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where is that performance art piece where they wore lipstick and white clothes and kissed each other all over
what if we……………………
Sometimes I think about lesbian icon renée vivien lauging so hard she had to leave a lecture bc the man was talking about how a book of anonymously published love poetry was the pinnacle depiction of a young man’s desire towards women…… but it was her book. She wrote it. About her girlfriend.
She’s the one on the left.
She IS and I’m obsessed with this image but how could you leave out that the one on the right is the girlfriend in question
I figured it was obvious from the gaze
The gays gaze
The Female Gayz
She’s looking respectfully
"Why are you using a male voice?" I'm sitting in the car next to a professor who is giving me a ride back to campus. I'm not sure what to type. The first question is, why am I using any voice? I normally prefer to have people read what I…
“But a discussion on gender identity, gender presentation, and the ways they interact with assistive technology is a bit much for me to type on an onscreen keyboard balanced on my knees, when we’re within a quarter-mile of our destination.”
Lesbian welders, San Francisco: 20th century
From The Library of Congress Archives
“one day, i was reading a book about lesbians and my son came into the room and asked me to read from the book to him. so, i began to read to him, and the word lesbian came up somewhere in the few paragraphs that i read, and he said, “what’s a lesbian?” and i told him, “a woman that loves women and makes a life with a woman as a companion.” so he said, “oh, so that’s what you do.” i said, “yeah.” he said, “so that means you’re a lesbian.” and i said, “yeah.” and he said, “but mommy, i thought you were a virgo” from the documentary film choosing children: launching the lesbian baby boom, 1985
Pay them ppl man.
One of the most important things I learned in my Language and the Law class is that law enforcement will intentionally misinterpret every type of statement asking for a lawyer as not asking for a lawyer. Even directly saying it like this “I will not speak to you without a lawyer” can be taken as a simple statement of fact rather than a request for a lawyer. You literally have to state “I am now invoking my right to a lawyer” and every time they try to proceed with an interrogation you have to answer every question with “I am invoking my right to have a lawyer present”. You can’t just tell them you won’t talk without a lawyer or that you want a lawyer. You have to state that you are invoking your rights. Otherwise they could just say “well they just said they wouldn’t speak without a lawyer present. That’s not invoking their rights to a lawyer. It’s just stating a fact.” even just stating your right to a lawyer doesn’t count!
PLEASE share this addition. I am a lawyer who works in criminal defense, and this is one of the most avoidable things that people consistently get wrong about the Miranda rights.
Here are some more “ambiguous” phrases which courts have found DO NOT invoke your right to a lawyer:
“Maybe I should speak to my lawyer first.”
“I might like a lawyer.”
“I think I should have a lawyer present for this.”
“Could I speak to my lawyer first?”
“How long until my lawyer gets here?”
And perhaps most egregiously – “Get me a lawyer, dawg – ‘cause this is not what’s up.”
Here are the magic phrases which you need to know if you want to invoke your Miranda rights:
1) “Am I free to leave?”
It’s worth asking this even if the answer is obvious. Even if the officer does not let you leave, by forcing them to admit that you are not free to leave, you are creating a record which your attorney can use to prove that you were in custody. Miranda rights only apply if the interrogation is custodial, meaning that police officers will frequently claim that their suspects were “not in custody” to get around their Miranda rights.
2) “I am invoking my right to remain silent.”
Simply staying silent will not invoke your right to remain silent. As absurd as this is, you must explicitly say that you are invoking your right to remain silent in order to invoke that right.
3) “I am invoking my right to an attorney.”
As stated above, you must be not only clear and unambiguous, but clear and legally unambiguous. Don’t get cute. Don’t get sassy. And on the flip side, don’t get intimidated and use verbal ticks to minimize your request. Say the line with those words exactly – say it clearly, and say it once, and then say nothing else.
Because even after you’ve done all this, the police can still try to get you to talk. They’re not supposed to interrogate you, but they’re allowed to make casual conversation, and if that conversation just happens to circle back around to the thing they wanted to question you about, well, that’s really your fault for talking after you said you wouldn’t, isn’t it? Can’t possibly fault the poor officers when you initiated – if you really wanted to have your rights respected, you wouldn’t have talked to them in the first place.
