Polyam, Traveler, & Entrepreneur

Marvel, Motorcycles, Multiple loves, Money, Miscellaneous. Polyamorous entrepreneur, podcast host, day trader.

[joeyridersvoid]

Polya culture is copy-pasting the same message to all of your partners when something funny happens.

[polytravelpreneur]

😂😂 it’s funny because it’s so true!! 😂😂

[leatherwingsinc-deactivated2015]

[caluummhood-deactivated20140506]

HOLY SHIT, IT WAS THE ORIGINAL ONE

MAKE A WISH

[jamesjoeboyleeeee-deactivated20]

the first post ever on tumblr

[powerpuffsposts-deactivated2025]

I WAS EXPECTING IT TO BE A REMAKE OF SOME SORT HOLY FUCK

[kpopdotexe-blog]

WHO THE FUCK KEEPS BRINGING THIS BACK

[teenyweenynotepad]

reblog this because it shows up every blue moon

[flamboynt-deactivated20151220]

I FOUND IT ✊

[addcolortomysky]

I WAS SO SCARED IT WOULDNT BE THE ORIGINAL

[blairisbae]

Who first posted this?

[ratbastarddotfuck]

I THOUGHT THIS WAS GOING TO END WITH A MEME OR SOME SHIT NO IT’S THE REAL ONE OH MY GOD

[amberdamnn]

Wishing I’ll do well on my finals ✨

[xenolithia]

Damn

[cheesefriedpotato]

Wow

[descendedintospace-deactivated2]

I AINT LEAVING THIS AGAIN

[polytravelpreneur]

😱Tony called the Endgame before Strange did! 😱

[saltypolyamory]

Salty Polyamory: Of course your ex started dating that mutual friend of yours the moment you broke up!

The Scene: So you just got divorced after years of a lackluster marriage. You are licking your wounds and adjusting to the new normal, and then WHAM! You hear that your ex is already dating again. Worse, he’s dating someone you both knew for years while you were married! This OBVIOUSLY means he was interested in them while you were still together, and you are now entitled to throw a world-class spaz attack. The Salt: What did you expect? Did you REALLY think they went decades without encountering anyone besides yourself they had chemistry with? Now that you’ve set them free from their promise of monogamy, would you really expect them to deprive themselves any longer? Life is short! Also, don’t pretend you don’t also have suitors lining up at your door (who were ALSO mutual friends during the marriage).

TOO MUCH SALT! Even if he was secretly pining for this person during your marriage, now you know that his fidelity came at a price. He had to work for it; he had to watch years of his life slide by, wondering “what if.” He made that sacrifice for your sake. A “thank you” might be in order.

Dialing it back a little: Okay no, I don’t expect emotions to be level after a divorce. In time, I hope you find some peace. I understand why you aren’t there yet.

[polytravelpreneur]

WOW!!!!

[tami-taylors-hair]

I was in line at Aldi and this girl with two toddlers in front of me had her card declined and she looked so fucking sad and said “let me call my husband real quick” and it was only 18 dollars, so I just paid for it, and she was very sweet and then as she walked off, the lady behind me said `”You know that was probably a scam, right?” and like, even if it was, like what a sad fucking scam, right? 18 dollars at the Aldi. If you’re “scamming” me for some Tyson chicken and apple juice and cauliflower, then just take my fucking money. 

“A scam” people are fucking wild.  

[dragginage]

This happened to me, too. A woman had used WIC for the majority of her stuff (which I say from personal experience is such a long and embarrassing process) and to buy the remainder of her groceries, which included diapers and wipes, she used a card, and it got declined. I bought the other $30 of her groceries because hey, I’ve been there, and now I’m not. She was extremely emotional and began to cry and even hugged me. My mom called me on the drive home and could tell I had been crying myself, asked what was wrong, and when I told her what happened, she berated me for being “duped.” I couldn’t believe she could be so disappointed in one of her children for doing something- nice? Is that the hill you want to die on? Getting mad about people needing groceries?

