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mysharona1987

moodboard

it’s literally never bi women’s fault that men think they can sleep with lesbians and bi women are also deeply hurt by that attitude because it derives from a fundamental lack of respect for women’s sexual autonomy so jot that down

#hey this #bi #biphobia

melonkollie

if cis women can bulk up and wear baggy pants and crop their hair short and go without makeup or shaving their pits/legs/anywhere else, co-opt traditionally ‘masculine’ behaviors, and still be viewed as women–even praised for how very feminist they are in doing so–then so can trans women. that’s it. end of.

and if cis men who love fashion and florals and pink, and wear dresses and makeup and love to bake, can be comfortable in their masculinity and praised as revolutionary for doing so, then–you guessed it–so can trans men. that’s it. end of.

not one single person on earth has any right to dictate how anyone else pilots their respective flesh suits. not one single person on earth has any right to claim someone is ‘faking’ their gender or performing a gender incorrectly when gender is arbitrary as hell as-is.

Day 5 in an Epilepsy Monitoring Unit

Well hello there

I've been stuck in a room with a camera on me for five days now, with a shit ton of electrodes on my scalp glued on with some fancy super adhesive. ( basically a video eeg)

I was really scared of coming here initially because I get anxious when I spend too long in hospitals and not being able to leave the room at all just didn't seem like fun.

Luckily enough, the staff here are so so nice, and my room isn't too bad! I have a bathroom and a window so I'm happy enough.

Main issue is: i'm here to have a seizure, and it hasn't happened yet and this is so frustrating because I've spent a year waiting for this opportunity, and I had a seizure 11 days before coming, which means I might not have another one, because I average 6 weeks now between them.

They've taken me off my meds completely today and I only have until Monday, but everyone else in the ward have been having seizures and I'm just so frustrated right now, because this is my only chance of finding meds that might work.

I still have a weekend, but I'm guessing they'll put me back up on my meds starting tomorrow.

On another note: withdrawals. Wtf.

Anyways. Here's hoping I'll have a seizure.

#actually epileptic #spoonie #disabled #hospital stay #eeg #video eeg #medication #epilepsy #health #chronically ill #invisibleillness

markv5

Каждый имеет право на образование

softcannoli

Had a relapse on friday after six weeks seizure-free and I am dead. I pulled a muscle I didn't even know existed and I've been sitting with nausea all day. I'm going in for a video eeg next Monday (eight days) and hopefully they'll be able to trigger another one while I'm there. I can't wait to get out! I hate the thought of being stuck in a room that lenght of time (with mics and cameras too) but I'm well prepared. I've already packed half a dozen books and I'll get Netflix too. Ahhhh. Hopefully it'll not be horrendous.

#spoonie #disabled #epilepsy #actually epileptic #eeg #video eeg #seizures #seizure #personal

intensional

the holy trinity

armandyke

Reasons straight girls need to stop calling their female friends “girlfriends”:

- The word “friend” already exists and is gender neutral you don’t need another word for friends of the same gender

- I’m gay and confused

- That’s it

lizzieunfortunatelynotbennet

“I m gay and confused” is probably my new life motto

reallytinylaura

Once a co-worker of mine confused the crap out of me by asking how my girlfriend was and I’m like “….fine?” and then she’s like “oh so is she home from the hospital?” I realized she was taking about my friend who was in a car accident a week earlier.

Stop confusing the gays. We’re sad enough already.

devenka

Language policing at its finest

armandyke

28,000+ gay women: This is annoying and confusing

Y’all:

cannibal-rainbow

“they” (1 word) is shorter than “he or she” (3 words)

“they” is more inclusive than “he/she”

“themself” flows more naturally than “him or herself”

“they” is less clunky than “(s)he”

it’s time to replace the awkward “she or he”

guiltrose-deactivated20180203

do me a solid and just reblog this saying what time it is where you are and what you’re thinking about in the tags.

#22:37 #i need to shower #pack my case #and stop being afraid for no reason #i saw a job ofer and I might apply #my head hurts so much

3blush

vampireapologist-archive-deacti

i love hotels. when i walk through hotel hallways with their quiet walls and flat carpets and the smell of the chlorine from the pool i transcend space and time and find peace.