The police know this, and they will mercilessly exploit this loophole. So, once you’ve successfully invoked your Miranda rights, any and all conversation you have with police officers will put those rights back into jeopardy.
Putting it all together:
Ask: “Am I free to leave?”
If they say no, say: “I am invoking my right to remain silent and I am invoking my right to an attorney.”
And then shut up and do not say a single thing to them for any reason whatsoever until you have actually spoken to an attorney. Yes, even if it takes hours. Yes, even if they start talking to you about something else.
Finally, a very important disclaimer:
I may be a lawyer, but I’m not your lawyer, and I cannot guarantee that what I’ve just laid out here will always work for every situation. We didn’t get to this bizarre and absurd place overnight – we built this ridiculous system piecemeal, by deciding on a case-by-case basis that certain phrases were “too ambiguous” or certain types of questioning weren’t actually questioning at all. The law is still in flux, and is still fundamentally out to get you, and willing to bend plain meaning beyond all recognition to do it. Even if you invoke your rights perfectly, exactly as I have specified above, there’s a chance that your invocation of rights will be disqualified on some new technicality that no one’s even thought of yet – and that’s precisely the problem.
Watch this video: “Don’t Talk To The Police”
I am begging my followers to please watch this video from start to finish. I know it’s long, but it is incredibly valuable information that everyone needs to know, especially if you’re involved in any form of activism.
Every single cop lies. Every single cop lies and manipulates and twists the situation around to get a confession. Even when they know that the person is innocent, even when they know that what they have isn’t enough to convict someone, even when they know that that confession has been made under duress or manipulation. All they care about is getting anything to put someone behind bars.
It doesn’t matter how eloquent or innocent or experienced you are. Do not talk to cops.
Disclaimer: I am not a lawyer.
You also have a right to legal advice, for free, in a police interview in the UK. The Crown Prosecution Service (or the Procurator Fiscal in Scotland) must provide one for you. Minors also have the right to an appropriate adult (parent, carer, social worker etc): if arrested A MINOR CANNOT LEGALLY BE INTERVIEWED IF AN APPROPRIATE ADULT IS NOT PRESENT. (A cop does not count as an appropriate adult because they are not there to advocate for you. They’re there to advocate for themselves.)
“Butch & Femme Love Forever” Liz Nania, Roslindale, MA
Their names, ranks and kills in case people went to know;
First row – Guard Staff Sergeant, VN Stepanova: 20 kills, Guard Sgt JP Belousova: 80 kills, Guard Sgt AE Vinogradova: 83 kills.
Second row – Guard Lieutenant EK Zhibovskaya: 24 kills, Guard Sgt KF Marinkin: 79 kills, Guard Sgt OS Marenkina: 70 kills.
Third row – Guard Lieutenant NP Belobrova: 70 kills, Lieutenant N. Lobkovsky: 89 kills, Guard Lieutenant VI Artamonova: 89 kills, Guard Staff Sergeant MG Zubchenko: 83 kills.
Forth row – Guard Sergeant, NP Obukhova: 64 kills, Guard Sergeant, AR Belyakova 24 kills.
Total number of confirmed kills: 775. Photo taken in Germany, May 4, 1945.
And this hasn’t been made into a movie or mini series?
The cool thing is, there’s still one person missing: Lyudmila Pavlichenko.
She was one of the deadliest snipers of World War II, and is regarded as one of the deadliest snipers of all time. Over the course of one year (June 1941-June 1942) she racked up a count of 309 kills, 36 of which were enemy snipers. Her prescence in the picture alone would have brought the total number of kills from 755 to 1064.
Goddamn.
obsessed with this photo series about trans love by photographer landyn pan (source)
and what about it.
