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@multiversal-traveler-clef
Pinned post or something
Dr. Alto Clef, you can also call me Traveler
It/He + Neos
Queer fucker
Reality Bender
Local deer cryptid
Multiversal traveller
Old hairy fat dude
I hunt twinks for sport
Other people in my system:
Agent Ukulele, aka Umber - Any X neos + It/Shadow
Francis Wojciechowski, aka Chess - They/He/Soft
Chimera/Delta - It + Any beast related neos
Dunno if any others will show up
Hello- not quite sure how I ended up here, but oh well.
-@multiversal-traveler-clef
HIHIIII
The multiverse is big (and some of it is....... really confusing). You look nice though!
would you like some breadsticks and garlic bread for the road?
Oh! Yes, thank you. 8â°]
have fun on your trip wherever you go. just... be careful what portals you go through you might see something you don't want to
Aha, I'm afraid its a tad bit late for that. I've seen some..... horrifying things, to say the least. I'm glad you're concerned about me.
Wish I could remember more about home, though.
Hello- not quite sure how I ended up here, but oh well.
-@multiversal-traveler-clef
HIHIIII
The multiverse is big (and some of it is....... really confusing). You look nice though!
would you like some breadsticks and garlic bread for the road?
Oh! Yes, thank you. 8â°]
Hello- not quite sure how I ended up here, but oh well.
-@multiversal-traveler-clef
HIHIIII
The multiverse is big (and some of it is....... really confusing). You look nice though!
put prev somewhere
salad spinner
aquarium
cardboard box
dishwasher
your pocket
the sea
soda bottle
refrigerator
soup pot
factory
cat tree
new jersey
Did I ever post this drawing of myself?
Hmm, what if I were to...
Start a Picrew chain?
Three tags each!
@i-identify-as-an-ominous-threat @jollibee-real @gb-tesco-official
https://picrew.me/en/image_maker/644129
bzzzzt :3
@catinasink @multiversal-traveler-clef @i-meow-at-you @gb-tesco-official @firehouse-subs-fr AND EVERYONE ELSE!!!!
This makes me look a lot younger than I actually am, heh. They also didn't have a third eye option, which is expected.
Y'know what? Lets bring three different branching paths into this. Epprbcu, SCP artists, and the anons.
@character-profiles @twig-the-edgelord @gimmickswag
-Anon walks up to you
-You lose 1 âââââ
-Anon walks away
~đĄïžAnon
...Where did my hat go, what the fuck-
Can. Can I have that back please?
-Anon puts the hat on
"No"
I'll play you something on my ukulele if you do. And make you a wooden carving.
-Anon ponders your offer
-Anon takes off the hat and nods
-Traveler pulls a chair from seemingly nowhere, and sits down on it, crossing one leg over the other-
-It pulls out its ukuleles, stumming it a few times to make sure its in tune-
Anything in particular you want me to play?
-Anon ponders the options
"Fly me to the moon"
Ah, that's quite a pretty song! Hm, lets see...
-Traveler takes a moment to find the chords, then starts to play-
-Some accompanying instruments seem to play along in the background, complimenting Traveler's style of strumming, though there is no discernable source-
-It's likely a result of his anomolous abilities-
-It began to sing-
Flyy me to the moon~ and let me play among the stars
Let me see what spring is like on, Jupiter and Mars
In other words, hold my hand~~
In other words, baby, kiss me.
Fill my heart with song and let me sing forevermore~
You are all I long for, all I worship and adore.
In other words, please be truee~~
In other words, I love you.
Fill my heart with song, let me sing forevermore.
You are all I long for, all I worship and adore.
In other words, please be trueee~~
In other words~
In other words~~
I~ love~~ you.
-Traveler sounded nostalgic, its deep, gruff voice woven with hints of longing for someone it couldn't quite remember, or perhaps, someplace-
-Anon plants the tip of their blade into the ground
-Anon sits down and rests their arm against the hilt of their sword
-Anon lets themself sway as they listen to the music
-Anon is content
-Chuckling lightly, Traveler sat his ukulele beside it's chair once the song was done, a soft smile on it's face-
I'm glad you liked it, I enjoy playing for people.
Now, what would you like for me to carve for you? I can create all sorts of things.
-With a flourish of the hat, a small block of wood and a carving knife fell from the opening into its hand, the hat itself being connected to a sort of pocket dimension, before he put it back on its head-
-Anon gives you a small applause for your hat trick
-Anon ponders the options
"A statue of a bug's head?"
-Anon thinks some more
"Maybe put an engraving of a beehive at the base"
-He smiles-
I can do that.
-Beginning to work, Traveler slowly began carving slivers of wood away, starting to form the vague shape of a bees head.-
-It was a tedious process, but one that it enjoyed.â
-He used to carve for people back home. Traveler didn't remember who though. It was hard to remember where he was from. It'd left so long ago...-
-Traveler knew it had a daughter that it'd carve for on her birthday.-
There we go, all finished.
