whimsy is the revolution

runa • she/they • tired queer witch • haver of hobbies • happy to be here

[durable-dog]

today is the misgendering day apparently and it’s insane that i (we) have to just. take it at work. because that’s what is polite and professional. and i’m not allowed to go into my coworker’s office and say “what will it take for you to start gendering me correctly” and i’m not allowed to respond to students and say “please be mindful of the clearly stated pronouns and honorifics in my signature” and before you say “you’re allowed to say those things!” no i’m not. i promise i am not.

[durable-dog]

the argument i often get is “people don’t know that it bothers you if you don’t correct them” and i don’t know how to make you understand how it feels to have to ask politely over and over again to be treated with the same respect that people unthinkingly grant to dogs.

[moonbrainedtranny]

I had a problem with someone misgendering me and using my deadname two years after I transitioned and he damn well knew it.

I tried to get some help. this resulted in my sitting through a 15 minute lecture from my boss about how it's normal for people to make that mistake and I just have to accept it and be patient.

then I got the exact same lecture from the director of hr.

I felt like a worm, small and wriggling and powerless. that was the moment I learned I have to let cis people step on me whenever they feel like it

[bebsi-cola]

disabled people are often in permacrisis

[bebsi-cola]

there's never enough money each month. there's always an unexpected illness. new symptoms pop up or old symptoms flare up. meds have to be managed always and refilled constantly and any refill has the opportunity to go wrong. any regular care has the opportunity to go wrong. any mistake can send your health spiralling. it's always "i just need to get through this bad patch" but as soon as one ends another begins. another crisis begins in the middle of the last crisis. managing one thing leaves another thing to be neglected until that becomes a major issue and has to be managed asap and the cycle starts anew over and over and over

[thatdiabolicalfeminist]

via prev

[iceghosto]

This morning I had like the lesbian equivalent of that part from the Brian David Gilbert cooking video about getting called Boss haha

[litterofbiscuit]

its interesting being a weird autistic tranny as a kid and letting yourself get accustomed to the idea that youre just some magically antisocial loser who is "introverted" and is happy being alone and then you grow up and realize that actually you love being social you love hugs you love going out and hate being alone you just hated all of the social opportunities available to you growing up so much you let yourself romanticize solitude as a slightly less miserable state than interacting with people

[weevil-mastermind]

Imagine if we did the “public libraries are punk” thing for other subcultures. Imagine if people made shirts that said “Soup kitchens are grunge” or “Mixed Use Urbanism is Juggalo”.

[vintar]

[academicabyss]

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

The longer I’m on estrogen the shorter my shorts become

[things-from-strings]

🕸BEHOLD MY BOY!!!🕸

after who knows how many months of puzzling out the geometry, running out of the right colors, & feeling like i'd NEVER be done making flower motifs, HERE HE IS!! in all his orange glory!!

the cutest, sweetest, most huggable spider in the WORLD!!! ✨️💖🕷💖✨️

his name is Arson 🔥🥰🔥

[street-dog-bread]

[demilypyro]

having free control over our endrocrine systems and the ability to change our genitals is currently inextricably tied to trans rights, and for good reason, but frankly i don't think it even needs to be. it should just be a matter of bodily autonomy, and that should be universal. if a cis dude wants tits and a pussy i think that would be fine. if cis women want a dick or nothing at all that should be allowed i think. people shouldn't need to be transgender to be allowed to change their bodies. free the nipple, enlarge the nipple, remove the nipple. whatever the fuck you want. i dont know if there's a term for this belief but i hold it very strongly. everybody biohack yourselves NOW

[lesvegas]

passing in public makes me feel like white shrek

[lesvegas]

literally how it feels

[welpnotagain]

[gothinkdexign]

[salamanding]

dysphoric tonight :(

[salamanding]

fascinating that this is getting attention right now. im sorry to everyone who relates. hoping and praying for body modification magic for us all.

[rachelthenerdygirl1987]

I love being a girl tbh

Idk why people hate trans people for being our selves lmao

Almost like the economy runs off people being miserable and too drained to stand up to the "tyrants" we outnumber 100,000,000 to 1

And being your true self and experencing true happyness is something that could make people have more freedom to stand up to said tyrants :3

Idc its mid july. Happy late pride yall and don't forget: no matter how hard it gets.. stay safe, stay loud, stay proud of who you are

If you have more privlages insociety than others please use it to stand up for the lessfortonate of us

The more people stay quiet the less of us there will be to help stand up for one another when they move to a new group of people to prey apon.

[soapy-birblover]

I was inspired by the black-out poems made by @playing-with-colors and decided to apply it to the locked tomb series!

Palamedes my beloved

[karolinactually]

[jeniferprince]

bffs & gffs <3

patreon // buy prints here  

[moonbrainedtranny]

look at them! they're so good!

I've always wanted my own fruit trees. using the power of online shopping, these pawpaw trees now live in my yard. it'll be years before they fruit but I'm so happy

I hope they like it here

please wish them luck so they grow big and strong and have long happy lives