When you could be watching She-Ra or something actively and openly LGBTQ+ friendly.
oh shut the fuck up
#can’t believe people in 1956 were watching johnny guitar instead of she-ra#🙄🙄smh
Luke Gilford spent four years immersing himself in LGBTQ+ rodeo culture – and discovered a world where steer-roping meets lip-sync battles and camp glamour
So I’m an unemployed disabled person, who has ehlers danlos syndrome, lupus, and schizo-affective bipolar on top of other severe mental and chronic illnesses,
My food stamps have been cut, and I am in medical debt both to my therapist and to doctors and hospitals as I am in and out of there all the time with no way of paying the copay. I would also need help with transportation fare as due to my illness I cannot drive, and due to the fact I must see specialists, I’m usually going from buses to trains to buses to see my doctors.
If anyone could donate, It would be extremely appreciated
Paypal.me/thechronicchillpill
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hey siri how do i explain to tumblr that ‘bury your gays’ is about more than the texual death of queer characters and that the textual death of queer characters is not, therefore, always a bad thing
Hey Siri, how do I explain to people that killing off characters for ‘drama’ is lazy and ham-fisted writing *at best*–and that doing it to characters from marginalized groups contributes to a legacy of underrepresentation, negative representation, and bigotry that actively harms communities and is, in fact, always a bad thing?
Literally the only reason things happen in fiction is “for drama”. Like… that’s what a narrative is. Drama. The problem is when it’s done for cheap drama.
“Bury your gays” means that gay characters are treated, narratively, as more expendable than others. Their lives/stories are treated as having less potential, without the possibility of a happily-ever-after.
But like… the way to fight this trope is not to decree as a community that narratives about or featuring death are inherently homophobic. Tragedies are not unethical–they just should not be the only OR the majority of stories being told about LGBTQ and other marginalized characters. You can, like, not personally want to read tragedies, and that’s fair! But a blanket ban against character death and anyone who writes it does not actually increase the number of happy stories and is a major “fuck you” to every marginalized writer who wants to write things that are meaningful to them.
LGBTQ characters should die, but in ways and rates comparable to straight characters.
You have screencapped the words of a creator talking about a literal children’s superhero cartoon.
She-Ra is very good and very important and I’m glad it exists. But it is very much a literal actual children’s cartoon that was seasonally produced for a large general audience and had to be approved by producers. It is not reflective of the whole width and breadth of fiction and the idea that all fiction of every form and genre by and about marginalized people needs to end cheerfully for every such character or else its creation is unethical is just… absolute madness…
Shes literally talking all media in this paragraph bud.
No… she is saying that she personally does not want to watch it on TV. Do y’all think media begins and ends with Buffy the Vampire Slayer? Some people don’t like dark/heavy/tragic fiction and that’s entirely fine. You don’t have to consume it.
Take The Southern Reach series. It’s adult apocalyptic ecological horror written for adults. It does not have a happy ending. There is no reason to think that it will. Should the author have made the gay characters straight? Or kept them in and just tossed out the entire purpose and integrity of the narrative so that it isn’t about a hopeless apocalypse?
Also like… unpopular opinion, but while I like and admire her, I don’t think Noelle Stevenson is the ultimate authority on what stories other people are allowed to tell. Shut up.
Hm. Okay. While I won’t egg on this argument, I feel like after listening to both sides of this, I feel like the other side’s opinion is much more supported and understandable then Ship’s. Sorry, but after literal centuries of Bury Your Gays, I feel like it is not the right time to argue about when a queer character should die.
Also love the eloquently put “shut up” 🙄.
Look.
I’m not a professional writer, but I do write, and the idea that if I continue to do so, must either remove the queer characters from my stories OR make them all immortal, or else have my work dubbed inherently homophobic is just absurd.
I’m not writing for children or for an agenda. If I wrote a story about, say, the last survivor of a nuclear apocalypse composing a eulogy for the human race in the grim hope that future alien explorers could one day find it and know that we existed, obviously there isn’t going to be a happy ending. If this character happened to be a lesbian, 100% of the gays in my story would die.
The difference between #ownvoices apocalyptic tragedy and that chick from Buffy getting killed off for cheap shock value is incalculable. Death and mortality loom large in the human experience and if we’re just going to toss all nuance out the window and declare that those topics are incompatible with queer characters… we’ve maimed ourselves and our capacity for creation.