-It was a bee's head. The delicate antenna curled away from the top of the head, somehow still standing due to some light durability he'd infused into the wood so it wouldn't break.-
-It held the carving out to Anon.-
-Anon walks up to you
-You lose 1 âââââ
-Anon walks away
~đĄïžAnon
...Where did my hat go, what the fuck-
Can. Can I have that back please?
-Anon puts the hat on
"No"
I'll play you something on my ukulele if you do. And make you a wooden carving.
-Anon ponders your offer
-Anon takes off the hat and nods
-Traveler pulls a chair from seemingly nowhere, and sits down on it, crossing one leg over the other-
-It pulls out its ukuleles, stumming it a few times to make sure its in tune-
Anything in particular you want me to play?
-Anon ponders the options
"Fly me to the moon"
Ah, that's quite a pretty song! Hm, lets see...
-Traveler takes a moment to find the chords, then starts to play-
-Some accompanying instruments seem to play along in the background, complimenting Traveler's style of strumming, though there is no discernable source-
-It's likely a result of his anomolous abilities-
-It began to sing-
Flyy me to the moon~ and let me play among the stars
Let me see what spring is like on, Jupiter and Mars
In other words, hold my hand~~
In other words, baby, kiss me.
Fill my heart with song and let me sing forevermore~
You are all I long for, all I worship and adore.
In other words, please be truee~~
In other words, I love you.
Fill my heart with song, let me sing forevermore.
You are all I long for, all I worship and adore.
In other words, please be trueee~~
In other words~
In other words~~
I~ love~~ you.
-Traveler sounded nostalgic, its deep, gruff voice woven with hints of longing for someone it couldn't quite remember, or perhaps, someplace-
-Anon plants the tip of their blade into the ground
-Anon sits down and rests their arm against the hilt of their sword
-Anon lets themself sway as they listen to the music
-Anon is content
-Chuckling lightly, Traveler sat his ukulele beside it's chair once the song was done, a soft smile on it's face-
I'm glad you liked it, I enjoy playing for people.
Now, what would you like for me to carve for you? I can create all sorts of things.
-With a flourish of the hat, a small block of wood and a carving knife fell from the opening into its hand, the hat itself being connected to a sort of pocket dimension, before he put it back on its head-
-Anon walks up to you
-You lose 1 âââââ
-Anon walks away
~đĄïžAnon
...Where did my hat go, what the fuck-
Can. Can I have that back please?
-Anon puts the hat on
"No"
I'll play you something on my ukulele if you do. And make you a wooden carving.
-Anon ponders your offer
-Anon takes off the hat and nods
-Traveler pulls a chair from seemingly nowhere, and sits down on it, crossing one leg over the other-
-It pulls out its ukuleles, stumming it a few times to make sure its in tune-
Anything in particular you want me to play?
-Anon ponders the options
"Fly me to the moon"
Ah, that's quite a pretty song! Hm, lets see...
-Traveler takes a moment to find the chords, then starts to play-
-Some accompanying instruments seem to play along in the background, complimenting Traveler's style of strumming, though there is no discernable source-
-It's likely a result of his anomolous abilities-
-It began to sing-
Flyy me to the moon~ and let me play among the stars
Let me see what spring is like on, Jupiter and Mars
In other words, hold my hand~~
In other words, baby, kiss me.
Fill my heart with song and let me sing forevermore~
You are all I long for, all I worship and adore.
In other words, please be truee~~
In other words, I love you.
Fill my heart with song, let me sing forevermore.
You are all I long for, all I worship and adore.
In other words, please be trueee~~
In other words~
In other words~~
I~ love~~ you.
-Traveler sounded nostalgic, its deep, gruff voice woven with hints of longing for someone it couldn't quite remember, or perhaps, someplace-
-Anon walks up to you
-You lose 1 âââââ
-Anon walks away
~đĄïžAnon
...Where did my hat go, what the fuck-
Can. Can I have that back please?
-Anon puts the hat on
"No"
I'll play you something on my ukulele if you do. And make you a wooden carving.
-Anon ponders your offer
-Anon takes off the hat and nods
-Traveler pulls a chair from seemingly nowhere, and sits down on it, crossing one leg over the other-
-It pulls out its ukuleles, stumming it a few times to make sure its in tune-
Anything in particular you want me to play?
-Anon walks up to you
-You lose 1 âââââ
-Anon walks away
~đĄïžAnon
...Where did my hat go, what the fuck-
Can. Can I have that back please?
-Anon puts the hat on
"No"
I'll play you something on my ukulele if you do. And make you a wooden carving.
Reblog if youâd be okay if your friend came out as transgender
letâs see how many transphobics we can weed out
if you canât reblog this unfollow me right now
2 of my besties are transgender and so am I
I have a friend who hasnât come out yet but has changed their discord pronouns, and another friend who came out as nb before I met them and to be honest I canât tell what gender they were born as, so congratulations to them!