[systlin]

I once paid for a woman’s bill at the vet…it wasn’t a big one, but she was trying to pay for some medication for her dog, and her card was declined. And her lip started trembling, and she says “I don’t get paid until Tuesday, would he be ok until then?” 

So I just told them to add the $20 something onto my bill, and I thought she was going to break down crying right there.

And I don’t care if it was a scam or not. Just do nice things for people sometimes. 

[flurrin]

Do good recklessly.

[solarpunk-gnome]

I think “Do good recklessly” would be fantastic word art to hang on one’s wall. Artistic people, go!

[7faerielights]

So this has happened to me but from the other side. Several years ago when my oldest was around three or so, I had my debit card decline at Walmart. It wasn’t a scam or a mistake, I was genuinely broke. Out of money. I checked my bank and discovered I had something like 7 dollars left to my name and a hungry kid and nothing to eat at home. So I sat there trying to come up with the best way to stretch that tiny amount of money to feed my kid. Not even to feed me. I can live on popcorn or something if I have to but my kid was three and he had to eat. So there I am trying really hard not to cry while I slowly take things out of my basket to get it down to under 7 bucks, when a lady tapped me on the shoulder. I looked up and she smiled at me and started putting the things back in my cart. I opened my mouth to tell her that I didn’t have the money for them but she stopped me right away and said “Don’t worry about it. It’s gonna be fine.” Then she handed the cashier her credit card and said “Ring up all of it.” My kid got to eat because of her. I got to eat because of her. I had laundry soap and deodorant because of her. She could’ve just ignored me silently struggling in that line. She could’ve decided I was a scam and gone home feeling good about avoiding being duped. But instead she chose to help me and she saved us. So maybe the person struggling in front of you is trying to put one over on you or maybe they are just sad and broke and trying to figure out what to do. You get to decide which you want to believe and what you want to do. But I’ll tell y’all, no one has ever been more beautiful to me than that lady in that line who saved me and my baby. Be like her. Be beautiful.

[29-pieces]

Do good recklessly

[lightningchaserarts]

DO BETTER. BE BETTER. STRIVE TO BE BETTER.

DO GOOD RECKLESSLY

[averagemarvelbitch]

One time, my dad and I were living the grocery store and there was a guy outside asking for money to buy some stuff to take home for his kids. It was around Christmas time. My dad asked him if he could give him groceries instead of money, and the guy immediately said yes, so my dad gave him one of everything we bought (meat, rice, some chocolates, milk, oil). At that time, my dad hadn’t gotten his paycheck because the company he worked for was going through a tough time, but he didn’t care, he saw an opportunity to help someone and he did.

Another time, my dad gave 50 bucks to a guy who said he needed to buy medicine for his kids. I told my dad he was probably going to spend the money on alcohol or something, but my dad said that “whether he was lying or not says something about HIS character, but hearing someone in need and choosing not to help when I have the means to says something about mine”.

I never forget that.

[lesbian-bookworm]

Can we make Do good recklessly The slogan on 2019

[strawberrydotdwg]

Do good recklessly is the moral i try to embody

[polytravelpreneur]

Do good recklessly

[amidst-rain]

[sleepy-chaos-cub]

Are you fucking kidding me

Do you know how much this would have helped me in college

Well spreading this for anyone this might help

[micdotcom]

Do this four times repeatedly and you’ll be out. But how does it work? There’s some real brain science behind it.

[discoverynews]

We’re trying this tonight!

[askragtatter]

It’s about time someone got around to uncovering all the cheat codes for this “human being” software. It’s only been out for like 10,000 years.

[queenofsabah]

?????????????

[potatogestapo]

I’ve used this technique for about a year, and I can safely say that it has efficiently transformed my sleeping habits from several hours of struggle to fall asleep, to passing out in a matter of minutes.

[rewritethis-story]

It’s a form of Alexander Technique. It’s a technique that was designed for actors to keep their body in ready working condition and give it the best way to perform. This is the method used to calm, and center the body. Once the body is at that point it can perform anything you want it to.