Youre arguing for your own right to write, which is fine.
But remove your own motives from this equation and have another look.
Mainstream media consistently kills off gay characters. That’s a problem that needs to be dealt with, and we should deal with it. I understand where you’re coming from, it’s easy to see you have good intentions here. But this isn’t about you. It’s about all media representation. And if we need a harsh pushback which may for the immediate future cause some themes you wish to write about to be publically rejected, then that’s just how this has gotta play out.
And it’s not just about the LGBTQ+ community. It’s about all of society. Society needs to see healthy, normalised gay relationships on public tv, in the public eye. If they keep getting killed off, that positive influence won’t reach.
[takes you by the shoulders and shakes you gently but firmly]
The “bury your gays” trope originates from literal actual publication rules that required queer (and otherwise ‘objectionable’) characters to be killed off or neutralized and for fiction to adhere to specific moral agendas. When these codes were no longer explicitly in place, they were still informally echoed by public opinion and pressure from publishers and studios.
The problem is not and never has been with gay deaths. The problem is with gay disposability relative to straight characters and with death as a direct result of their sexuality.
No one else has said anything about this exclusively the nebulous category “mainstream media”. The Southern Reach is a best-selling science fiction/horror series with the first novel adapted into a blockbuster movie. It’s “mainstream media”. Earth is destroyed and the characters are killed or are changed into something else. Several of them are gay. I do not think this hurts the queer community, and I would not want those gay characters removed.
The Left Hand of Darkness is a very famous speculative fiction novel that explores gender and sexuality in a way that was revolutionary for its time. It features major character death. A happy ending would have been out of place in this particular story.
Now… what about The Magnus Archives? I have a strong suspicion that’s why there’s been so much discourse about this topic lately. Is TMA “mainstream media”? It’s certainly very popular. It’s also a horror podcast, so the idea of a “happily ever after” for the several LGBT characters is laughably unlikely. And yet you’ve got large portions of Tumblr raving about how killing any of them is some horrible irresponsible homophobic thing because y’all can’t meaningfully distinguish between killing off token gay characters because they aren’t as narratively valuable as straight characters and…. three-dimensional gay characters dying for reasons unrelated to their sexuality, because some fiction just is about death and mortality and tragedy.
At the end of the day, stories like She-Ra and the Magnus Archives should BOTH exist and their narratives should accomplish what they wish to accomplish. Serialized TV is USUALLY GARBAGE and the fact that it sabotages good storytelling and character development for the sake of ratings is nothing new and certainly not reason to say that a moratorium on including LGBT characters in grim fiction is what the world REALLY needs.
ship is entirely correct here, and furthermore, the insistence that any creator whose work has a chance of becoming popular must, without argument, shutter away their own desires and creative drive and passions for genre and theme in favor of publicly atoning for the crimes of a thousand lesser writers is complete and utter horseshit.
you people insisting that any instance of character death where said character is queer is verboten, do you realize you are actively throttling future representation? do you realize that you’re holding the creative output of your own goddamn people to such an impossible standard that many queer writers will just throw up their hands and write exclusively about straight people instead, rather than put aside their passions and churn out empty fairytale bullshit?
queer ppl deserve horror too, we deserve complex and uncomfortable stories, and we deserve to both consume and create those stories. there is no excuse you can give that can justify taking that away from us.
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Genderqueer/non-binary celebrities
Amandla Stenberg: non-binary actress and singer (The Hate U Give, The Hunger Games) [she/her; they/them]
Ezra Miller: genderqueer actor (The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Justice League) [prefers he/him but is comfortable with all pronouns]
Chella Man: genderqueer YouTuber, actor & model (Titans) [he/him]
Brigette Lundy-Paine: non-binary actor (Atypical, The Glass Castle) [they/them]
Angel Haze: agender rapper & singer (Battle Cry, Cleaning out my Closet) [she/her; he/him]
Indya Moore: non-binary actor & model (Pose, Queen & Slim) [they/them]
Ruby Rose: genderfluid actress, model, talk show host, DJane (Batwoman, OitnB) [she/her]
Asia Kate Dillon: non-binary actor (Billions, OitnB) [they/them]
Quintessa Swindell: non-binary actor (Trinkets, Euphoria) [they, them]
Jonathan Van Ness: non-binary television personality, podcaster & hairdresser (Queer Eye) [prefers he/him but is also okay with they/them & she/her]
Feel free to add other celebrities or to correct me if I’ve got something wrong!