I have 2 friends that are trans
And another friendâs lover is trans so
lets pog
considering I fall under the transgender umbrellaâŠ.Yeah thats cool
I am also in the umbrella đđ©·đ€đ©·đ I love you alllll
This is exclamania. Everything is trans
I am trans people.
-Anon walks up to you
-You lose 1 âââââ
-Anon walks away
~đĄïžAnon
...Where did my hat go, what the fuck-
Can. Can I have that back please?
PICREW CHAIN
blame whoever introduced this to me for making so many (3) of these. This is a blast
Itâs definitely a little different but itâs got a lot of good options. I really enjoyed this one
Create a tiefling or any sort of demon character! Feel free to make edits to your creation or upload them online as long as you give me cred
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ooo, this one was really cool!
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oh wow iâve never done this but it turned out really good?? im gonna do this again!!
Ohhhhhh, this one was really neat
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Yoooooo this one is neat X3
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Open tags ofc
Hi, tis me, Target!
Open tags :)
mmmmade all three again :3
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This oneâs cool!!
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This looks fun
hey so protip if you have abusive parents and need to get around the house as quietly as possible, stay close to furniture and other heavy stuff because the floor is settled there and itâs less likely to creak
socks are quieter than bare feet on tile/wood and for the love of god donât wear slippers/shoes if you can help it
climbing ON the furniture will disrupt the pattern of your footsteps and make it harder to hear where you are in the house
crawling will do the same and if you get caught crawling you can pretend you fellÂ
the floor near the wall can be really loud if the floorboards/carpet is old and not completely flush to the wall
do NOT attempt to use a rolling chair to travel without footsteps. they are extremely loud and hard to steer
Also. Breath with your mouth and not your nose. Your nose will whistle. Trust me. If you need to get into your fridge, jab your finger into the rubber part that seals the door closed and create a tiny airway. This will prevent the suction noise when you open the door. When drinking liquids (juice mostly), pour out your glass (or chug from the jug) and replace what you drank with water. If it was full enough in the beginning, no one will notice. DO NOT STEAL ALCOHOL. THEY WILL NOTICE IF ITâS WATERED DOWN. Bring a pillowcase for dried foods like cereal and granola. It helps to muffle the sound it makes when it pours.
If your house has snack packs (like gummy bears or crackers or chips), count them every day until you know the rhythm that they get consumed. (This took me a week and a half with my twin brother and sister). Then join the rhythm when you make your nightly visits. It will be that much harder to figure out it was you.
KEEP A TRASH BAG UNDER YOUR BED FOR WRAPPERS AND STUFF BUT DONT FORGET TO THROW IT OUT WHENEVER YOU CAN. BUGS YKNOW. Hope this helped.
I might have some useful info to add.
-a jar of peanut butter is long lasting and easy to hide under a bed or in a dresser drawer. I lived off of jars of peanut butter and boxes of saltine crackers I would buy on grocery trips with my mom.
-two words: Slipper Socks. These are the socks that have rubber designs on the bottom for grip. They make no noise, and also keep you steady on slicker surfaces like tile and wood. You can find them cheap at Walmart. They also keep your feet more protected if youâre outside.
-if youâre secure enough in your room to have a small food stash, make sure youâre not too obvious about it (duh) but also move its location every few days. I kept mine in a shoebox under my bed, then switched it to a backpack in my closet, then wedged between my bookshelf and wall, and I would cycle locations until i moved it permanently to a false-bottomed drawer I installed in my dresser when my father was gone for a weekend. I would NEVER put food directly into my stash after taking it. I would keep it in pockets of my clothes and between books until everyone went to sleep, then Iâd stock and stow my stash for the next few days.
-get a water bottle with a filter in it. I used to be able to reach my bathroom from my bedroom door down the hall using a huge step or minor jump/leap. If I was afraid of being caught at night, Iâd fill up the humidifier tank we kept under our sink while I took a short shower, and would refill my water that way. It might not be the best option, but I kept a small stockade of water under my bed for emergencies.
-if you can, smuggle your garbage out in your backpack or purse. Dispose of it at work/school. I got caught twice by carelessly throwing away packaging.
-if someone knows the situation youâre going through (close friend/partner/etc) see if thereâs a way for them to get food or other supplies to you at school or work or what private time you may get. A hidden first aid kit literally saved parts of my body before and I owe it to a close friend.
-try learning the buildingâs natural rhythm. The house I grew up in would creak and settle heavily every night for 3-5 minutes. That was my shot, and I had to be QUICK. I still got caught a few times, but learning the patterns in our floors and walls, when they creaked, WHERE they creaked, kept me going. Eventually I was sprinting in slipper socks to the kitchen and back in less than 90 seconds.
-if you have stairs, or live upstairs. Sit as you go down them one at a time, or climb up them like an animal. It keeps you low/out of lots of motion sight, and also can reduce noise and creaking by distributing weight over more than 1-2 steps.
