✦ requests open ◞ a term for anyone who feels they were forced to be lazy , had laziness forced upon them , have to be lazy for whatever reason , etc .
☆.「 THERE IS NO WRONG WAY TO USE MY TERMS! ARCHIVAL IS ENCOURAGED! CREDIT IF USING ELSEWHERE / REPOSTING! 」.☆
TransDragKing - A transid for those who desire / want / identify to be a drag king
TransDragPerformer- A transid for those who desire / want / identify to be a drag performer
TransDragQueen- A transid for those who desire / want / identify to be a drag queen
I made a blankqueer, hope it resonates with some of you
Restqueer
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Restqueer is a blankqueer based on the idea that before you can help others, you must take care of yourself first. So it's not only not selfish to take care of yourself, but a selfless thing to do (so long as you're not using taking care of yourself to do non-con harm).
Restqueer is pro:
- TransIDs and transitioning to one's TransIDs
- Acting on one's Paras in non-harmful ways
- Getting accomodations and aid, even if you don't feel you're bad enough to need them
- Consentual Recovery (Recovering how and when you want to)
- Taking breaks when you want, even if you don't "need" them
- Accomodations and aid being available to everyone without diagnosises
- Radqueer and radqueer adjacent identities
- Radical self advocacy
- Conabuse
- Religion & Fults
- Contradictory labels
- Profic, darkfic, and everything in that vein
Restqueer is anti:
- All forms of bigotry, such as but not limited to: racism, sanism, ableism, queerphobia, antisemitism, islamophobia, etc
When you are Radqueer / Radqueer adjecent / FLUER / etc. And you also believe in PLUR or your identity is based off / based around PLUR and or rave culture and as well sparklefurs
Alright, I had an anonymous request. The being DMed me but wished to stay anonymous.
That being, or entity, and I had discussed a possibility of an alien kodo. The issue was; we already used Eirian for Eiri/con.
Anon and I came up with Uchucon or Uchu as the terms, with anon's research on translations, and anon had came up with the base idea of a symbol. I changed the color of it for the sake of making it feel more nebulous or stellar.
I also have gendered varients and a cub/uchu combination term, which was also done as their suggestion or idea to make it feel more alien-like, hence missing a paw pad.
[uchuloli, uchushota, uchunana or uchucrona, uchuangex or uchuseki, uchueiri, and uchucub, or -con for all varients]
I don't have flags for these, or yet, depending, but .. Yeah, I'm happy that Anon got to help out with this idea drastically.
PermaProtective is a permaid describing someone who permanently identifies with being protective. It represents an enduring instinct to safeguard, defend, nurture, or shield others, oneself, or something deeply cherished. This protectiveness may stem from many different motivations, all of which are represented within the flag.
Flag Meaning
Each stripe symbolizes a different source of protection, acknowledging that the desire to protect can arise from many emotions, beliefs, and experiences.
Blue — Protection born from sadness, fear, empathy, or the desire to prevent others from experiencing pain.
Yellow — Protection inspired by divinity, holiness, virtue, or a sacred sense of duty.
Pink — Protection motivated by affection, compassion, love, and deep emotional bonds.
Red — Protection driven by survival, determination, anger, courage, or the instinct to fight against harm.
Purple — Protection through leadership, responsibility, nobility, royalty, dignity, or the obligation to care for those entrusted to oneself.
Usage
PermaProtective may be used by anyone who identifies with being permanently protective, regardless of who or what they protect or why they do so. Some may relate to one motivation more strongly than the others, while others may see themselves reflected in multiple stripes. The flag is intended to encompass the many forms that enduring protectiveness can take.
As with all permaid identities, PermaProtective is self-defined and may hold a unique personal meaning for each individual who identifies with it.
Quidditism is an ideology and a movement that seeks to take peaceful action to push the world towards an accepting, tolerant and fully free future, where everyone can thrive without fear.
Why quidditism?
The word 'quiddity' has 2 major definitions. The first one being "whatever makes something what is is, the essence". The movement seeks to establish a world where everyone is allowed to fully embrace themselves and who they truly are. In other words we wish for people to embrace their essence. The second definition of the world 'quiddity' is "deviation from an established pattern or norm, eccentricity". The quidditism movement focuses on marginalised identities such as LGBTQIA+ identities or paraphilias as these people are not allowed, in today's society, to flourish as themselves without fear. In other words, the liberation and normalisation of people considered eccentric, whether it be by their gender presentation, attraction or neurodiversity, is central to our goal.
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Quidditism's core values
Now, let's go over quidditism`s beliefs and summarize them.
Radical Inclusion
Radical inclusion is the first of the values we'll go over. Being a radical inclusionist means accepting all 'good-faith' identities. But what even is a 'good-faith' identity?
There are 2 main criteria for an identity to be of 'good-faith'. The first one being that the identity is genuine, and not taken up to prove a point, to grift, or to be generally disingenuous. In other words, if you genuinely identify with it, this box is checked. The second criteria is the one where controversy arises, It is generally defined as being harmless. However, what is considered harmless may vary from individual to individual. Quidditists generally consider that as long as it doesn't do any real world harm (like taking up limited resources, although it is rare a simple identity can achieve this) and tries it's best to be non-offensive and non-bigoted, the identity is good faith. In other words, identifying as a transvestite because it feels right to you, and while having read up on the terms history is completely good faith, however identifying as the same thing to try and mock trans people isn't.