Lachlan Watson: Nonbinary actor (The Chilling Adventures of Sabrina) [they/them]
Liv Hewson: Nonbinary actor (Santa Clarita Diet, Let It Snow) [they/them]
Bex Taylor-Klaus: Nonbinary actor and voice actor [Voltron, Scream]
sam smith (they/them) - singer
gerard way (he/they) - member of mcr
dorian electra (they/them) - singer
sonicfox (they/them) - esports player
Rebecca Sugar! (they/them she/her) - Cartoon show-runner: “Steven Universe”
Jacob Tobia - non-binary voice actor (they/them) played Double Trouble on She-Ra!
Jay Harper- andro/gender-fluid actor and singer (they/them but comfortable with he/him and she/her), jayisjo (@jayhoward_official on twitter), performer in ‘Ultimate Storytime’
Karin Dreijer (Xe): non-binary/genderfluid, queer, Swedish singer/musician/songwriter and co-founder of the Knife. Also has solo project called Fever Ray (which is very queer). Feverray on Instagram and @feverray on Twitter.
Andrea Gibson (they/them): Non-binary slam poet and activist
Janelle Monae: (Hasn’t specified pronouns yet) Singer, songwriter, artist and actor
Literally lost this post and had to scroll way the fuck back down my dash to find it again and rb because I’m going to cry over it. Yes I know, I cry over everything these days, fuck off. I literally just started halfway coming out to people in my real life this week and this shit is fucking validating.
Possum Plows
Lead Singer of Openside (They/Them)
“In 1984, when Ruth Coker Burks was 25 and a young mother living in Arkansas, she would often visit a hospital to care for a friend with cancer.
During one visit, Ruth noticed the nurses would draw straws, afraid to go into one room, its door sealed by a big red bag. She asked why and the nurses told her the patient had AIDS.
On a repeat visit, and seeing the big red bag on the door, Ruth decided to disregard the warnings and sneaked into the room.
In the bed was a skeletal young man, who told Ruth he wanted to see his mother before he died. She left the room and told the nurses, who said, "Honey, his mother’s not coming. He’s been here six weeks. Nobody’s coming!”
Ruth called his mother anyway, who refused to come visit her son, who she described as a "sinner" and already dead to her, and that she wouldn't even claim his body when he died.
“I went back in his room and when I walked in, he said, "Oh, momma. I knew you’d come", and then he lifted his hand. And what was I going to do? So I took his hand. I said, "I’m here, honey. I’m here”, Ruth later recounted.
Ruth pulled a chair to his bedside, talked to him
and held his hand until he died 13 hours later.
After finally finding a funeral home that would his body, and paying for the cremation out of her own savings, Ruth buried his ashes on her family's large plot.
After this first encounter, Ruth cared for other patients. She would take them to appointments, obtain medications, apply for assistance, and even kept supplies of AIDS medications on hand, as some pharmacies would not carry them.
Ruth’s work soon became well known in the city and she received financial assistance from gay bars, "They would twirl up a drag show on Saturday night and here'd come the money. That's how we'd buy medicine, that's how we'd pay rent. If it hadn't been for the drag queens, I don't know what we would have done", Ruth said.
Over the next 30 years, Ruth cared for over 1,000 people and buried more than 40 on her family's plot most of whom were gay men whose families would not claim their ashes.
For this, Ruth has been nicknamed the 'Cemetery Angel'.”— by Ra-Ey Saley
She’s 60 now, she’s still doing activist and advocacy work, and working on a memoir.