-You can use common hand sanitizer to remove the stains certain snack foods leave behind (coughs cheeto fingers) and a dry toothbrush can help scrub the color off your tongue. If you can get powdered toothpaste or toothpaste tabs to keep on hand, it makes a huge difference in sneakiness.
-I donât recommend going for dried foods like granola or cereal unless you can sneak it to a secure place to get it. Itâs too loud, itâs a gamble every time for something with less caloric intake than itâs worth if you get caught. Of course, there are times when thatâs the only option!!
-if youâre taking milk, add water, but be SURE to shake/agitate the bottle to distribute the dairy fat with the water. I got into the habit of shaking milk jugs when I started sneaking it, and explained the habit as something I read in an old comic strip my father showed me. (Back when whole milk had a lot more cream fats and theyâd separate, so shaking it would redistribute the cream.) I still shake milk jugs to this day.
-if your windows open or donât have screens, eat leaning out an open window. Any food mess will be lost in the dirt. I was lucky I had bushes and birds outside that would catch my granola bar crumbs before anyone could notice.
-canned goods are tempting, but not worth it. It requires too many tools (can opener/strained sometimes/utensils/some need heat) stick to thinks like various nut butters (sunflower/peanut/almond), crackers, dried fruit, and easy to conceal food bars (nature valley/nutrigrain/etc.) dried ramen packets are good uncooked if you can stand the texture. Apple sauce and pudding cups are also easier to sneak and stash than one might think, and can be eaten with your fingers. The only canned foods I recommend are condensed soups and precooked pasta (spaghetti-oâs). You can easily mix them with a little bit of hot water from the tap and get something more sustaining than a handful of captain Crunch. The cans are cheap, sometimes recyclable, and drinking soup takes way less time than chewing solid food.
-if you menstruate, attempt to stash pads/tampons in a safe location. Sometimes shit happens. Pads can work as bandages in emergency situations. Sometimes shark week comes unexpectedly. If you can sneak a roll of toilet paper or paper towels, these are also life savers.
-plastic utensils from takeout containers can be hidden inside socks and will be worth their weight in gold when you least expect it. I bought myself a tiny plastic bowl from the dollar store and kept cheap trinkets in it on my desk so it didnât seem like a bowl I was eating out of. You could try this with something like a mason jar, which is also useful for drinking out of or storing water.
-if youâre eating a crunchy or solid food, try soaking it in water. Mushy food can be repulsive in texture, but I could clock the sound of someone eating a nature valley oat bar from like 6 miles away. Dunking it in water (or using a secret bowl+water) can reduce noise, and also eating time since you donât have to chew as much.
-keep a laundry bar or tide pen on you. Laundry bars are super useful, a little hard to find though. I washed a lot of stains out of my clothes with laundry bars in my bathroom sink as a kid. Not proud if it, but it kept me flying under the radar at school.
-clear rubber bands, plain twine or string, paper clips, and thumb tacks. Indescribably useful. I once rigged a system to open tricky cabinets and get objects from inside using two paper clips and a foot of plain string like a mock lasso system.
-if youâre pulling objects from tall cabinets, use your chest or stomach to cushion them. Let them fall into your torso and then into your hands cradled underneath. Not as loud, not as much grabbing, if someone sees it they can mistake it for it falling on you by the body language.
-get a bandana. Or four. Napkins, bandages, tool, and accessory all in one.
-get a tiny sewing kit. Iâm talking 3 needles and a spool of thread tiny. Scissors if you can sneak it. See things into your clothes. Make hidden pockets or compartments. Threadbanger on YouTube did a video a few years ago about sneaking things into music festivals using tiny clothing mods, but they may be useful in sneaking money or medicine.
-on the topic of sneaking money. donât take bills, take change. If your abusers donât meticulously count their nickels and pennies, theyâre an easy(ish) way to build up a tiny savings pool. I found nickels the least noticed coin I took, even more than pennies, and taking two every few nights from where theyâd be tossed on our countertop soon built up to a semi-reliable fund I passed off to someone to get me food for my stash without having to sneak it from the kitchen. As soon as I became âindependentâ in my food storage, I was subjected to much less scrutiny. I managed to build up a solid 1-2 week ration supply after hoarding change.
-you can tape SD cards to the inside of book dust covers(the part that folds inside the actual cover of the book), if you have a sewing kit or zipper on it inside the stuffing of your pillow (trim a corner, stuff it inside, stitch it closed) or (this is final resort) VERY CAREFULLY remove the covering from your outlet and tape it to the wall stud before replacing the casing. I kept mine inside part of my wooden bed frame that I hollowed out using, you guessed it, take out silverware knives and 4 nights without sleep.
-THE FLOOR IS LAVA WAS KEY TRAINING FOR ME AS A CHILD. I learned to take pillows with me, climb on furniture to disrupt my flow of movement, toss a pillow down, and use that to cushion any rattle our living room could give off as I crept to the kitchen from the side entrance so my momâs dog wouldnât bark or alert anyone. I highly suggest crawling around on all fours like some sort of beast to stay out of sight.