So, quidditists are radically inclusive: they support any genuine identity that does its best to be harmless.
Paraphilias & Contact
Now, we talked about paraphilias above. A paraphilia is defined as an unconventional sexual attraction. In our day & age, homosexuality isn't considered one, however back when the fight for the LGBTQIA+ community was far less advanced, it was considered a paraphilic disorder.
Wait a second, what even is the difference between a paraphilia and a paraphilic disorder? Nothing except the "disorder' part, aka the factor of "is it causing harm or distress to you or people around you".
However, paraphilias are never inherently considered disorders in quidditism.
Having said that, we consider them the same way as we do kinks and fetishes. They are cousins after all: kink regroups all use of unconventional sexual practises or fantasies while fetishes are a form of sexual desire strongly linked to a particular thing or activity. They overlap a whole lot, don't you think?
In general, we will use these terms interchangeably.
You could summarise quidditism's contact beliefs by "if it is consensual, it's fine", but you would need to define consent for this. So what is consent?
Consent, as a noun, is defined as the permission for something to happen or the agreement to do something. As a verb, it is defined as giving permission for something to happen or to do something.
Additionally, anyone who consents must be able to back out and change their minds at any point before, during or after what they initially consented to without fear of repercussions. They should also feel free to give (or not) their consent in the first place, and not be forced to do so.
There are a few points that we will examine further here.
Firstly, consenting to sex in itself is a complex thing and not just the act of understanding and agreeing, so there must be both a technical understanding of sex along with an emotional understanding of sex for consent to truly be possible.
Secondly, anyone of age and not under the influence can consent before use of substance, sleep or death. As for regression, some people will want to give consent before while some feel fully able to consent during; meaning this is up to the person in question and whichever one they feel should be respected.
Thirdly, animals cannot consent to sexual acts due to not having the cognitive ability and speech for it. Additionally, just because an animal's body enjoys an act does not mean they consented to it, as consent is a clear agreement and acknowledgement, not body language or what you perceive.
And lastly, younger people are a very nuanced topic. We believe they do have the ability to consent, but that in the current state of the world, it is often unsafe. You can learn more about that in our article about contact between someone and their object of attraction.
Total bodily autonomy
Bodily autonomy is defined as the right to make decisions about your own body, life and future, without coercion or violence. When we say total bodily autonomy, it isn't trivial. In today's world, abortion access and rights are threatened more and more, women are still subject to genitalia mutilation at a very young age in multiple countries, and trans people need to jump through hoops to get gender affirming care. But to us, it doesn't stop there. We want to fight so that everyone has the right to make informed choices on what they do with their body and life, whether that's extreme body modification, gender affirming care, abortion, or just a tattoo.
Anti-psychiatry
Anti-psychiatry is the view that psychiatric treatment can often be more damaging than helpful. Do not the often in the above sentence. So, what does that mean in practise? A few things.
Psychiatric care should be entirely optional. Whether you want to recover with psychiatric help, by yourself or even not al all, you should be given all the necessary information to make that choice for yourself. This ties back in with the last point, total bodily autonomy, and with the next one.
Chosen Recovery
We've spoken about informed total bodily autonomy and what that would mean in psychiatry: the option to seek recovery or not. Here, we are extending this beyond psychiatry. We believe that no matter what you might have that could be recovered from, you should get to choose whether you want to or not. First, we believe that that is your right, and second, we are horrifically aware of the fail rates of forcing someone into recovery: as a general rule of thumb, if someone doesn't want recovery, they won't recover, no matter what you try. That doesn't mean you can't bring the option to their attention, just that ultimately, it is their choice, and theirs alone.
Transhumanism
Following up on all the bodily autonomy related beliefs, we have transhumanism. It is a movement that advocates the enhancements of the human body and condition by developing and making widely available new and future technologies that can greatly enhance longevity, cognition, and well-being. That would include wing or animal ears implants for transspecies folks, to only cite one of many examples.
Realmism
Realmism is an ideology based around the belief in magic and the multiverse. It promotes all faiths and religions, as well as the practise of reality shifting and the right to outlandish, weird, and uncommon beliefs, with an emphasis on being pro-delusion. If you wish to learn more, the entry on transid.org goes into more details.
Existentialism
Existentialism is the philosophical belief we are each responsible for creating purpose or meaning in our own lives. It isn't given to us by an authority. Whether you choose to seek it in faith, the arts, social causes or just your own happiness, it is entirely yours to craft.
Pacifism
Pacifism is a commitment to peace and an oppositioin to violence, war in particular. The quidditism movement believes that unless strictly necessary, violence should never be used, defining it as a last resort. How do we achieve our goals then? Educating.
Punk
Quidditism follows a very punk-ish ethos. The punk ethos is primarily made up of beliefs such as non-conformity, anti-capitalism, anti-authoritarianism, anti-corporatism, a do-it-yourself ethic, anti-consumerist, anti-greed, direct action, and not selling out".
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