[queensimia-deactivated20181215]

Reblogging for later reference after I tried it earlier today to try to calm down. It actually does help a lot, not just for sleep but if you have problems with anxiety.

My default mental setting is “vibrating intensely in the background.” After doing this, I felt noticeably calm and relaxed - I wasn’t as fixated on my breathing, I wasn’t tense, my movements weren’t jerky and I didn’t feel like I had to be as tense as possible to be under control. 10/10 would recommend.

[orikomi-deactivated20181216]

me gonna try it

[aconitvms-deactivated20171225]

dont wanna reblog but insomnia is a bitch for some ppl so heres for my mutuals having trouble sleeping.

[seperis]

I use it for anxiety attacks.  It works and I say this as someone who thought it was bullshit.  I now have a timer at work set to one minute twenty seconds to do this exercise.

[theinvisiblespoon]

Btw this WORKED

[your-local-god]

@lidren

Sleep fucker

[maathoughts]

[catchymemes]

Neat shadows

[fish-food-s]

oh!!!1

[recoil-operated-deactivated2021]

This is a great example of parallax in action.

[drinkyourjuiceshelby]

[polytravelpreneur]

@kittenkatie00 I meant to do this the other night but I ran into technical issues (user error!) enjoying your snap!!

[polytravelpreneur]

What exactly is it? Sometimes it’s hard to identify feelers and emotions. I’m not happy with V tonight, but I’m finding it very difficult to identify why.

I recognize that Walter is the first time where I see a partner that challenges her intellect, fulfills her emotionally, and is (expectedly) a 10/10 lover. I also recognize that Walter is a person that has been in her life practically all her life, and he’s probably not going anywhere. So there’s a long-term sense to her relationship with him. I feel afraid of being second. I have a primary relationship with V and I know that I am her primary relationship, too. I fear losing that.

When I introduced myself at Poly Peeps, I said that we are separated and tend to operate as solo poly and lean toward relationship anarchy. This primary/secondary relationship stuff is not RA, so if that’s how I want to approach poly, I need to work through that. And I think I do want to strive for RA.

V and Juniper both have hesitations toward PDA while in the presence of the other. If I’m honest, I might fly off the handle seeing it, too. One of V’s fears is another South Point timeshare incident. I don’t blame her...I was a mess that night. I suggested a rule where we have a time frame: no PDA while with other partners until _____________. Maybe there’s a certain number of dates, or times that we spend together. Maybe it’s just until we have the conversation with all involved partners, and all parties feel comfortable.

We still haven’t all hung out. V invited me but I wasn’t ready. We’re planning our first RADAR this weekend. Maybe next week I’ll feel ready to go. We’ll see.

If V has in fact found THAT kind of parter...long-term fulfillment of emotional and sexual needs, I want to be happy for her. I want to be happy for her. I can choose to be happy for her.

[pr1nceshawn]

Colorful Creations by Adam Hillman.

[alphashrooms-deactivated2021022]

[stevendepressionuniverse]

This was such a great message.

[sonrie-concheetumadre]

[trasemc]

20 Hilarious Dog Snapchats That Are impossible Not To Laugh At

[polyamandhellaglam]

Remember to make rules that are practical, accepted, and clear. PAC if you’re a person who likes acronyms. 

Practical means that your rules need to be something you can actually do. They can’t be based on banning certain emotions or making everything absolutely even. These aren’t doable.

Accepted means that things need to be mutually agreed upon. You can’t just institute a rule. You need to have a discussion. And if one of you doesn’t want to agree to something but feels like you “have” to maybe this rule isn’t something that you can both do. 

Clear means that you need to be absolutely crystal about what the rule means. If your rule is no sexual relationships with others you need to define sex. If your rule is no dates over after 7 you need to explain whether that means no dates hanging out or no dates coming inside at all. You need to be as specific as you can.

So PAC your rules to make sure that they are healthy and followable. This can help avoid misunderstandings and broken rules.