-can you run your house blindfolded?? If you canât. Maybe you should try to learn. I suffered some heavy eye traumas growing up and had a collective 3-4 months just IN THE DARK. Eyes bandaged, left alone. It was terrible, but damn if I couldnât navigate the whole place silently, without any visual cues. This helps a lot with the whole moving around in the dark thing, too. Listening is obviously key.
-if your parents start getting suspicious, or youâre suspicious theyâre getting suspicious, watch out for traps. String on the ground that gets shifted when you walk on it. Baby powder or flour left to track footprints or doors opening/closing. My dad was partial to wrapping a bungee cord around my doorknob and attaching it to the closet across the hallway. I wouldnât be able to open my door enough to get out, or if I did, I risked ruining the structural integrity of the wrappings he did, and he would notice.
-learn to tie some knots. Strong ones. Theyâll come in handy at one point or another.
-remember that youâre not totally alone. Thereâs people out there for you. Wanting to make everything better. You donât deserve whatâs happening, it isnât normal, and you will eventually find help. But staying safe is important, and you are important.
It upsets me that people might need to know these but I know it could really help someone by reblogging
ALWAYS REBLOG
Things that have helped me over the years:
âąKeeping a $10 bill on the inside of my phone case for emergencies. My mother will search my wallet and bags but has not taken my phone case off when she takes my phone as of yet.
âąstashing loose change I find in the soil of my potted plant. Very quiet hiding place for coins. All bills are quickly confiscated but coins I have managed to hold onto this way
âąchanging food stash locations constantly. A good stash Iâve found is buried in my mice seed mix. Small packages or granola bars can fit in there pretty easily and the wrappers are flushable (I know itâs bad to flush them but my trash is routinely searched)
âą always deleting online traces in case of phone/computer search. This includes search history, forbidden apps, messages, pictures, notes, games, etc. I donât know how many times I have deleted the tumblr app during the day only to re download it late at night to use it. My phone and computer are constantly confiscated and gone through with a fine tooth comb. I delete anything I might possibly get in trouble for after I use it and re download it when I need it again. Donât delete all your browsing history though, they will notice if itâs suspiciously empty. Fill it with safe and approved stuff and remove anything you might get punished for.
âąlearning what each and every door in the house sounds like so I know who is where at all times without having to leave the room
âąlearning where those âsweet spotsâ are in the house where you can notice anyone coming before they can see you or what you are doing
âąalways having a pre-approved cover. I use books and preaching videos as covers. I can hide a phone in a book or quickly switch apps to the one playing the video if surprised or discovered.
âą always being aware of âthe trailâ. If I tell a friend something who tells their sibling who tells my sibling who tells my mom I get punished so basically tell no one and it wonât come back to bite you. This includes talking about tv shows/movies that are forbidden, forbidden foods/drinks, activities, apps, games, friends, political views, etc. Express an opinion and itâs bound to reach someone you donât want it to.
âąnever take from your abuserâs personal stash of food or money. The family pantry is fair game to carefully pilfer from and so is loose change but never take from their personal purse/wallet, fridge, pantry, or stash. They WILL find out.
âąbeware of traps and manipulation . My mother will leave money and food unattended and wait for it to disappear. She will also act like she wants to do a good thing and help you out but in the end you will pay for it a hundred times over. Avoid this if at all possible.
âą NEVER develop a false sense of security. I have made the mistake of not deleting an app (Pinterest) because there had been a few weeks between phone searches and I felt a little safer. I got caught and severely punished. ALWAYS COVER YOUR TRACKS. Donât get too confident in your methods, eventually they will find something. Make sure itâs something minor.
I just want to point out that when deleting apps, make sure to check that the app store you use doesnât record what was recently installed. I know that the Google Play Store does this and allows you to delete things from your history, but I donât know anything about Apple.
Apple does, in the purchased section of an account, so donât have a false sense of security for apple apps and always try to use websites with no cookies.
Apps for screeensharing to TVs (such as Samsungcast) also have search tools so if you clear your history you can also use that and make sure to clear it. Just donât play a video or it might end up showing on the TV screen.
I feel so sad that so many of you guys go through this all the time. Rebooting to spread the word.
Stay safe my lovelies
So, so unfortunately important. Reblogging because I wouldâve loved to have had seen this growing up - I figured most of it out on my own, of course, but through an amount of trial, error, and traumatic consequences no child should ever have to go through.
-if your bedroom door was anything like mine, there is a large enough gap from the floor to the bottom of the door that anytime I got out of bed or walked around the room, the door would jangle. Try putting a small but heavy object flush against the door.
-bring a large cup to pee in when it is not safe for you to leave your room or space. be sure to sneak it down a drain as soon as possible.
-other foods to stash away include trail mix, breakfast bars, fruits and veggies. a couple slices of bread and cheese arenât as easily missed either.
-i have had luck taping paper money to the underside of our rug.
