I right to be on meds right now for it = is it related to my PTSD or is it it’s own thing

3. PTSD/CSA related problems = is this an official diagnosis I need to have = will this diagnosis replace my Bipolar one = coping methods pls and thank = should I try different meds or stick with the ones that work right now

and that’s about it, I don’t really know what else to say other than that I’m listening to the Man of Steel soundtrack and its really helpful for focusing lol

[holyhotpantsbatman3]

My therapist asked me to create something “motivating” so I made these.

lol.

[vvank3rshim]

I really love these, and I reblog them every single time. Some of you don’t realize how easy it’s to forget to do some of those stuff or how hard they can be some days.

[batpeggy21]

I only got 2 stars…

[official-kool-aid-man-cum-sock]

that’s still good :)

just because you didn’t get all of them doesn’t mean you’re not doing well :)

keep trying, aim for three today and maybe four tomorrow :)

you matter, don’t ever forget it :)

[squeiky]

DUDE YOU GOT A STAR?! THATS AWSOME!!!!!!!!!!

[momo-de-avis]

I fucking hate James Tissot’s paintings because in ALL OF THEM there is ALWAYS someone staring right at you, but it’s not always immediately visible. You just feel watched by this mf. Sometimes the little shit is right there at the centre, but others the bastard is just gazing from the distance, it is CREEPY, my guys

[momo-de-avis]

STOP STARING AT ME, THIS IS DISCONCERTING AS FUCK

[filthybonnet]

I think this is hilarious. We’ve been caught.

[sheherzog]

[halflifefunny-deactivated202212]

since so many people are coming out as exclusionists, lemme just let yall know, my blog is a safe space for all genders and sexualities. asexuality is part of the lgbtq+ community and pansexuality is super fucking valid. we dont support exclusionists here.

[memehumor]

Still cracks me up

[unwelcome-ozian]

[melon-official]

i hope everyone with acne, eczema, vitiligo, psoriasis, dermatitis, and skin conditions have a good day today

[melon-official]

[melon-official]

thanks guys while im here PLEASE put an acne option on your picrews

[kassy-loves-biscuits]

just a small vent about some sad thoughts im having

honestly just kinda sad tiems

cause im remembering again that everyone in my life would choose someone or something else over me, in a heartbeat, if it really came down to it. 

im not Important to anyone in the way that means that id be their first choice

and maybe thats selfish to be sad about, but i give so much of myself to other people... only to remember that if it came down to never seeing or talking to me again, or something else possibly bad, id just be dumped no question

makes me sad i guess, but i cant even complain about it because i Understand why im not anyones first choice. im always the last one in line

just sucks, i guess

[p1ss]

[ejacutastic]

I DIDN’T LEARN ABOUT THIS IN DRIVING SCHOOL

[biszumletzten]

Stop says the red light, go says the green

Wait says the yellow light, twinkling in between. 

KNEEL, SAYS THE DEMON LIGHT WITH ITS EYE OF COAL  SAURON KNOWS YOUR LICENSE PLATE  AND STARES INTO YOUR SOUL

[demonsnakes-deactivated20160829]

THIS IS ALWAYS FUNNY

[furbearingbrick]

I’ve only seen this legendary post in screenshots

[lilcowgirl7-deactivated20210223]

Laziness Does Not Exist Devon Price

[icouldbeawritermaybe]

[truuustme-imawriter]

Daniel Handler everyone

[thoroughlymodernhippie-deactiva]

I’d be laughing at this if I wasn’t busy reeling from the fact that this guy is a real person and I’ve just seen his true face

[nazyalenskey]