-be aware that you will likely carry the weight of this time with you for a long while. most of my nightmares still take place in my childhood home, where i havenât lived in over five years.
-but above all else, this time wonât last forever. you will make it out. iâve got faith in you.
Hey @mrsmamarhodey idk if youâve seen this but itâs good advice? I hate that anyone would have to go through this but I feel it may help Honey? ~ Foxy
Bee I will protect you with everything. ~ A
For all of my kids in unsafe home situations. I love you, be safe.
Also, for those of you in situations where you are not believed: as tempting as it is do NOT try and prove it with your phone. Especially if they search it. Please, please donât do that. Find another way if you absolutely must prove the mistreatment.
-Avoid plastic and paper. They russle a lot, especially when youâre trying to be quiet. As stated above pillowcases are a godsend.
-If you can access the kitchen during the day (and not get caught doing this) move things you might need, granola on the shelf you can only just barely reach? Pull one bar out and slip it to the lowest shelf in the whole kitchen. Put it somewhere no one will check.
-The bottom of a trash can is NOT a good hiding spot. Tempting I know. Iâve hidden a secret stash under a trash bag. Played it off a few times as being a good kid and taking out the trash. But you would have to be the one to always take it out if you did this. Always. You canât rely on âprobabliesâ.
-Self aid. Go to your school nurse and ask for Band-Aids. School computer lab have alcohol pads so you can clean off the mouse? Take some. They will hurt and burn but a clean wound is so much better than an infected one.
-For those of you with allergies to the Staples (peanut butter, bread, cheese, the like) Beans are your new best friend. They suck but hey, they work.
-AVOID SWEETS. This sucks I know. But sweets leave more behind than a chocolate colored tongue, including a sweetened breath (I got busted so badly once even after scrubbing my tongue.)
And finally,
-Find people you can talk to. My messages are always open, @mrsmamarhodey is here for people as well, and many other blogs will listen. Even if there is nothing else we can do. We will listen. We will believe you. We will be there for you in what ways we can. Please, be safe. Stay alive.
I canât believe that there are actually kids who are forced to live like this. It makes me so upset. I am now very concerned about the people on this site. Please, all of you, stay safe.
there are things in the list that i personally also have to do, some i donât have to, and tips i could definitely take for the unknown future. anyways, reblogging this in hopes that it could offer a chance for some of you to stay at least a bit safer. remember, weâre all fighting this together
oh, god.
I know itâs the log-off protest but just before I left the app I saw this.
This was a pretty helpful post, but i do hope none of my followers need this..Â
can i adopt you guys???? nobody should have to go through this, and it breaks my heart :/
just know that it WILL get better. maybe not now, maybe not for years to come but this will not last forever. ily â„
I always kept a plastic container with a lid to catch blood or any other fluid when it wasnât safe to go to the bathroom to properly wash up. I hid it in an old backpack in the closet and cleaned it whenever the coast was clear
Most obvious hiding places are in the closet, under the bed, in the bottom of drawers and under rugs.
You can tape small items such as a metro card, prepaid phone, plastic bag of money, birth control or other medications, etc under a desk or even better: open the top drawer of your dresser and tape the item to the bottom of the dresser top. Make sure you can open and close it securely without jarring the item free.
You can also hide bills in an old DVD case if you are 100% SURE no one will open it.
If you can get your hands on some good concealer, use it to hide scars and bruises. Abusers will try to isolate you even more if you are a walking display of evidence. Donât give them any excuse to not let you go to school.
On this same note, avoid making drastic changes to your appearance (dramatic change to hair cut/dye, tattoos or piercings or wearing any makeup/accessory/clothing that might be deemed âdifferentâ for you) Your abuser may perceive this as you acting out or seeking attention, and they do not want you to receive any kind of attention as it may give you an outlet to expose what is happening at home.
Donât write things in codes that are obviously codes. Your abuser will not like this if they find it and you will be punished or forced to reveal the code but most likely both. If you can, make a code that would look like something else if found by someone. For example: If hiding say, your email password so you wonât forget, make a list of things beginning with each letter of the password. Draw pictures of your passwords. (Ex. Draw 4 red dogs, your password is RedDog4.)
Evernote is a great way to hide a digital diary/notebook/photos/contacts that you can delete from your device quickly before a phone search. If you fear you wont have time to delete before a search there is an option to hide your private notebooks so that you can only find them by searching their name and load up some class notes so if your abuser asks about the app you can say itâs for school.
This is a bit expensive but if you can manage it use an external hardrive for anything on your computer your abuser wouldnât approve of, from photos and videos to games to creative and programming software, etc.
I had a friend whose dad didnât let her talk to boys at all period so if she ever had a group project and the boys would try to text her she assigned them all feminine names in her contact list (Ex Louis became Louise etc) so she could still save their number.
Thank you so much for this.
This doesnât really match my blog theme but it doesnât matter. I have some things to add:
To walk completely silently, even barefoot, start on the outside of your foot and roll off your big toe. This takes practice though. Your bare feet will also be quieter if you have calluses on them, so you want to walk barefoot as much as possible.
One thing I did was getting well acquainted with the woods. If I needed to avoid people and couldnât hide in my room, (the door doesnât have a lock and the consequences would be SO BAD if I blocked it with something), I grab my bag, and try to avoid them + walk silently as I walked outside and hid deep in the woods where they couldnât find me.
Never bring your phone (or any electronics) if you choose to escape to a friendâs house/the woods/etc. You donât know what apps they hid on there, which could track your location.
When in the woods, I would bury my trash so if a family member decides to explore the woods one day/was actively trying to find where I kept hiding, they wouldnât find traces.
About that bag I mentioned. I risked getting caught for this. I have it in my closet with the other bags so it wasnât suspicious, but if I got the feeling they were suspicious about me, I hid all the stuff in the bag in different places temporarily. In the bag I keep a bottle of 90% isopropyl alcohol (disinfectant) that my aunt gave me as a joke, a small sewing kit (needle, string, scissors) that I stole the components of from my momâs room, a knife that I also stole from my mom, and some granola bars.
You can hide things in boxes that appear to be sealed on your shelves. Choose a side, use the corner of your nail, or a small knife if you have one, to slit 3 edges of the plasic on the box on your chosen side. Carefully side the box open so as to not tear the plastic. If there is space, hide your item(s) in the space. If not, take some of the contents out and hide them elsewhere* until you can dispose of them where they wonât find them. Arrange the flap of plastic so it lines up properly (if box is cardboard or similar you can lick the edge of the plastic and place it down, it will stick moderately well and the fact it isnât in tact will be less noticeable) and put box on shelf so that the cut side is against the back. (I have many time in the past taken a âsealedâ box of playing cards and take the right amount of cards out so that after putting whatever I want in, it would weigh the same as a normal box of playing cards. This way if they pulled things off the self, unless they examined the playing card box carefully, it was unlikely that they would notice)
*if you have a coat/jacket with a liner, you can put holes in your pockets and stitch the liner to the jacket at the bottom so things you put in there will be at the bottom and it will seem like your pockets are empty. Donât put anything bulky or potentially loud in, or your trick will be exposed immediately. Works great for papers though, and itâs one of the only ways to transport plastic wrappers without being loud. Not coins though.
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Any social media or other restricted thing or anything they could use to stalk me if they found out I had it I use web for, my accounts are under different fake names with different email address I created with different fake names just for them, and my passwords are all long, secure, and MEMORIZED. And I delete my search history of any of those particular things.
I know how to give myself stitches. This has come in handy.
Leather = low grade armor. Wear it whenever you can. Then you can take a punch without it being quite so bad.
Thereâs a gate at the bottom of the stairs at my house that not only creaks, but the latch is LOUD. I climbed over the railing near the bottom instead, and then walked down the outsides of the last couple of steps.
How to climb over a railing silently: put hands on railing, swing one leg over so youâre sitting as if on a horse, and then carefully slide your already over leg down so it is touching the outside of the step and at the same time you swing your other leg over and carefully place that foot down.
If you close a door while holding the handle turned, like how you would if you were opening it, and use your other hand to guide it so it doesnât hit the door frame, instead lining it up exactly where the latch needs to go, and then slowly rotate the handle back, it is near silent.
A fluffy sock jammed in the bottom handle-side corner of the door can keep the door from making noise as you walk around your room at night.
Hide things inside your pillows. Not just your pillow cases, but the pillows themselves. A lot of them have zippers where you can access the fluff, and you can hide things in the fluff. Stuffed animals sometimes have this too.
Semi-sheer, loose layers will be a lot less hellish and a lot less suspicious in warm weather but can still hide most older cuts/scars that are starting to become less garishly red.
If you close your eyes for 30 seconds before trying to navigate the dark your eyes will adjust and you will be able to see much better.
To anyone who needs any of the advice above or in similar posts: Good luck, stay safe, and remember that one day this will be over and you will be safe. I know itâs tough but keep going. If you ever need to talk, Iâm here.
I absolutely wept when I read this. I remember being a kid and living at home, having to do most of these things to keep myself safe and alive. Iâm so sorry that their are so many of you who are going through this. If this is something youâre going through and you just want someone to talk to about it all my inbox is always open. From one survivor to another.
I am so, so sorry.
i know ive reblogged this countless times, but this has some really important additions, please stay safe guys <3
I know this is not ToG related, but, if this can help âŠ
learn to sew,if you can do it well you can open up stuffed animals and fill them with whatever as long as itâs small and not likley to be notice
if you never turn a fan on you can tape ska stuff to the top of it, idk if it will hold if the fan turns on
if you have a trusted friend have them store stuff in their locker/get a lock and put it on an unused locker that way even if they know your locker they canât get to your stuff
for those who need it
I would hope no one needs to use this but I know there are people that do this for you guys
We got you
Seriously
Weâre here for you
Everyone is
For everyone who needs this
Stay safe please
i donât remember seeing this on the list but during the day i go up and down the stairs and through the house to memorize all the creaky spots so i can avoid them at night
stay safe guys <3
@its-my-mental-breakdown
Thank you darling, I plan on using these tips for my.own hell hole of a house
This is horrible that people have to deal with and also I have a small tip: if your house has a radiator/heater (like mine), time how long it goes on and then when it turns on, RUN and get what you need. I love you all and stay safe!
Sorry for the long ass post but as a child who deals with this, Iâve got a few things to add. -KEEP SOMETHING MINOR THAT YOUâRE NOT SUPPOSED TO HAVE. This may seem counterintuitive, but that way if your parents say youâre acting suspicious, you can turn their attention away from something bigger. Additionally, if they catch you nd you have to lie, DONâT go for the classic âI donât know anythingâ or âI didnât do that.â Take the situation and make it a little bit bad but not too much. Example: I had kept scissors in my room for sewing, which I wasnât supposed to have. So what I did was I said that I had gotten a ponytail holder stuck in my hair and had to cut it out, but that I was scared they would get mad so I hid them. -As for money, I took a pad out of the wrapper and threw it out, and then used the wrapper to hold money and taped it shut. I kept that in my bag, as if it were a pad for emergencies, and they never suspected. -If youâre sneaking into the kitchen, fill up a glass with water and stand there for a few minutes drinking it until youâre sure no one is coming to check on you. That way if they do catch you, you can say you were getting a drink of water.
Sjdvkhfufk this was super helpful thank you to everyone who added to this
if u have a vent on ur wall near the ceiling, u can clean the dust away n store things there
always have an escape route mapped out
always have an escape bag, just in case. mine has an extra phone charger, my wallet, a sewing kit, a re-usable water bottle, extra underwear, toilet paper, headphones, a grocery bag, and a small blanket
if u can, try to get a pair of boots that are good for navigating wooded areas
study foraging. u never know how useful info about toxic and non-toxic plants can be
stay safe out there, babes. hope none of u ever have to use these tips
It hurts to know so many of us have had to use info like this just to survive. Iâm by o means a popular blog, but I hope anybody who seeâs this will either gain some merit from it or repost it for others to see. It sucks living like this, and it follows you well into your life, but sometimes thatâs the reality.
Stay safe everyone. You can do this.Â
I donât know WHO needs this right now, but Iâm going to reblog this anyway.
Idc that itâs not SdV related.
Hate that this is stuff that people need to know, but itâs important that the people who need this information have it.
Idk if this will work for other people but sometimes Iâm able to wrap a blanket around myself and hide stuff under it if my parents are in the way. I use it a lot to sneak food and water upstairs and I can just pass it off as being cold. Iâm an absolute freeze baby so theyâre not suspicious. Just be sure to make the blanket a semi-common thing, not just when youâre sneaking stuff around.Â
Oh and you can put things like crackers, pretzels, and cereal in clean socks (or just a small bag if you have one) if you canât take the whole container. Just make sure to switch the socks around every now and then because crumbs are a bitch.Â
You can also hide food in bras if you wear them. Mostly granola bars for me. If it sticks out then try wearing baggy clothing over it.Â
Somethings Iâve done that I can think of rn -jamie
- use private/anon browsing when searching shit you donât want to get caught for, search appropriate stuff on main
- always have a friend you can claim you were texting if they ask why are you typing on your phone. Someone who has an extensive history with you and your fam and they trust
- always have a friend you can call and claim you were talking to instead of watching something/calling other people
-after work, I would âtake cash out for lunch as they donât take cardâ usually only $20 a week ish but managed to save a good $1k ish in the end with this tactic
- hiding notes in books, they donât tend to get searched much. Choose books you havenât read/donât read often, itâs less likely theyâll be confiscated or removed from your room
- stand on wooden unmoving shit, nothing with wheels and nothing made of fake wood (can break) or moving metal
- if your door doesnât lock, look up different ways so you can lock it (different doors = different ways)
- if your not allowed to close your door, make sure your bed isnât in immediate view of said door way. Move it into a more sheltered area, same with anything valuable or vulnerable. Gives them less ideas
- move your desk/study area to somewhere where they canât immediately see you.
- never have both head phones in, I donât care if you can study better, donât do it
- never wait for them to call you twice
Thereâs more but I canât remember rn Iâm about to pass out I swear
my parents are assholes to me, but I thank god theyâre not physically abusive
rb. even if it doesnât match your âthemeâ.
This is literally one of the most helpful posts Iâve ever seen on this website period.
Sickening that people have to learn this. But oh well, Best we can do is pass the tips along, eh?
also beware of emotional abuse and mental abuse guys.
my caretaker currently (dad died almost 7 years ago and his sister is âtaking careâ of me rn) is most likely the cause of several of my mental health issues.
abuse is not only physical (or spiritual)
Most of these have helped me so reblog
